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Sorry, but I'm totally baffled by all this. I looked on the comfort cuddle site and it seemed like one or other of the party was expected to pay. Now I'm not totally averse to that, but having paid money I would at least expect satisfaction. Whether satisfaction was simply having a cuddle, or a good fuck or a cuddle and grope, I would expect to be satisfied and not hung out to die of frustration.
As for me, I wouldn't expect money, but would expect to be allowed to provide full satisfaction to the woman. If she just wanted a kiss and cuddle, that would be just fine, but if she was dying for a good fuck, or being licked to death, there is no way I would want to disappoint her. In return I would expect payment of course, but it would come in the form of nectar straight from her cunt into my mouth, not into her knickers.
There is just no way I could look at myself in the mirror while shaving knowing I had left the woman/client disappointed or frustrated, especially if she was called sweetmamm.
XOXO
@spunkycumfun I appreciate that, but the "cuddlecomfort" website alluded to in the post did. Thanks.
Edit: it appears both options are available, free, or so called "proffessional" . What I was thinking of was the paid for option. Even so if a woman wanted sex as well as just a cuddle I couldn't be so hard as to refuse her request; at least not with most women, but no doubt as always there will be exceptions.
Lol! Oh, allow me to clarify please!
So, yes the Cuddlecomfort site is for both, paying and non-paying cuddling opportunities. There are both male, and female professional cuddlers, and those have to be accepted--by application, through the site. The majority of this site's worldwide population enjoys free membership, only paying by choice--probably to expedite a meeting.
I applied to be a professional cuddler, did not get accepted, did not reapply as suggested--then my profile was unintentionally placed into the main pool of members. In my experience, non-professional females get bombarded with respondents. Men did not report the same experience.
I spent six months building a friendship, before meeting my first cuddle partner. That wouldn't be very lucrative as a professional cuddler, now would it lol!
P.S. I can't see why any woman would have to pay on the CC site though...as the respondents are seemingly endless...causing the need to mute my profile.
Also, there was more to the story about my first cuddle partner... he cuddled because he wanted to keep his virginity for marriage...interesting story there. He didn't mind kissing, and dry humping though...hence, the frustration!
@sweetmamm
I wonder if my overwhelming desire to fuck you till your eyes pop out amounts to adultery. !!
Cuddling, sex, life in general are such complex topics aren't they? xxx
Love chatting by the way. xxx Paul
@spunkycumfun I know, weird isn't it, I can't get my head round it; but then lap-dancing is beyond me as well !!
@spunkycumfun
Y'all are funny! 😆
Yes Spunky...the Cuddlecomfort site is a worldwide real thing. I've been writing about it since yesterday in question #2 of the interview...which turned turned into a short story lol! Sending it shortly through the email.
@spunkycumfun, @neterin
@neterin
Wow! What an analogy Paul! "Eyes popping out"...I really like that one! Was told I turned purplish once...so maybe that's close...guess I was so excited, I forgot to breathe lol!
Hmmm, adultery...not if it remains a fantasy...but if you read my other post...about feeling something from visualization..."when you visualize, you can materialize"... meaning, you can feel me already if you accomplish this.
Either way, it's fucking flattering of you to say so. Thanks! More power to your thoughts!
@sweetmamm That's British humour for you sweetheart. xxx
@spunkycumfun
Emailed you the answers to interview question #2. More like a short story to #2...got elaborate lol!
I do enjoy cuddeling alot.. last time I was on a date over 10yrs ago ... we got back to my place thought she would just hop in her car and leave but she came inside and we sat on couch and talked inbetween watching a movie and drinks. It was getting late and to be honest i hate wearing cloths around the house. So went to the bedroom and changed and came back with a big blanket.. she knew this ahead of time during our conversations.. to my suprise she was siting there naked her cloths folded on the end of couch and had the small thow blanket wraped around her.. Me being me the big joker at wrong times. Made the joke of "Hey how you doin come here often" in my best NY voice.. Now you have to realize im a big country boy from AL.. even though i have lived all around the world but i still have a southern voice... she jusy laughed i walked over and she joined me in the bigger blanket and we talked and cuddeled till the sun started to rise. We finaily eneded up in bed together but we past out to tired to do anything... but i will have to say the way she ran her fingers up and down my leg and teased my very hard cock several times it was very hard not to have sex. But i never have sex on the first date.. we can do alot of other
Things but i just don't on the first night.. now i will say if you wake up in yhe bed with me the next morning then watch out its the second day 😜
What a lovely memory. Thanks so much for sharing it! Hope that 2nd day was fabulous!
Hi Mary,
Well now, this is an interesting tangent. I love cuddles and the act of cuddling. It can be turned into such erotic foreplay, without ever touching the "typical" sexual parts. So much intimacy in it, too.
Hugs
Oh, it's wonderful stuff! Just wish there had been dialog beforehand, so I would have known what to expect...and what not to be embarrassed about. As I've written, I'm a very loud lover...can you imagine the frustration of holding in 10 hours worth of multiple orgasms!
@sweetmamm
Yes, but 2nd guessing things again, as just maybe the act of holding in all those multiple orgasms, is what heightened everything, thus allowing for all of them. 😉
@TomCatnDubai
Yeah, right! Mhmmm!
I'm feeling the same way. I'm not sure of your relationship status but being married and not being touched feels like a death sentence at times. That isn't to disparage my wife by any means or to say that I don't love her. It's just where our relationship is. Oh, how I miss holding and being held. And, yeah, a good cuddle will provide me an instant erection. But, I think I would be willing to take on that challenge because as much as I may want to fuck a mutual cuddler, I would be so completely satisfied with some wonderful cuddles.
Hi, thanks for sharing! Sorry you are not getting the human contact you crave. The Cuddlecomfort site may be a positive solution for you then. Best wishes!