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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
Ah Youth   12/26/2017

A couple of us local retired types from the Senior Center were asked to address a high school gathering put on by the PTA. As luck would have it, I was the only speaker to show up, so I had the stage to myself. I talked about staying in school, getting good grades and all that usual bullshit; and since I had plenty of time because those other guys didn't show, I threw it open for questions. ...


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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
Old Farts   12/19/2017

They say that the way to mean's hearts Is good food from chicken soup to tarts A chocolate eclair Will stiffen him there, But too much will give him the farts


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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
Be Careful / Don't Over do it   11/28/2017

A young couple were married, and celebrated their first night together, doing what newlyweds do, time and time again, all night long. Morning comes and the groom goes into the bathroom but finds no towel when he emerges from the shower. He asks the bride to please bring one from the bedroom. When she gets to the bathroom door, he opened the door, exposing his body for the first time to his bride ...


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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
Info   9/27/2017

Insurance Airman Jones was assigned to the induction center where he was to advise new recruits about their government benefits, especially their GI insurance. It wasn't long before Captain Smith noticed that Airman Jones had almost a 100% record for insurance sales, which had never happened before. Rather than ask about this, the Captain stood in the back of the room and listened to ...


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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
Any Lenas out there   8/2/2017

Straight from Minnesota:: ////////////////////////////////// THE INVENTION: The toilet seat was invented by a Norwegian in Minnesota ... Twenty years later a North Dakotan improved it by putting a hole in the middle. ——————————————— OUTHOUSE PROBLEMS: When Ole accidentally lost 50 cents in the outhouse, he immediately threw in his watch and billfold. He explained, ...


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NewOrleansOlStud 71 M
91  Articles
JUST THIS   6/26/2017

Plz don't tell me Ha - Do & Done

A case of hit & run is that what U want is that what UR into



Or



would U rather swing on a star be better off than U R Or would U rather be A _____













wilted-lilliesn his blue gardens men and girls came and went like moths among the whisperings and the ...


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Dargoon16 76 M
1  Article
Senior sex   3/29/2016

We all know sex should not stop when Social Security starts. WE also know it improves our quality of live. It is a fact men have erection problems. You can play with it kiss it suck it but still not ready for penetration. Sexual play and oral sex is a great thing but all women want to feel the penis in them. Men It makes his day to be able to give her that feeling. Over the counter are a wast of ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Rentier1 73 M
2  Articles
Random thoughts on first dates   2/11/2014

- Pick a neutral location that has other people nearby. Places such as Starbucks are good since the seating design usually allows for some privacy.

- Have a prepared excuse to leave if the meeting is obviously taking a dive.

- Gentlemen. Avoid insisting on Dutch first time around. In fact, refuse it if she offers. I know we are all supposed to be equal and all in this day ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Rich1937 81 M
2  Articles
FInally Giving Up   11/9/2011

The general trend of SSF has been gradually more and more liberal, with some beating the drum against conservatives and drumming up support for another web site. The social tone of this site has lessened and has less appeal every day. The divisions are as sharp as real life, which of course, is no surprise. I guess what has brought it to a finale for me, is the utter abandonment of facts, and ...


2 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Rich1937 81 M
2  Articles
Timely Book Makes Easy Reading   10/11/2011

I have to thank a blogger who has written many blogs that don't jibe with my understanding of good economics to cause me to do a little searching.

I have just begun to read the book by Peter Schiff and his brother Andrew.

It is entitled "How An Economy Grows And Why It Crashes".

Now this sounds like a very dull and boring book. It's not! Not a very thick book, it is ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Gold member   9/12/2011

I was a Gold Member for some years, but did not get any value from it. Indeed I failed to make any new friends either. I still visit the site as a standard member, but of course I am very restricted, and it is almost impossible to contact anyone. Any comments would be appreciated!...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
What's wrong?   5/29/2011

I sumitted an article to this section last March, and note there has been no post since. Why??...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Whats wrong   3/28/2011

I thought of upgrading from "Standard" until I observed that the last article posted here is several months old. Why???? John...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
tazmantenn 72 M
218  Articles
An Old Farmer's Advice:   6/9/2009

An Old Farmer's Advice:

* Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong. *Keep skunks and bankers at a Distance. *Life is simpler when you plow around the stump. *A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor. * Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled. * Meanness don't jes' happen overnight. * Forgive your enemies. It messes up their ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
_JKH54_ 64 M
26  Articles
G-men !   3/30/2009

The most terrifying words used in a sentence in the English language are, "I'm a Government agent and I'm here to help."...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
tazmantenn 72 M
218  Articles
Andy one more time   1/15/2009

Andy Rooney, a man who has the gift of saying so much with so few words. Enjoy.......

I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.

I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.

I've learned.... That having a child fall ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Whats gone wrong   12/27/2008

I have not visited this site for some time. On checking the General Advice section of the magazine today I was disappointed to see that there has onlyb been a few posts since last July. Anyone like to comment? John...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
tazmantenn 72 M
218  Articles
Forrest Gump Explains   11/18/2008

Forrest Gump Explains Mortgage Backed Securities:





Mortgage Backed Securities are like boxes of chocolates. Criminals on Wall Street stole a few chocolates from the boxes and replaced them with turds. Their criminal buddies at Standard & Poor rated these boxes AAA Investment Grade chocolates. These boxes were then sold all over the world to investors. Eventually somebody ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tazmantenn 72 M
218  Articles
1st graders   7/29/2008

A 1st grade school teacher had twenty-six students in her class. She presented each child in her classroom the 1st half of a well-known proverb and asked them to come up with the remainder of the proverb. It's hard to believe these were actually done by first graders. Their insight may surprise you. While reading, keep in mind that these are first-graders, 6-year-olds, because the last one is ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
_JKH54_ 64 M
26  Articles
Trying to fight old men!   6/17/2008

Don't pick a fight with old men. If they think they're too old to fight, they'll just kill you. Very true!...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
_JKH54_ 64 M
26  Articles
Age !   6/17/2008

I've learned that age is a very high price to pay for maturity. Well, most of the time! ...


3 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Wilddflower3 70 F
9  Articles
Set Less Limits   5/20/2008

Sometimes we wonder why we do not get many contacts. It may be that we narrowed the age we are seeking, or height, etc. You may find that if you open your options, you will get more contacts. Women, don't be afraid to even go 10 years younger or older. Thanks, Wilddflower3


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Wilddflower3 70 F
9  Articles
Unrealistic expectations....   5/20/2008

I find that some people have unrealistic expectations when they finally go and meet the person. Even though they have emailed, phoned and exchanged pictures it is not the same as meeting face to face. Like I said, try not to have expectations of the other person. Remember, also, this is not a date but a first meeting. Thanks, Wilddflower3


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
winkay66 77 F
7  Articles
Reaching the Top   3/14/2008

In going up it is essential to rise. Too many dive too low to reach the top of the pile.


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Is this site for Senior Friend Finders? ?   3/3/2008

Looking down through the articles in this section I notice a request from a 30 year old male for sex, and a 33 year old lady looking for someone "to care for".

I am a Gold member for some years and understood that this site was for senior people, who in my opinion must be at least 45 years of age to qualify.

I fail to see, or indeed to understand, how membership could be ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Wilddflower3 70 F
9  Articles
Upbeat profiles   2/24/2008

No one enjoys reading a profile where the man or woman downs themselves or appears very needy. It paints a dismal picture. In a profile you should try and reflect who you are, what you like and dislike and what you are looking for in a positive manner. If you begin setting yourself up by saying how very lonely you are, you will probably be taken advantage of by someone. Positivity in a ...


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Wilddflower3 70 F
9  Articles
Honesty in your profile.....   2/24/2008

Honesty is so very important in all aspects of a relationship for it to work. It should therefore begin in your profile. If you are a few extra ponds overweight...say so. If you hair is grey, then say it's grey not brown or whatever color it once was. If you are not physically fit do not write that you are toned. It starts a possible relationship off on a good note if when you meet the ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Wilddflower3 70 F
9  Articles
Unrealistic Expectations   2/24/2008

When people meet one another the first time, especially after emailing and talking on the phone, they often have unrealistic expectations of each other. They already have preconceived notions of what the other person will be like. Often, they are disappointed. If men and women would just approach meeting the first time for exactly what it is, then there would be less disappointment if it ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
winkay66 77 F
7  Articles
Seeing Clearly   2/6/2008

They say love is blind. So one should keep their glasses on before falling in love! Maybe even binoculars.


1 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
lovethecoast 70 F
1  Article
telephone customer service   9/30/2007

today i had a GOOD experience calling one of my credit card companies.

the first person i spoke with had a very heavy accent ... as i've gotten older, i have a problem understanding accents on the telephone. i always have to say, "i beg your pardon?" several times during the conversation and end up frustrated.

this time, i said, "i'm sorry, but i have a difficult time ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
yaaka 44 F
2  Articles
Being a sigle mum   9/6/2007

[COLOR blue]Many people have been loved and they are being loved. when i was a girl i would blum People who have kids with different fathers but if God planned it for you never you will have it .I was mistreated in my first marriage until when i went back to my parents.i raised my little girl alone and i got my life in some one's loving hands thinking i will be the happy ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
scubadiver6911 87 M
2  Articles
Copy and Paste your Emails.   8/4/2007

Yesterday I emailed bbdelray and I clicked save mail and sent it, but it did not show up in my sent mail so asked if she received it and today she said she had not. So composed the email over again and this time I copied it before sending it. Would you believe when I sent it I got booted off SFF and could not log on again for 2 hours! So this time I pasted my email and this time ...


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Getting old.   7/21/2007

We should all plan ahead for the time we will have difficulty looking after ourselves. I have a friend who during renovations on his house recently, had hand rails installed in the bathroom, passage ways widened, rails in the kitchen, new taps installed, and a host of other aids for when he starts to become feeble. He says he wants to be able to look after himself as long as possible, and put ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
scubadiver6911 87 M
2  Articles
SLANT BOARDS   7/21/2007

Since I have trouble with my back, having spinal stenosis between the third and fourth vertebrae I find the slant board helpful for relieving the pressure. At my Bally Total Fitness they have two of them and I usually spend 10 min one them at the deepest incline of 45 degrees. I do sit ups, leg exercises, breathing and squeezing my kigels. Have any of you tried the SLANT BOARD?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Hotels   6/13/2007

Some lucky people have partners, and can go on holidays with them, and avail of normal hotel rates(per person sharing) A lot more of us travel alone, and have to pay exorbitant single supplements. I know that most hotels will give a "Seniors" discount, but the "single supplement" should be abolished also for senior citizens. In many cases we are alone through no fault of our own, by seperation, ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
Global Warming   4/18/2007

Do we believe the scientists who have given us all the doom and gloom about global warming....


1 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
david20051957 61 M
4  Articles
I am visiting Washington DC,need advice   2/15/2007

Hello my beautiful friends, I am planning to travel to Washington DC from Christchurch, New Zealand. I need advice about DC can you help me please. All I need is you to answer questions, I am going to ask in the future thank you. David


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buddie 76 F
5  Articles
woodworking   2/12/2007

I've been puttering with a jigsaw, sanders, etc for awhile and recently acquired my 1st scroll saw. Does anyone know a web site where I can get free patterns for small woodworking projects? Would like to do more. Thanks.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
david20051957 61 M
4  Articles
My return trip to Quebec and Ontario,Canada   1/26/2007

Hello all you beautiful Canadians. Last year, I visit Quebec and Ontario.I love Montreal and Toronto and I have decided to go back in 2008. Where are good places to stay please.


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What to wear, or not   12/30/2006

I recently met someone for the first time from SFF. It was just for coffee, however, I wore nice casual clothes. The guy shows up wearing sweat pants and a rumpled flannel shirt. In that first moment, we each judged each other by our appearance. My thoughts were that he is a nice looking man with good manners. We could talk easily and plan on seeing each other again, however, I have to ...


9 Comments, 259 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
Younger members   12/12/2006

I notice there appears to be a lot of younger male members in this site. I cannot understand why a male of say 45 would bother with a site where the average age would be in the sixties. Do they think that older females because of being lonely, suffering from grief after a bereavement, or just getting old would be an easy lay. Certainly when I was that age I could not see myself behaving ...


5 Comments, 190 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Great expectations   9/27/2006

I notice a lot of people seem to expect too much from casual encounters on this web site. There seems to be a lot of people complaining about people they have just met, which would indicate that too much was expected in the first place. Why can we not just take people as we find them. Everyone is different, with a different outlook on life, which is one of the reasons I like to meet new ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 15 Votes ,6.81 Score
RandyTeacher 62 M
17  Articles
Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention   8/22/2006

In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds to make a good first impression, so good writing skills can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website, but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult to get a response. So how do you make contact ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
david20051957 61 M
4  Articles
Recipe for banannas   8/21/2006

All you beautiful chefs out there in cyberville cafe.I have 6 bananas nearly ripe what can I bake or cook from them. You good words are most welcome.Just keep this in mind I am a single male, hope that helps you. Thanks


1 Comments, 60 Views, 0 Votes
GreatSmile4U 73 F
3  Articles
Getting a Personal Trainer???? Think again...   6/26/2006

This is for anyone who ever attempted to get into a regular workout routine.

Dear Diary: For my 50th birthday this year, my girlfriend (the dear) purchased a week of personal training at the local health club for me. Although I am still in great shape since playing on my College football team 32 yrs ago, I decided it would be a good idea to go ahead and ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
Violence.   4/30/2006

Why is there so much talk of violence, and war, on this site. Whether we agree or not, with the invasion of Iraq, the fact remains, that hundreds of very young Americans mostly, from very poor backgrounds are going home in body bags. On the other side, a large number of Iraqi civilians are being killed. It would appear nothing is being achieved from all this loss of life, as the country ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
Do we expect too much?   4/22/2006

Reading through the advice colums, I get the impression that a lot of people are dissatisfied with the people they meet up with, or who contact them through this web site. I wonder is the reason that so many people are unhappy that that they expect too much from their contacts. Perhaps they want the relationship to move forward too fast.
Perhaps they have not the patience to have ...


0 Comments, 145 Views, 18 Votes ,6.40 Score
starwomyn 65 F
6  Articles
The First Chakra - The Root of is all!!!!!   4/17/2006

The First Chakra has the major energy field found by the base of the spine. There are also whirls of energy that can be in the legs and feet. Issues with the First Chakra are Tribal Roots, Group Safety, and security. Sypmtoms of First Chakra Inbalance is Lower back pain, depression, and the immune system. The Root Chakra can be strengthened by writing about the Root issues to find ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 28 Votes
Public Speaking   3/27/2006

It is said that a persons two greatest fears are, (1) Dying, and (2) being called on to speak in public. We will all die so there is no help there. However we can all learn how to speak in public, and to rid ourselves of that fear. There is an organization called Toastmasters who have clubs in almost every city and town. They teach people every aspect of public speaking, in a ...


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Margret45 70 F
1  Article
Safety first...   3/23/2006

I knew about the red light on cars, but not the *677. It was about 1:00 p.m. in the afternoon, and Lauren was driving to visit a friend. An UNMARKED police car pulled up behind her and put his lights on. Lauren's parents have always told them never to pull over for an unmarked car on the side of the road, but rather to wait until they get to a gas station, etc. Lauren had actually ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
Effects of Porn.   3/23/2006

Do any of you view porn?. What I am talking about is sexual relations between consenting adults. There is lots of it available now, in DVDs, Films, Videos, and through the written word in stories, in comics, drawing, and in paintings. It has always existed, and examples have been found in old drawings in caves, and indeed in tombs, and of course in old manuscripts. Of course the internet is ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
Getting old   3/17/2006

Today and old friend died. He would have been 90 in April. However for the past 5 years he had no quality of life, and required extensive care in a nursing home, and did not know anyone for the past couple of years. All this has started me thinking about my future, and what is in store for me. Has anyone a recipe for keeping a healthy mind and body to such an extent that we can avoid the ...


1 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
Watch out   3/15/2006

People are now using this web site to promote scams. Basically they want to get money out of a middle east, or african country, require details of your bank account, and then plunder it. I recently got such a request from a person called Vero4christ.Be warned if it sounds too good to be true - IT IS.


1 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Parisdreamer10 74 F
14  Articles
Some Of The Fun Things I Did With My Younger Man...   8/11/2005

To be fair about it, after showing the Break up/ Happy Birthday letter, it has occured to me that I should probably point out some of the GOOD things about my ex-boyfriend who was 20 years younger. I have always considered myself to be a fairly proper ladylike, lady....AT LEST IN PUBLIC!But, "Behind closed doors.." As the Kenny Rogers song said.. ...


1 Comments, 318 Views, 26 Votes ,5.51 Score
SheWoIf 64 F
6  Articles
INSULTS   1/25/2005

Are you wanting a list of Insults to hurl back at others?? Are you ready to get even? Did someone insult you and your sitting there fuming and angry? But, for some reason you can't seem to hurt that person back? <br> I was listening to the radio Sunday, as I was driving and I heard something that really touched my heart. I am trying to remember the points that the guy made, ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
RE: "Think about it..."   11/18/2004

To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you. <br> For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically. I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious by ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
RE: "Think it...But don't say it"   11/18/2004

To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you. <br> For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically. I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious by ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
Think it... but don’t say it!   11/16/2004

SFF in all its great wisdom used the power of censorship and denied my last attempt to post a question with regards to this subject. Maybe a toned down version of the question will make it past the all-powerful censors this time. <br> Why are the topics with regards to sex, sensuality and sexuality skirted around and avoided here on SFF? <br> My goodness we are all ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
Really what are the chances?   11/15/2004

Being as I live in what is referred to as a remote location [a very small mountain community] I naturally don’t expect to find “miss wonderful” close by. I have met and been in contact with a few really nice ladies that I have met here on SFF but the problem is that they live across this nation or in another country. I mean not one is even from the same state for ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
Dominant or submissive: Has age changed your tendencies?   11/11/2004

I have a question that is directed more towards the ladies but comments from the gentlemen are also welcomed. Question: Do you think that with age you have become more Dominant or submissive with regards to your attitude and role within a personal relationship with a present or future partner? <br> Please share your reasons that would incline you to answer either way. Kassr


1 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
RE: "Now that the holidays are here, Remember to be kind.   11/7/2004

My goodness you sure make the holiday season sound like some sort of terrible sentence imposed upon singles. And your assumptions as to what and how men deal with the holiday season seems critical if not damn insulting to say the least. Now I haven’t a clue as to where you have been located while observing nor what kind of men you have chosen to observe but I am going to truly enjoy ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
dinty3 74 M
4  Articles
RE: Now that holidays are here   11/7/2004

Woah, I have to agree with Kassar and his comments. I find that at this time of year and in fact with all the holidays I have to be careful and attend those invitations that are of importance not only to me but also important to those who have extended the invitation, family, friend, business. Some are formal and some are come as you are, and I do enjoy the company of a friend/companion of ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
Breaking the Ice   11/6/2004

I have noticed that many times the question of how to start a conversation with someone you have just met on-line has been asked. I have been asked this same question in so many emails and on IM that I thought I would humbly and openly offer a sample of how I personally approach this matter of breaking the ice. This is a copy of my 2nd contact with a lovely lady in China. Let’s see ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
dinty3 74 M
4  Articles
RE: Must be a child of bad society   11/5/2004

The Gothic look, Punk look, Hippy look, Clean cut look, and on and on. She Bear is right, we are all individuals and as such react to society in different ways. A child of working parents may rebel at the lack of attention he/she gets and dresses for shock value to get their attention. Most of the parents do not know how to react and give the child hell for being the way they are and then ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
Takes My Breath Away:   11/1/2004

Why is it that as a lady matures they seem to have the need to drown themselves in perfume? Kassr


2 Comments, 20 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
To Active for My Age?   10/31/2004

Surfing, water skiing, moderate free style rock climbing, 4 x 4 off road driving, driving a snowmobile, camping, fishing and extreme home remodeling are some of the activities I enjoy frequently. Until recently I never gave a thought about my hobbies and activities as being unusual for a man of 57 years old. A few weeks ago I was having dinner with a couple that have been friends for ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Kassr 64 M
12  Articles
How about listing the “Downside”?   10/31/2004

All of the “Friend Finders” and “Dating” sites require profiles to be filled out. I have been wondering what would happen if within the required information of a profile one would have a section devoted to their “downside”? List your faults, shortcomings, and peeves! Examples: 1.When I cook it is an automatic test of the homes smoke detectors. ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
BrokenLady2000 74 F
20  Articles
What to do about the drug Vioxx??   10/22/2004

I was prescribed the drug Vioxx in 2001, I took it according to the doctor, but it caused nausea and "my chest hurt", I thought it was "cramps".I stopped taking the medicine, because it caused more problems than it solved.Now, the doctor that prescribed it, from 2001, is sending me letters to bring medicine back to him, and precsription old bottles, and I quote, " he will see that I get my ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
SheWoIf 64 F
6  Articles
Who Pays... my opinion.... LOL   7/16/2004

In response to who pays.. I feel that the invitor should pay for the invitee.. Or, if agreed upon, should be dutch. So, , girlfriends.. if you invite him out.. you should be willing to pay the tab.. unless of course he offers to take care of it.. then I guess it would be gracious to accept.. <br> Men have responsibilities that we have no idea of, just because they make ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
SheWoIf 64 F
6  Articles
Lost in Love   6/28/2004

? See the wolf? Just below the ridge there, off to the right of the third dark tree behind the White tree. She is searching for you. She is looking for her heart. She is lost, afraid, lonely, heart broken. She has come to distrust all, all people, herself, her needs, her desires, her hopes, her dreams, her beliefs. Sad, isn’t it? A lone She Wolf, one who has lost her pride, ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 41 Votes ,1.20 Score
BrokenLady2000 74 F
20  Articles
How can Grandparents get "rights"??   4/14/2004

Recently my oldest son "informed" me that his marriage of 18 years is "over".Seems his "wife" found another man she wants, "from the internet".Well, since he is a "long-distance-truck-driver" and was gone 10 days, she proceeded to take everything, bank accounts, furniture, cars, clothes, etc. and had "new" love to help her "get what she deserved" everything of value from her "marriage", ...


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Response To Timeforfun999--Matronly Doesn`t "Cut-it".   4/11/2004

Did you give it much thought, before you put the article, "matronly doesn`t cut-it", into the advice site?? How would you feel if your mother, sister, aunt, or even daughter were asked to post photos with breasts, long-legs, high-heeled-bedroom shots, and "in general" show parts that would "give the wrong impression?? Do you really condon women that are willing to "expose" body parts, just ...


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BrokenLady2000 74 F
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Just who is in "control" behind the SFF website??   4/10/2004

As just a standard member here on the SFF website, it suddenly came to me to ask, just who is the one in "control" of the decisions being made on this website??Are we being "viewed" as "lab-rats" watching and checking out our reactions to questions or remarks??Who has a "clue" as to the score given for articles of advice, which poems are posted, and in general, what we get to see or not ...


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BrokenLady2000 74 F
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A word of warning to those like me that hate medicine.   4/7/2004

I`m the type of person that won`t "go to the doctor", until they have to haul me in.That`s why having the serious car wreck in 1986 effected me so much.OK, I go each year for the "physical", hate those "stupid stirrups", but know it is necessary, and do the "whole-nine-yards", including mammogram.I won`t take medicine unless it is a "have-to" situation.I`ve been told repeatedly to take ...


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BrokenLady2000 74 F
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How can you "keep" your female friends,when they consider you a threat,after you become a widow??   3/30/2004

I have noticed women that I truly considered close friends are suddenly "giving the cold-shoulder" after I became a widow.Just because my husband has died, that is no reason for anyone to think that I`m "on-the-prowl", I still have the same principals and morals I had when my husband was alive, and it grieves me to think that friendship is so "shallow" that women don`t trust their men to ...


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