try to live a balanced life, like the "ying" and "yang" from the japanese
culture, and balanced with one not over powering the other. there's a
realistic, reasoning side, balances with the feeling side. ultimately
looking for Her, the ONE. in the meantime????? while the bedroom scene,
(sometimes out of it) is important, there is much more I'm looking for. will
say this; if you're controlling, manipulating to get what you want, so into the past, yours or mine that that is where you live, stay there because it's more about who you are now and how you treat your loved ones now. i believe life is the greatest educator and the class bell doesn't ring until your last breath. a man who isn't afraid to tackle repairs around the home, it's been a while since i did hotel, apartment, condo maintenance but it would come back to me. i cook mostly to eat, but i'm a little more than fair at it, but i do enjoy trying new ways to fix an old dish and trying new things. best movies are where there's a lesson for life somehere in it. music range is almost everywhere. recently started listening to slow blues. might just one night turn off the tv, turn the lights low, put on some soft romantic music, take you by the hand and start dancing the night away.
tough, gritty, soft, passionate voice of teddy swims, "make you feel my love." song to describe what i'm seeking. look it up and listen!
My Ideal Person
a woman who may not want to know all my past but i know if she did she wouldn't be the kind to pass judgement but know where i am today. one who knows that and how to communicate thoughts, feelings, needs and desires. and understands that is needed, not to make the other feel ashamed or guilty, inadequate. instead to lovingly build the relationship where both are happy. just as comfortable in jeans, an old shirt working in the yard or gardening as she is on heels and a clingy evening dress. sometimes spontaneous, adventurous and passionate.
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