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In Progress   1/4/2005

A relationship in progress is a very nice time; it's new with no 'history' to spat about or, ideally, unrealistic expectations. <br> <br> I have a few phone conversations with a la


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Another 'Honesty'   1/2/2005

Much has been written here about honesty and expectations of honesty. <br> <br> How much 'honesty' is enough? Even in a real life meeting with another I really don't expect, or re


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Easier Said.   12/30/2004

There are times when it is harder to 'say' it than to 'do it' whatever the 'its' might be. <br> <br> For example, when I told my lady 'it's over, ' it was a result of care reflectio


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Rules   12/29/2004

Generally speaking, I don't like rules. Rules are for the ruled and the insecure who surrender to authority to limit their potential outside the rules. <br> <br> Religions have rul


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Sex   12/27/2004

Sex is more fun than baseball and I've played both. <br> <br> I'm just not interested in sex anymore. Perhaps this comes from relatioship disappointments or just the cultural emphas


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Adventrimax 73 M
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As Bad As It Might Get   12/27/2004

I couldn't wait to get to this area to share with all of this situation. <br> <br> On another 'dating' service, I offered a lady my phone number via email...... <br> <


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Substance   12/27/2004

I confess I have, when much younger, consumed vast amount of party drugs and alcohol. Of course, when happen along we all become instant hypocrites as they go screaming into their teens. <br&


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Jazz   12/26/2004

I can think of no better analogy to a personal relationship than jazz. <br> <br> When I put on my musician's cap and sit in on a jazz session it is usually with musicians I'm perfo


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Rejection   12/25/2004

What is it about rejection people take so personally? <br> <br> Why did the ex take it so bad that I rejected her offer of X-Mas Eve intimacy? <br> <br> Because I r


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Religion And Relationships   12/25/2004

First of all, I am NOT an atheist. <br> <br> One of the survey questions here during sign asked if I would trust someone more who attended religious services regularly. THAT wa


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Control?   12/24/2004

I don't think we are responsible for the actions of others although many of us have been blamed and /or assumed blame in the past. <br> <br> <br> That dance goes like


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Thinning The Herd?   12/24/2004

I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't find what she wanted with the lawn care guy. <br> <br> Has human


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Relationship Construction?   12/24/2004

I have a theory about this concept. It is based on the fable, The Scorpion And The Frog. <br> According to Aesop, a frog hopped out onto a riverbank to be confronted by a scorpion. The sco


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Mistakes I Won't Make Again, Maybe   12/23/2004

After she spends a lot of time and money at the beauty parlor, I will never put the top down on the car when we go out.....even if it was an improvement. Even if she likes the wine, she gets two gl


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Adventrimax 73 M
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I said," No Thanks," Lately...   12/23/2004

It was to by soon to be ex to her question, "Maybe, someday we'll re-marry." <br> NO THANKS. <br> <br> That was good practice and it felt good. <br> I received


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Adventrimax 73 M
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First Date? Come On Over.....   12/23/2004

I am a firm believer that a first date must be comfortable as possible for both people. I have not had a first date recently, but know where we meet must have activity going on which fosters a poss


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Advice on Advice   12/23/2004

I have recently observed that many people have been offering me advice lately as my court daye arrives and even before the filing....well, even during the marriage. 'Advice' can be very noiusy, con


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Adventrimax 73 M
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Ouch!   12/23/2004

I'm over the 'ouch' part now of a failed marriage. As the court date arrives, I am thinking about the day after and where I want to be. I haven't really figured that part out yet but I hope there w


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