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How about listing the “Downside”? 10/31/2004
All of the “Friend Finders” and “Dating” sites require
profiles to be filled out. I have been wondering what would
happen if within the required information of a profile
one would have a section devoted to their “downside”?
List your faults, shortcomings, and peeves!
Examples:
1.When I cook it is an automatic test of the homes smoke detectors. ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
12 Votes
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Response to "Why senior men seek younger women" 10/21/2004
In your article if appears as another reader stated you
are trying to justify something..what it is, I'm not
sure. I can think of many reasons why an older man might seek
out a younger woman and several of the reasons would have
nothing to do with sex. I am left with the impression, in
your opinion, sex is of the highest priority. I know of older
men that have had relationship's with ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
17 Votes
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Oh My Gosh!!! Pictures 10/12/2004
We are all adults and mature when we communicate with each
other, it isn't until one who wants to see one or the
other and they decide to send a photo...
What ever you said in an email, the first impression here
can sink your relationship when you send your future partner
and Nude or Partial Nude photo...In my opinion.
1 Comments, 50 Views,
10 Votes
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A PHOTO PLEASE! 10/12/2004
I'm new to this site, but am astonished that so many
men haven't uploaded a picture. I'm not saying
looks are everything, but it sure is nice to have a face to
go with the description. I get a lot of people looking at
me, but then I have no idea what they look like, because they
don't have a picture on their profile and will not respond
without one. Borrow a digital camera if you have to. ...
2 Comments, 38 Views,
7 Votes
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Re Re Choose your audience 10/8/2004
The first article made perfect sense: it didn't say
change people, it said change the people. In other words,
instead of John and Mary, you pick Dave and Susan. You don't
change John and Mary. You seem to have a lot of problems reading
everyone's articles and questions.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
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Response to;- Choose your audience carefully. 10/6/2004
I'm not sure if there was a typing error in this article
or not. The last two lines of this article doesn't make
a lot of sense. According to the article you can't change
people. Then how or why would you want to change people around
you? People around you are still people are they not? Maybe
the article should re-titled "Selecting people
to put around you so you can change them"?
0 Comments, 40 Views,
9 Votes
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Response to:- My mind deceives questions. 10/5/2004
Not being a man I'm sure you are not aware of how many
women clam up or lie when asked questions by men. Some men
have learned to clam up because many women have taken what
was said to them and thrown in back in their face. I've
been asked questions by women and I gave honest answers.
The answers were not offesnive nor were they destructive
or an admittion about any wrong doing. Some women ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
10 Votes
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Oh my gosh!!!! 10/4/2004
Why is it when you ask a man to send another photo they always seem to have a nude photo handy? Now I am soooo not a prude. And I also actually take a good look at these pictures lol...but come on......Do these guys think that I can actually take them serious after they send me a nude ( at least so soon) ha ha
Plus I am amazed at the number of men that have photo's of their penis'. Come on ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
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Must be of Bad Society 10/4/2004
To ClickMouseHere------guess Im one of those of bad society or something. But hate to burst anyones bubble here but I had a father and a mother and was brought up in a fairly strict home. I may have rebelled but hey dont we all at some stage? I have a pierced tongue, pierced nose and several tattooes. Does that make me a degenerate. I dont think so people. We all choose how we lead our lives and ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
6 Votes
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Military people 10/3/2004
I am a vietnam veteran and wonder if there are any sites that we can talk with our servicemen and women overseas. I know how lonely they can get so far away. Can anyone help?
They all need our support and love. susan
0 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
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The Truth Up Front? 10/3/2004
Is it better to be truthful right from the start, and risk never meeting anymore at all? Or to hold back the nasty little details that everyone on this planet has, just to be able to first reel someone into your web, and hope they will still be accepting of you after all is disclosed?
The reality is we are all in these online ‘meet someone’ programs because we are all having ...
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Response to Attracted to a Friend 10/3/2004
Currently you have a friend and will remain friends. No loss - No gain.
You could keep your friend; find someone else for a lover and have both. No loss - A gain.
You could make your friend a lover, but lose a friend. A gain - A loss.
You could make your friend a lover and it doesn't work out; you lose it all.
Your rational choice is to keep your friend as a friend and find someone ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
3 Votes
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Attracted to a friend 10/2/2004
I’m really attracted to a friend of mine and would like to
get something going, but I’m afraid that if we have a relationship
it might not work out and our friendship would be ruined
forever What shall I do
2 Comments, 66 Views,
16 Votes
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How Do We Perceive The World Around Us? 9/23/2004
How do we all perceive others and the world around us? It
would seem we are all so busy protecting ourselves behind
our own little walls, that we ultimately miss out on experiencing
that which is natural and beautiful in this world. When
we approach others, do we believe they only exist to serve
our own needs and desires? Or do we contemplate how we might
rise above ourselves and make a ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Accepting Others As They Are 9/23/2004
One thing we all sorely need to work on, is the ability to
accept others as they are, and not as we perceive they should
be. Nothing can be more hurtful, then not living up to the
expectations of what others think we should (but are not),
and being punished and/or rejected for it. Every living
thing on this planet should have the right to exist and be
as their own soul dictates, as long as ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
12 Votes
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Everyone Deserves A Clean Slate 9/23/2004
It would seem virtually everyone on this planet has had
bad experiences - it's called 'baggage'.
Don't give someone new your baggage and they in turn
won't give you theirs - fair enough?! Everyone deserves
a clean slate, and not to be held liable for the transgressions
of (past) others, yes?!? If your not going to seek out others
with an open heart (and mind) and expect every time to be ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
3 Votes
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A Clean Slate 9/21/2004
It would seem virtually everyone on this planet has had
bad experiences - it's called 'baggage'.
Don't give someone new your baggage and they in turn
won't give you theirs - fair enough?! Everyone deserves
a clean slate, and not to be held liable for the transgressions
of (past) others, yes?!? If your not going to seek out others
with an open heart (and mind) and expect every time to be ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
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How Do We Perceive The World Around Us? 9/21/2004
How do we all perceive others and the world around us? It
would seem we are all so busy protecting ourselves behind
our own little walls, that we ultimately miss out on experiencing
that which is natural and beautiful in this world. When
we approach others, do we believe they only exist to serve
our own needs and desires? Or do we contemplate how we might
rise above ourselves and make a ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
4 Votes
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Criticizing or Caring 9/9/2004
Someone who is really serious about wanting someone special
in His/Her life doesn't waste time criticizing the
thoughts and feelings of others. When we put something
down in writing here, if it is real, it comes from the heart.
It is not necessary to tear someone apart for having a soft
note passing through the heart and mind. This is suppose
to be Friendfinder, ....not head basher.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
19 Votes
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Getting Started 8/17/2004
We did not know how to get started in the swinging life still.
Then we saw the web site for the Mountain Retreat we called
and got directions to the retreat. There was no presser
at all and the people we met were great, we had a great time
in the hot tub and pool. We did have are first foursome and
we have been back to the retreat several times. If you are
into swinging or would like to ...
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21 Votes
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Senior Dress Code 8/15/2004
Subject: FW: Senior's dress code
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<br>
> > >Many of us "Old Folks" (those
over 50, WAY over 50 or hovering near 50)
> > >are quite confused about how we should present
ourselves. We're unsure
> > >about the kind of image we are projecting
and whether or not we are
> > >correct as we try to conform to current fashions. ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
37 Votes
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Skeptical me, Successful us... 8/12/2004
Don't give up. If you too are skeptical , as I was, wondering
if you are throwing your money away on a site that could not
possibly find that certain someone .....I'm here
to say it works! Of course there are stinkers and clinkers
who will contact you, but they are pretty easy to spot ( and
block). Shortly after reluctantly signing up with SFF,
I was contacted by a man who actually lived ...
0 Comments, 40 Views,
29 Votes
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Body Image 7/27/2004
Unrealistic expectations, lack of communication and
being slaves to stereotypes are some of the reasons for
broken relationships that we all have experienced. Real
intimacy is built on acceptance, respect, honesty, tenderness
and a passion for the spirit of our partner. If at this stage
in our lifecycle we are imprisioned by old ideas, requirements
and shortsightedness, we are then doomed ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
21 Votes
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Grandparent Rights 7/25/2004
The rights of grandparents are an emerging area of the law.
A few years ago the Texas supreme court said the grandparents
had no rights if the parents agreed they should have none.
The legislature changed this to allow for grandparents
who had a significant influence or relationship in the
gchildren's lives. I'm sure it has been going
back and forth in most states.
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...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
8 Votes
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Why Asking For Sex Is A Turn Off 7/19/2004
A large part of the Male population think they should ASK
FOR SEX. Don't they know the turnoff is in the asking?
Do men think women are so dumb as to not know what a man wants?
If she was willing in the first place, the asking will probably
send all romantic ideas out the window.
A woman sees sex as a gift to someone she really cares for.
Why would a man want to ruin a good thing. ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
38 Votes
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The Big Red Flags 7/17/2004
Ever heard the expression, go with your gut feeling?
It’s true you know. If you listen to your gut you can’t go
wrong and soon you’ll understand which issue are going
to be big red flags when meeting and dating on the Internet.
I’ve listed a few below
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1. Do they live with ma? Unless there under 21 that might
be a big red flag as to their ability ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
31 Votes
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Not So Confused 7/11/2004
Today I mananged to read every article placed here. I will
say that I have the best laugh Ive had in months. Many articles
were great and deserved to be here. The rest was mind boggling.
Why so many of the same people wrote articles is beyond me.
Why? Because all the articles written by the same people
were complaints. Not once did they have a kind word to say,
but only complained about the ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
30 Votes
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Tired of Small Minds 7/4/2004
Here is a thought for those men out there who believe they
have all the answers to the "big" ladies dilemmma.
No one is accusing you of not taking notice of a beautiful,
kind hearted, capable of returning more love than you can
handle. However get your facts straight before writing
an article about a topic you have no idea of what you know
nothing about. Now that is not proper English I ...
2 Comments, 14 Views,
27 Votes
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Let your beauty shine! 6/24/2004
Add photos to your listing that show who you are.
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Ideas on finding a photographer to work with:
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Look for photographers on SFF.
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Offer to model for photo classes at a local college.
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If you like photography take a class and get to know others
with this interest.
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Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
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new to area 6/23/2004
I have recently moved to a new area, I have put on a profile
to meet men, but I also would like to meet a couple of ladies
for shopping, visiting, etc, as I do have any woman friends
here also. Is there a site for just friends as I don't
want anyone to get a wrong impression. I am as straight as
they make them Thanks
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