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coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
love triangle   3/16/2008

I read on a sign today that, to love someone is one thing, but to be in love is another. I have never heard this before, I find it could be a very interesting topic. Was wondering if there is a difference. Does anybody know??


11 Comments, 377 Views, 19 Votes ,5.63 Score
joed48 70 M
4  Articles
What is big deal wih age difference.   11/12/2009

It seems I am either way too young or too old on this site. Women seem to think that age can be a problem. I am not talking about a decade difference but just a couple of years in either direction. But I believe we should enjoy the time we could spend with others no matter what age. Or maybe its just an easy way to reject someone.


8 Comments, 277 Views, 35 Votes ,6.67 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Ode to Bully and GG Article   9/1/2007

Progress is opting to NOT read the Disagreeable article and picking up vile, negetive Energy..........
PAGE 66 OF THE big book
A life that includes deep resentment only leads to furtility and unhappiness. To the percise extend that we permit these, we squander hours which might have been worth while.
When harboring such feelings, we shut ourselves off the sunlight ...


8 Comments, 205 Views, 43 Votes
MatureLadyWanted 51 M
9  Articles
How many meetings does it take?   2/15/2007

Hello, how many meetings do you think it should take to take the relationship to an intimate level?


7 Comments, 495 Views, 30 Votes ,3.04 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
when is it right.....   7/1/2009

once you establish an ongoing meeting with the same person when is the best time to give him/her a kiss? would you say its better to give first couple kisses in private- until you are use to that person?


6 Comments, 197 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
Vocabulary of the Fair Sex   8/12/2008

FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
FIVE MINUTES
If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given 5 more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
NOTHING
This is the calm before the storm. This means ...


6 Comments, 151 Views, 24 Votes ,6.88 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
If there is chemistry.......   1/7/2008

Ask yourself these questions when getting into that feeling of liking someone. If you have a feeling that tells you"wow! this feeling really makes me feel good. And you are alittle bit happier, then you have got chemistry- thats the number one most important when you first meet someone. 1. do you feel happier? 2. is there likes and dislikes alot like your own? 3.do you have fun and feel ...


6 Comments, 126 Views, 22 Votes ,6.13 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
I say yesyou say no   12/23/2006

had request to do a survey on lovemaking and sex. Open to your ideas on one or both. We all have different ideas on various tecniques for different things, rather its applies to a relationship or not. Do you like alot of foreplay? Would you rather just kiss up a storm? Do you usually want to just jump into the actual sex act? Maybe you would rather have a glass of wine, with soft music, ...


5 Comments, 173 Views, 20 Votes ,6.19 Score
TROLLundercover 85 F
1  Article
Miss Astrochild   12/23/2006

- - why do you put up so many articles in a row ?
maybe if you ask mr sff he will add another category for you "MISS ASTRO ARTICLES" - - do you like it ?
as i'm CEO - - i'll get the staff to grant it , but you'' have to bribe me with chocolate and cake . lots of it. delivered in trucks .
...


5 Comments, 169 Views, 24 Votes ,4.61 Score
Redheadntex 111 F
1  Article
Try something new   8/13/2006

You know....I have been reading some of these comments and really..sometimes I think people just think too much! You meet someone..you talk and if you like each other it goes futher. its not complicated..you either like someone or you don't..and if not you go on to the next. No one really knows anyone til they spend some time with them....and if you are stuck on looks or whether they are ...


5 Comments, 185 Views, 21 Votes ,5.23 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
See if you are the Perfect Date...   3/13/2009

Answer the following questions? 1. Do you arrive on time? 2.Do you phone when running late? 3. Do you ever impulsively take flowers? 4.Do you always book a restaurant you like? 5.Do you stay the evening evening if its boring? 6. Do you always treat the other as a decent person? 7.Are you interested in learning about the other person? 8.Do you say thank you when the date is done? ...


4 Comments, 221 Views, 318 Votes ,7.00 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
5steps on winning a woman   9/18/2007

1. be open and honest 2.put your cards on the table 3.give her love and respect 4.dignity and honour her 5.love her like there is no tommorrow.


4 Comments, 322 Views, 21 Votes ,7.33 Score
50TallandBuilt9 70 M
2  Articles
Why do some always assume men are liars   8/16/2009

Some women tend believe that men are out right liars...

Not that we are perfect, but just to assume we are lying really goes straight to my stomach as a deep wound...And this comes from a person I have never talked with in person...

Yes, I have a lot of friends in my network, Yes, I chat with all ladies in a chat room, Yes, I have a lot of fun here..and I have met 1 person in ...


3 Comments, 91 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
sensuality terms   10/22/2006

I am really interested with all the response from the members on my articles. I like the feedback you give to all of us. One person that I would like to get something clarified is from Greybeard58 if possible, I am interested in knowing what his views are on a sensous being..sorry but I don't know what you are referring to but would like to hear it, and from others.


3 Comments, 159 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
ddonaldd 73 M
9  Articles
When, if ever . . . the tab   9/19/2009

Given that both male and female are of relatively equal economic circumstances; when, if ever, should the female pick up the tab or reciprocate by fixing a meal. This isn't Neverland so the extreme (excellent) is dutch treat on the first date. Very Good is the 2nd date, Good is the 3rd date, So-so is 4th to 10th, Don't Like is at his funeral.


2 Comments, 162 Views, 63 Votes ,1.12 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
The speLL checker On yOu   6/28/2009

Thomas Jefferson: Take care that you never spell a word wrong. Always before you write a word, consider how it is spelled, and, if you do not remember, turn to a dictionary. It produces great praise to a lady to spell well. to his Martha


2 Comments, 72 Views, 27 Votes
Windsurfer993 63 M
1  Article
Windsurfer993   8/12/2008

Getting intouch with this ones easy, now you can Call me at Senior FriendFinder To connect live on the internet.


2 Comments, 169 Views, 20 Votes ,6.83 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Beyond the 13th Step   12/27/2006

Step 13: examine my life story and my addiction (and codependency) in the context of role in a patriarchal, capitalistic system. The Issue of Soul ought not be defined by the dicates of a clueless disfunctional society Step 14: I use the events life brings as lessons for growth and accept my mistakes as part of my humanness. Very important is how not to fall ...


2 Comments, 48 Views, 26 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Chakra Balance Starts At the Heart   12/27/2006

Chakras are energy fields that are found within the Aura. When balancing the Chakras, it is best to start at the heart Chakra. A clearing of the heart chakra will improve the interaction of all the other centers.
There is a temptation to start at the Root Chakra and work to the upper Chakra. The problem is that it becomes too difficult to clear it thus chakras then the upper ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 26 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Experience   12/27/2006

By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest. Confucius
Marriages - Reflection- Reading about it in a book???? Imitation - Following Good Examples????? Experience - Screwing Up and Learning???? OH! Joy


2 Comments, 57 Views, 27 Votes
sunshineokie 78 F
7  Articles
STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie   12/23/2006

Three days off-work, MLK day, so I'm in here for h o u r s...love to write and read & discuss ....everything under the sun! Dating???!!! Ha! I'm bolder now, we discuss ...that means BOTH of us discuss every detail. We're gonna have a real positive experience No Matter If Sparks Fly Or Not. Each needs to honor each others feelings. I go for blue-jean-tennis-shoes, walk in the park, Zoo or ...


2 Comments, 108 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Great Grandfather Creator   12/23/2006

Great Grandfather Creator and Mother Gaea
Grant me Guidance to Discover Within ...
SERENITY to Accept the Things I Cannot Change, COURAGE to Change the Things I Can, & WISDOM to Know the Difference.
Grant Me... PATIENCE with the Changes that Take Time, ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 22 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Amends Step doesn't mean I'm sorry   12/23/2006

Amends Step
Making a List of folks We Have Harmed & folks Who Have Harmed Us & Take Steps to Clear Out Negative Energy by Making Amends & Sharing Grievances in a Respectful
Trust OUR Reality & Daily Affirm that We See What We See, We Know What We Know & We Feel What We Feel.
Promptly Acknowledge OUR Mistakes & Make Amends When Appropriate, but DO NOT ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 22 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
steps one through six   12/23/2006

We admitted we were powerless over (alcohol, food, co-dependency, etc.) -- that our lives had become unmanageable. We admitted we had a problem and that we were squandering our power. This could be shortened to simply: Admitted Step 2: Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Came to believe we could realign the power ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 20 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
dealing with oppressive forces   12/23/2006

We need to overcome the tendency towards collusion with oppressive forces that invalidate our truth. In this patriarchal society, this is especially true for women and minorities.


1 Comments, 75 Views, 21 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
step seven to twelve   12/23/2006

Step 7: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. Willingness to ask for help.ep


Step 8: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and becoming willing to make amends to them all. Made a list of harm done, restore balance, clear out negative energy. Cleaned up karma. .
Step 10: Continue to take personal inventory and ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 23 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Success and Acheiver   12/23/2006

Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds." Orison Swett Marden
HIGH ACHEIVER!!!!!...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 28 Votes
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Don't Ask Your Friends! Do What's Right!   6/19/2006

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE Paraphrased R. Frost <br> DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples. The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
justone15136 75 F
2  Articles
What do I do and were?   6/19/2006

I have never had this typ of dating befor I live alone and I haven't gone out in the past 2 years , because of past relateships .So now what do I do .


0 Comments, 142 Views, 84 Votes ,1.54 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
How Does A Woman Want to be Loved?   6/19/2006

Gentle cheer, bids you share, quiet morning. Mists, softly lifting, just before dawn. A time for thinking, surrounded by tranquil feelings of daybreak. Still dark, but soon. The beauty of the sun, breathes a delicate glow, into the night. So subtle, you don't even know, ‘til the trees, walk into the light. Day begins. Gentle Warrior calls your name. A magical adventure ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score