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I have read that blog, and agree with her you should stimulate a lovers mind and unlock their inner desires.
THANK YOU!! Yes, I am one of those women that needs a connection before I can make "other" connections with a man. Show me you have a brain behind that handsome face, and you got me!
A connection makes it all that much more enjoyable. I also need a connection.
I think that if you are going to present yourself as wise or having some unusual insight, you should probably proofread your posts.
All women have minds i feel like when a woman says that she is kind of inferring that other women don't have minds lol. Can we pretend we don't live in the 50-70's for a moment while also realizing there are always going to be chauvinistic men who think women are not as smart as men and who think its ok to be offensive to women? In general this site has the worst men anywhere. I get tons of dumbass comeons from losers because I have looking for men and bi in my profile. Its the nature of the beast.
I can agree with all your points. Let me add, my profile says straight, I’ve been hit on and called all kinds of nasty things. Even when I politely respond, thank you but that’s not something I’m interested in. It’s the total lack of either there ability to read, comprehend or give a crap about what a profile says. It’s just here’s my dick, doesn’t it make you horny! They wouldn’t act like they do online in a strip club, so why here?
Most of the posts in my blog are based on the same topic. The other day a man accused me of being a man hater. Of course, at the risk of being me (wink wink) I had to educate him on what appropriate behavior is and does for a woman on this site, or in life.
I’m sure it was life changing for him.
I agree. Intelligent conversation creates mutual respect and respect for each other is the best way to start anything. Great post..
Women need more than an apendage of the body to be attracted to and keep attraction to ...
When the majority of men say a female is beautiful ... what it/he means is you've got great tits/ let's fuck ... that's not being attracted to women ... that's hoping she has no self respect for herself, the same way he has none for himself ...
And, the unprotected sex vids/pics are highly disturbing ... especially the ones where cocks are oozing white pus ... STD much? I'm not sure who and what is grossier - the men or the women who let them fuck her. How bout those cock pics over an unflushed toilet or "it" sitting on the bathroom sink ... so undesirable ...
Men - use your brain above your waistline ...
Those are definitely some disgusting pictures you just described. 🤮
@ILove69xoxo -
Indeed ... they leave me running for the porcelain goddess ... LOL ... just looking at some of these pics can give you a disease ...
This, in fact, reflects how men view themselves. A lack of respect for women reflects a lack of respect for themselves. A lack of respect and understanding for women's sexuality reflects a lack of respect and understanding for their own sexualities. A lack of respect and understanding for women's emotional needs reflects a lack of respect and understanding for their own emotional needs. A lack of respect and understanding for a woman's individuality reflects a lack of respect and understanding for his own individuality.
They are just hurt, suffering, wounded, full of fears (fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of intimacy, fear of closeness, fear of vulnerability, fear of attachment), full of pain, full of shame, full of guilt, full of unsupporting beliefs, full of stereotypes, full of fucking excuses, full of stigmas, traumatised, guarded, in denial, detached, dissociated, disconnected, dismissive, insecure little boys who haven't done any healing. Playing tough, macho and arrogant or playing pity, petty and victims or playing both. And projecting their shit on women. But it is not women's job to be mothering grown ass adult men and to be putting up with their bull shit and to be sacrificing our needs for the ultimate pleasure and entertainment of online randos. WTF? Grow the fuck up, guys.
Go to the therapy for fuck's sake. Sort out your childhood traumas, toxic childhood patterns and trauma responses. Fill that void with self healing and not with disrespecting women.
Very well said! Ego’s, insecurities and unresolved issues. The difference between boys and men, dealing with the baggage.
@ILove69xoxo Plus entitlement, stupidity and toxic masculinity.
@HoodGoddess75 again signs of immaturity, lack of self development or concerns for others.
@ILove69xoxo Exactly. And they think they are the ones being right and they are the ones making the rules. Territory? hahaha lol WTF? And they are too fucking stupid to understand that different people have different perceptions of different things and there is no one 'right' way of doing things. Different people do different things differently, including sex and they find different things attractive in sex, including emotional intelligence or other kind of intelligence, in a potential sexual partner and some may find mental/emotional/intellectual connection/attraction/understanding as a must or at least a huge turn on.
And it is all about communication and trying to establish if we have anything in common, other than we all want sex, to make it work, to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved parties and to meet everyone's needs.
And they try to force their views on total strangers, too fucking stupid to fucking understand that what might work with people close to them (family, friends, lovers, work colleagues, neighbours), where different forms of codependency might be at play and where it's easier to influence others to give up and to do what you want, this is not how it works in real life with strangers. In real life people don't give a shit about what you fucking want if it's not in an alignment with what they want. No one gives a fuck that some online retard is horny, his cock is hard and he wants to fuck. lol WTF dude?
And you do not force others to accept your way of thinking and your way of doing things as some revealed truth. If you try to force your stupidity and your cock on strangers then you do not fuck. And it is not them being fucking wrong for not wanting your stupid cock. Make yourself attractive to women or you do not fuck, moron. They either change or they can keep wanking to porn. No matter how much they be bitching that women don't want to fuck them and they should cuz they are on the porn site, women will still not want to fuck them. How fucking difficult could this be to understand for them? You do not dictate others what they 'should' find attractive. You do not dictate others to find you attractive.
It's really shocking that people can be so fucking stupid and they really are convinced they are the ones being right. I am forever grateful that I joined this site. I would have never been able to realise the endless amount of fucktardism and retardism in this sick world, that is so real, if not this site.
@HoodGoddess75 what I find ridiculous is these guys would never walk into a strip club and whip the dick out and go you want this. Their thinking online is this woman has her tits out she wants my dick, I better give it to her. No, it’s not any different than real life. If you wouldn’t do it in person don’t do it online. Unfortunately it’s a product of the online detachment that has developed.
The brain is the most important sex organ in the body 😋
I honestly don't k now what to say to this. I'm in the camp that says if what you are looking for on this site is intellectual stimulation I honestly don't know that this is the best outlet. That doesn't excuse lewd, offensive behavior but it kind of comes with the territory here. Des[ite claims otherwise this honestly is a mainly a porn site. Most people here watch cams and or harrass the attractive minoirty 24/7. I don't even have my profile set to looking for men and I get a fair amount of annoying come ons from men. And also this is the internet where people feel free to act like Jackasses.
@SomewhereSE There’s also the differences between a man’s and a woman’s brain. Where men are easily visual stimulated, show him a picture and boom. Most women need much more stimulation. It usually starts with their mind.
Nothing wrong with the troglodytes, ogres and neanderthals being on AFF and treating this site as a porn site as long as they can stay away from women who do not want to be in contact with them. Understand that people have different sexual needs, desires, fantasies, turn ons, turn offs and interests, focus on finding females with similar interest to yours, don't bother people who have no interest in you and don't be vulgar, pushy, disrespectful, patronising, mocking, ridiculing, violent, raging, bitching, moaning, crying, whining to/about women who ignore you and are not interested in you. Simple. No one is entitled to sex here. Everyone should be free to express themselves and their sexuality in their own profiles in whatever way they wish (in accordance with the law) and it should be respected. It's really not that difficult. If a woman is not into troglodytes, ogres and neanderthals just stay the fuck away from her profile. Stop forcing yourself, forcing your delusions, forcing your entitlement and forcing your ideas about women and sex, on women who have absolutely no interest in imbeciles, morons and idiots who dehumanize them.
@SomewhereSE very true.
@SomewhereSE "I don’t think most women realize that it is also an important consideration for men at the extreme upper ends of the IQ and EQ bell curves."
I think women realise this. What women don't realise and what comes as a shock is that it is so difficult to find men who treat women as interesting, intriguing, intelligent human beings and not only as mindless sex toys.
I for one would like to know what dm? means.
Direct message.
They are correct.