I've been debating (with myself, lol) about posting this but I figured that when I decided to blog about my AFF experiences that I pledged to post the good, the bad, and the indifferent. So here you go............. I had been communicating via AFF email with a guy that had reached out to me. In his initial contact he wrote a very detailed, well written email. I was very impressed. Normally my email is filled with guys (usually waaaayy outside of my desired age range) that send a dick pic with a comment like, "wanna suck it", or "wanna sit on this", "lemme know when you want me to stuff this in you". Those are actual quotes that I copy and pasted from messages sent to me. Needless to say, all of those people were immediately blocked. Some of them, depending on the rudeness or inappropriateness of their email, I might reply with a "free education" about respecting a woman even on a sex site. So, I replied back to this guy with a lot of questions, and he replied in a timely manner with very detailed answers. Everything seemed good. And no, he had never sent me a dick pic until I requested proof of his endowment because size is important to me for what I'm looking for in a short term FWB situation. The dick pic he sent was as I requested so I could verify that it wasn't something he pilfered from the Internet. He had a very nice, manicured, cut 8 1/2" dick. I liked what I saw. He also had nice, low hanging balls that I looked forward to playing with. He was also clean cut and handsome from the face pics that he sent. So far, so good. After exchanging more emails, I asked him to video chat. I had some requests of him just to make sure there would be no games played regarding the video chat and he complied with those requests. Prior to our video chat I took a nice hot shower. During my shower I took the handheld shower head and began spraying water all over my body. I also noticed that I was horny. It had been about a week since I had any sex, including masturbation. When the water from the shower head hit my pussy, I could feel the water putting nice pressure on my clit. It felt good, damn good. I started moving the shower head in a circular motion and I could feel my pussy getting excited. I started rubbing my breasts with my other had. I envisioned the pics of this guys cock and balls. I began fantasizing of being on my knees in front of his semi-hard cock. I would take his cock in my one hand and slowly stroke his cock as I began playfully licking and sucking his balls. As his cock began to get hard, I would begin licking around the head of his cock. Then I would begin licking up and down the long, thick shaft of his cock. After teasing him with my tongue I would put one of my hands around his cock and begin stroking his cock as I put the head of his cock into my mouth. I would slowly bob my head up and down on the head and the top of his shaft as I stroked his cock with my hand. My pussy was getting even wetter and not from the shower water. I could imagine his cock getting hard. I would take my hand off his cock and start playing with his balls as I began taking his cock deeper into my mouth and throat. I was confident I could take all of his 8 1/2" into my mouth and throat. I knew I would try. As I continue to work his cock, I could feel it begin throbbing. I cold feel his balls getting tighter. I could taste the salt of his pre-cum. His cock was throbbing. My pussy was throbbing. I began moving the shower head in faster circular motions. My nipples were rock hard. I was wasting a lot of water, lol. I wasn't looking forward to my next water bill. Okay, stay focused on the feeling! I took my hand off my breasts and inserted two fingers deep into my pussy. I was moving the shower head around even faster. My fingers were sliding in and out of my dripping wet pussy. I was almost there. I was fantasizing that I had taken his hard, throbbing cock out of my mouth. My saliva was dripping down his cock and onto his balls as I looked up at him and smiled. And then I could feel my pussy tighten up. I was cumming. Hard. Really hard. OMG, that felt good. I was really looking forward to sucking his cock. I needed to get focused again and get showered. My nipples were still hard. My pussy was still tingling but I needed to shower. I needed to get clean so I would look nice for the video chat. After getting out of the shower I dried off, my nipples not as hard but still semi-erect. My pussy was no longer wet. I rubbed moisturizer all over my body. Yes, when I rubbed the lotion on my breasts my nipples got hard again, lol. I was still horny. After I "did my face" I went into my closet. I don't use much make-up, mainly a little touch up here and there and a highlight here and there. Fortunately, I don't have to spend much money on make-up and all the accessories that come with it. In my closet I had to decide what to wear. But before that I did my usual routine and looked at myself in my full-length mirror. I focused more on my face to make sure I put everything on evenly, to include my lipstick. It looked the same as it did two minutes ago when I looked in my bathroom mirror, lol. I then let my eyes look over my body. During the holiday season, beginning with Thanksgiving, I don't focus too much on my diet. I still do my workouts though. During this time, I had gained 4 pounds but I was happy that those 4 pounds didn't appear to have attached to my face, neck, hips, tummy, butt, or thighs. I smiled and was happy at what I saw. I hadn't trimmed my pussy in about a week, but it still looked manicured. I was thinking about getting it waxed soon I turned around and my butt looked nice. I didn't bend over this time, especially since I had no plans on having sex with anyone. I was mainly just taking a look to see if my 4-pound weight gain had any negative effects on my shape. I turned my attention to my clothes. Hmmm, what to wear? I started over thinking things. It was taking longer than it should. I was making this way too difficult. He was literally going to only see my face, neck, and maybe my shoulders. This wasn't going to turn into cybersex. He wasn't going to see my boobs. No pussy. No butt views. I'm not into cybersex anyway. So, I put on a nice comfy pair of sweatpants and a pullover top. Super casual, lol. Our video chat was to begin at 8:00 PM. I was on at 7:45, waiting. Patiently. At 8:00 he still wasn't there. I did not feel comfortable exchanging phone numbers with him until we met in person. At 8:10 I sent him a message on AFF. No reply. 8;15. I'm not happy. 8:20 I was ready to forget it and block him on AFF. 8:21 his video chat icon came on. I clicked on it. He appeared. Just as in his pics. He looked handsome. He apologized for being late, something about work. Okay, whatever. During our video chat he seemed nervous, which was okay maybe I was too. I didn't feel nervous though. I kind of felt in charge. I was carrying the conversation. Eventually he picked up his end of the conversation and began to bring up topics and infusing some humor. Things were moving in the right direction. We decided to meet for Happy Hour in two days, 5:00 PM at a local restaurant. I was looking forward to our meeting. I slept really well that night thanks to my great shower masturbation session, lol. Fast forward to the evening we were to meet. Due to a busy workday (I primarily work remotely from my home) I had very little time to get ready. No masturbating in the shower. No time to pose nude in front of my mirror. I had to focus on getting clean and getting dressed. Quickly. I knew I was going to have a busy day so the night before I chose what outfit I was going wear. Casual. Jeans and a button down top. Nice and easy. Nice and relaxed. I got to the restaurant and 4:55 for our 5:00 meeting. He wasn't there. I went to the bar and sat down. I put my purse on the chair next to me. This is the way us women unofficially reserve a seat, lol. As I sat there, I found myself immediately daydreaming about sucking my dates cock and balls again, lol. I don't know why that flashed into my mind, but it did. I was kind of getting into it in my mind. I heard a voice, but I was really thinking about my tongue circling around the head of this guys cock, lol. I then felt a hand touch my hand that was resting on the bar. It was the bartender asking if I'd like something to drink. Damn, I wonder how many times he asked me. If he only knew what I had been thinking of, lol. I decided to order a glass of wine since I did so well with wine on my date with @gina4_fun1 I sipped my glass of wine as I people watched. There was a couple sitting at a high-top table near the bar. She wasn't happy with him. He was looking down at the table as she was giving him the business. Maybe he was hoping for makeup sex, lol. It didn't look good though. Another couple was seated next to one another at a booth. His arm was around her shoulder. They were laughing. Enjoying one another's company. Everyone else at the bar was having a good time, except for that poor guy at the high-top table. I looked at my phone, 5:15. he's late. At 5:20 I ordered another glass of wine. Was I drinking too fast? Aww, who cares? I was getting hungry. I hadn't eaten since breakfast. Alcohol and empty stomachs do not go well together. Kind of like that couple at the high-top table that did not seem to go well together. I ordered a cup of cream of crab soup. I would have ordered something to share but since he was late, I was going to order just for me. The soup came at 5:35. My date wasn't there. The soup was awesome. Nice big chunks of crab. Just a slight hint of sherry, not overpowering. The cream wasn't too floury, just right. It was a great choice. At 5:45 my date appeared. He looked stressed and tired. I waved him over. He rushed over. No smile when he saw me. Maybe he was upset because he was so late, and I told him in previous emails that I like it when people are punctual because I always am. He said hi. No hug. Odd. No handshake either. Then he apologized for being late. Then he gave me a hug, well kind of a hug. He put his hands on my biceps, pushed his chest against mine. That was it. More like one of those hugs men give to each other. The he started with the compliments. "You look beautiful". "You have a great body". I had to stop him. I asked him if he was okay because he seemed stressed out. He said he was late because his car broke down and a friend had to give him a ride. Okay, shit happens. I get it. Plus, he still didn't have my cell to call or text me he was going to be late. No big deal letβs move on. We began talking about life, work, sports, etc. He still seemed nervous. I asked him if he wanted a drink. He said yes and that he wanted a rum and coke. I ordered him a double, lol. It didn't take him long to finish his drink. I ordered him another one. I was still sipping my 2nd glass of wine. I was feeling good. Maybe a slight buzz. When the bartender brought his 2nd drink, I asked my date if he wanted to get a table and he said yes. Then he sat there. And sat there. I asked again if he wanted to get a table and that we would have to let the hostess know. He said "Yeah". And still sat there drinking his drink. So, I got up and went to the hostess. I asked for a table to 2 and she asked where we'd like to be seated and I said, "First available". I wasn't feeling like I wanted to spend much more time with my date. I wasn't feeling any chemistry. But it was still early, he could still rebound and turn on his charm. I went back to the bar. My date sat there, nice and comfy with an empty glass. The bartender came over and I asked for the check. As the bartender walked away my date said he was just going to order another drink. Okay, wow. Kind of a fast drinker. During our conversations he said he didn't drink much. Internally I began questioning his definition of not drinking much. When the bartender came back, I asked if he could add another rum and coke (not a double though). The bartender said no problem. A minute or so later he came back with the drink and my tab. I signed my tab, left a very nice tip because the bartender was awesome. My date never offered to pay the tap or pick up the tip. Which is okay but I thought he should have at least offered. I still would have paid the tab and tip but an offer to pay one or both would have been nice. A few minutes later the hostess walked over and told me our table was ready. As the hostess walked away my date walked in front of me. I thought that was kind of rude. Normally the lady should go first. Oh well, maybe this is equal rights coming into play, lol. As my date walked in front of me, I noticed the bottom of his jeans were torn. And not the kind of tear that comes from the maker. It's the kind of tear that comes from excessive wear. His shoes, while a nice, expensive brand, were also worn and dirty. I should have looked him over earlier. We sat at our booth. I thought of the couple I saw earlier, sitting on the same side. In love. Enjoying one anotherβs company. I knew that would never be us because I wasn't looking for an LTR, I was strictly looking for an FWB. But it was still nice to think of having a relationship like those two. This restaurant serves the typical American fare, nothing too fancy but very good. He ordered a burger, fries and another rum and coke. I ordered the mahi mahi with vegetables. As we talked, I noticed he had a very hard time maintaining eye contact. His eyes shifted to left, right, down, everywhere but my eyes. He was now into his 4th drink, and he still hadn't loosened up. I was still carrying the conversation. I was not feeling any chemistry. By the time our food came I knew we had no future. He would not be my FWB. I would never get to lick and suck on his cock and balls as I had fantasized. I would have to continue masturbating in my shower. The mahi mahi was incredibly delicious. The seasoned and grilled vegetables as well. Nice job chef. I asked him how he liked his burger and fries. I think he mumbled, "mmm..mmm...it good". he never asked how my dinner was. Maybe he could tell by my clean plate. I'll never know what he thought. I'll never care what he thought. I had to get out of there. The waitress came and asked if we'd like dessert. I immediately said no. I think I told her I've had too many sweets during the holidays. It was bullshit. I would have liked some dessert. But I needed to leave. I was bored. The waitress brought the check over and my date took it. Okay, that was good. We talked a bit more. The waitress picked up the check with my dates credit card. He blurted out about getting together the next night at his place. I let him know that wasn't going to happen. He said he was nervous, he apologized for being late, he said he'd never talked to a woman as good looking and well-built as me. I didn't say it but internally I called bullshit. I'm attractive and have a nice shape but I'm no model and my looks don't intimidate men. Whatever. We had no chemistry. I couldn't accept his excuses. There would be no second chance. I made up my mind that I was moving on. Once I make up my mind on something there is no changing it. Then a nightmare started. Not so much for me, but more for my date. The waitress returned with the check and his credit card to advise him his card had been declined. Would we be washing dishes? LOL. He asked her to try again. She said she had already tried multiple times. He had no other credit cards. No ATM card. And only $26.00 in cash. Time to wash the dishes. To avoid getting "dish pan hands" I decided this night was all on me. I had to get the hell out of there. Like....now. I handed my card to the waitress. She gave me a slight smile. She could feel my pain. Could she feel his embarrassment? He begged me not to tell anyone. I told him it was too good of a story not to tell anyone. It's life. Shit happens. Learn from it but I'm fucking going to talk about it. I would never say his name, or in this case his profile name, but dammit I'm telling this story. A lot of people out there are one or two bad months away from having a credit card getting declined. It's humiliating, I'm sure but it can be all be corrected with proper financial management. The waitress brought the bill and thanked us. I added a tip and signed the bill. My date did offer to put money towards the tip. I couldn't take this mans $26.00. I told him I got it. By paying for the bar and dinner tab I felt I had then paid for the rights to this story, lol. We stood up. I walked over and gave him a hug. I felt bad for him. He really is a nice person. I think he's just going through some tough financial times. he'll get through it. If he's reading this, I wish him well. I really do. After hugging him we began walking to the door and I realized, how is he getting home? I asked him and he said he was going to call his friend, but his friend lived about 45 minutes away. My date lived like 10 minutes from the restaurant. I said to myself, what the hell...call him an Uber. I told him I'd call him an Uber. He again offered to give me his last (potentially) $26.00. I declined. We hugged again and I got the hell out of there. If you thought this AFF date was bad.....just wait until I post about my next one! WOW!
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OMG that pic
I took that pic all by myself Hmmm.....I could use some help taking pics I just don't know who I could ask....
@batgirl_6969 Well I know you are very talented but I hate that you had to do that yourself. Maybe I can help with some pics next time......
So perfect and delicious looking
Thanks again for your compliments.
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Wow! You are a really nice person. Whoever raised you did good. That's an f'ed up date though.
Thank you. Oh, it was an interesting date but not as interesting as another date I went on (not the date with @ericxl_1). I'll post about that experience after I finish my posts about my time with @ericxl_1.
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OMG, dude you need to read my post, "Part 1 My evening with @ericxl_1" where I discuss in detail the dick pic issue. Here's an actual quote from that post, "One of the issues that has been brought up is the dick pic issue. Not oneβ¦.NOT ONE of the women in that chatroom reply to a guy that sends an unsolicited dick pic in their first message. Guys, are you reading this HUGE HINT? " I want to bring this up because I do not want my blog to get filled up with a bunch of dick pics. Dick pics do nothing for me. They do not turn me on. In fact they do the exact opposite, I find them to be a turn off. I love and respect when people reply to my posts. But I want them to be a post of words and not pics. I want some intellectual banter. The pics I post of me relate to the post. I also post nude pics because I know that is what turns men on and the majority of people that read my blog are men. I get it, men and women think very differently and get turned on by different visuals. Men love unsolicited pics of women they know and don't know. Women think differently on that issue. In the future, feel free to reply to my posts but please refrain from anymore dick pics. Thanks.
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Very Nice!!!
Thank you for your compliment.
@batgirl_6969 You are so very welcome!! You have a sexy body too!! Sexy LEGS!
@Leegs2012 Thanks. In the next week or two I'm going to post a pic I took of myself 4 years ago, when I was 21. I was in college, playing softball at the collegiate level, eating right, and working out intensely every day. Looking at that pic and comparing to my shape today, there is definitely a difference. I was super tone back then. And my butt was tiny but muscular. I wonder what I will look like 4 years from now? I guess Father Time catches up to all of us.
@batgirl_6969 Keep working out if you feel the need. I workout 4 times a week. Biking, Running and some weights. I played sports to a long time ago.
You have a great body. Working out is good for the mind and body. It will keep that sexy body of yours nice and tone!!
@Leegs2012 Thanks. I still workout daily, cardio, weights and I eat pretty clean. But even with all of that but my body still can't compare to what it was 4 years ago. I'm still very happy with the way I look. I just find it interesting that in just 4 years the changes my body has gone through and was wondering what changes will occur in another 4 years.
@batgirl_6969 Well, just to let you know, you have a nice sexy body. You also have sexy LEGS!! I melt like butter when I see sexy LEGS on a Woman like you!!
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I have but one thing to say "Assalicious"!
Please, though, even though that was a somewhat unfortunate story, PLEASE share more of those stories. At my age, I have fumbled through some opportunities I missed simply because I didn't even ask, now I have a very polished game!
I have more to share. These posts are usually posted 2 to 4 weeks after they happen. I currently have 3 other posts that I will be putting up. I usually try to put up 1 a week.
I have just read your story and finished my lunch! LOL But seriously, I have been in your shoes a few times. Not that sex was on the table, but I have been in circimstances where a Tinder or POF date showed up and I felt that this was not going to be good. However, in being polite and a gentleman I always finish lunch or dinner or a few drinks then just call it an day or night. Somehow deep down I feel really bad because at least this person showed up and made some kind of effort. I don't have a real high bar set, but some folks don't get there. It usually takes me a few hours of mind jockeying to logically say it was OK for me to just walk away with a hug. In your case, I feel sorry for him, because he had a top shelf gal wanting to get intimate with him. Hopefully for his sake, he can find a buddy who can show him how to get his game elevated.
There was a lot more to this story, some things I left out to not cause him too much embarrassment. But what I will say is that I think social media has caused people to live beyond their means and it eventually puts them into a financial hole that they cannot dig out of. It's sad but avoidable. I know there are people that love to post on social media about their weekend trip to Vegas or Paris. And it's usually paid for by a credit card that they cannot pay off. While others, like me, save their money, take trips they can pay cash for, and pay off their credit card at the end of each month.
Makes me upset that I am on the wrong coast! LOL
Fantasy has no geographical boundaries.
Maybe someday we can share some fantasies?
@centralvalleydan I share my real life stories here and for the most part I keep my fantasies internalized. You should post your real life experiences and/or fantasies on your blog. Iβm sure people would enjoy reading them. I had considered posting my fantasies on my blog but decided to post my real life encounters instead.
That's a great pic!
Thanks, I actually set that up all by myself!
Other than beautiful and sexually geared up, you are also pretty handy with the camera!
@centralvalleydan trust me, it was much more complicated than it appears!
Mmmm, love to stick my tongue in all of that. ππ
Both look delicious
Omg always checking your butt! IDK it always looks good to me...at least your water stayed hot in the shower! Better luck on the next one
These posts are usually about 2-3 weeks behind. Since then I've had 1 bad meeting which I'll post soon, one great meeting, and another meeting with @gina4_fun1 at her place.
@batgirl_6969 ohhhhhh Gina and her fab booty! Good for you! And her I can't help but think something fishy was going on there. Glad you made it through ok except minus some $$$. And for posting another HOT pic lol
@OlBlueEyz46 He keeps reaching out to me to send me money via a cash app but I told him no. I had to block him. There's more to the story but to prevent further embarrassment for him I just posted the basic story.
Omg, batgirl, that shot is so fckn hot, oh bby.... mmmm ok, now i'm going to read the story!
I hope you enjoy the story as much as you enjoyed the pic.
@batgirl_6969 the shower did not disappoint! not so good for the date!
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