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Safety VS Connection 6/15/2006
These posts are interesting, especially the considerations
for personal safety. It appears that women writing articles
want a man to reveal enough personal information that she
wants to meet him, but we as women shouldn’t for ‘personal’
safety. Let’s face it ‒ to meet someone even after a few emails
(for men as well as women), is a little like trying to ...
0 Comments, 132 Views,
340 Votes
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Deciding Whether You Want to Date This Person 6/19/2006
I agree with the other "First Dates" category message to
a point. I too do not want to give my e-mail address, my phone
number, or my actual address (he wanted to send me something)
to any man I don't know, at least a little. I am surprised
at the reaction to my reticense. One fellow scolded stating
"This is no time for timidity." I explained that it was not
timidity but security (mine) ...
1 Comments, 66 Views,
330 Votes
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meeting first time and jumping right in bed 6/20/2006
Why is it that when a man wants to meet you for the first time
they want to take you to bed right away, isn't it suppose
to be building a friendship first, the men that wanted
to meet me wanted to meet at a motel, i for myself don't
like to meet in a motel its cheap and sleezy like a one night
stand i want a love that will last forever but friendship
comes first love follows and you take it ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
307 Votes
,0.72 Score |
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How To Gracefully Exit After First Five Minutes? 6/19/2006
Most of my first dates have been (by design) in very casual
venues, like a coffee shop. Let me be honest. On most (but
not all) my first dates I have pretty much decided yea or
nay within the first five minutes. You may think me shallow;
I prefer the term discerning. And in most cases I am inwardly
saying 'no way' here. However, after having made
that determination, I feel obligated to ...
0 Comments, 118 Views,
207 Votes
,6.85 Score |
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Crazy and hopeless 6/20/2006
I think it is crazy to make a fast move, to go live with someone
far away. Risky. You put yourself under the total power
of that person. How well can you get to know each other anyway?
That is the crazy part. Here is the hopeless part: meeting
anyone you have not already passed over where you are.
Furthermore, phooey.Sobriquet
0 Comments, 26 Views,
165 Votes
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First date jumping in bed 6/19/2006
Why is it that when you meet for the first time the men always
want to take you to bed right away, isn't it that you
first build a friendship and trust before you take that
next step, why can't men think with their hearts and
mind instead of other things, to be intimate with someone
that spark has to be there, we all have choices but the mens
choice is always jumping into bed i know the men ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
157 Votes
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free samples at the buffet of life 6/20/2006
It seems to me that on reading certain articles, men are
using the first date as an attempt to get "free samples"
at the buffet of life. Just because a woman consents to meet
for coffee or dinner, it doesn't necessarily follow
that she consented to anything more. Men are really missing
the boat by misjudging, and subsequently rejecting, women
who don't want sexual play in the early part ...
1 Comments, 163 Views,
154 Votes
,8.14 Score |
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cringe 6/20/2006
I had a first date with a fellow who took me to a restaurant
where he ordered a Reuben sandwhich. It was full of pink,
mayonaissy sauce. He picked up the sandwhich and the pink
stuff ran through his fingers, dripped from his sandwhich.
Some people at another table were observing him. He held
out the sandwhich to them and said "Want some?"
Do I need to say that I was mortified?
...
0 Comments, 61 Views,
84 Votes
,1.46 Score |
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What a thrill!!!!! 3/15/2011
I hope this doesn't offend anyone but this is a little
racey!!! If you could be offended...please don't
read this!!!
<br>
What a thrill it was to meet "J" for our first
date. After more than a month of corresponding we decided
to meet. We live about 30 miles apart and tried and tried
to find a mutually agreeable place. We are both well known
professionals in our respective towns ...
1 Comments, 262 Views,
80 Votes
,6.14 Score |
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First impressions can cost you 5/29/2005
When they say that first impressions mean the most , could
they be totally wrong? You get all dressed up, be on time,
maybe give your date some flowers, Go to an elegant restaurant,
have a wonderful "expensive" dinner to impress, minding
your manners all the way, even down to standing when she
leaves the table. Now you've set a standard of expectations.
Can you live up to them? Or would ...
0 Comments, 119 Views,
76 Votes
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Don't 'Accept; Expect' 6/19/2006
I recently went on a 'first' date with another
SFF member (a week trip to San Felippe, MX).
<br>
Here's a list of things that gentlemen shouldn't
do on a first meeting:
<br>
When walking, never push a woman when you want her to go in
a certain direction.
<br>
Never 'expect' a woman to be overly impressed
by who you are when she doesn't even know you yet.
...
10 Comments, 889 Views,
67 Votes
,4.75 Score |
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Dying on the Vine 1/28/2007
I had my first date after 10 years alone (my choice). Have
not liked dating anyone older because my free spirit always
rubbed them the wrong way (can not control me). He was 71
(another generation to give a try)and I am 60. We met at my
brothers for safty sake. Started kissing me before we got
to the car and molesting inside ...Did not understand NO!
Started talking about his sex life ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
65 Votes
,8.42 Score |
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Try the Truth 1/16/2010
You look at a photo and read the person’s profile and you
say to yourself, “This is a person I would like to know better.”
You e-mail each other back and forth in an attempt to know
more about each other. You talk to each other on the telephone.
The conversation goes flows and you decide to meet.
You arrive at the designated place at the right time. You ...
13 Comments, 602 Views,
63 Votes
,8.09 Score |
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I Don't Call Them Dates 6/19/2006
After a number disaterous "first dates" (some
of which had plucked out my last heart string, I changed
the name. I now call it a "meet and greet". After
all isn't that what it really is? To me a first date is
after I've gotten to know the person a little better
and feel comfortable doing something like meeting for
dinner or sitting together in a dark movie theater. I will
suggest (if ...
1 Comments, 598 Views,
60 Votes
,4.19 Score |
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RE RE : Men are visual 6/20/2006
I'm sorry but i totally have to disagree. I live in the
Massachusetts area and for the past 20 yrs that I have been
dating and in different relationships I have to say that
most of the women in my area don't even have insight
and/or hind sight..let alone anything else.
<br>
For the most part 90% of the one's I have met or dated
were either gold diggers or cry babies. Every date ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
54 Votes
,2.47 Score |
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Do I need a Manual....... 6/19/2006
I am just starting to date again for the first time in twenty
years, .....and it's Horrendous, .....I realise
now, that without knowing it, I have slipped into a habit
of just getting on with the day......doing everyday things
, without paying too much attention to how I do them, ....a
bit like driving really, .after a while you just DO it, .......Now,
I am dating, and I'm getting ...
3 Comments, 285 Views,
52 Votes
,7.57 Score |
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Geocaching for a first date 12/28/2006
it used to be that a first date would feel like a job interview.
I would end up wearing a dorky dress in on overpriced resturant.
That has changed sinced I discovered Geocaching. This
is an sport where caches are hidden and found on various
hiking trails and in the forest untilizing a GPS locator.
The caches are listed on-line. I tell my dates to wear hiking
boots and expect lots of ...
5 Comments, 369 Views,
51 Votes
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Let's call it a "Lookover" 6/19/2006
In my experience, the first "meeting" is not
a date at all. I call it the "lookover" - the chance
to check out the
physical chemistry between two people who have (theoretically)
established some kind of mental/emotional chemistry
on line or on the phone.
<br>
Remember, this is not yet a date!!! - a date is, in this definition,
agreeing to go out with someone you already know, at ...
1 Comments, 415 Views,
50 Votes
,7.18 Score |
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Bad first...HAHA make me laugh!!!! 6/19/2006
John was one of those men that knew little to none about honesty.
He did however leave a memory….Quite large in fact.
After responding to her ad, The Redheaded Angel, spoke
with John on the phone. After several conversations Red
agreed to meet him at his favorite restaurant. He would
arrive there all of his 6’2” tallness, with a body proclaimed
to be in shape. ...
2 Comments, 304 Views,
49 Votes
,6.98 Score |
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Culture Clashes and Bonessa's First Date With A Redneck Gentleman 2/18/2007
We met at Burger King's for coffee. Although I suspect
he would have liked to share a a six pack of dollar store soda's
on the tailgate of his pick-up truck. "Darlin, ah's
gonna treat ya whatever yer hankerin' on the burgar
king menu, " the' gentleman told me me. "Right
fine, I’ll get a Veggie Burger to go with the coffee. If I
had a candle, we could have a powerful romantic ...
5 Comments, 475 Views,
48 Votes
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Seeking Out 2/11/2007
A Wise Man or Woman Seeks Out Situations, Jobs & People
who Affirm Intelligence, Perceptions & Self~Worth
& Avoid People who are Hurtful, Harmful, or Demeaning.
HIGH ACHIEVER ...
1 Comments, 201 Views,
45 Votes
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First Date, Blind Date 6/19/2006
So I had this answering service right? And damn this one
woman that worked there had this voice that just gave new
meaning to dream girl right? I am flirting with her almmost
on a daily basis and within six weeks of her hire I am already
fantacizing about what she looks like. I finnaly decided
to chill and take a (and for me this is surprizing) conservative
direction to maybe meet her. I ...
2 Comments, 413 Views,
45 Votes
,6.30 Score |
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Reasons Date Give for Standing Someone Up 6/26/2006
The Date shows up early and decides he just doesn't
feel like going out after all, goes home before the date
arrives.
<br>
His cat gets sick and he has to take it to the vet.
<br>
His neighbor's goldfish dies, and he stays home to
console the neighbor.
<br>
He figures that the picture of the date wasn't the real
picture, so he didn't bother coming over.
...
1 Comments, 249 Views,
44 Votes
,0.11 Score |
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he was more than real 6/19/2006
well i was feeling a bit bored on that warm saturday afternoon
.so i decided to chat up someone in one of the chat room and
lo and behold this real guy just pm me. we cahtted for a while
and then planned to meet up later in the week. believe me
i was so desparate to meet this guy that, he was begining
to be an obsession to me during the rest of the days that i
had to wait on meeting him ...
2 Comments, 498 Views,
44 Votes
,2.86 Score |
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first date in a while 10/1/2014
i agreed to meet this lady after meeting online with no photo, i
drove thirty miles to meet her and waited in my car where
we agreed to meet.
a car arrived with two women in it and to my amazment this
women came over to my car and introduced herself. i was amazed
because she was not as she described her self quite the opposite.i
knew that this was not the women for me but could not bring ...
7 Comments, 926 Views,
43 Votes
,6.86 Score |
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First Impressions... 6/19/2006
Having read some of what has been posted on this site about
first impressions I just have to say...GOODNESS YES...THEY
DO MATTER!!!..
First dates are tough...are they meetings...no they are
dates. The meeting took place through emails and then the
phone. This is no different than a blind date from years
past...only hopefully neither of us has a friend embarassed
if it doesn't work out.
...
1 Comments, 168 Views,
43 Votes
,8.15 Score |
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CREEPS 9/19/2009
I recently excepted a date with a mam I meet on SSF we had chatted
a few times on the phone . I noticed some things on the phone
that gave me hints not to go but i went anyway. This guy mocked
everything I said made fun of everything I did and was about
80 pounds heavyer than they looked in there picture I could
have got past that , but not the way he treated me. Then the
best part of the ...
3 Comments, 532 Views,
42 Votes
,5.78 Score |
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overcome 6/20/2006
I was hounded to attend a wedding reception with a fellow.
He came in, listened to a few speeches and excused himself.
He came back and listened to more and then people started
kissing, can't recall why, he kissed me and left again.
The meal started being served, he left again and came back
wobbly and smelling booze. I ate and left. sobriquet
0 Comments, 64 Views,
40 Votes
,0.92 Score |
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Heriophant Qualities for a First Date 12/24/2006
Evolved
Realist, practical, stable, down to earth, harness physical
energies,
Unevolved fixed beliefs, archaic beliefs, tradion bound,
meaningless rituals, lethargic
1 Comments, 165 Views,
39 Votes
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True First Date 6/19/2006
Dalnet boulevard on that night was filled with dreary skies
and shadowed ennui. As usual there was the bustling crowd
that rushed from lounge to lounge, chatting, meeting,
and dashing off to the next stop as they followed their usual
trajectory. My steps were slow and unhurried, as I browsed
along the boulevard. I stopped at one lounge to see who was
in, the same crowd, the same rancorous ...
3 Comments, 387 Views,
37 Votes
,3.91 Score |
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Old Photo 6/19/2006
How may times have we met someone and they didn't look
anything like the photo that you have been viewing. You
know the one I talking about....the photo that is 10 or 15
years old. Now the question is what to do. You have been deceived.
Is this so terrible? It probably is. Obviously this person
thinks that their looks are more important than the truth.
Are they scared that if they ...
6 Comments, 343 Views,
34 Votes
,7.28 Score |
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second date 6/20/2006
I met this man for a coffee we talked fro a short while. the
folowing week he phoned me up and we went to a dance.
THe night just sped by I enjoyed myself so much. I di thank
him and told him so . THis week as passed by and I did not hear
from him. Do you think I should write him or just wait, we
seem to have the same interests also in other things . I am
new at this I have not dated ...
1 Comments, 185 Views,
33 Votes
,5.35 Score |
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First Date? Come On Over..... 6/19/2006
I am a firm believer that a first date must be comfortable
as possible for both people. I have not had a first date recently,
but know where we meet must have activity going on which
fosters a possible relationship. One of the big issues
is honesty; is this person as he/she represents online?
My solution is to plan the 'first' date in daylight
hours at my home...a brunch, maybe. Keeping ...
3 Comments, 257 Views,
32 Votes
,1.18 Score |
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To Meet or not to Meet? 6/19/2006
If I decide on meeting a man I have contacted through the
personals, I eventually base this decision on my gut.
<br>
I once met a fellow online, and we eventually exchanged
emails. There were a few things not ringing true, so I had
some reservations about meeting him in person. I requested
that we exchange a few more emails first.
<br>
I'm glad I followed my gut - ...
0 Comments, 436 Views,
32 Votes
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Magician Qualites for a first date 1/1/2007
Evolved - Be Imaginative, See A World of posssibilites,
Weave your rainbow dreams into reality, Be Swift, Move,
Be Light, Dance!!!!
Unevolved. Contradictory, verbose, abuse of intoxicants
to get "high" manipulation, trickery, deceit,
black magic, egotism, vanity ChugALug into a continued
Loser Mode
0 Comments, 88 Views,
31 Votes
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How To Handle Liars 10/20/2007
Have you ever had a date with someone who didn't look
like their picture? Then you find out the picture is about
10 years old or in fact, could belong to a best friend?
<br>
Well ladies, I tell the guy (on e-mail or on the phone), if
you don't look like the person on the website, I don't
have a problem walking away from you. Conversation is over
and so are you!
<br>
We ...
2 Comments, 356 Views,
30 Votes
,3.73 Score |
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Bath time.... 3/3/2007
When a guy is persistent, it's so romantic, they make
movies about that. If it's a woman who is persistent,
then they cast Glenn Close...
2 Comments, 279 Views,
29 Votes
,7.05 Score |
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MY SOUL MATE 7/1/2006
I was chatting with a few on line in here but one guy stood
out we chatted on the phone for a few weeks.. we had planned
to meet in sept at a wedding.. as both of us have busy jobs
Hes a boss of a team and me a supervisor .. he knew I was worried
about our first meet as we had some build up we have just about
everything in comon eat same foods and drinks both like
rugby horses ...
6 Comments, 354 Views,
28 Votes
,3.86 Score |
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It doesn't seem to matter too much, Mulch Me 6/19/2006
Had a first date / meeting this past Sunday. At Home Depot...
I needed to replace some Cypress mulch and pick up landscaping
timbers for a front yard project. I asked her to meet me at
Home Depot and she agreed to meet me in one of the lumber aisles.
Now I can dress to kill but that day I was dressed probably
my all time worst. Dirty blue jeans, needed a shave, gray
tee shirt, and ...
2 Comments, 463 Views,
28 Votes
,3.65 Score |
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Where do you go on a first date? 10/26/2007
Make sure your first date is fun. Go bowling, go to a local
fair (carnival) or go shoot some pool. Whatever it is, make
it fun and you be fun too. Don't get too serious on the
first date. Let him see the fun side of you and make it a sober
one. Make sure of one thing though. Meet him there. As a precaution,
I don't allow my men to pick me up at home. Meet him wherever
you go for ...
1 Comments, 250 Views,
23 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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forgotten teeth 6/19/2006
here i am on my first date,
hope she dosen't turn up late.
combed my hair and washed my face,
not a molycule out of place.
i sent that photo' took some while back,
now my hairs a bit thinner and my jaws are slack.
what was it now i said i did,
something i've been at since i was a ?
brain surgeon, pilot, owned a bar,
hope she don't mind me being jack tar.
never mind it'll be ...
2 Comments, 291 Views,
23 Votes
,4.53 Score |
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My first date... 3/21/2007
I'll tell you about my first date with a young boy, about
25 years ago, but not here on SFF.
I was at work, in a break, at the window.A youngone saw
me and looked at me some time and then he came to talk to me.He
looked fascinated with me and he said he's sure I'm
his soulmate.
He invited me to a musical show.Next day he came to talk to
me about the show (I've called him with this ...
3 Comments, 430 Views,
21 Votes
,2.88 Score |
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all smiles..and first thoughts... 6/26/2006
well you finally meet, you feel and look great together,
laughting
chatting..like no tomorrow.. all smiles, lifes looking
up those precious moments, loving looks, cheeky grins,
naughty calls, texing or phoning all the time...dont
ever let that go just cause you gonna stay together why let
the little fun things slip, thats what kept your interest
to start with, keep the interest up..love ...
3 Comments, 239 Views,
21 Votes
,3.74 Score |
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love is needed 6/19/2006
to have or not to have is an option for each individual. Whats
wrong with us if we don't want love? So many of us get
tired, and yes, I am including men as well as women, of going
through the whole relationship , communicating, first
date and falling in love then to find out they are not for
you.for one reason or another.. All that time is wasted,
you say, and yes it has been. Not fair as ...
1 Comments, 371 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score |
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Make it mysterious 2/15/2008
It's very sexy and erotic to meet someone you met online
without talking on the phone first.
5 Comments, 213 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score |
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perfect first date 7/18/2006
What is a PERFECT DATE? What is a first date? a perfect date
to me is where we can meet to have some fun, eat a little, dance
a little, and joke around. Have fun in other words. If you
can both do that, and really and honestly can tell the other
one that they had a good time, that is the best date one can
ask for. And you are in with many other people to boot.
That is a perfect first ...
3 Comments, 186 Views,
19 Votes
,6.03 Score |
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Coming on Wrong Way? 6/19/2006
When viewing so many profiles. Many people talk about their
sexual desires. Unless a person is looking only for an activity
partener, I think that info should be kept private for the
right person at the right time. To me if looking for a serious
relationship that would turn me away. Or is it possible
you think they are just coming across wrong way?
2 Comments, 167 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score |
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I want...no i don't ..yes i do! 8/12/2008
We're not only wired to want what we can't have,
but we're also wired to want what we really don't
want.
2 Comments, 288 Views,
18 Votes
,4.76 Score |
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How far would you go for love? 8/10/2007
On this great site Senior Friend Finder there are folk's
from all round the world, winking at each other, writting
articles, sending e-mails and a host of other activities.
Perhaps not everyone is looking for true love, but for those
that are, what lengths would you go to, to be with the one
you truely love? Would you up roots and move to another part
of the country or world and leave ...
5 Comments, 194 Views,
17 Votes
,5.39 Score |
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NO BIG DEAL 6/19/2006
A FIRST DATE AS IT'S CALLED IS REALLY NO BIG DEAL
AT LEAST NOT W/ ME...
<br>
A PUBLIC PLACE IS COOL I THINK BUT REALLY IT DEPENDS ON THE
WOMAN MOSTLY..
AS A MATTER OF SAFETY I PERFECTLY UNDERSTAND A WOMAN'S
CONCERN THERE..
MEN WILL USUSALLY INVITE YOU TO THERE HOMES...BUT THAT
TOO DEPENDS....DEPENDS ON HOW THE CHAT/EMAIL WENT AND
THE VIBE THERE..
<br>
IF LOOKING FOR ...
0 Comments, 160 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score |
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meeting first time 8/19/2020
has anybody gone to meet someone in another country?
who should go first the man or woman?
is it safe to meet with eastern europeans?
3 Comments, 289 Views,
16 Votes
,1.80 Score |
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Why is this man from SFF reluctant to meet me? 2/13/2016
Hi, everyone,
This morning, I was having a chat with one of my matches from
SFF. He seemed sincere and wanted to get to know more about
me. We chatted on Yahoo IM for about an hour. We talked about
what we were looking for in a partner, and we told each other
why we were single at this point in time. I was very sweet
to him, and he was likewise. I don't know if we have an
intellectual ...
7 Comments, 311 Views,
15 Votes
,4.05 Score |
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“Bitten By The Love Bug” 9/14/2008
My name is Kountry_woman51, my boyfriends name is Ventrman.
We are both met on Adult friend finder and have a real life
true love, love at first site, hit by cupids arrow story
to tell you.
<br>
I used to think that adult dating and swinging sites online
were nothing but phony. I figured no real people with real
needs ever bothered to post profiles there. Even if they
did, most ...
3 Comments, 236 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score |
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Bike Ride 12/31/2006
We were closely mounted...you in front and I behind. Between
our legs there pulsed a 500 pound mass of steel and chrome
sitting upon two black balloon tires. I couldn't imagine
that at my advanced age I was finally going to take my first
motorcycle ride. Needless to say, my excitement was tempered
by a slight feeling of anxiety and trepidation, but I put
my faith, trust and life in your ...
3 Comments, 137 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score |
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chemistry 6/19/2006
More often than not, the word "chemistry" is
mentioned in talks about first dates and getting to know
someone.
If it's evident that there is little in common between
two individuals except the electricity that both feels
when they so much as touch, could that be taken as 'chemistry'?
<br>
If it were you, would you continue dating this person?
<br>
I ...
4 Comments, 309 Views,
14 Votes
,3.62 Score |
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Transitions ... 6/20/2006
If moral values were clear and universally accepted life
would be simple, or horribly more complicated for those
that need help the most. Monogamy and relationship jumping
are probably one of the most interesting areas that we have
so many people that stand high with moral certainty, yet
practice has so many grey areas.
<br>
Take for example the many women working at near minimum ...
1 Comments, 91 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score |
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First dates 8/12/2008
does anybody read this articles?
3 Comments, 163 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score |
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MY PASION FOR LIVE 12/24/2006
SEVERAL EAR AGO Y FELT AN ENORMAS ATRACTION FOR MATURE WOMAN
THE REASON IS BECAUSE OF THERE EXPIRIENCE IN LIVE AND THE
WHAY THEY LIVE THE DAY TO DAY I FEEL A SPECIL PASION FOR OLDER
WOMAN THEN I THATS WY I LOVE RELATIONS WITH THEN THERE MORE
TENDER AN ALWAYS KNOW WHAT THEY WHANT IN LIVE.
JAVI
2 Comments, 137 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score |
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Expectation for love & commintment, You Think? 6/19/2006
After alot of emails and talking on ones Internet Messenger
and knowing that you fell for this person and also knowing
that you have come to terms with the age-gap between yours
and his (give or take 15-20yrs). You have made a step to meet
for lunch, all is fine until the first thought that comes
in your mind when you see him is, he's not much older
than my grandson!
<br>
I run ...
0 Comments, 112 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score |
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the missing ring 9/26/2007
A girl in love asked her boyfriend.
Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?
Boy: You, of course!
Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in
her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that
God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took
one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been
searching ...
1 Comments, 137 Views,
10 Votes
,6.57 Score |
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Should we have first dates? 7/1/2006
Should we have first dates or should it be a meeting instead?
<br>
Perhaps a meeting to walk on the beach or share a coffee,
a way to talk and see if we have any reason to see each other
again. In the city it might be easier to find something low
key enough to talk, but in a small town one is limited in activities.
13 Comments, 340 Views,
10 Votes
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Late life searching for a new mate 6/20/2006
Most of us had a single standard and experience set to approach
partner hunting and selection -- the experience we had
as teenagers. That process for most, was casual dating
of we went to school with or socialized with at church
or other organizational functions. Obviously that well
is dry, or you wouldn't be reading this.
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Lets reflect on that process a bit first. Most of ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
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Modesty 6/19/2006
I've always been confused with ladies when it comes
to what they look for in a guy. Most seem to say they prefer
a guy to be confident, yet they seem to loathe a guy who is
overly cocky. How does one find the happy medium between
modesty and confidence? Is it better to err on the side of
modesty?
0 Comments, 205 Views,
10 Votes
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Meeting For First Time CAN be FUN! 11/1/2008
Through this site I made a new friend recently, he lives
in CT, and is a sales rep. for a national company and was scheduled
for a meeting in a town about fifty miles away from where
I live. He contacted me and we agreed to meet for dinner.
I told him I'd give him a call on his cell when I arrived
and also give him directions to the restaurant. He said
"no problem", he had a GPS and shouldn't ...
0 Comments, 155 Views,
9 Votes
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I want...no i don't ..yes i do! 8/12/2008
We're not only wired to want what we can't have,
but we're also wired to want what we really don't
want.
0 Comments, 72 Views,
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meeting 1/16/2010
IAM MEETING SOMEONE FROM SFF IN JULY, WE MET ON HERE IN MARCH
OF THIS YEAR, SINCE THEN WE HAVE BEEN WRITEING LETTERS,
PHONE CALLS DAILY, MSN/YAHOO, SFF CHAT SOME DAYS, WE
HAVE BECOME VERY GOOD FRIENDS, WE ARE MUCH ALIKE, IN OUR
LIKES AND DISLIKES, SO OUR PLANS ARE TO MEET AT A SECRET
LOCATION, JUST IN CASE ALL OF THE CHATTERS SHOULD FOLLOW
US TO OUR SPOT, LOL, IAM A BIT NERVOUS, AND A LITTLE ...
2 Comments, 153 Views,
7 Votes
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New member 6/19/2006
I have only just joined SFF so I am quite nervous about having
a first date although there would be no point in joining
if I wasn't prepared to give it a try! Having been married
for 28 years to the same lady it seems strange to be on my own
at this stage in my life. (I am now widowed with no ).
I am hoping to find someone who is affectionate, kind and
respectable (and a non smoker). ...
3 Comments, 149 Views,
7 Votes
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Be honest with one another 6/19/2006
We meet new people every day. Some we can take an instant
dislike to. Some we feel as if we have been the best of friends
for years.
All of us here have been on at least one 'first date'.
So what is the problem? Being self concious of all that time
has done to us?
When you think about it. This is about the best way of getting
to know someone. There are pictures, e-mails, chat online. ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
5 Votes
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