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I hate that the bots on here make it even more difficult for the genuine gals like me to find what we seek. I tried to make my profile as in-depth as I could, most people can tell by reading that that I am real. But I do still get called a bot from time to time, lol
Then why not YOU make the first move with a message! This man would love that, but it never happens, here or real life/ Simple as Hey, you want to talk, is good enough! Sure wish women were a bit bolder and not so "shy" to show a little interest. Hidden hints and too subtle flirts are hard to pick up on, at least for me. My weakness- don't "read" people real well.
@golfguy3467 I don't have time to make the first move when I get spammed with hundreds of messages each week when I'm active on the site, lol. Keeping up with responses is a full time job sometimes. Please don't underestimate how many messages we field on a daily basis.
And I'm not shy, so I can't speak to that. I'm bold and out there and there's nothing hidden about me and what I desire. I'm not afraid to show interest, or shut a person down pretty fast if I know there's no attraction/connection. But most consider me outside of the norm. So I gather that's unusual.
@Wickedgirlforyou Oh Yeah, I'm sure you women get bombed with messages! I try to stand out and and get a response, but so many assholes out there can screw it up for us good guys!