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I agree with you on a good profile. That helps me decide whether I'm willing to go on to the next step. But, you can't beat a one on one interaction. I can usually tell in a couple minutes if a chick is interested and we have a mutual admiration for one another. You can't beat the chemistry of mutual attraction
I dig a chick with long (shoulder-length or better) hair. I can't explain it, it's just a thing with me. I dig pretty eyes and a pretty smile, too. Sometimes, I can be attracted to a woman just by the way she carries herself, her body language, like I am with my gym crush. Sometimes, it's just a vibe you get, also unexplainable. Before I even met Mrs. Durty, I saw a picture of her that her friend had and was instantly attracted. I like feminine women. I have enough testosterone and masculinity for both of us, I don't need a woman like that. All that being said, I am a sapiosexual. She can look like a 10, but if she has a 10 IQ, I am immediately turned off. If I look at a profile on here, the woman can look like a Victoria's Secret model, but if she writes like a first-grader or is too lazy to write anything compelling at all, I let out a sigh and move on. Talk about mindless guys on here with all the dick pics, but I also see a lot of profiles with just tit or pussy picks. I don't even bother with those. I also see a lot of pics of women with their tongues hanging out, cigarettes hanging out of their mouths, and doing degrading shit. That's a nope from me. Above all, I like realness, like you do.
Realness is mandatory. I’m a complete fool for some beautiful, correctly spelled weighted words.
Realness is an absolute. If someone looks too perfect I move along. Along with intelligence, humour in their writing is a plus.
Hold on I have some glasses somewhere…
😘😂
Hard question to answer, given the varying amounts of information people share on profiles. But for me, generally speaking, a profile that shows some humor, has no grammatical errors or misspellings, and gives just a hint of a personality is a great start. I set a fairly high bar for intelligence and humor, so that's what I look for. If there are photos, the first thing that usually catches my attention is the mouth; some kissable lips in a picture with a smile goes a long way. And boobs, of course, but that's a given.
Your eyes are what had me at Hello! sorry i know it's cheesy but HOT DAM! you have some beautiful eyes!
Eyes, smile and curves but not necessarily in that order haha
your just so beautiful
Thank you 😘
@Michelle21406 your welcome and if you ever want to chat i would be honored
On the dating side - she talks to me. Good conversation keeps me coming back.
Community side - interesting topics. Not that fake I'm so horny BS.
Looks are secondary. For you, eyes and hair.
Eyes and a smile go along way. Yes this an adult site.. but I prefer the profile pics to be of a woman's face (nice to leave things to the imagination until the time is right 😉 ). A woman with glasses is also a turn on. From there...it's really about their profile. I know it's hard to capture the essence of who someone truly is in just a few paragraphs, but a little can go along way. Is she articulate? Can she express her likes/dislikes eloquently not..."I like my clit licked...or need a big dick"
I'm not going to lie looks to start then need conversation after that sexual compatibility. I sure don't want a bump on the log. I need to feel your desire.
For me it's a sparkle, and I can't define that. It could be a smile or in the eyes, but there's an unsaid hint of something different. I like a nice chest on a man, equally a nice chest on a woman. I have a soft spot for red hair, and I like pretty feet.
I don't mind a dick pick but I like to see the body attached to it, and I get that many people need to be discreet, but I like to see a hint of a face or I probably won't reply to a message.
Agree with you 100%
To me something about the photo catches my attention doesn't have to be a beautiful woman I honestly can't define it plus beauty is in the eye of the beholder
pretty girl
Curves... kryptonite for me
direct eye contact during conversation
Her eyes!
I've heard that men are visual creatures. I guess that's true to an extent for me because I do enjoy lots of different visual aspects of women. However, it's not something that drives me to initiate contact. I like to read a person's profile, sometimes several times and read between the lines a little. If a profile is totally lacking in anything tangible, I find it to be a turn off regardless if the picture is of a beautiful, naked and sexy woman. I am also turned off by profiles that seem to be a manifesto of how all men are basically assholes and useless. There are several of those on this site. Confidence is a good thing but when it becomes arrogance, it is a flaw. What I like is someone honest and truly interested in some type of meeting. Not instant gratification or immediate hook-up for sex either. Anyone willing to just meet for a cup of coffee or possibly a lunch date and talk face to face so we can truly see if we are compatible. Having said that, sometimes I can't find a single profile in my area that even comes close to all that so will message someone just to say hi and ask to find out a little more about them when their profile does not give a lot of detail.
There usually needs to be something that clicks for me. What that thing is varies. Sense of humor, wit, intelligence, amazing tits and ass...take your pick. But it's not just one thing all the time.
Someone who looks like they have expierenced life, possible multi cultural or well traveled. Someone who can hold a conversation.
I am attracted by a smile, and of course a little cleavage, but what the person has to say is important to me. The image is the first impression, and if it is pleasing that is a plus. Location is also a determinant, as well as age. Distance makes it more difficult to meet and maintain a friendship if that is desired, and age reflects on what stage in life one is apt to be in, and what common experiences you may share.
Similar kinks and interests make me reach out initially but intelligence and personality is what takes me part the initial message.
Personally I look at a posting for the first time and the profile pic ketches my eye. I am attracted to older women of 30+to 69, and love a face on the first pic. I look into the eyes and see if they appears to be "happy eyes" no matter the color. I read the profile, look at all pictures and some of the videos (as much as I can before I am turned off by thing which might make me thing it is a fake account.) If interested I send a flirt first then if very interest I send a hottie or even a message. If no response I then go on.
Eyes and a smile are usually a quick draw for me. The ability to engage intelligently is a huge turn on for me! A mind is very sexy!
Being able to engage one another in banter. Priceless.
@Michelle21406
Very much!
Physical attributes will get me to stop and take a look. Intelligence, sense of humor and kindness will get me to stay.
If you can make me laugh, you’ve got my attention.
@Michelle21406 give me about 10 minutes. That’s about the average wait time for my next dumb act.
@Kjfun11 I’m waiting 😂
I like if their profile has a face pic and they are smiling and I then I notice the eyes. If they have a nude pic I wouldn’t mind seeing that but I don’t judge them by how their body looks like. I’m not perfect either lol. If it’s just a super close shot of their Pussy or a very close shot of boobs those are good but idk if you are real or just took a picture off internet.