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The only sin is internal inconsistency.
Another problem here is if you're a standard member, you can't reply to anybody or even read their messages unless they are gold member and they have it set up to reply to them or you spend points which you will never have enough.. I've been here for about 15 years now and at one time everybody could send and read messages.. I would respond to just about all of them and I seem to get a lot.. but it sucks now when you have about 170 message that you can't read or answer back.. it became about the money and not about making connections here.. so I hardly even visit the site anymore when I used to everyday .
Yeah the messaging on here sucks and not in a good way.
Im always skeptical of anyone that considers themselves a nice guy even in a joking manner. Thats the kind of thing other people decide you are.
Ohh I’m an asshole, just ask my ex!
I love the "democrat" response below (or above?) because it's written by a typical hypocrite from the fascist christian nationalist "family values" party on a "Imma fuck a stranger tonight" website, negatively judging (lest they be judged themselves) half of the country (or, as it turns out, more than half lol). This is just a guess, but that member is probably exactly the kind of person this article was written about.
Lol
Well, if I am engaging in conversation with someone I will endeavour to do my part to communicate. I won't chase and I won't be the one to try and keep conversation going because that is telling about our own compatibility. It's like a game of tennis, you serve, I return, I serve, you return. And the reality is that for me it's ok to say, "look, I don't think we have any connection here, good luck and best wishes." What is so hard about that? It's when you reach out and you don't get a reply back. And ultimately, that says more about them when they don't. They are avoidant and who knows what is going on with them? Ultimately, probably not your damn business. But if you go around being butt hurt about it when 99.9% of the time it's not about you, then that's a problem. If someone doesn't have the wherewithall to be accountable at the early stages, then going forward they really aren't worth your time. So, really, sometimes the trash takes itself out. Win-WIN!
I love your take on it. Very true they eliminate themselves. I just dislike hypocrites.
Sorry to hear...I hope you find someone that will treat you right
Thank you
I am sorry. I agree It is vile behavior.