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Dudes will say anything to get laid ๐
Little heads don't realize that just because they don't read, that doesn't mean that the other party won't ๐คจ
A great "message" would be one with proper punctuation and capitalization, not to mention correct spelling ๐
That would be a great message! ๐
You forgot about grammar.... it's one thing to offer a good "message" - but if it's obviously not sincere, too much bluster... it will mean no chance at getting message number two. ๐๐๐
I can't believe guy #2 misspelled massage wrong TWICE. ๐
I'm almost to the point of not reading male profiles any more. They're feeble, at best and never corrected or updated after Day 1.
I know, wasn't that funny that he doubled down on "message"? I suspect it was an autocorrect issue. Some folks just can't be bothered to proofread.
Just read your blog, and it made me smile. Not looking to hookup, but if you want to chat, message me back. I enjoy conversing with women who know their own minds.
Thanks for the blog compliment. I do most of my conversing here in this blog space, not too into one on one chatting. Cheers.
@smartasswoman That's fine. Be glad to converse here. Have a great day
This reminds me of quite a few times when a guy indicates he is a dom...either in his handle or in his profile...we get to chatting in a chat room, me being my friendly chatty self and very quickly, the chat turns flirty, to the max. From him. I have, by this time, read his profile and know he views himself as a dom. His profile is very explicit about how he views himself and what he requires in a sub. So I politely let him know, privately, that I am not a sub. He quickly tells me that he doesn't have to be a dom all the time, for the right lady. I respectfully let him know we are not a good match. A few years on this site has taught me that some guys will say just about anything to get you to have cyber sex with them. Yes, I know...someone can be a part-time dom just like some ladies can be a switch. Hence me politely letting him know we are not a good match. That's just the way I am. Because, nine times out of ten, the next time I see this 'sometime dom', he is being very dommish with several women. To each their own.
Iโm not really into heavily dom-identified guys, either. And cyber-domming is the worst, haha!
I'm always amazed how little thought members here, especially men, give to their profiles. A profile is a key way to advertise themselves.
I donโt understand why someone would pay for an expensive membership and then put in such a low level of effort. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Thanks for sharing this repost. It brought a smile to my face. I truly do appreciate your blog.
Youโre welcome. Iโm glad itโs still fresh 15 years later!
Oy Vey , tsk tsk and eye roll at some of these men~
Oy vey is perfect.
Like GIF. My device often changes things often in strange ways. Some words and phrases probably not good idea or form to use. No one wants to be one settled for.
Just love a good message. Donโt you? When he approaches me but there is the big X on my body type. I just move on wirh no reaponse. Because I know I would get the oh no, my error. Fat asses are my weakness.๐คช
I think a lot of people donโt put a ton of thought into filling out the profile. Theyโre thinking about their dream partner when they check those boxes. Then when they start to be more realistic they never go back to revise.
The majority of so called "men" here are completely clueless ... too busy jacking off their pecker with orange dorito hands, moms basement, optional ...
Also, I've found when you respond with a polite no thanks ... now suddenly, you are fat, ugly = their poor little ego is bruised ... hate the "your loss" - so lame and very telling of their character, or lack of ...
Some even demand an explanation as to why. Well, if you really NEED to know ... "your cock is oozing and has red bumps - I wouldn't let you within eons of my personal space - even with even a trillion trash bags wrapped on your diseased cock. Oh, ya, you should see a doctor = a shit ton of penicillin" ... and, that's being nice ...
You can't cure stupidity ... no need to go to the podium - we already know you are the village idiot ...
I hope your Sunday is going well ...
I canโt really add anything to that rant!
lol...ohhhh Trix can ya tell us how ya really feel ....lol
@jajo696 -
HA!!!!
Initially, I didn't know what to expect before reading this blog. I got a laugh midway reading it. It shows how idiotic some guys can be. A person should take the approach to be respectful and courteous. Not everyone gets it right the first time. I believe it takes a lot of editing before one should put it out there for public consumption.
I gave up on meeting anyone on this site just because I felt that the nature of this site can seem intimidating to me. If I can find someone and become friends with them, it would have more value to me. Its so hard when women have so many guys to pick from. So I don't feel the pressure of having to impress someone. Once I took the dating aspect off the table, I feel more at ease, reading and writing blogs.
I can definitely see where the ratios here would cause a guy to feel a lot of pressure. Interestingly for a lot of guys it seems to play out into them putting forth the lowest level of effort (e.g. "Hi" as an opening message).
I think it's smart to have very low expectations here - or on any dating site, for that matter.
@smartasswoman Agreed
I do cut a lot more slack for people like you who I've been reading and chatting with for a long time. Maybe that isn't fair to the first time correspondent who messes up. ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
Just popping by to say adieu. The site now require points for everything or pay for a membership - you can't even use the chat rooms anymore. Plainly, I won't be spending much time on the site, so I thought I'd say bye to you and those of your readers that I know.
I saw a discussion about that in Club7. What a bummer. Thanks for letting me know you won't be around much. I'll gift you some points in case you need to leave some last comments around here. Take care!
@smartasswoman Thanks - a fuller response was "denied" by the site.
@RavenGB figures. ๐