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Building a New Friendship 2/14/2010
Is this just a female thing or do men go thru this too - someone
emails you and after one or two emails (especially with
people in your own local community) they want to meet immediately.
For me, I prefer to build the friendship first via email
then proceed to a phone call and from there meet face to face.
I personally find that it's easier to get to know someone
(as much as you can) with ...
29 Comments, 615 Views,
32 Votes
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...........just some thoughts for you, serious people only!! 9/19/2007
this is for seriously looking only, not for playboys..
We all know that life isnt fair, or should anyway, still,
I think something is missing here...
on the profiles I read.
Ok guys, you are looking for girls that look great, slim,
blonde, brunette, redhed, tall..whatever! Must hike
camp fish cook or wear corsets or skirts..cant drink or
smoke, fabulous in bed, otherwise perfect ladies, ...
16 Comments, 581 Views,
63 Votes
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do men really know how to? 7/26/2011
I've met a few men on this site and wonder if they really
know what it takes to build a relationship ? It is quite surprising
to discover that many of them think that a relationship
refers to a sexual one. In their profile, they state that
they want a 'long term' relationship with the
potential of it developing into marriage, yet when it comes
to the crunch, they want to see you only when ...
8 Comments, 350 Views,
28 Votes
,4.88 Score |
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YOU CAN FIND TRUE LOVE ON LINE 3/16/2008
Some may think after a few mix ups that they can't find
a dearest and truest love relation on line.. Especialy
the ladies such as myself..I learned a few lessons about
looking into chat rooms..there are some success stories
there, but mine did not begin in chat..My fiance found
me through my profile and I wrote an honest to goodness article
on my likes , dislikes and who and what Iam..was ...
5 Comments, 389 Views,
50 Votes
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Mark my e-bedpost! 5/12/2010
Ladies, am I the only one? You start a correspondence with a gent in here, he seems
interesting, after a note or two-he asks for your email
adress. Then starts the endless stream of cut and posts
(headed by addresses of numerous other ladies). Is this
some kind of cyber belt notching?
4 Comments, 109 Views,
7 Votes
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What are the men on this site really looking for? 9/19/2009
Pleiku says that she has seen a lot of young men on this site
and wonders if they are looking for a sugar mommy.
I personally am looking for someone closer to my age, but
want to get to know the person. A relationship doesn't
start with sex, and I see some of the profiles of older men
having "doubles entendres" and I wonder what
they are truly looking for.
Is it that at my ...
4 Comments, 146 Views,
14 Votes
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What do You Really Want? 2/11/2020
This is my second time on this site. First time was a success.
Resulted in an exclusive relationship that lasted for
3 years so I know it works. However, both times I ran into
something I don't understand.
Some of you men are patient and understanding and are genuinely
interested in a relationship. Then there are the others.
I have had numerous responses from men who state the ...
3 Comments, 173 Views,
11 Votes
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If what's in your pants is your best asset 12/4/2007
I have yet to have a man in real life walk up to me and ask about
my breasts. It's against the law. Not only that, but
when a man begins a conversation about body parts and functions,
it is an indication to me of what he is truely looking for
.... a booty call.
I want to know why men feel they can carry on such inappropriate
and disrespectful behavior online, do and say things that ...
3 Comments, 139 Views,
22 Votes
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Fear..... 8/19/2009
Fear of a new relationship...fear of just the thought of
starting over...fear of getting hurt... one more time...fear
of the unknown...fear of loving & not being loved back...fear
of being mistreated...fear of another failed marrige...could
there be a chance of meeting a good man with a good warranty?...do
any of you feel fear of all this?...is there such a man...
or woman... for a man that feels ...
2 Comments, 138 Views,
10 Votes
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WHY Do People Mask Their Insecurities With a Macho attitude? 7/24/2009
It seems to me, and please be aware that this is only an opinion,
my observation, that many people, but especially men cover
their own insecurities with an attitude of acting superior
or Macho? Perhaps it is that male/female, Ying/Yang Thing?
Perhaps it is that superiority to mask inferiority thing?
Many people who are this way truly are good people. But,
something deep inside makes them act ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
6 Votes
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two hours away 5/17/2009
Do you think it is possible to build a relationship with
a two hour distance between us and seeing each other only
every other week???is long term possible like this or how
do we get around this?? Thanks.
2 Comments, 105 Views,
8 Votes
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when wearing----- 5/17/2009
When weary, we need to rest, puts oneself turns over to primitively, closes
both eyes, attentively goes to the sensation to be far away
thebustling streets the quiet life, all shakes the whole
body dust, letsthem change into the butterfly, in airborne
flies flies, looked a turnof red glowing sun falls Xishan,
you and your lover moves towards theravine the small log
cabin ----
2 Comments, 18 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score |
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Why You Might Not Deserve a Hot, Older Woman 5/5/2009
Men, are you looking for that hot, older woman experience?
Do you think that your young age is all that is necessary
to attract her? Are you finding out that things aren't
quite going your way in the seduction department? Well,
I'm here to help you boys with a list of tips and suggestions:
1. Come-on line that never works: "You remind me of
my mom and she's pretty cool. " Translates to: ...
2 Comments, 354 Views,
75 Votes
,6.77 Score |
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New foundations 7/27/2008
A serious long term relationship is doomed from the start
if you try to build or add on to the foundations of a previous
relationship. Start off with a fresh plan, and learn from
the mistakes of yourself and others that made any previous
building fall down. Any new building needs a lot of hard
work and effort to make it special and long lasting, and
every now and then minor repairs are ...
2 Comments, 69 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score |
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Relationship Ingredience 11/25/2007
I believe that there certain things that are absolutely
required for a relationship to work properly. I also believe
that there is someone out there for each and every one of
us who are looking.
In addition, I believe that these meeting sites are an excelent
way to meet people and find that special someone in which
we are looking for.
In order for this to happen, the following ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
254 Votes
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to build or not to build... 11/3/2007
there seems to be so much energy and enthusiasm for building
the perfect relationship. i've enjoyed some very
satisfying relationships in my lifetime... but i've
reached a point where i am not so eager to 'adjust'
to someone else anymore. instead of cooking big meals,
i eat cold cereal for supper when i want to. and i don't
have to work around someone else's moods...don't
have to explain ...
2 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
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A few bad apples 5/26/2016
Have been on and off the online dating sites for many years
and on every site there seems to be the bad apples. I find
that when I use the IM on this site, I receive more sexual
invitations to chat then normal requests. As this site
offers an "adult" site for people who are interested
I do not understand why the bad apples do not go and play there.
I am not a prude and was once a member of the ...
1 Comments, 22 Views,
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RELATIONSHIP! 3/24/2009
If you want
a supper relationship then I believe you have to start from
the ground up no matter how many relationships you where
in before it has to work this way and it will. Have a lot of
trust in each other, Give them space when they need it, Give
them a shoulder to cry on when they need it, cry with them,
laugh with them, lay with them, cuddle with ...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
3 Votes
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You Do Not Need To Go Out Or Live With Someone For Years To Know If You Belong To Each Other. 10/31/2008
Another success story??? Yes, and you could only imagine
what feelings two people in love can experience when they
hear from their celebrant: “ … let me introduce
you Mr. and Mrs… “ … -- in our case it
was Mr. and Mrs.. Hughes… And we: a Slav lady from Belarus and an Aussie Gentleman
from South Australia saw each other first in ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
4 Votes
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Pet Photography 6/18/2008
My Ali-Kat has for a long time been my friend maker as well
as friend. Her web page demonstrates both my photography
as well as her charm. What do others think? http://seniorfriendfinder.com
1 Comments, 15 Views,
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relationship 5/2/2008
relationships are not easy. Well it seems when we were young
and not so cynical they came easy, but i am finding the older
i get the harder it is cause you look at folks with a different
eye than when young. when you you could fall in love on a whim
but as older person you are sceptical cynical what does
that person want well it is hard but more honest and i think
if and when you find love when ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
7 Votes
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Investing your time!!!! 10/30/2007
There are so many people.....weather they be man or woman.That
write once......then disappear.Whats the use....you
never even allow the chance to get to know who you are writing
to.I guess I get the impression that many people are just
skimming or just killing time.I'm on here for a reason.I
know I don't meet each and every womans dreams, needs
or wants but this is me...to at least the ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
71 Votes
,4.71 Score |
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Relationships Aren't Easy 10/20/2007
Relationships are never easy; finding and keeping the
right person can be a constant challenge. Doubt and fear
prevent many of us from listening to our hearts. We imagine
problems and find faults with our partner or potential
partner. And we become unable to love or be loved.
<br>
Many of us allow the ego to get in the way of true love. There
is a process involved when ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
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needing someone 6/5/2017
young or older , man or woman , big or small , white or black
, as long as they can satisfy my needs , I will satisfy their
needs now is the time for great friendships whatever the
needs R !!
0 Comments, 12 Views,
1 Votes
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WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN? 3/25/2010
Some of these are new. It's
amazing how profound these comments are. Art Linkletter
would be proud..
TOUCHING WORDS FROM THE MOUTHS OF BABES
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?
A group of professional people posed this question to a
group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?"
The answers they got were broader and deeper than ...
0 Comments, 97 Views,
10 Votes
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Build Trust by Practicing Safe Sex 12/18/2008
Nothing builds trust and the path toward ecstatic sexuality
than the practice of safe sex.
Men, take heed.
Women love a man who loves and takes great care of himself...
cause she knows he'll be loving and caring of her too..and
she can wholeheartedly reciprocate.
Your comments?
0 Comments, 92 Views,
13 Votes
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ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS. 11/3/2008
ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS
DO WE NEED TO PONDER?
Members inside a family do not really know each other well
enough...though they live together, as a family unit...
from the onset of their parent's marriage.....
Based on the above - is it possible, that two people locked in matrimony - from two entirely different family units - ever hope to know or understand each other - as ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score |
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I just wonder what is happening to the gents out there 10/21/2008
I am a silver member and have been really looking forward
to meeting a soul-mate.
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Once I upgraded my membership from standard to silver,
there came this problem where the nice lads all wrote at
once with all their nice photos, some even called me on my
mobile for a nice chat or to hear my melody voice and then
i realised that so many of them are jokers and are interested
in ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
90 Votes
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Why, is it always the most important??? 7/1/2008
Just wanted to ask why? is it always the most important question
that most i say most men ask, If a lady over 60 or 70 is really
interested in sex, are there no men out there that are interested
in a lady for your brains, and love of life, does it always
have to be about sex. There is more to life you know guys,
not saying it isnt important if you get to know someone,
but not the most ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
225 Votes
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A Good Washing 6/19/2008
A little girl had been shopping with
her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this
beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence.
It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over
the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth
it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under
the awning and just inside the door of the ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score |