All good things must come to an end. An old saying that still holds true today. As I have mentioned before, my primary reason for coming to AFF was to find a male FWB and a female FWB. The male FWB was going to be temporary, I made that very clear in my profile. It would be temporary until I met a guy in my personal or professional life that I was interested in pursuing a LTR with. I also made it clear that when I met my person I was interested in having an LTR with that I would break off contact with my FWB. And this was also a two-way street. My FWB was made aware that they could break off contact with me at any time, just be man enough to tell me. The posts that I write on my blog are usually 6 to 8 weeks after they occurred. I joined AFF about 10 months ago under another profile name. I had to change profile names because of numerous issues with my other profile that AFF couldn’t or wouldn’t correct so I closed it and opened my current one. One of the very first people to contact me on my old profile was gina4_fun1 (she also had another profile name at the time that she closed due to similar issues I had). Gina and I quickly became friends and lovers, which will continue. I was also fortunate to have met Candles21114, we also became friends and lovers. Candles has very busy family life, so we have only been together sexually on two occasions. I look forward to many more intimate times with her. I also met ericxl_1, and he quickly became the male FWB I was looking for. About four weeks ago I asked Eric to meet me for lunch. We met at a quaint and quiet restaurant. I met him there because I had news for him and I wanted to tell him in person. Not through AFF, text, or email. I respect Eric, always will and he deserved to be told in person the news I had to pass on to him. I told him that I had met a man that I was interested in pursuing a LTR with. I met this man by pure happenstance. As I was telling Eric this news I could feel the tears starting to well up in my eyes. I truly never expected this to happen so quickly after I met Eric. This lunch was becoming more emotional than I thought it would. But it was understandable. I was intimate with Eric, very intimate. I respected this man. He wasn’t a great penis attached to some dude. He was a great man that happened to have a great penis. He was the perfect FWB. If situations were different, like had I not met him on a sex site he would have been someone that I would have considered having a LTR with. But that was and never will be in the cards for us. Eric was upfront with me from the very beginning that he is not looking for a LTR. He strictly wants a couple of female FWB’s that he can meet with for social and sexual fun. So we were on the same wavelength when we started emailing each other on AFF. Neither of us were looking to meet our potential spouse through a sex site. Imagine the family reunion when the question is asked., “How did you guys meet?” Sorry, but I’m too honest and I could just imagine when I broke the news to my family I met him on a sex site, lol. Maybe if I was in my 40’s, but people in their 20’s don’t look for their potential suitor on a sex site. We come here for sex. Period. After I broke the news to Eric, he stood up with tears in his eyes, and walked over to me. I stood up, also teary eyed. We hugged. For a really long time. He held me and then looked directly into my eyes and said, “I am so happy for you.” I know he meant it. We sat back down, ate our awesome lunch, and had even better conversation. There was no tension. At that point we were just two friends having lunch and laughing. A lot of laughing. When the waitress brought the bill, Eric grabbed it and paid the tab and tip, totally disregarding my pleas to split the bill or at least pay the tip. He said it was his honor to pay the tab for having the privilege to have had me in his life, even if it was for a short amount of time. No Eric, it was my honor to have had the privilege to have had you in my life. When we first met, Eric said he hoped that someday when we were elderly, we would run into one another at a grocery store. And when we did, we would laugh and talk about our lives. And give each other one final hug. Eric, I truly look forward to that day. Eric, whenever you decide to settle down you will make a wonderful husband. You are a good man and a good person. The world needs more people like you. When I invest in someone, I invest my heart and soul. I have now invested myself in a man that I hope to spend the rest of my life with. Part of this investment is cutting ties with certain parts of my life. And one of those parts is AFF. I can’t expect to be fully invested with a man that I love all the while checking in on AFF. I can’t. That isn’t me. I will always be me. My new potential LTR knows about AFF. He knows about Eric. He knows about Candles. He knows about Gina. He accepts everything. He accepts his place in my life and I accept my place in his. So, this is my farewell to AFF. My swan song. When I started my blog, I figured I’d get maybe 100 people to follow me. I wasn’t doing it for followers though. I was doing it because I wanted to tell my stories of my AFF experiences. So other people could see that there are people here that meet and actually have sex. I also wanted to show that there are people that meet and don’t have sex. I always wanted to share with you the good, bad and indifferent. And to be honest about my stories, for better or worse. I think I did that. My blog quickly grew to over 1,000 followers. More than I ever imagined. Thank you to everyone that followed my blog. I hope I brought a smile to your face. I hope I have given YOU HOPE in that you can meet people on here. I hope I gave men some insight on how to meet women on AFF. Remember the number one rule, never send dick pics unless they are requested, lol. I’ll be closing down my account in 3 or 4 weeks. In the interim I will be posting a couple of pictorials. One that will contain a few pics of Gina that I took with her phone. I took them for fun but we wanted to share them with you. Another pictorial will be from a multi-part post that I was going to do from the day I spent with Candles21114. That was my “Big News” that I was going to share with you guys, Candles21114 and I spending the day together having incredible, mind-blowing sex with pics to share. These are my first “action shots”, lol. Yes, me and Candles having fun. They were taken at her gorgeous waterfront home. Just the two of us, her hubby’s camera, and a tripod. I had so much fun that day. And yes, Candles pictures that she posts and that I will post do not do her justice. Don’t get me wrong, her pics are amazing. But she is so much more beautiful in person. Absolutely stunning. And she is even a more beautiful person. I am fortunate to know her. I must end this with a tribute to my new bestie, @gina4_fun1. The first girl to message me on AFF quickly became a lover and a dear friend. We have shared so many precious times together in these last 9 months. 9 months is interesting because that is a normal human gestation period. Gina and I have given birth to something, a friendship like no other I have ever experienced. She has been my advisor, confidant, my rock, my personal comedian, and an amazing lover. I am blessed to have her in my life. As we always say to each other, will we talk and joke with each other like we do now when we are in our 80’s? Well, I look forward to finding out. Thank you everyone that has taken this ride with me on my AFF adventure. Now it's time for me to start my own adventure. Wish me well. I love you all.
Please enjoy life, family and whatever brings you pleasure.
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You are so fuckin hot
Hey batgirl, if you still single, yes, I want a LTR, I will never cut your wings or control you with your girls, that would be ok with me, but no other men if we are a couple, if this is ok contact me, germanarturo2 arrrrrgmmmldutcum love to hear from you. I'm in Florida, I'll travel to you or come and we go to the beach for a few days if you like. Kiss.
Just an FYI, Batgirl is no longer on this site due to there being some issues with a few weird freaking stalkers on this site and AFF refusing to take action against them. Also, she was never on this site looking for a LTR, she was here for a FWB. A few months back she met a guy at a social event and is in a LTR with him and is very happy. She told me she will never return to AFF.
Salut j'ai une bonne nouvelle pour vous. Le bon moment ? Notre existence sur cette terre est temporelle. Pensez-vous à ce qui vous arrivera après votre mort. Nous sommes tous pécheurs et méritons tous d'aller en enfer, mais DIEU dans son amour pour vous et moi à Donné son Fils unique JÉSUS-CHRIST qui mort pour nos péchés et ressuscité pour notre justification. Si vous croyez cela, vous serez sauvé et libéré de l'esclavage du péché, qui vous amène à faire ce que vous savez être mal. Si tu confesses de ta bouche le Seigneur Jésus, et si tu crois dans ton cœur que Dieu l’a ressuscité des morts, tu seras sauvé. Romains 10:9 LSG [links for level 4+]
Adios AFF. Batgirl_6969, gina4_fun1, and I have all deleted our accounts due to harassment by male members and AFF not taking action against them. Then some weirdo makes an unsubstantiated complaint against Batgirl and she gets punished by AFF. AFF has become so lame. Batgirl is happy with the man she has in her life and will not return to any on-line dating services. Gina and I may go elsewhere but I think we'll end up just staying off-line as well. Good luck to all of you and be careful with the weirdos on this site.
Best of luck to you and the rest of the Hot Butt Squad!
Yes, most of us come here for a FWB sex relationship. I know that's why I am here.
Timing is everything in life.
I enjoyed your blog and wish you well and happiness!
Thanks for sharing your adventures with us. I wish you the best going forward!
Good luck! 👍 you for sure had great time here. 😎
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Congratulations.
Congratulations to you! I, for one, will miss you. Your posts are like a breath of fresh air. No pretense, no agenda, simply raw sexuality. You deserve good things in your life and I wish you well. If there's ever a time that a northern grandpa can be of any assistance to you, feel free to reach out. XOXO