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kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Chinese Fable   5/2/2005

A water bearer in China had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which he carried across his neck. <br> One pot had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. <br> At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. <br> For a full two years this ...


0 Comments, 619 Views, 86 Votes ,8.82 Score
AngelsMom2 75 F
1  Article
Advice for Widowers   3/29/2008

Dear Members, I titled this article "Adive for Widowers" because I only communicate with the gentlemen members, but I'm sure this could probably apply to the women as well. Gentlemen, I think it's wonderful that you had such a long and happy marriage and I'm sure that most of us wish we had been that fortunate. That being ...


2 Comments, 1740 Views, 219 Votes ,8.51 Score
bigsir14 104 M
1  Article
Glamour Shots (Photos)   6/17/2006

I'm certainly no expert on the "whys and wherefores" of finding someone on these site's. However, I can speak from personal experience about viewing the so-called "glamour shots" that many women post for their pictures. Certainly they are beautiful to behold, and I know most women like to be seen with a beautiful dress and all the accouterments they would wear on an evening out on the ...


5 Comments, 198 Views, 63 Votes ,8.42 Score
thebalerlady 77 F
1  Article
How does an older woman get responses?   11/2/2004

How does an older woman, who is younger looking and acting for her age, sell herself to men her age or younger, when she is an honest, loving, kind, passionate, humorous, caring person with a heart of gold that just wants a man to share her life, or give her a chance to be a friend, spend time with her to see if anything more than friendship could develop? I am a widow and would like to ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 81 Votes ,8.18 Score
yayi1000 62 F
1  Article
Self Value   6/23/2007

I started my Spring Cleaning in my garage. Looking through all school papers, I found this passage and wanted to share it with you. Unfortunately, it does not state the author to give him/her credit... A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a twenty-dollar bill in the room of two hunded: "Who would like this twenty-dollar bill?" Hands started going up. He said: "I am going ...


2 Comments, 890 Views, 108 Votes ,7.96 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Keep Your Fork   2/5/2005

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in order, " she contacted her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. <br> She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she ...


0 Comments, 624 Views, 79 Votes ,7.95 Score
jstlkng 76 F
1  Article
Skeptical me, Successful us...   12/29/2004

Don't give up. If you too are skeptical , as I was, wondering if you are throwing your money away on a site that could not possibly find that certain someone .....I'm here to say it works! Of course there are stinkers and clinkers who will contact you, but they are pretty easy to spot ( and block). Shortly after reluctantly signing up with SFF, I was contacted by a man who actually lived ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,7.75 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Body Image   7/18/2007

Unrealistic expectations, lack of communication and being slaves to stereotypes are some of the reasons for broken relationships that we all have experienced. Real intimacy is built on acceptance, respect, honesty, tenderness and a passion for the spirit of our partner. If at this stage in our lifecycle we are imprisioned by old ideas, requirements and shortsightedness, we are then doomed ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 21 Votes ,7.21 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Why Asking For Sex Is A Turn Off   2/14/2005

A large part of the Male population think they should ASK FOR SEX. Don't they know the turnoff is in the asking? Do men think women are so dumb as to not know what a man wants? If she was willing in the first place, the asking will probably send all romantic ideas out the window. A woman sees sex as a gift to someone she really cares for. Why would a man want to ruin a good thing. ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 38 Votes ,7.14 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Old Men Can Still Think!   7/12/2006

An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several years. He had a large pond in the back, fixed up nice; picnic tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple and peach trees. The pond was properly shaped and fixed up for swimming when it was built. One evening, the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn't been there for a while, and look it over. He grabbed a ...


1 Comments, 2186 Views, 335 Votes ,6.96 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Lotus Touts   2/2/2005

ONE Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. <br> TWO Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. <br> THREE Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. <br> FOUR When you say, "I love you, " mean it. <br> FIVE When you ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
lucylynn49 63 F
1  Article
The Big Red Flags   8/23/2005

Ever heard the expression, go with your gut feeling? It’s true you know. If you listen to your gut you can’t go wrong and soon you’ll understand which issue are going to be big red flags when meeting and dating on the Internet. I’ve listed a few below <br> 1. Do they live with ma? Unless there under 21 that might be a big red flag as to their ability ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 31 Votes ,6.59 Score
breathless02 69 F
2  Articles
Am I asking for the impossible?   5/13/2006

My profile says it all. i am terminally ill and I am still looking for that someone to caress me and hold me. Is this asking to much of a man? I know if I found a man and he feel in love with me it would be an unjustice because I would soon leave him a widower. I am totally confused, because my heart wants so much to be loved and wanted, but reality kicks in and I know there is no man going ...


10 Comments, 458 Views, 23 Votes ,6.51 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
How long to grow up?   7/22/2005

Human beings can be very cruel. We've all done it. Laughed at or called out some 'witty' remark. To someone with a deformity or illness. That makes them not quite 'normal'. 'If' I had been born with the sence I have now. Maybe I would not have made so many people unhappy. But it has taken half a century of life to learn this mistake. Yesterday I was in a pub having lunch. At the same time ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
TheresaF 70 F
5  Articles
What's In Nick?   1/31/2007

Excuse me or is it just me who cringes in fear at guy who messages me with the nick. Somefinelickin? or Iam2pleas? Or worse. 8long4U? What's up with this? Am I the only one who wants to click them somewhere other than the Net? Please guys take a lesson in being a real man. Don't message a lady looking for possibly here soulmate with a Nick that would scare the Devil off. We after all are ...


3 Comments, 157 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
cel000 81 F
3  Articles
Love is Divine   7/10/2005

When you're 17 or 70, or in between, love is the supreme emotion that lifts you off the floor and lets you walk on air. When you're in love, everything is brighter and better. You feel like singing, dancing, whistling, skipping, kissing and touching. The sky is bluer, the dark clouds less threatening. Your smile is broader. You want to shout it from the housetops to tell the world the ...


1 Comments, 215 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
Buttercup999 68 F
3  Articles
A Woman's Advice on Men's Profiles   10/17/2005

Thank you for being willing to read this! So often I read a man's profile, and end up thinking "if only he hadn't written this or that sentence'" Am I too fussy? Certainly! But here's what I've been wanting to tell some of you men about your profiles...and maybe you can get more dates, who knows, by taking some of my ideas: <br> 1. Leave out ALL references to sex. Guys, ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 25 Votes ,5.90 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Tequila & Salt   6/18/2006

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.... <br> There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. <br> At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. <br> The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. <br> A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
paysonlady973 67 F
1  Article
A PHOTO PLEASE!   11/18/2004

I'm new to this site, but am astonished that so many men haven't uploaded a picture. I'm not saying looks are everything, but it sure is nice to have a face to go with the description. I get a lot of people looking at me, but then I have no idea what they look like, because they don't have a picture on their profile and will not respond without one. Borrow a digital camera if you have to. ...


2 Comments, 38 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Some are loners.   1/8/2006

For many of us, it seems we were meant to be alone. The question is why. <br> Put yourself out there is what we are told. So we try. It still doesn't seem to work. <br> I've had many blessings. Have a lot to offer. But that doesn't guarantee anything. <br> Life isn't easy and it never will be. But it could be easier if it was divided by 2. The realities of life ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Attracted to a friend   6/15/2006

I’m really attracted to a friend of mine and would like to get something going, but I’m afraid that if we have a relationship it might not work out and our friendship would be ruined forever What shall I do


2 Comments, 66 Views, 16 Votes ,5.77 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Past Relationships   6/23/2005

If your last Relationship(s) have been wonderful, keep them locked in your heart and keep them safe. Those memories belong to you and you alone. And they are your treasure. <br> If they were lousy or worse, throw them away, they are old trash. That bag needs never to be opened again.


1 Comments, 117 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Are You Throwing Away Your Chances   8/9/2005

If you are a sincere guy and looking for a real relationship, don't throw it away. Guys seem to think women like all the sex talk and maybe some do. But it should not be the first item on the lets get acquainted list. It's a quick turn off. You could at least give it a little time to see if that is what she wants. When you come on so strong in the first two sentences, it appears to be ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
How to Attract Her   6/2/2005

The age old question for men...."How do I get her attention?" Well, you May have already gotten her attention and don't even know it. On an everyday basis, I think we are observed more than we know. These are my ideas that will apply in most cases: 1. Be clean. No one likes to see dirty hands or clothes. If you smell like your favorite hunting dog, expect dogs to be attracted to you. ...


1 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Turn On My Light   11/11/2005

Maybe it would be a good idea if SFF started a new section on "Why Doesn't My Light Shine" Just a section where we could go in and ask for personal opinions of why we are bombing in here. Then others could tell us why they decline us or pass us by. Just constructive criticism. Not to be mean but to be honest and give us some pointers. We can't fix it if we don't know what is broke.


0 Comments, 116 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Whats your goal?   3/23/2006

Not to mention anyone name but I feel a little bit offended as I know I am one of the newer writers on SFF. My goal for writing in general has always been for one reason and one reason only. Do you ever read books, or article's in magazine's and after you finish it you say, now I know what to do. I am glad I read it as it has really helped me. Thats generally why people like to write, in ...


5 Comments, 106 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Oh my gosh!!!!   1/28/2006

Why is it when you ask a man to send another photo they always seem to have a nude photo handy? Now I am soooo not a prude. And I also actually take a good look at these pictures lol...but come on......Do these guys think that I can actually take them serious after they send me a nude ( at least so soon) ha ha Plus I am amazed at the number of men that have photo's of their penis'. Come on ...


2 Comments, 58 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
Goodsoul51 72 M
20  Articles
safety tips women should know & practice   12/8/2004

Don't Be A Crime Victim! I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it and pass it on to all your female friends, , <br> <br> <br> Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone, who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
tweetyNsylvester 70 C
7  Articles
When...   6/17/2006

When a loved one passes on and we are feeling blue...all one needs to do is to look up into the night sky...and when you see that one really bright and twinkling star...just think of it as that special loved one winking back at you saying that they are doing very well and are in good company......I (sylvester) have found that this usually works to help me to cheer up and realize that ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
RandyTeacher 68 M
17  Articles
Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention   11/9/2006

In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds to make a good first impression, so good writing skills can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website, but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult to get a response. So how do you make contact ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
harley67 56 M
12  Articles
    5/1/2007

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
dinty3 79 M
4  Articles
RE: Must be a of bad society   6/17/2006

The Gothic look, Punk look, Hippy look, Clean cut look, and on and on. She Bear is right, we are all individuals and as such react to society in different ways. A of working parents may rebel at the lack of attention he/she gets and dresses for shock value to get their attention. Most of the parents do not know how to react and give the hell for being the way they are and then the war is ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Stircrazy1965 50 M
8  Articles
Ladies did you know?   3/31/2006

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do. It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of. Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends. We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them. When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. You're asking your boyfriend to ...


2 Comments, 75 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
camphilllady 73 F
3  Articles
Making Friends (or More) Through the Internet   3/15/2006

After one and half years on three different internet "meeting" sites I've met some people in person, dated a few and talked to hundreds in chatrooms, IM and via email. It's brought me to a few conclusions:
1. Take each encounter as exactly that...an encounter. Some people will like you and some won't. Some will have needs you can't meet and some will not meet the needs you have. ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
dlw78216 69 F
6  Articles
life, 101   9/25/2005

Stay in touch with your family. But don't live in the same town. <br> Make sure your know how much you love them. Make sure they also know that you are not the bank, the daycare or the doormat. <br> Get in shape, take pride in the way you look but understand that you probably didn't look like christie brinkley when you were young and you certainly aren't going to ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Trolling Shallow Waters   7/6/2006

We ate the road Burned rubber
The years Where did they go Trolling shallow waters A thousand faces
The street below Yellowing under 2 AM lamp light Strollers strung out Would you know There’s a crack In my window
Was not To be imagined Echoes of hunger Tenement hell Byway
*the hero with a thousand faces: by ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
RE: "Think about it..."   11/19/2004

To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you. <br> For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically. I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious by ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
His Name was Fleming   2/18/2005

His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying death. ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
drummerdude 59 M
1  Article
Rudeness in not responding to ones add   2/3/2006

Have you ever noticed how many people write letters to each other here, and you never get a response? We all tend in this world to be rude in some form, fashion or style, wether we think we are being that way on purpose or not. The same goes in responding to ones add's here on Senior Friend Finder. I have noticed that if someone isn't interested in another person, instead of not taking a ...


2 Comments, 174 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
roimay2 71 M
2  Articles
What to Do?   12/24/2006

I have found some jokes and anecdotes which I would like to share in the Magazine. Trouble is they are from books and other written material. This copyright thing is a pain and SFF say "Original Material only". Clearly everything comes from somewhere and I cannot believe all the material I see is original. So please, Could someone give me advice 'what to do'?


1 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
bluemoongirl 70 F
1  Article
Pictures not needed   2/11/2007

Take some good advice and when on here don't go looking for the photo's first. Send a message, talk, chat, share your thought's and dreams, get to know the person on the other end first, a good book can never be judged by its cover. It's the person inside that counts. Never be that much of a fool where you can be deceived by good looks, a witty smile and fancy dress.Love is out there for ...


2 Comments, 146 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Younger Men Looking For Older Women   5/19/2007

I had never before imagined how many younger men are looking for older women. Still don't understand why? <br> <br> I have a pretty good idea why the younger women want older men but that is another story. <br> <br> This seems to be a new trend for the younger men. Or I have been asleep with Rip Van Winkle. <br> <br> I have asked ...


2 Comments, 269 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Your Dessert Personality   2/2/2005

If all of the desserts listed below were sitting in front of you, which would you choose? Pick your dessert, then look to see what psychiatrists think about you! <br> (Sorry you can only pick one) <br> Angel Food Cake Brownies Lemon Meringue White Cake with Chocolate Icing Strawberry Shortcake Chocolate on Chocolate Cake Ice Cream Carrot Cake ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
ElDorado57 68 M
2  Articles
sexual Etiquette for MEN.   7/18/2008

> > Intercourse Etiquette and Decency for MEN. > > > >BODILY HYGIENE. MOST Important! Not cleaning your ALL body parts she might want to touch, smell, and taste...means she WON'T! Mild Lotions, aftershave, and Manly scents are always added attractions. > >NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
bigblueeyes3996 75 F
2  Articles
Interested in someone but afraid to let them know.....   11/3/2006

Have you ever been interested in someone but afraid to tell them. I emailed a guy I met in Sff three years ago and told him I was interested in getting to know him. He told me he didn't think I would have anything to do with him. Tell that person, you will never know if you don't. They can't say anything but yes or no.


5 Comments, 163 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
seekjahmore 62 M
2  Articles
In this moment, what is most important?   9/19/2007

With the daily frustrations, busy lifestyles, desires of success, and the expectation to be and do everything, we sometimes forget what is most important at this moment.

Everyone has heard the sayings, "Live in the moment, " "Live as if today could be your last." You don't know when your last day will be. Or the last day of your spouse, , friend, mother or father.

When your is ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
pomeroy 69 F
4  Articles
Valentines Day alone, The Princessa Treatment for Women   2/8/2006

Valentines Day, Alone, Sounds a little dismal eh? Whether it is a temporary condition, brought on by your busy days, or you haven’t found the one, or the one isn’t near, it could really “bum you out, ” unless you remember that you are a Princessa. A true Princessa knows that she has alone time, and that precious time will be spent to revitalize, luxuriously, ...


4 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Really what are the chances?   11/8/2008

Being as I live in what is referred to as a remote location [a very small mountain community] I naturally don’t expect to find “miss wonderful” close by. I have met and been in contact with a few really nice ladies that I have met here on SFF but the problem is that they live across this nation or in another country. I mean not one is even from the same state for ...


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
tazmantenn 77 M
218  Articles
An Old Farmer's Advice:   6/17/2011

An Old Farmer's Advice:

* Your fences need to be -high, pig-tight and bull-strong. *Keep skunks and bankers at a Distance. *Life is simpler when you plow around the stump. *A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor. * Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled. * Meanness don't jes' happen overnight. * Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads. * ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
prettyBrit 64 F
1  Article
Checking in with yourself   1/1/2007

Hello! I'm up early, and in a musing mood - as I'm wont to be in the morning! This is the time of day I "check in" with me. I go outside and sit, first listening to the cachophony of nature (I live near the Potomac), and then turn my focus internally, and listen. My crew always show up - you know - the host of people who live in your head and have musch to say about everything. I ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
BarbieJW 76 F
2  Articles
In God We Trust!   11/10/2006

What do you think about writing ("IN GOD WE TRUST") On the backs of your envelopes?
I THINK THIS A GREAT IDEA. I WILL START WRITING THIS ON FRONT OF ALL MY ENVELOPES, TOO!
You may have heard in the news that a couple of Post Offices in Texas have been forced to take down small posters that say "IN GOD WE TRUST, " The law, they say, ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
Grow ing..   10/26/2006

The difference between growing up and growing old is that only growing old is mandatory


0 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
evadeer 59 F
1  Article
A Man and His Mother   7/6/2006

One of the single most important things I have learned from dating is to always find out as soon as possible how he feels about his mother. If he doesn't like her, if he expresses openly that he hates her, or even just complains about her a lot.....RUN! Men who don't like/love/get along reasonably well with their mother, are always a disaster. When this critical ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Bark Worse Than Bite   6/17/2006

Mama Cat took her kittens for a walk one day. Their pleasant stroll was interrupted when a big mean threatened them. Mama Cat went right up to him and began barking. The startled immediately ran off, tail between its legs. Then Mama Cat turned to her babies and said, "You see, --it pays to know a second language."


0 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
A Whale of a Tale   1/28/2005

A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. <br> The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small. <br> The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human; it was ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
Lollipop2005 79 F
1  Article
WHY IS IT THAT YOU MEN DON'T EVEN RESPOND?   12/31/2005

I am relatively new to Senior Friendfinders but find that although I have searched and answered say "Men searching Women" sections in different states and Canada and not even ONE reply. Has anyone else had this luck??? I don't know if these are old names and profiles they're using or still have not removed those that were fortunate enough to have found their "true love" or perhaps they ...


5 Comments, 378 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Want to Jump Out of Bed Everyday?   3/21/2005

Want Love? Stop Being A Dork! Grow Up! Romance novels, magazines, and movies are for money! Don't let their ideas screw up your life. Get a great life! I am 55 and still haven’t found my soul mate. I have great values, and a wonderful life, filled with intensity and adventure! Meeting members of the opposite sex is difficult to avoid. Most don't have lives ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
50TallandBuilt9 70 M
2  Articles
Being a Gentleman does mean being a Pushover   10/23/2009

A gentleman means respecting others and their opinions. It also means not being a bully. I do my best in both those regards..

However, being a gentleman does not mean they will take any chit or be bullied..

I recently ask a person here to please quit clogging up a post I had made, his response was smart-ass and with "go to hell" intentions . All the man had to say was OK, I am ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
dusty1808 69 M
5  Articles
Fitness program   5/20/2007

They say we should exercise and stay fit as long as we can !!



My sentiments exactly .. unfortunately.

Walking can add minutes to your life. This enables you at 85 years old to spend an additional 5 months in a nursing home at $5000 per month.

My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was 60. Now she's 97 years old and we don't know where the ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Do you ever wonder?   12/26/2005

We put our pictures and profiles in here but get passed up a lot. Do you ever wonder what the viewer sees or what crosses the viewers mind when they read the profile? Or even an email? <br> I have many times said just a few words to a guy and he zooms out of sight never to be seen again. Makes me wonder if I have horns that I can't see, or speak a language understood only by me. ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Choosing Friends On The Internet   8/27/2005

It seems to me that many people choose their net friends by location. But I wonder what the criteria is? <br> There are certainly so many more people on the East and West coast than anywhere else. What about the rest of us? <br> Are we judged by our location or is it just that California and Florida, and maybe Texas sound so much more intriguing. And also across the ocean ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
SasySheBear 64 F
4  Articles
Tired of Small Minds   8/23/2005

Here is a thought for those men out there who believe they have all the answers to the "big" ladies dilemmma. No one is accusing you of not taking notice of a beautiful, kind hearted, capable of returning more love than you can handle. However get your facts straight before writing an article about a topic you have no idea of what you know nothing about. Now that is not proper English I ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 27 Votes ,4.50 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
How to Cross a River   4/30/2005

One day, three men were hiking and unexpectedly came upon a large raging, violent river. They needed to get to the other side, but had no idea of how to do so. <br> The first man prayed to God, saying, "Please God, give me the strength to cross this river." Poof! God gave him big arms and strong legs, and he was able to swim across the river in about two hours, after almost ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Takes My Breath Away:   11/22/2004

Why is it that as a lady matures they seem to have the need to drown themselves in perfume? Kassr


6 Comments, 20 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Women?   2/24/2005

What’s Wrong With Women? <br> There are Women, and there are Ladies. Speaking from a woman’s point of view, I am more afraid of Women. Most women are pretty nice, at least before some man messes them up. They can really be a treacherous enemy. Or they can be the sweetest possible heart you can find anywhere. Especially if a man is in the picture. It is bad ...


5 Comments, 217 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Men?   2/12/2005

What’s Wrong With Men ? <br> Ok, so here we go with a birds eye view of the inner misgivings of a man. An entire room full of wonderful women. God Fearing, Smart, Pretty, Honest, Thoughtful, Intelligent, Caring, Faithful, Loving, Kind, Hard working, Dedicated, Inspiring, Friendly, Heart filled, Giving, and Willing women. All except one. That one is deceitful, ...


3 Comments, 147 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
Dargoon16 80 M
1  Article
Senior sex   11/20/2021

We all know sex should not stop when Social Security starts. WE also know it improves our quality of live. It is a fact men have erection problems. You can play with it kiss it suck it but still not ready for penetration. Sexual play and oral sex is a great thing but all women want to feel the penis in them. Men It makes his day to be able to give her that feeling. Over the counter are a wast of ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Arizonablossom 61 F
2  Articles
Nursing Homes Should be better   10/8/2005

My father is in a nursing home. When I go to visit him, I know that he doesn't like it their, but, I know he's getting the care that he need's their. I feel very sad when it's time to leave. I know he doesn't want me to leave, or say good-bye. I've told him that I've their could be anywhere in the world that I would want him to be, it would doing what he use to do. He was a ham radio ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Cough Syrup   1/21/2005

The owner of this drug store walks in to find a guy leaning heavily against a wall. <br> The owner asks the clerk: "What's with that guy over there by the wall?" <br> The clerk responds: "Well, he came in here this morning to get something for his cough. I couldn't find the cough syrup, so I gave him an entire bottle of laxative." <br> The owner, ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
WildGhostRider 57 M
6  Articles
The Truth Up Front?   12/7/2004

Is it better to be truthful right from the start, and risk never meeting anymore at all? Or to hold back the nasty little details that everyone on this planet has, just to be able to first reel someone into your web, and hope they will still be accepting of you after all is disclosed? The reality is we are all in these online ‘meet someone’ programs because we are all having ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
lil2shy 71 F
1  Article
In need of advice   5/24/2005

New to meeting people on internet. Have winked and been winked at. Have viewed profile and looks fine. Have e-mail address and ready to go...where? Where to start? How much is too much/too little? Would appreciate you input.


2 Comments, 269 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
cookieface 70 F
6  Articles
Senior FF Question!!!   11/13/2004

Is anyone else out there frustrated with the fact that after one's membership expires, one can't 'see' pictures and profiles---???? This is the ONLY service whereby this occurs (exception: FrienFinder --same company). <br> I MIGHT 'join' again, IF I COULD SEE the people who are posting profiles! Personally, I'm NOT going to put my money back into a membership, 'till I see the ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 74 Votes ,4.27 Score
LehighVGuy 61 M
1  Article
Instant messenger Scams   3/4/2006

While using the Instant Messenger, I have often been invited to chat by a variety of people who have this general profile: young woman, attractive, often a "missionary" living in Africa, and immediately wants to continue our chat on Yahoo Messenger. I have "strung" them along and a few ask for money to help them get back to the U.S. because she is Sooo in love with me and what a great time ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
cybersex   3/2/2006

SOME men, not all, are either really conceited to the height that women are sick of hearing about all their fame and fortune, and that they are looking for a nice lady to retire with, or they are into cybersex and exposing their body all over the world, thru a screen, yet, plus encouraging all the young ladies 18 and older to email them. Women, on the other hand, most of them, are looking ...


3 Comments, 128 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
shopgirl12 55 F
1  Article
Why can't you reply?   7/16/2007

Why is it that people do not or cannot be bothered to reply to either winks or messages?. I get so disheartened and wonder why i am bothering when no one cares enough to respond to my advances. Even if they only said 'thanks but no thanks', it's at least something and you know not to bother then again. I'm not asking anyone to marry me, just to maybe talk and get to know them, to see if ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 65 Votes ,4.16 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Shattered Moments   2/17/2006

This has been passed through and around for along time and yet we are still all wondering just what is the reason that couple's, after years of marriage, feel its time to call it quits. Why don't they want to stay with the one that they have romanced, fell in love with raised a family with, and grew together over and over, throughout the years. Had many of argruements, worked together on ...


4 Comments, 105 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Create a New Life byGetting Rid of Physical Clutter and Emotional Baggage   10/17/2006

Getting rid of clutter is essential to good feng shui! Physical clutter parallels with emotinal baggage. It you have to struggle to walk through your home, you will also struggle through other aspects of your life. I put together a tangible way to get rid of the clutter and the baggage at the same time. The first step is to meditate on an area in my life that needs improvement. For ...


5 Comments, 2069 Views, 219 Votes ,4.10 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Stop This Conspiracy!!!   6/18/2006

We Must Stop This Immediately! <br> Have you noticed that stairs are getting steeper, groceries are heavier and everything is farther away? Yesterday I walked to the corner and I was dumbfounded to discover how long our street had become! <br> And, you know, people are less considerate now, especially the young ones. They speak in whispers all the time! If you ask ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
tazmantenn 77 M
218  Articles
1st graders   8/2/2008

A 1st grade school teacher had twenty-six students in her class. She presented each in her classroom the 1st half of a well-known proverb and asked them to come up with the remainder of the proverb. It's hard to believe these were actually done by first graders. Their insight may surprise you. While reading, keep in mind that these are first-graders, 6-year-olds, because the last one is a ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lovethecoast
1  Article
telephone customer service   6/9/2008

today i had a GOOD experience calling one of my credit card companies.

the first person i spoke with had a very heavy accent ... as i've gotten older, i have a problem understanding accents on the telephone. i always have to say, "i beg your pardon?" several times during the conversation and end up frustrated.

this time, i said, "i'm sorry, but i have a difficult time ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
tipbui 55 F
1  Article
Has anyone found a real partner via SFF?   5/19/2007

Dear friends,

As a novice to SFF, and being a bit sceptical about the whole thing, I would like to know if anyone out there has found a real "live" long-term partner/ friends via SFF.
Thanks for sharing your stories with me.


1 Comments, 120 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
One can only hope   1/15/2007

With todays healthcare deterioating so sweiftly is it any wonder why there are more old age homes being built faster than ever before.. I have been giving a year to live 22 years ago. I had 4 daughters still at home and I was so scared but had to face it all by myself. Todsay I have been suffering with various health problems for the past 4 years and getting worse and worse with not one Dr. ...


5 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
kissing connected to........   3/15/2006

kissing is known to be connected to various parts of your body. Thats why it is good habit to KISS alot in your foreplay. Both lips are connected to either the woman;s or men's major sexual parts. While kissing, you are sending messages to those parts that are very essential to love making.Without this type of method, to start with, it can make it just a little less exciting and could make ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Why God Made Moms   2/22/2005

(Answers given by elementary school age to the following questions.) <br> Why did God make mothers? 1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is. 2. Mostly to clean the house. 3. To help us out of there when we were getting born. <br> How did God make mothers? 1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us. 2. Magic plus super powers and a ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Lessons From a Hurricane   1/21/2005

I dedicate this to all those dear souls who endured 4 hurricanes in Florida last summer! <br> * Coffee and frozen pizzas can be made on a BBQ grill. * No matter how many times you flick the switch, lights don't work without electricity. * can survive 4 days or longer without a video game controller in their hand. * Cats are even more irritating without power. * He ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Not Too Bright   6/19/2006

There was a not-too-bright fellow who decided to become a counterfeiter. He hired an engraver of equal intelligence, and they proceeded to produce some counterfeit money. By some mix-up, the money turned out to be $11 bills. <br> Not wanting to waste the effort, the crook decided to head to an isolated small town where he figured he could cash the bogus bills. He went into a ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
can one know   12/19/2005

I have never been involved with anyone on here before or had a long distance relationship. Do we just play the role and hope for the best or do we insist on meeting somewhere along the way.Take two people of the opposite sex that feels the chemistry just by communicating with each other, and, yes, possibly seeing pictures of the other, where does one draw the line and say we need to meet. ...


8 Comments, 310 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
Pay Back   3/21/2005

A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband. Suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen. <br> "Careful. CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh good grief! You're cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn them! TURN THEM NOW! We need more butter. Oh Good Grief ! WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They're going to STICK! Careful CAREFUL! I said be ...


2 Comments, 167 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
cookieface 70 F
6  Articles
LAME   2/12/2005

Does anyone out 'there' think this is the '...friendfinder' are the LAMEST personal services out there? First, they don't let you actually 'see' the profiles and PICTURES (browse) before joining...hmmmmmm THAT should tell one something! Then, IF one does get suckered into joining, one gets 'matches' that are nothing like the criteria listed. Thirdly, many of the contact members ...


3 Comments, 160 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
ddonaldd 73 M
9  Articles
Grandparent Rights   11/18/2004

The rights of grandparents are an emerging area of the law. A few years ago the Texas supreme court said the grandparents had no rights if the parents agreed they should have none. The legislature changed this to allow for grandparents who had a significant influence or relationship in the gchildren's lives. I'm sure it has been going back and forth in most states. <br> ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
RE: "Now that the holidays are here, Remember to be kind.   11/13/2004

My goodness you sure make the holiday season sound like some sort of terrible sentence imposed upon singles. And your assumptions as to what and how men deal with the holiday season seems critical if not damn insulting to say the least. Now I haven’t a clue as to where you have been located while observing nor what kind of men you have chosen to observe but I am going to truly enjoy ...


3 Comments, 9 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
How about listing the “Downside”?   11/4/2004

All of the “Friend Finders” and “Dating” sites require profiles to be filled out. I have been wondering what would happen if within the required information of a profile one would have a section devoted to their “downside”? List your faults, shortcomings, and peeves! Examples: 1.When I cook it is an automatic test of the homes smoke detectors. ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
C5er 76 M
1  Article
Responding to a 'first date article' Found in 'Advice on emails'. GO figure.   11/1/2004

Note: Original article text is/are preceded with an dash (-). <br> - (First Dates Article) - I can't say how many times I receive a message from a man who wants to chat, meet, - move in with me and/or marry me without so much as having received an email back - from me! <br> Gee, What an ego trip YOUR on! <br> Slow down, relax, take a deep breath. <br> ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
members have problems too   3/19/2006

it doesn't matter who we are, where we are, what our personality is like, if we have 6 toes or 10. What counts is that we all do realize that we are human beings. Being a human being, all of us, doesn't matter what walk of life we even come from, we had or have some kind of a problem some might only admit that they HAD a problem at one time or another, but when we really search our soul, we ...


3 Comments, 65 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Sexuality   3/15/2006

Is sexuality the same as senuality? How do we explain the difference?


1 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
To Active for My Age?   11/14/2004

Surfing, water skiing, moderate free style rock climbing, 4 x 4 off road driving, driving a snowmobile, camping, fishing and extreme home remodeling are some of the activities I enjoy frequently. Until recently I never gave a thought about my hobbies and activities as being unusual for a man of 57 years old. A few weeks ago I was having dinner with a couple that have been friends for ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
YourBondagedoc 57 M
5  Articles
Oh My Gosh!!! Pictures   11/6/2004

We are all adults and mature when we communicate with each other, it isn't until one who wants to see one or the other and they decide to send a photo... What ever you said in an email, the first impression here can sink your relationship when you send your future partner and Nude or Partial Nude photo...In my opinion.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
Cecilia1948 71 F
1  Article
Fraud Ads From West Africa   1/21/2010

I was a victim of fraud by someone in Nigeria posing as an American with a ligitmate name and address of someone in the US. This person tends to have no living relatives except for one who lives with them. He is usually self employed. In my instance, after a month of emailing he said he had to go to West Africa and would visit me on the way back. He emailed me from Nigeria saying he had been ...


2 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
TreesandME 75 F
15  Articles
Social Tips for Rednecks ......   7/3/2005

and just plain good advice <br> In General... <br> 1. Never take a beer to an interview. 2. Always identify people in your yard before shooting them. 3. It's considered tacky to take a cooler to church. 4. If you have to vacuum the bed, it's time to change the sheets. 5. Even if you're certain that you're included in the will, it's rude to drive a U-haul to ...


2 Comments, 136 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
sunshineokie 78 F
7  Articles
"Your Last Words?"......   5/19/2007

STRAWS FROM MY BALE: <br> Theoretically speaking: You have five minutes left to live on this earth; WHAT WOULD YOUR LAST WORDS BE? Seriously, looking forward to comments. Sunshineokie


2 Comments, 103 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
The KEY TO HAPPINESS!   4/17/2005

YOU Need to Know There are so many bad ways to guide your life. If you buy into superficial beauty, and poor values, life will be questionable. Age can bring you either wisdom and satisfaction, or crush your life. The path you choose to follow can be strongly affected by others. <br> It’s your life. Want a good one? <br> ...


0 Comments, 178 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW!   3/7/2005

TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW! Sex is not the #1 value value in your life, even though it is very important! If you let it interfere with your judgment, you are in for a really bad time. This list is important in your life! So here it is. (Don’t be a stupid s***, not knowing this could really mess up your life!) You must judge this without asking. IF NOT PATIENT ENOUGH, ...


1 Comments, 224 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What We Are Looking For   4/23/2005

Chat rooms are suppose to be Fun. It's Fantasy Land. Our Walt Disney World.....right at our finger tips. Where else can we meet and talk to folks all over the globe. This is where we go when we are all alone and hoping to find a friend. We can be anyone we want to be. Silly if we want to and no one to say we are just a bit off center. A place of solace and enjoyment when we are down ...


3 Comments, 266 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Breaking the Ice   11/11/2004

I have noticed that many times the question of how to start a conversation with someone you have just met on-line has been asked. I have been asked this same question in so many emails and on IM that I thought I would humbly and openly offer a sample of how I personally approach this matter of breaking the ice. This is a copy of my 2nd contact with a lovely lady in China. Let’s see ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
Our women folk   2/12/2007

Our women folk have suggested certain attitudes a wife may take with the husband who is recovering. Perhaps they created the impression that he is to be wrapped in cotton wool and placed on a pedestal. Successful readjustment means the opposite. All members of the family should meet upon the common ground of tolerance, understanding and love. This involves a process of deflation. the ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Dominant or submissive: Has age changed your tendencies?   12/26/2004

I have a question that is directed more towards the ladies but comments from the gentlemen are also welcomed. Question: Do you think that with age you have become more Dominant or submissive with regards to your attitude and role within a personal relationship with a present or future partner? <br> Please share your reasons that would incline you to answer either way. Kassr


1 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
makarsa 65 M
10  Articles
Restlessness and discontent   11/27/2005

Generally I give preferance to unconvetional, new ideas, excitement and changes but become easily boared and also move on prematurely put the things unfinished.Nevertheless, can you suggest me how can I get rid from the deep inner restlessness and all discontents?


3 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
MIRTUSZ2 49 F
1  Article
Why dont men take serious the the friendships?   11/15/2006

Why dont men take serious the friendships? I have encountered many examples in my SFF life where men consider my friendship only as a game or passing their time. They like saying "You are my friend" or "We could have a nice friendship going on here" but in my experiences there is nothing behind the words. They have been playing games and gave very much pain and tears with this to me. In ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 70 Votes ,3.04 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
A Wink or A Note   5/8/2005

A Wink is fun but even a returned winked is only that. Just a Wink. Some of us cannot respond. Wouldn't a little note be better? You know something like "Hi, I think you're cute" or "Love Your Smile" etc. It really wouldn't take much but might get a response. <br> Sometimes when we get a wink, if we wink back we are hoping for some kind of response. The wink doesn't seem to lead ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
DevotedAdmirer 66 M
1  Article
Erotic Stories ?   11/13/2009

What is the level of interest on Senior Friendfinder in erotic writing? Is it frowned upon to post such writing here? If not, what category?

I have a 40+ chapter erotic novel that I've shared on Adultfriendfinder for quite a while and on Literotica recently. It has received "rave reviews, " but it's pretty intense and not for everyone.

Even though it explores very powerful ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
When the Honeymoon is Over   6/23/2005

It's an odd situation that affects almost all of us. What do we do to spice things up when the "Honeymoon is over"? Some people say a vacation, others say a bedroom wardrobe and others say counseling. Any ideas on what the best fix is?


1 Comments, 127 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
depends on attitude   3/17/2006

Someone mentioned awhile ago that seniorcentre's are for people that are OLD and ready to die. That person must of been in the wrong place altogether. I was on the Board of Director's and volunteered for other's and their was next to none that I ever seen that looked like they were ready to die. Actually, I had a hard time to keep up with many that was older than myself, at times. There is ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Kassr
12  Articles
Think it... but don’t say it!   11/17/2004

SFF in all its great wisdom used the power of censorship and denied my last attempt to post a question with regards to this subject. Maybe a toned down version of the question will make it past the all-powerful censors this time. <br> Why are the topics with regards to sex, sensuality and sexuality skirted around and avoided here on SFF? <br> My goodness we are all ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Still57AndFine 71 M
15  Articles
Response to "Why senior men seek younger women"   10/25/2004

In your article if appears as another reader stated you are trying to justify something..what it is, I'm not sure. I can think of many reasons why an older man might seek out a younger woman and several of the reasons would have nothing to do with sex. I am left with the impression, in your opinion, sex is of the highest priority. I know of older men that have had relationship's with ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
getting this club going is easy...   3/4/2005

Just because you are over 50, don't give up on people as friends. I joined to meet up with someone I couldn't write to without a membership, and wandered the chatlines to see who was on, and discovered nobody wants to talk unless its to the right person. Maybe its time people became more open and friendly and chatted a bit freely. There seems to be a snotty attitude of priggy ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 50 Votes ,2.69 Score
SasySheBear 64 F
4  Articles
Not So Confused   8/23/2005

Today I mananged to read every article placed here. I will say that I have the best laugh Ive had in months. Many articles were great and deserved to be here. The rest was mind boggling. Why so many of the same people wrote articles is beyond me. Why? Because all the articles written by the same people were complaints. Not once did they have a kind word to say, but only complained about the ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
TreesandME 75 F
15  Articles
Relationship Doom...   8/11/2005

As a relationship gets deeper, many issues can surface, any one of which can spell doom. If you or your partner have any of the issues listed below, don't ruin your relationship by ignoring them. Be sure to talk about them openly and honestly. <br> Decision Making "I find myself paralyzed anytime I need to make an important decision." Living On the Sidelines "I'm not taking ...


0 Comments, 262 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
aqualityone 84 M
1  Article
your profile, its bad?   11/13/2009

I am amazed when I read the profiles, (women) as thats all I read. It has become obvious to me, that you do not look at what you write, as your target, will. Most of them limit your responses, by at least 30% or more. You give out to much information, and to little at the same time. I look at a profile, and go on by because, (not really) your to heavy, to thin, do not smoke, prefer not to say, ...


4 Comments, 121 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
sandradddddddddd 66 F
4  Articles
do'es and don'ts   9/1/2010

Don't worry Don't hurry. Do your best and leave the rest.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
fireball59 66 M
7  Articles
Useful information for new registrants...   3/30/2008

Useful information for new registrants(like me...)!

Hello all(New Sff...)friends, and all. A little help if you have mail problems...

If you are, same as me, a "new registrant" and you have problems for reading messages sent to you by anyone, who is not a "Silver or Gold member" or who have not "bought Standard Contact Feature", the reason is here (only "money" indeed...!): ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
buddie 82 F
5  Articles
woodworking   2/16/2007

I've been puttering with a jigsaw, sanders, etc for awhile and recently acquired my 1st scroll saw. Does anyone know a web site where I can get free patterns for small woodworking projects? Would like to do more. Thanks.


3 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
What do you think of men wearing ladies clothing at home?   3/30/2008

Topics today are really the conversational bite for a good coffee party. There are so many different things people discuss but the one that has caught my attention lately is about men earing their wives clothing. Under garments at thayt.. Sure most say its alright if agreed by your spouse but what kick do they get by all this.


4 Comments, 112 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
SasySheBear 64 F
4  Articles
Must be of Bad Society   12/27/2004

To ClickMouseHere------guess Im one of those of bad society or something. But hate to burst anyones bubble here but I had a father and a mother and was brought up in a fairly strict home. I may have rebelled but hey dont we all at some stage? I have a pierced tongue, pierced nose and several tattooes. Does that make me a degenerate. I dont think so people. We all choose how we lead our lives and ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Pysche Shielding and Self Defense.   12/28/2006

The best way to protect outselves from negative and toxic energy is set healthy emotional boundaries The best psychic shielding - from people who are harmful to us, unintentionally or otherwise - is the ability to say "no" and mean it. Define what is acceptable and unacceptable. Draw those boundary lines and stick to them. <br> The best form of psychic self-defense is to ...


3 Comments, 97 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
RedheadedAngel4u 63 F
14  Articles
Now that the holidays are here, remember to be kind.   11/15/2004

The holidays are now upon us and we know how lonely and depressing this can be if one is alone. Every where you go you are reminded. Happy couples, happy little families, laughing, enjoying the holidays. It would be simpler if single persons had a cave they could take up hibernation in until it all passed. However, it does pass. Always, it passes, year after year, after year. Now just ...


5 Comments, 18 Views, 15 Votes ,1.75 Score
kag0113 72 F
56  Articles
The Most   9/8/2005

The most destructive habit.......Worry The greatest Joy.................Giving The greatest loss............Loss of self-respect <br> The most satisfying work......Helping others The ugliest personality trait...Selfishness The most endangered species...Dedicated leaders <br> Our greatest natural resource...Our youth The greatest "shot in the arm"..Encouragement The ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Advice. Friends Have Great Lives? Who guided them?   2/10/2005

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE Paraphrased R. Frost <br> DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples. The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Hooking the Pisces into Matrimony   12/27/2006

Pisces can be like gently ocean waves cleansing the soul after being mangled by an agressive Aries, Nitpicked by a Virgo or manipulated by a Scorpio. The Pisces will bring you homemade chicken soup when you are feeling blue. The Pisces is a good listener, compassionate and caring. The interesting thing about the Pisces male is that they are not sexually forward yet they get ...


4 Comments, 207 Views, 17 Votes ,1.71 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
Response to "Matronly doesn't cut it" .........this isn't Victoria's Secret   5/24/2005

Do you see pictures here of men showing a little leg, waist or cleavage? Do men here look like Chippendale models? No on both counts. Women who post a photo showing self-esteem, good taste and restraint should be praised, not criticized. Good for the women in showing that this is the year 2004, not the era of the woman who had to rely only on the physical being to have value on this ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 90 Votes ,1.64 Score
photos4Utoo 66 M
1  Article
Let your beauty shine!   8/23/2005

Add photos to your listing that show who you are. <br> Ideas on finding a photographer to work with: <br> Look for photographers on SFF. <br> Offer to model for photo classes at a local college. <br> If you like photography take a class and get to know others with this interest. <br> Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes ,1.63 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
Advice on Advice   12/24/2004

I have recently observed that many people have been offering me advice lately as my court daye arrives and even before the filing....well, even during the marriage. 'Advice' can be very noiusy, congested, and frankly, overwhelming to the point of added stress. What I have learned through all this is to be polite and receptive, but to trust my own intuition and feelings through personal ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
green shorts anybody   3/19/2006

Happy St. Patrick's Day to all of you. Before going on your date today, remember to put on green underwear.., Have a good day!


8 Comments, 102 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
Sex   1/11/2005

Sex is more fun than baseball and I've played both. <br> <br> I'm just not interested in sex anymore. Perhaps this comes from relatioship disappointments or just the cultural emphasis on it. <br> <br> I'm far more interested in what toppings a lady has on her coney. Ok, there's a sexual image there if you hold the onions. <br> <br> There ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
Still57AndFine 71 M
15  Articles
Response to;- Choose your audience carefully.   6/18/2006

I'm not sure if there was a typing error in this article or not. The last two lines of this article doesn't make a lot of sense. According to the article you can't change people. Then how or why would you want to change people around you? People around you are still people are they not? Maybe the article should re-titled "Selecting people to put around you so you can change them"?


0 Comments, 40 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
cookieface 70 F
6  Articles
WHAT LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR!   7/23/2005

Naturally, I can only speak for myself; however, here goes: First, I joined this service to find someone who ACTUALLY READS my profile...which states exactly the type of person I seek! If I state that I won't answer winks or contacts without pictures, why on earth do I keep getting 'winks' with NO picture? In addition, (mind you, this is not meant to be disrespectful); however, it would ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 105 Votes ,1.17 Score
FireDean1981 37 M
1  Article
Points   12/19/2017

Has anyone else noticed that when you do things for points on the site they are not always added, i uploaded a photo the other day and still haven't recieved the 100 points for it. i e-mailed the help desk and they said they were experiacing some problem, has anyone else had issues?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Rentier1 73 M
2  Articles
Random thoughts on first dates   10/1/2015

- Pick a neutral location that has other people nearby. Places such as Starbucks are good since the seating design usually allows for some privacy.

- Have a prepared excuse to leave if the meeting is obviously taking a dive.

- Gentlemen. Avoid insisting on Dutch first time around. In fact, refuse it if she offers. I know we are all supposed to be equal and all in this day ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
ACTS STRANGE?   6/24/2005

ACTS STRANGE? Is your very moody, doesn’t laugh, or doesn't like to be touched? Do they sit and stare blankly? Be very concerned, you are about to be tested. If they are ill at ease amongst almost all but you, be very suspicious! Lack of trust is a sure sign that something is very wrong in their lives. Good parents deal with a threat to their 's life. Bad parents look ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Cautious, careful people   12/27/2006

Cautious, careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and social standing, never can bring about a reform. Those who are really in earnest must be willing to be anything or nothing in the world's estimation.
Susan B. Anthony (1820-1906) on the campaign for divorce law reform, 1860[/...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 15 Votes ,0.83 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
If Your Love Connections Has a Haz Mat Endorsement   12/28/2006

If your love connections is a team Drivier With Benefits. Woo Hoo! Things you need to know about Hazardous Materials
1 you are not allowed to smoke around? Oxidizers, Flammables and Explosives
2 The driver is responsible for finding out what permits or special routes will be need to haul hazardous materials?

3 If an "x" or "rq" is ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Meditiaton to Visualize Prosperous Financial Reality   12/4/2005

Write down everything that opposes you in getting the prosperous financial reality that you desire could be;fear, lack of experience, lack of contacts, ad infitum). Also take one piece of parchment paper and write the same things on it. <br> Every night for three nights keep writing everything that you can think of , burn the papers with the writings on it while visualizing ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,0.68 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Lost Something Horary Astrology Can Help   12/28/2006

Horary Astrology comes to the rescue. Cast A Chart - Check out the second House Following the Traditonal Ruler of the Sign <br> Fire Middle height or level, near a wall, by a fire or heat source, near something that is iron or steel Water In water, lowlands, near moisture. Fountains, bathrooms, oil tanks, liquid containers Air Upper level, above ground, upstairs, near ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,0.50 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Selfishness   12/27/2006

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde
God Grant Me the Wisdone to accept the things I cannont change (OTHER PEOPLE) COURAGE TO change the things I can (MY REACTION TO OTHER PEOPLE) AND wisdom to know the difference (DITTO!!!!!)
short version of the Serenity Prayer FiretrUCK It!!!!


1 Comments, 38 Views, 12 Votes ,0.50 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
More On Horary Astrology and Finding Lost Objects   12/28/2006

Most Querents will require more detailed information, and for this we look at the zodiac signs and houses: Aries Sandy or hilly grounds. Lonely places. Engineering works, where heat and iron are used. The roof and roof space. Blood. Taurus Cellars, low rooms, feeding grounds, banks, safe deposit boxes, rooms, farm buildings, low buildings, storerooms. Gemini Studies, ...


1 Comments, 37 Views, 13 Votes ,0.46 Score
jrandle101 78 M
2  Articles
why not put a picture online for men to see?   7/31/2006

I get a lot of emails however the great majority of them do not have a photo online. I believe it is necessary to see what the other party looks like. Looks is not everything but I believe there has to be an attraction and chemistry to follow up on talking to them or meeting them. I definitely would not travel a very long distance to meet someone sight unseen. What is everyone else opinion ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 211 Votes ,0.36 Score
Karmagirl 54 F
1  Article
RE: Plus Size Women   1/2/2005

GIRL!! You have apparently been meeting the FEW MEN out there who do NOT appreciate a REAL WOMAN. I am a BBW and believe me I have YET to meet a man who did not appreciate me for ME. Men want a woman they can HOLD ON TO...not try to PROP UP from STARVATION. Its all about YOU and ATTITUDE towards YOURSELF. Walk into a room like you OWN IT girl. Keep your head high, dress appropriately, men ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 75 Votes ,0.34 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Alone Versus Loneliness   12/27/2006

It is important to be okay alone because another person will not feel the void if you are not okay within yourself. Two people who are happy within themselves will be happy with another.


1 Comments, 32 Views, 13 Votes ,0.29 Score
Still57AndFine 71 M
15  Articles
Response to:- My mind deceives questions.   6/18/2006

Not being a man I'm sure you are not aware of how many women clam up or lie when asked questions by men. Some men have learned to clam up because many women have taken what was said to them and thrown in back in their face. I've been asked questions by women and I gave honest answers. The answers were not offesnive nor were they destructive or an admittion about any wrong doing. Some women ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 10 Votes ,0.20 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Chakra Balancing and Cleansing the Aura   12/27/2006

Root Chakra Red Naval Chakra Orange COLOR orange]SolarPlex Chakra Yellow Heart Chakra - Green Throat Chakra Third Eye Chakra - Blue Crown Chakra Silver
Chakra are whirls of energy within the Aura- When they are block - ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 17 Votes ,0.16 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
HIGH ACHIEVER   12/27/2006

"Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds." Orison Swett Marden

HIGH ACHIEVER...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 17 Votes ,0.16 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Principles Before Personalities   12/28/2006

"Principles before personality" is the foundation for proper action and helps to discern the correct path to take. <br> Do we stand on principle when challenged with a negative interaction or do we go for the jugular, mudsling and character assassinate disagreeable personalities. <br> Do we live life from principle or do we make excuses when we do something ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 12 Votes ,0.15 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Always forgive your enemies   12/27/2006

Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much. Oscar Wilde
Treat them with the same love - tolerance and patience that you would cheerfully grant a sick friend.


1 Comments, 53 Views, 14 Votes ,0.10 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
reputation   12/27/2006

There are two modes of establishing our reputation: to be praised by honest en, and to be abused by rogues. It is best, however, to secure the former, because it will invariably be accompanied by the latter. Charles Caleb Colton
A Wise Man or a Wise Womyn does conform to the dictates of a clueless clique.
Good name in man and woman, dear my lord, Is the immediate ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 14 Votes ,0.10 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Etiquettes   12/27/2006

Politeness, n. The most acceptable hypocrisy. Ambrose Bierce (1842 - 1914), The Devil's Dictionary
Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot. Clarence Thomas (1948 - )
Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength. Eric Hoffer (1902 - 1983)
We don't bother much about dress and manners in England, because as a nation we don't dress ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 14 Votes ,0.10 Score
JMSC 68 C
1  Article
Getting Started   5/8/2008

We did not know how to get started in the swinging life still. Then we saw the web site for the Mountain Retreat we called and got directions to the retreat. There was no presser at all and the people we met were great, we had a great time in the hot tub and pool. We did have are first foursome and we have been back to the retreat several times. If you are into swinging or would like to ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 21 Votes
fireball59 66 M
7  Articles
Animals Histories...   12/4/2007

The lion is a big cowardly and stupid. Most of the time, the lion does not hunt himself. He's got things to do. He sleeps. He leaves his female care to hunt in his place, or it hide behind it so as not to take a blow by a gnou in its noble royal balls.

Drawer bottom.

P.Desproges.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
warmsoftlips69 75 M
1  Article
I've been used by two wives financialy &mentaly   4/6/2007

I used to respect and love women but I've been used so badly I don't think there are any honest good women that exist any more. I dont want to go it alone but I just may do that. because of my looks and build there are some gay guys at the gym I just joined trying to convince me to "go the other way". They tell me to visit them and just let it happen. I want and need a woman but I've been ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 44 Votes
david20051957 66 M
4  Articles
My return trip to Quebec and Ontario,Canada   3/1/2007

Hello all you beautiful Canadians. Last year, I visit Quebec and Ontario.I love Montreal and Toronto and I have decided to go back in 2008. Where are good places to stay please.


2 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
david20051957 66 M
4  Articles
I am visiting Washington DC,need advice   2/21/2007

Hello my beautiful friends, I am planning to travel to Washington DC from Christchurch, New Zealand. I need advice about DC can you help me please. All I need is you to answer questions, I am going to ask in the future thank you. David


1 Comments, 32 Views, 0 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Excellence Versus Perfection   12/27/2006

Strive for excellence, not perfection. H. Jackson Brown Jr., O Magazine, December 2003
It is wise to not beat ourselves up nor allow others to beat us up because we are not perfect. Progress leads to Excellence but there is always room for improvement until we become deities which is not going to happen on this earthwalk.


1 Comments, 40 Views, 15 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Written Laws verus Unwritten Customs   12/27/2006

No written law has ever been more binding than unwritten custom supported by popular opinion.
Carrie Chapman Catt (1859-1947) Speech at the Senate hearing on woman's suffrage, February 13, 1900

Not following the Crowd can be very good...


4 Comments, 130 Views, 24 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Healing Tears   12/27/2006

Most Air Signs - Gemini - Libra - Aquarius are not comfortable with emotions. . Sorrow is the Lover's Emotional State for expressing sadness. The Loss of a Dream is often just a doorway to someplace else. Nevertheless, with the flow of tears comes purification and regeneration. Loss of life's Vitality equals depression when a person closes up to ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 16 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
i BEG TO DIFFER   12/27/2006

Algernon Black Why not let people differ about their answers to the great mysteries of the Universe? Let each seek one's own way to the highest, to one's own sense of supreme loyalty in life, one's ideal of life. Let each philosophy, each world-view bring forth its truth and beauty to a larger perspective, that people may grow in vision, stature and dedication.
The religions ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 15 Votes
starwomyn 70 F
6  Articles
The First Chakra - The Root of is all!!!!!   12/24/2006

The First Chakra has the major energy field found by the base of the spine. There are also whirls of energy that can be in the legs and feet. Issues with the First Chakra are Tribal Roots, Group Safety, and security. Sypmtoms of First Chakra Inbalance is Lower back pain, depression, and the immune system. The Root Chakra can be strengthened by writing about the Root issues to find ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 28 Votes
RockNRideBC 67 M
9  Articles
Are Juif Racist ?   12/8/2006

Here in Quebec, in Outremont, we do have Juif school and We are from Quebec and catholic, and we can't go to their school, Who is Racist ?
Juif can go to our College because it's free, but we are from Quebec and not Juif and we can't go to their school... Who is Racist ?
Rock


0 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes
david20051957 66 M
4  Articles
Recipe for banannas   12/1/2006

All you beautiful chefs out there in cyberville cafe.I have 6 bananas nearly ripe what can I bake or cook from them. You good words are most welcome.Just keep this in mind I am a single male, hope that helps you. Thanks


2 Comments, 60 Views, 0 Votes
RockNRideBC 67 M
9  Articles
Spy = One of my Ex...   10/20/2006

How would you feel if your girldfriend after six months without giving some news, call you and give shit because I'm on some website and not giving to her all my attention ?
Contect, She's a teacher for primary level, grade 5... She was on some correcting exam for the student in a private school... And...
She look at all the textes I wrote, and told me then I was acting ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 0 Votes
TUX4 93 M
8  Articles
Something New Under The Sun??   4/12/2006

Has our game evolved from who can post the most articles/answers to who can use the most bandwidth with the largest colored fonts?


1 Comments, 125 Views, 24 Votes
TUX4 93 M
8  Articles
Don't Miss It!!   4/12/2006

On Wednesday at two minutes and three seconds after 1am the time and date will be 01-02-03- 04-05-06.
This won't happen again until 3006.
Any gal want to join me at Doc's for tacos, beer and levity to watch this once in a lifetime event roll in? If so, just show up around 6pm and ask for Bill's table.


1 Comments, 71 Views, 25 Votes
TUX4 93 M
8  Articles
Just for today   3/29/2006

Beware the ides of March!!


4 Comments, 119 Views, 27 Votes