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It's a wacky world and time we're living in. Ethics, morals, common courtesy and consideration are all virtues that are losing their value. Sadly it's only going to get tougher for those of us that appreciate them. These days being an accomplished liar is a highly marketable skill.
The duplicitous nature of most people on this site astounds me. It shouldn’t, but it does.
I think some people assume that if they are honest, their chances of an encounter fly right out of the window. With others, it is perhaps a matter of insecurity that their partner will find out. Surprisingly enought, there are very few genuine swingers on this site - genuine swingers are respectful and honest and understand that just because they have a dick (or a vagina) that not every single person on planet earth will feel compelled to have sex with them!
Love this. Best reply so far. Thank you.
Well said
Like the guy said he's here to try and find some one to chat. Then people act like you're trying to bullshit but he we have to stick to what we're here for. Read comment being a good guy truthfully and you're treated oh so nice and crazy. Some times you wonder then it's because you're here fore what you want if it's here like droped last nail in the leaves to finish a bird house. Dam
I just want to chat and have fun.... elementary I know... but there I said it.
@Wat2dowithme now how you going to give those specifics, then ask not to ask LOL.... at least how old were you when you went back....
I could not agree with you more! There is a different breed here on AFF...
life is to short for the games i want truth honesty right from the start... i found most don't like that... my last relationships i was honest from day one i am bisexual and like to dress sexy and at first the last 2 thought was great i was honest till i asked to be with a guy not in front of them unless they wanted but because i was in the mood to suck a cock that was all i even bought a strapon so that then we could play that way to curd my craving but nope they both said no so yeah im single and guess its better cause now if i get a craving i don't have to ask cause at the time with them i wouldnt without them saying it was ok cause to me that was cheating but anyway i want 100% truth and honesty no games
Life is way too short to settle for things that don’t bring you joy.
@Michelle21406 exactly
@Michelle21406 Absolutely!
You are stunning. I agree be up front
Thank you 😊
Hi how u
Smile cutie
I love a woman who speaks her mind and doesn't make me guess. I'll tell you my intentions if you want to know. You wouldn't by chance be coming to Indianapolis any time soon?
I would like to think my bio is just that, up front, honest, and no BS. If you (as in who ever I'm addressing or reading this) don't think I'm being up front and honest, call me out. Ask me. Don't just snap to judgement. The only way this works is honest communication. Unless both parties know the game they are playing with each other is who can spin the bigger lie.
I hear you, I have married in my profile but its hard to explain as I am not cheating we are seperated. She's older than me and not interested in sex, she lives in her house I live in mine. She's never had an income so if we divorce she's homeless. How do you explain that you support someone but not in a realationship... But yes why not say it.
Call me naive but those are the things I want to hear. It’s what makes a potential partner human. I want to learn about you more than how many inches you are packing lol.
To bad we are 3k mi away or we probably would have met by now but, be patient! Your preferred muse might be right around the corner!💗
Amen sister
can see you are frustrated. do feel honesty is the best policy and profile statement should reflect marital status. have chatted much, have been strung along so many times over the years that i lost count. would i like to have sex with someone else and cheat as you mentioned, yes. I did have an old friend off site that i did have some sex if you call sucking on her breasts, fingering her nipples, and having her jerk me off, we both enjoyed it and then changed her mind. do find that most women on her may chat well, but always come up with some excuse not to meet. maybe someday i will get the chance to meet someone and have sex. so just go ahead and rant all you want.
You go girl! that needed to be said.....
That is this site for you. Most are professional cam people and talking with some women on her, most guys want your pics and they get their rocks off by just talking to you and getting your pics. Most are married and haven’t taken that next step to either cheat or leave their spouse. This site is very frustrating and getting to the point of getting off of here and trying the traditional way to meet women. But for some reason it keeps pulling you back for the hope of finding that one person who blows you away where you don’t need this anymore. Don’t give up beautiful, just a bump in the road. But you are right, why can’t people just be honest. Like I told you about getting stood up, just tell me if your not interested, save us all the trouble time and money just by telling the truth.
Hi you look hot
I'm an older guy, with that perspective. And I truly have done it all at some point. I've been a liar, cheater, pretender...I've made shit up, at the time I always had reasons why those were the best choices ,for everybody, at the time. Now, the truth is the only choice I have. It's not because I became saint, I just can't think of a reason to. I can still screw up and make mistakes. But, none will be the result of me lying or pretending. We can never stop people from lying to us, but we can stop lying to ourselves and other people. My belief is, then you will see that you are to lie to you, the effect that is having on you...and that you can change because it's totally under your control...
Michelle,
I am always up front and say yes I am married and have to say most then ignore me.
I can't help it I have to be honest with people and explain myself it is only right.
I hope you find someone who will be honest and truthful with you but agree not many are here.
Peter
Sad that it's hard for ppl to do that ...
Amen
Agreed !! Keep your head up sweetie!
i am heartened by your faith in adults, mostly i'm voyeristic
Sounds fair.