Part 1 – My evening with @ericxl_1. As promised, I am going to tell you the story of how I met a guy on AFF. In multiple posts I’ll take you through from the very beginning of our first AFF contact to the night we had sex. So, if you’re only here to read about sex between two people then you will probably have to wait for Part 2. But, if you want to find out what it takes to enable a woman to get to the point of wanting to meet with you then you might want to read this post in its entirety. You might pick up on some useful tips to help you to meet women on this site. It’s not a sure fire, 100 percent solution but it might help in meeting women on AFF. And if you’re a woman, you might want to read this post as well because you will probably see that you’re not the only woman on here that receives the type of emails that get you frustrated and/or angered. In other words, you’ll feel my pain, lol. So to start, my profile is pretty specific as to what I am looking for on AFF. Regarding men, I am looking for someone that is single, between the ages of 25-30, well hung (8” +), well built, nice smile, good personality, okay with a FWB situation, and a few other pieces of useful information. I made my profile very detailed in the hopes that men would actually read it, comprehend it, respect it, and use it as a guide when they messaged me. But alas, I WAS WRONG, lol. I receive anywhere from 50 to 100 emails per day. The overwhelming majority of them do not meet my basic criteria (age, single, penis size, etc.). And many of them usually send, in their first message to me, a close-up dick pic with an amorous line like, “wanna suck this”, “can I stuff this in you”, “wanna sit on it”, or, “you need this.” Sooooooo romantic, lol. Those people are immediately blocked because I want to save them the time and effort of having to send me any future pieces of their stellar literary works. BTW, those quotes I listed are copy and pasted from emails that have been sent to me, those are not from my imagination. And yes, I do block those people and never respond to them. I know this is a sex site but come on guys, be creative and grab the attention of the woman that you are interested in meeting. Treat it like you see a woman in public that you are attracted to. Would you walk up to her, whip out your dick and say, “wanna suck this”. Even though there are some men on AFF that don’t see a problem with this, I would have to say that most people would think that would be socially (and legally) unacceptable. So why resort to that type of introduction on an internet site? I belong to a private chatroom on AFF of over 100 women from the DMV (for non-locals the DMV stands for Washington, DC, Maryland and Virginia (Northern Virginia specifically). To become a member of this private chatroom you have to do a video chat with the moderator to prove you are a woman and not one of the numerous fake female profiles on AFF. In the chatroom we discuss a myriad of topics, from daily life, restaurants, nightlife, etc.. One issue we regularly discuss is the men on AFF. And believe me when I tell you we get VERY detailed, lol. One of the issues that has been brought up is the dick pic issue. Not one….NOT ONE of the women in that chatroom reply to a guy that sends an unsolicited dick pic in their first message. Guys, are you reading this HUGE HINT? So, what do they respond to? Well, to save you some time and to help speed this up so I can get to the sex part of this story, let me tell you what led me to reply to @ericxl_1. Eric’s message stood out for several reasons. First off, no dick pic. I could tell that he had actually read my profile and he addressed all of what I was looking for in a man. He mentioned he was single, owned his own home and could have me over anytime, had a nice smile, didn’t know his exact dick length but was confident he was well over 8”, and on and on. He also infused humor throughout his message. He sold himself. He basically convinced me that I needed him….NEEDED HIM in my life without being forceful or demanding. He should be a salesman because he can sell. I mean that in a good way. What I really appreciated about his message is that I could tell he took his time. I could also tell he was intelligent by the words he chose and how eloquent he was. He also appeared educated because of his grammar and spelling. Not that this is a high school or college paper but using good grammar and spelling go a long way when women read your message. It helps us determine if you took your time writing the message or if it was put together haphazardly. Trust me when I tell you that many men on here appear desperate when they send messages by the way their message is written. Women don’t like or respect desperate men. Don’t look desperate. One other thing that Eric did that I felt was really important was he appeared honest. APPEARED, people can seem honest but still be lying. Lies will always catch up to a person. He was honest in that he said he was single, but he had a current FWB that he met on AFF. He provided me her profile name (which I won’t list here) and said feel free to reach out to her. Now, I wasn’t born yesterday. I realize that ole, slickyboy Eric could have easily created a female profile and posed as a female. So I decided to call him on it and I reached out to her. She responded. Or was it Eric? Only one way to find out…..video chat! And guess what? She said, sure she could video chat! Well, damn….I guess he was being honest. Her and I video chatted for at least an hour. We chatted about our AFF experience, life, backgrounds, etc……..and Eric. Eric, I know you’re reading this so let me tell you that she is your biggest advocate. She really respects you and admires you deeply. You have a really good girl in her, she’s special. And unfortunately for me, she isn’t bi. DAMN! LOL. She is so pretty and from her profile pics I can see she has a terrific body and an AWESOME butt (yep, I’m a butt girl). But she’s straight. I have a feeling she’s reading this blog and if she is I have a message for you. If you ever decide to “be gay for a day”….I’m your girl, lol. Seriously though, I enjoyed my conversation with her and she really confirmed everything I thought about Eric. Thank you for your help. Guys, you don’t need to send references with your messages. Just send a message to a woman like you are meeting her on the street. Be kind, thoughtful, show your personality, be honest, and make her remember you in a good way. And since we’re on AFF don’t get frustrated if someone doesn’t reply or if they send you an odd message. There are a lot of fakes, bots and prostitutes on here. You’ll have to sort through them to get to the real ones. It takes time. And don’t use a copy and paste message, we can instantly spot them. So, by now Eric and I have exchanged numerous emails and I enjoyed each one. I always looked forward to receiving and reading his emails. They always brightened my day. Now we’re on to the next step. We began exchanging pics, no face pics just clothed and unclothed body pics to make sure we were attracted to each other’s body. Eric admitted that he didn’t have a dick pic. I was surprised by that but he explained that it just wasn’t his style to take pics of his dick. I respected that, even though dick size is one of my prerequisites. His FWB did confirm that he was well hung so that helped. He did send some erotic pics of him in underwear and I could tell from the bulge in his underwear that he was probably well above the average. So, I made a judgement call and “waived” my usual dick pic to confirm size. I had a gut feeling it would be okay. Plus, even though we were in the beginning stages of a relationship, I did have some trust in Eric. After exchanging pics, we agreed to video chat. I mentioned earlier this post wasn’t about sex. Well, guess what? I kind of lied. I said sex between two people. I didn’t say sex alone 😉 This post contains no sex between Eric and I. But it does contain some sex that you and Eric are about to find out about for the first time. 😉 Prior to video chatting I decided to take a nice shower. During the shower I couldn’t get Eric’s body out of my mind. I didn’t know what his face looked like, even though his AFF FWB said he as extremely good looking. But I kept thinking of his body and that bulge in his briefs. As I was showering, I could feel my nipples getting erect and when the water hit my pussy it made my pussy pulsate. I fought the urge to masturbate in the shower. And I won against my sexual urges. Sorry, no shower masturbation story this time. As I dried off, I noticed my nipples were still erect. I could feel my pussy was still a little wet, and not from the shower water. I was horny. Damn Eric for sending those pics of him! LOL. After drying off I started to put on my lotion. As I rubbed the lotion on my breasts, I got turned on even more. I began to fantasize. I fantasized that I was nude and standing in front of a faceless Eric who was also nude except for his briefs. I ran my fingernails down his muscular chest, down his chiseled abs….he flinched as I touched his abs. He’s ticklish. I moved my hands to his bulge. I began rubbing his cock that was beneath is briefs. I could feel him getting hard. I could feel his balls getting tight. I began rubbing his cock faster. I wanted to release his cock and balls from his briefs and get on my knees and take his cock into my warm, wet mouth. But it never happened. He turned me around. He pushed on my shoulders, bending me over. My hands were bracing myself on his bed. I could hear him take off his briefs. Then I felt him place his one hand on my left butt cheek. I then felt what appeared to be the head of his cock press against my wet pussy. If it was the head of his cock, it was thick and hard. As he pressed harder, I realized it was his cock. OMG he was big. Bigger than it appeared as I was rubbing it earlier. He pressed harder, the head of his cock was sliding into my pussy. It felt so good. He was stretching my pussy. It slightly hurt but it was a hurt that quickly led to pleasure. He had the head of his cock all the way in me. He was taking his time. I was getting wetter. He entered me slowly, inch by inch. He began moving back and forth, slowly. He was getting his rhythm. With one of my hands I began rubbing my breasts. My nipples were so hard. Both of his hands were grasping my hips. He began to pick up his pace. His cock entered me further. My pussy was now dripping. I could feel he was going deeper and deeper into me with each thrust. He was all the way in me. I could feel his large balls slapping against my pussy as he thrust his huge cock into me. I let go of my breasts and reached back and began rubbing my clit. My other hand still needed to brace me against the bed to prevent me from falling from his hard thrusting. I could feel my pussy getting wetter. I could feel his cock getting harder. I could no longer feel his balls slapping against my pussy because his balls were tight to his body. He was ready to cum. I was ready to cum. I rubbed my clit faster. I could feel my pussy pulsating and tingling. Damn this felt good. I rubbed even faster. I cried out as I came. I could tell he was ready. I quickly pulled away from him. I turned around and dropped to my knees. I was amazed at what I saw. A long, thick throbbing cock dripping with my juices in front of me. I wasted no time taking it into my mouth. It stretched my mouth. I hoped I wasn’t scratching his cock with my teeth. I started over thinking things again. I focused on his cock. I rubbed his balls. I could feel his cock throbbing. I could taste my pussy juices on his cock. I tasted good, lol. I could hear him moaning. I could feel his balls pulsating. Get ready Batgirl, here he comes. And come he did. Wave after wave of his salty cum went down my throat. I then kept my lips tight against his cock and I slowly slid my mouth off of his cock. I lightly licked the head of his cock and began to look up at his muscular abs and chest. Then it was over. That was it. That was my fantasy that I masturbated to prior to our video chat. I also provided a pic to this post that I took of myself after masturbating. You can see in the pic the lotion was mixing from my perspiration from getting all “hot and bothered” from the fantasy. And that was the exact position I used when I masturbated to this fantasy. I hope you enjoyed the fantasy and my pic. A mixture or fantasy and reality. After I was finished posing for my pics (yep, I had to take quite a few to get the right one to post, lol) I had to go and towel off again. I felt great but I was slightly overheated and had to cool down before I put on my clothes for the video chat. Once I cooled down I went and “did my face” as I usually do….a little make-up here a little highlight there. Then I went into my walk-in closet. For my frequent readers you know what’s next….the full length mirror, lol. I stood there as I usually do when I have time. I had time today. My make-up job actually looked good. Just enough to accentuate what needed to be accentuated. My breasts still look pretty firm but then again, I’m only 25. No sagging…yet anyways. My tummy is looking better as I’m back on my post-holiday eating regimen. I decided to let my pubic hair grow in a little above my pussy. I trimmed it into a V-shape. Why might you ask? Hell, I have no clue, lol. It seemed right at the time and now I must just go with it. It looks good for now but in a few weeks, I’ll probably change it or wax it. Whatever. My pubic hair is always a work in progress, lol. I did the obligatory turn around. Yep, butt still looked good. But again, I’m only 25 so it shouldn’t be sagging. I’m still not yet in a war with Father Time. I picked a nice casual t-shirt…….wait what? A T-SHIRT? Yep, t-shirt! Hey, I was still overheated from masturbating! And the upstairs of my house is usually nice and warm in the winter. So yes dammit, I’m wearing a t-shirt. And no bra, lol. I was too warm. Give me a break! And guess what else I wore? Eric, you didn’t know this but when we did our video chat I wore a t-shirt, no bra, and just a pair of panties, lol. Yep, now you and everyone reading this blog knows I video chatted with Eric wearing a t-shirt, no bra, a pair of red lacy boy shorts, and no socks lol. AND I had just masturbated. There it is…it’s all out there now, lol. As for the video chat, Eric came “as advertised” by his AFF FWB. He is extremely good looking. He’s mixed race, white and Hispanic. I really liked what I saw. Now I can place a face to my fantasy guy. We had an awesome video chat. We talked about our family, life, goals, dreams, we shared lots of laugh too. But do you know what we didn’t talk about? Sex. Not a word. I appreciated that. He focused on getting to know ME and I focused on getting to know HIM. As the video chat wound down, we discussed meeting for dinner. We set up a day, time and location that was good for us. In my next post I’ll do a quick overview of our dinner date and then move on to probably why a lot of you read blogs….I’ll get into the evening I spent at Eric’s beautiful home. Yes, the sex stuff, lol. Until then, enjoy life, family and whatever brings you pleasure.
35 comments
I should be fucking your delicious looking asshole with my tongue in that picture
Thanks but I am very happy with the man and women I have in my life.
I'm just here for the pic That is one HOT pic! Thanks for posting it. Thanks for not only sharing your pics but your stories as well. I always look forward to your posts.
Thanks @jumper6668 I'm glad you enjoy my pics and posts. More posts to come soon. Stand by!
@batgirl_6969 I can't wait! I'm really looking forward to reading them. Thanks.
@batgirl_6969 OMG, I can see you sitting there in those red boy shorts. SOOOOOO sexy Your pic makes me want to come over
@gina4_fun1 Now YOU stop teasing!!
@batgirl_6969 I'M NOT TEASING
That's rich!perfect!
Damn!!
Mmmm, if those fingers were not in there my tongue would be.
Whatever brings you pleasure- like thinking about sexy butts in red lacy boy shorts! lol "I tasted good, lol" I guess sometimes you can judge a book by its cover
I just tell it like it is!
You’re So Hot! Down to Earth, You got me Tuned
Thinking about Your Hot Playtime!
Thank you for your compliment.
Very hot and sexy!
Thank you for your compliment.
Thank you for a very informative and hot blog. And the picture is beautiful
You are more than welcome and thank you for the compliment.
All slick. nice
Just some lotion and perspiration (not sweat, lol).
@batgirl_6969 Happy Days.
O.M.G. WOW! When you texted me earlier saying you were going to post this I literally logged onto my AFF account and waited for the post to come up, lol. Girl, you did not disappoint! And I recognize that bedspread
I'm glad you enjoyed it. Wait for Part 2! Care to come over and mess up my bedspread
@batgirl_6969 stop teasing me! NOT NICE!!
Attention Walmart shoppers! Of course people don't read profiles! We ain't no rocket scientists or brain surgeons. We just want to have some honest clean fun! You never know you might find a gem in a rock pile! I've made some pretty good friends on here and they're solid! But then again there's the other side of the coin where people just want to talk about getting together and what they would like to do. But when the rubber meets the road they haul ass! Which is probably better than actually meeting them! Lol!
I can only speak from my perspective and I'm here to tell you that you increase your chances by 100 percent if you read my profile and then respond to me. Ask @ericxl_1. He clearly read it, messaged me, and now we are meeting regularly. I don't look through rock piles, those gems need to present themselves to me in an appropriately worded message. But, I can't force anyone to do anything, I can just give advice. At the end of the day, you do what you feel is best for you.
@batgirl_6969 I don't know why it is girls always seem to spell and their grammar is impeccable! But speaking of hotties you should see the one I'm just talking to now holy buckets you can't even tell she's a guy not even close she is hot man but then in a couple of her pictures she's got her needs with guys shooting a little c** on her face lol! She's a doll! I have speech to text and it considered murder some paragraphs! LOL!
@Passinbi2 To each his own.