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Disability and Relationship? 7/14/2004
I am disabled, I suffer from emphysema. I have several
very nice male friends. But there is one imparticular that
has crossed the line of friendship. I would love to start
a relationship with him and he says he also would like to
see if it were meant to be. I am really holding back due to
the fact that I don't want to be hurt again. I was devastated
when my husband of 38 years walked out on ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
20 Votes
,6.32 Score
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Friends Test ! 7/9/2004
I wake up in the morning,
And can hardly wait to see
If I've received a mailing,
addressed from you to me.
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I get my puter running
And much to my delight,
Your poems, jokes and other things
Come quickly into sight.
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...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
52 Votes
,7.77 Score
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Check List 7/9/2004
Some of the more important categories are as follows:
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1. Religion. Not usually a very important category these
days but some people, especially women, take this very
seriously. If one goes to church weekly and the other hasn't
been since the last funeral or wedding, there is probably
an insurmountable disparity.
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2. Smoking. Self evident. Don't ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
79 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Love . . . Trust . . . Understanding 7/6/2004
Love is trust and understanding. (If you want it to go beyond
Platonic, there must also be physical attraction but that's
another story.) The more you understand one, the more you
are capable of loving them. You also may run out the door
screaming. If you can't trust someone, you can't
love them. Trust takes over where understanding leaves
off because there are some things one just ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
82 Votes
,0.18 Score
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Sexual talk 7/1/2004
I don't know about you girls but i find it digusting
when a man has to talk about sex when they are in conversation...i
like to meet a man without talking about sex, that always
comes later in the relationship, men can be so vulgar at
times seems like all they want to do is get in your pants first..well
i guess i am old fashion but i like to find out all about each
other before getting into ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
96 Votes
,3.87 Score
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reply to Age an Issue? 6/26/2004
I voted so so there... Age is an issue!
I am even younger, but I haven't got a date yet! Women
like old men actually. Old men tended to want younger women,
so it is good for a man to be old! Amen.
0 Comments, 29 Views,
22 Votes
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There are So Many Temptations Out There 6/15/2004
I was riding in a jeep with some friends in the Cordillera
Mountains in the Philippines. One young man sitting across
from me was starring at the floorboards.
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I said, “You’re starring at the floor.” He responded, “I
have a big problem.”
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The man, 22, was graduating from college that year. His
fiancée, 18, wanted to get her ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
66 Votes
,3.10 Score
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Opening Up 6/15/2004
Love is about opening up.
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When we open up, we’re filled with joy.
We open up, sometimes we get hurt.
When we open ourselves, sometimes no one cares.
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Life is like that.
And life is good.
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The butterfly is a tenacious creature. It's very fragile,
but also of exceedingly great passion and strength. It
pushes its way out of the cocoon. ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
120 Votes
,3.29 Score
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Most Men Are Jerks 6/14/2004
I’m a man, and from what I’ve learned at work, most men are
jerks.
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Whenever we get together for lunch, and the conversation
turns to women, dating, sexuality or marriage, I hear the
most inane, dehumanizing and sexist comments.
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This is the sum of most their comments (made when women are
not present):
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Women are on earth for two ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
72 Votes
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Truth and honesty 6/12/2004
Thanks for your article. Honesty can be a double-edged
sword. Perhaps it just means openness about our feelings
for the other person. However, does it have to mean that
the partner will be comfortable with the problems in our
life that have nothing to do with the relationship with
him? These days we are very open about our "issues"
. However, this leaves us transparently open and ...
1 Comments, 126 Views,
61 Votes
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starting line the Bedroom. 5/25/2004
AND THE RACE IS ON? I have been reading how so many women are
having this problem of being snatch to the bedroom, being
greeted with "ya wanna do it now or after we eat?"
I am a woman of SFF and have not had this happen to me. The men
all seem to be gentlemen, or good ole boys. Down to earth,
fairly honest(as much as any of us are) and most likely as
nervous and apprehensive as the ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
54 Votes
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Why don't SFF Friends email you back 5/16/2004
why is it that when someone views your profile and you send
them email they don't email you back, regarless if
they are interested in you or not i joined to find romance
and friends the only way to get to know someone is to email
them and talk to them.
0 Comments, 124 Views,
132 Votes
,3.16 Score
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Why buy the beef when you can get the milk for free? 4/28/2004
Sincere as we may be ladies, it seems that some men are just
out for "free samples". If a man's conversation
revolves around intimate subjects and he doesn't
seem to want to know about you as a person, the red flag should
go up that he's only after a physical fling. Maybe out
of lonliness we reach for straws at the first sign of attraction,
but we've all learned that a night spent alone ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
140 Votes
,5.70 Score
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Re-thinking the positive! 4/19/2004
Most of us using the Senior Friendfinder Site have common
goals-- to meet a pen pal and exchange ideas, to meet an acquaintance
and exchange stimulating conversation, or perhaps, to
meet that "special someone" for whom we have
been searching a lifetime. It is logical, then, that profiles
accentuate positive attributes. "Kind, generous,
thoughtful, considerate, sensitive, supportive, ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
32 Votes
,4.55 Score
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Age an Issue? 4/17/2004
Why is it that people are looking for younger? I myself prefer
the company of a more mature woman. They know what they want
and usually are not into head games. Age has never been an
issue with me and I hope never will be. Not all men want a younger
woman. Just a thought.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
198 Votes
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Relationship Ingredience 4/10/2004
I believe that there certain things that are absolutely
required for a relationship to work properly. I also believe
that there is someone out there for each and every one of
us who are looking.
In addition, I believe that these meeting sites are an excelent
way to meet people and find that special someone in which
we are looking for.
In order for this to happen, the following ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
254 Votes
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banter 4/7/2004
A man met a woman in a restaurant. She was very attractive.
She sneezed. Her glass eye fell out and he caught it. She
said "Thanks." She offered him dinner with
her and it was wonderful. She offered him a lift home and
took him right to his door. She kissed him good night, It
was wonderful. She asked him to come up for a nightcap. It
was wonderful. She asked him to stay the night and it was ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
71 Votes
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I just wonder what is happening to the gents out there 3/28/2004
I am a silver member and have been really looking forward
to meeting a soul-mate.
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Once I upgraded my membership from standard to silver,
there came this problem where the nice lads all wrote at
once with all their nice photos, some even called me on my
mobile for a nice chat or to hear my melody voice and then
i realised that so many of them are jokers and are interested
in ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
90 Votes
,3.97 Score
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Older women and younger men 3/23/2004
Women mature sexually before men. Ironically, they reach
their sexual peak later in life. Biologically, after menopause,
many women enter a period of healthy, passionate lovemaking.
No more unplanned pregnancies, no more pressure of getting
married again....just freedom to enjoy being a healthy,
independent, successful woman. Fly like a bird.....let
your spirit roar. The secret is ...
0 Comments, 471 Views,
144 Votes
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Investing your time!!!! 2/29/2004
There are so many people.....weather they be man or woman.That
write once......then disappear.Whats the use....you
never even allow the chance to get to know who you are writing
to.I guess I get the impression that many people are just
skimming or just killing time.I'm on here for a reason.I
know I don't meet each and every womans dreams, needs
or wants but this is me...to at least the ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
71 Votes
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Honesty, please, in filling out your profile 1/25/2004
This may well apply to women as well as men, but for now I am
directing this squarely at men. As a result of a vital question
not being answered honestly a lot of people were very hurt
by the relationship that resulted through a connection
from this site.
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A man who lives with his wife, completes a profile as soon
as she goes away on a holiday and states he lives alone. He ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
87 Votes
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re; "when will men wake-up and smell the coffe?" 1/3/2004
I am a 50 YO divorced man and am amazed that men in this basic
age group haven't woken-up to what was written in the
original article.
I was happily married for 18 years before things fell apart
and learnt that sex is someting comes as a result of a loving
and trusting relationship. The main issue is building
that relationship. If you do this, the sex will be fantastic,
almost a religious ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
139 Votes
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Only chat on internet..and hardly in person 12/29/2003
How do you get someone to call you on the phone once in awhile..instead
of always on the internet....The sound of a Human Voice
is necessary for a person.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
61 Votes
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re: when will men wake up and smell the coffee 11/24/2003
This article had a few valid points, but why do men bring
up sex in their profiles? There are countless reasons for
this, perhaps they have left a lovless marriage where the
partner has no desire in physical love due to hormonal shifts,
an operation where she no longer feels like a whole woman
and have lost self worth(these can be treated with interpersonal
communication and seeking ...
0 Comments, 77 Views,
114 Votes
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Far Away Relationships! 10/15/2003
I'd certainly be interested in hearing about people
who have found a kindred spirit-from across the nation!
I have met a couple of very interesting men. The problem
has not been with whether or not we wished to meet, it has
been with the fact that I live in a fairly remote part of the
northwestern United States! How on earth do people FIND
one another physically? Not that I consider ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
231 Votes
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I may have found that special woman 10/14/2003
I have just hidden my profile on this site as I think I may
have found a very special woman. We have chatted for more
that a week and talked on the phone for hours every night.
Yesterday we met for the first time and I'm truly smitten.
It seems that I've been looking for her all my life.
We certainly have a lot in common and I plan to be spending
some time working on our new ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
127 Votes
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Why, is it always the most important??? 10/14/2003
Just wanted to ask why? is it always the most important question
that most i say most men ask, If a lady over 60 or 70 is really
interested in sex, are there no men out there that are interested
in a lady for your brains, and love of life, does it always
have to be about sex. There is more to life you know guys,
not saying it isnt important if you get to know someone,
but not the most ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
225 Votes
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No Matter the Age, What's important 9/21/2003
We hear every day how so many singles are looking for mr or
miss right. We read profiles stating that one is honest,
believes communication is the key, and wants that special
somebody. Yet, no one seems to be connecting. What is important
in a relationship?
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It is the humble opinion of this 49 year old woman that the
most important things in a relationship are: 1) honesty ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
72 Votes
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sex after 60 8/23/2003
I am a divorced male 65 and I have always dated women younger
than myself and still do. I am sexually active and I find
the women 53-60 are much more affectionate as far as touching,
kissing and intimacy than women early 60's and over.
Most of the over 60 are just interested in going out to dinner
or going to a movie and dont want to hold hands, kiss or make
love. Let me hear from the over ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
164 Votes
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Try building a relationship on honesty... 8/17/2003
....and if honesty is not in your face, then be honest about
the fact that you are lying.
Many people are happy with a relationship with someone
who is already attached because they do not want to be co-erced
into a permanency. This is fine if each person knows what
is happening.
It seems absurd that at the age of prime we are suddenly bitching
about 'married people cheating...'
Yes, I ...
0 Comments, 53 Views,
100 Votes
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