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Tips For Success 6/23/2004
Having been an SFF member for over a year now I feel compelled
to offer some tips to make interesting and enjoyable connections.
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1. Recognize right on that the chance that you'll meet
your soulmate on the internet equates to less than the chance
that you'll be struck by lightning (do the math), but
that shouldn't stop you from looking. It's like
the story about the little ...
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Play Always 6/15/2004
Let the of God rule in your heart.
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Sometimes she jumps into the deep end of the ocean, splashing
and flailing and grinning.
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Sometimes she walks slowly into waves, testing the current
with her toes.
Sometimes she stands afar off. Very timid. Scanning the
horizon. Waiting to be invited to play.
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But always play.
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Blow bubbles. ...
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Do your homework 6/9/2004
While only with SFF for less than a month I already see a big
problem. Many times "cupid" will come up with
a 100% 5 Star match but when I view that person's profile
I find it's based on about 85% of "Prefer Not To
Say". To everyone out there I ask that you put down
an answer to as many questions as you can. Your don't
have to do the entire TOPICS category although that would
really ...
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RE: Plus Size Women 5/24/2004
GIRL!! You have apparently been meeting the FEW MEN out
there who do NOT appreciate a REAL WOMAN. I am a BBW and believe
me I have YET to meet a man who did not appreciate me for ME.
Men want a woman they can HOLD ON TO...not try to PROP UP from
STARVATION. Its all about YOU and ATTITUDE towards YOURSELF.
Walk into a room like you OWN IT girl. Keep your head high,
dress appropriately, men ...
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75 Votes
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COMMENTS OR CHEWING OUT? LOL 5/23/2004
I have found so many of the articles and/or questions on
here hilarious. People are upset with other members about
where something is scheduled or something and the person
that was upset about this was MARRIED! Why should she even
care about a meeting of supposedly singles trying to meet
the same? and being the organizer to boot! LOL and older
women upset with younger women and vice ...
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response to "Odyssey forever" 5/20/2004
Those men who are window shopping here won't show you
the courtesty to reply. Perhaps we are scrapping the bottom
of the barrel here from a cultural point of view. If we cannot
be kind and courteous just as a matter of common decency,
then how is it at all possible to find a caring relationship
in here? R E S P E C T.
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Handy Guide To Personals Adverts 5/18/2004
Meeting online is a super introduction method. It is far
superior to meeting in a bar. After all, when you meet someone
in a bar all you really know about them is they drink and occasionally
make poor choices. When we meet people on line we can at least
tell a few things about their minimal intelligence level.
To some extent their personality shows. Now sure they can
hide things and pretend ...
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Unfulfilled men looking to shatter someone else's life 5/4/2004
Married men looking for a fling here are like getting into
a car without an engine. From the outside, he looks like
a man. He might even look shiny and hot He's a husband
and his wife thinks it's her husband in bed with her
at night. However, inside there isn't an engine. No
matter what you give to this car, it will never be a satisfying,
trust-worthy vehicle. If he's not able to ...
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Why dont men take serious the the friendships? 4/23/2004
Why dont men take serious the friendships?
I have encountered many examples in my SFF life where men
consider my friendship only as a game or passing their time.
They like saying "You are my friend" or "We
could have a nice friendship going on here" but in
my experiences there is nothing behind the words.
They have been playing games and gave very much pain and
tears with this to me. In ...
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70 Votes
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Why can't you reply? 4/20/2004
Why is it that people do not or cannot be bothered to reply
to either winks or messages?. I get so disheartened and
wonder why i am bothering when no one cares enough to respond
to my advances. Even if they only said 'thanks but no
thanks', it's at least something and you know
not to bother then again.
I'm not asking anyone to marry me, just to maybe talk
and get to know them, to see if ...
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PREFER NOT TO SAY!!! 4/18/2004
I FIND IT AMUSING AND ANNOYING THAT MANY MEMBERS OF THE MALE
GENDER WILL CONTACT ME WITH A MESSAGE. I CLICK ON THEIR PROFILE
ONLY TO SEE THAT THERE IS NO PICTURE AND THAT MOST OF THE QUESTIONS
ARE ANSWERED WITH, " I PREFER NOT TO RESPOND!!"
NOW, I JUST HAVE TO ASK, "WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP
CAN BE BEGUN OR CULTIVATED WITH NO INFORMATION?"
ARE YOU GUYS OUT TO GET ALL THE INFO WITHOUT GIVING ...
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matronly 4/13/2004
I am 55. When the heck am I allowed to look matronly? I am in
the granny years, sensible shoes. Have my teeth, hair is
not greying, complexion smooth, I am casual by preference,
of course, the climate here is Canada, East Coast so it is
still smart to cover up and not show stocking tops and risk
bladder infections. Oh phooey to glamour. Go try to sell
those ideas to Eskimos grannies, Phooey ...
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Response to "Matronly doesn't cut it" .........this isn't Victoria's Secret 4/9/2004
Do you see pictures here of men showing a little leg, waist
or cleavage? Do men here look like Chippendale models?
No on both counts. Women who post a photo showing self-esteem,
good taste and restraint should be praised, not criticized.
Good for the women in showing that this is the year 2004,
not the era of the woman who had to rely only on the physical
being to have value on this ...
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Adultery Central 4/6/2004
Statistically, there are more married/separated men
in here than single/available men. The word must be out....looking
for a fling, dial SFF. It's a shame SFF doesn't
use software to distinguish married from available people.
It would be such a time-saver for unattached members if
they didn't have to weed through them in search of honestly
looking singles.
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Nice guy........be patient 3/27/2004
Women do appreciate a nice guy. When we get tired of the empty,
negative and frustrating men who just don't know how
to be emotionally available, romantic they will seek men
like you out. Giving little gifts like flowers, that little
piece of chocolate you hid under her pillow, those sexy
pair of panties you give her for her birthday all are signs
that you are thinking of her happiness. ...
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Common courtesy and respect please 3/25/2004
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you ! I believe
that sounds familiar to most readers. However, it seems
that it isn't being practiced here on SFF. If someone
sends you an email, perhaps it would be considerate to acknowledge
it, whether by saying you are not interested, or indicating
something else. To just disregard someone is certainly
not the way anyone should be ...
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Definition of "FUN" 3/23/2004
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So is fun. Fun is a nice
conversation over a café latte. Fun is a pleasant walk and
honest conversation on an early Spring day. Fun is a ride
on a roller coaster. Fun is laughing at a funny film. Fun
does not equate to sexual activity with a newly met person
from the point of view of the women who are using "FUN"in
their profile. If you are ...
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Expectations 3/20/2004
As the song said "I can't get no satisfaction"if
I have expectations. In the impersonal venue of SFF, having
an open mind and going with the flow will allow me not to have
an agenda or a time frame when seeing that someone might
have an interest in me. Just like God made all species of
flora and fauna, so there is a shoe for every foot. The more
I pressure my foot to make it fit, the ...
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Stop Lecturing Me On My Profile!!!! 3/14/2004
What is wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite? Is
it wrong being REAL and a gentleman and making a lady feel
special? If you don’t agreed please MOVE ON to the
next profile. I cannot believe the nasty emails I’ve
been receiving from women that I haven't even read
their profiles. Just think for a minute how many times while
talking with your friends you heard this: my ...
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Be bold - FACE YOURSELF-Be successful 3/13/2004
The root cause of all failure is trying to run away from oneself.
If only, everyone could just impartially peep inside their
own SELF, they will realise their shortcomings.
For instance, take a man who is always angry and highly emotional.
Now, if you analyse this man's innerself, you will
find that this man is not really angry with others but with
his own self- his own failures - his vain ...
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Profile Identification Enhancement 3/3/2004
I have a tremendous respect for each individual person
to live their life their way and would never condemn or deny
them their right to do so. That said, I would like very much
to see SFF develop a method to identify profiles as to whether
the person is married or alone. On numerous occasions I
have reviewed a profile and found it to be very appealing
and then discover they are married. ...
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Is Real Commitment Obsolete 1/25/2004
I an a widow and have recently become a member of Seniorfriendfinder.
In browsing through the membership, I cannot believe the
men who are married or IN a relationship (or so that they
say) that are opting for a pen pal, friendship, longterm
relationship, etc. with someone else. Perhaps there
are married women doing the same. Why would THEY be a good
prospect for someone else if they are ...
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WHAT LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR! 1/24/2004
Naturally, I can only speak for myself; however, here goes:
First, I joined this service to find someone who ACTUALLY
READS my profile...which states exactly the type of person
I seek! If I state that I won't answer winks or contacts
without pictures, why on earth do I keep getting 'winks'
with NO picture? In addition, (mind you, this is not meant
to be disrespectful); however, it would ...
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Senior FF Question!!! 1/24/2004
Is anyone else out there frustrated with the fact that after
one's membership expires, one can't 'see'
pictures and profiles---???? This is the ONLY service
whereby this occurs (exception: FrienFinder --same company).
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I MIGHT 'join' again, IF I COULD SEE the people
who are posting profiles! Personally, I'm NOT going
to put my money back into a membership, 'till I see the ...
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What ARE YOU LADIES REALLY LOOKING FOR 1/5/2004
I have read and looked at many you ladies adds.I see where
you want, honesty, some one who won't play games, can
talk on many subjects besides just "sex", one
who will treat you like a lady, one whom is looking for a
long term relationship.I know you have your wishes and
desires, we all do, but where does your fantansy end and
reality set in? If you are looking for perfection to a "T"
you ...
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Answering Emails 1/4/2004
I am wondering why if the ladies have no time to answer their
emails, how they have time to look at your profile.I have
to wonder why, no answers when someone is trying to at least
chat with you?? How long does it take to answer with a no?
How do you know what you are passing up?? What if it was the
one you were looking for, had you taken the time to check
them out further.You can not judge ...
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Rules for being human 11/27/2003
RULES FOR BEING HUMAN
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1. You will receive a body. You may like it, or hate it, but
it will be yours for the entire period this time around.
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2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time
informal school called life. Each day in this school you
will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like
the lessons, or think them irrelevant or ...
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LONG DISTANCE & OTHER HORRORS ! 9/13/2003
While services such as SFF seems to be a wonderful way to
meet people, I'm having difficulty with the fact that
I live so geographically far from those who meet my list
of interests.
I live in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. It seems
that nobody I've 'met' so far has an interest
in establishing communication via the 'net'
PRIOR to meeting face-to face. SIMPLE logistics to NOT ...
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How does an older woman get responses? 9/4/2003
How does an older woman, who is younger looking and acting
for her age, sell herself to men her age or younger, when
she is an honest, loving, kind, passionate, humorous,
caring person with a heart of gold that just wants a man to
share her life, or give her a chance to be a friend, spend
time with her to see if anything more than friendship could
develop? I am a widow and would like to ...
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why not put a picture online for men to see? 8/23/2003
I get a lot of emails however the great majority of them do
not have a photo online. I believe it is necessary to see
what the other party looks like. Looks is not everything
but I believe there has to be an attraction and chemistry
to follow up on talking to them or meeting them. I definitely
would not travel a very long distance to meet someone sight
unseen. What is everyone else opinion ...
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