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the right time
Posted:Nov 2, 2008 8:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2008 8:25 pm
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right time right place and right person,
therefore right things happen...
as it is those three factors never come together.
We both were rightly click, but alas the religion is not,and
since my belief forbade inter religion marriage, so it is off.
Then I happen to come across this `beautiful relationship '
with a guy who also is of the same religion, but he did not
believe in practising it. He suit his religion to the way he belief he should live...his choice of course but in doing so
our value are at odd with each other,simply said it is a no no2.
Recently I came across this man, the right religion and practising it too. Do you think this time it will work out right?
Funny thing this life is, I don't think I can live with a man
like him? Crossing every t and dotting every i is good but sorry
I cannot be bother much with these...alas !! personality wise
we are not compatible.
We can cry but what is the use of crying?
Smile !! better still LAUGH
you sure will feel `lighter' and `happier'
pity me?
Don't , cause I rather like this lesson on life
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time a changing...
Posted:Sep 26, 2008 12:14 am
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2008 9:08 am
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is it time? but then time always change,!!

it is us i believe who change with time,

it is not our parents fault for giving us so little things,

but they make up for it lots of love and cares.

it is not our fault either for giving our so much,

for we had lots of things to give...

in compensation for not having enough time,

to show we cares,

to show we love.

alas !!

we can only hope for the best,

hoping that time will make them wise,

so they would make the right choice,

my only hope is they choose wisely,

balancing this world,,,and the next,

balancing things and cares,

i hope for the best,

i pray for the best,

and i sure try my best
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my aunty
Posted:Aug 10, 2008 2:11 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2008 7:51 am
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She is my mother elder sister, and I had known her
all my life. She is a skilled midwife until she retired. Had been very actived as long as I can
remember,so I had never in all those while had
a picture of her like this when she is old.
Now in her 80ties,she is all skin and bones.
To make things worst she had a fall recently,
and lost her mobility. Bedridden that's it.
She is lucky though to have who stay
nearby and care too. They had shift, one for morning, another for the afternoon. At night
her husband will be there to keep her company.
Looking at her made me thinketh:
What will be the picture when I am as old as thee
Will there be somebody to look after me?
When I told my sister my feeling,
do you know what she said?
All this is 'nasib' meaning ' luck'
You may have all the , all the money,
but in the end only paid people are around ...
but then if you are lucky,
even paid people will love you and
you are being look after as if you are
their own parent.
Suffice to say,
or better still to sing :
WHAT WILL BE...WILL BE
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hi !!
Posted:Aug 7, 2008 10:54 pm
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2008 12:35 am
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it has been sometime, is it not?
what have I been doing?
Well , nothing in particular
but I sure am busy...not working anymore now
so I had no way of escaping demands made on me.
Before they understand if I said I am busy,
or tired, or I had this or I had that program.
So, now I had to fulfil my obligation to society in general, and to my family to be specific.
had to visit this aunty her is going to be married, had to be there to help too.
how about that aunty? her hubby just pass away.
oh yes not forgeting my , they want me to accompany them going shopping...and this and that and this and that...
my cup is full? brimming
(like to put my bling here but I forget how to)
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love is something but...
Posted:Dec 4, 2007 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2007 2:13 am
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The ad said `put up photos, ur chance will be much much better ' what a laugh !!
Sure photo will make it better but if you are looking for `a partner for life' it is not of much help.
Take my case for example, I had done my work,
search for that elusive `love ' we all had been looking...and would you believe !! I find it...I came to know him through the nets...we met...he like me a lot, and I like him a lot too.The first phase is fantastic.
The second phase...things started to be really complicated...to assimilate that person into your life. The question of values including religion comes in. I don't know about yours but as far as I know all religion had this term`living in sin' ...these are the time when you had to find a balance between love of a man and love of all the values you hold as sacred in your life. To find love is easy...it is just between two hearts. To
find someone you love with the same valus and
aspiration is something else altogether.
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!!!
Posted:Dec 1, 2007 8:48 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2007 3:13 pm
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Hi,
glad that you all like it,
and,
Thanks for being here,
appreciate it very much...
a hug from me
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me bling
Posted:Dec 1, 2007 5:43 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2007 8:31 pm
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Hi,
so happy...
today I have had my bling made,
yup !! I am no good with photo editor
am going to learn but not yet..
so had my girl to make it for me..
cute ehhh,
met her:
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Retyre
Posted:Jun 21, 2007 6:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2007 5:53 am
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Retired? What do you do now? Being me I just said...nothing, just goyang kaki. That is a sure way of ending a conversation. Well !! of course there is a lot of doing going on, adding to that I am a `housewife'too though there is no husband.
Serve me right !! now I know how they feel when people who work asked them `What do you do all day'.`Aren't you bored?'
If she was to tell them all the things she had done while being cooped up in the house, I am sure they will beg her for mercy, ` Stop ! stop !
I heard enough' worst still they will vomit there and then...too much, too trivial, too mundane, and too bad since not many especially the members in the family itself appreciate her, and didn't see her contribution to that very family.
To all of you `housewife'( be it single ,double, woman or man or in between )
Salute !!!
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just thiking !!!
Posted:Apr 30, 2007 7:45 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2007 8:16 am
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as far as I know :
workers...those who work for money.
labourer...those who work using their physical strenght. But `labour' in the dictionary means to work hard at something...labor at his writing...the woman goes into labor...labor at explaining his ideas...so if I work hard at something but nobody is paying me for it...I am not a labourer nor am I a worker...actually who are we celebrating on this labour's day?
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just thiking !!!
Posted:Apr 30, 2007 7:43 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 10:5 am
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as far as I know :
workers...those who work for money.
labourer...those who work using their physical strenght. But `labour' in the dictionary means to work hard at something...labor at his writing...the woman goes into labor...labor at explaining his ideas...so if I work hard at something but nobody is paying me for it...I am not a labourer nor am I a worker...actually who are we celebrating on this labour's day?
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