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myseek1 80F
1279 posts
8/3/2022 4:45 pm
*~*~* Be creative *~*~*

It is still summer, but fall and winter are not far away without gas and coal across the Atlantic. This family bathtub will be welcome on Saturdays!




I remember the many years after WW2 when we walked on Saturdays to the community's
public wash and shower facility for a warm shower. In our flat we had a sink with running cold water. My mom heated a big pot of water every morning on the stovetop for the obligatory "cat's lick". I remember well the times when we built life from scratch.


Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/3/2022 5:00 pm

The main thing is to find a way out of any chaos....

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


CRAZYHORSE230 78M
1692 posts
8/3/2022 6:09 pm

    Quoting myseek1:
    The main thing is to find a way out of any chaos....
fond memories indeed

my mon used to heat water on the stove for tub baths. no one had showers. we did shower when it rained. girtls on one side of the house and boys on other. an no. we knew better than to peek. our lives were valuable hahahha

THE DAYS WILL END ... TIME WILL BE ETERNAL


myseek1 replies on 8/4/2022 10:04 am:
Those years were a good survival training. I learned to cherish the little things. I know what's lying ahead, and I think I know how to handle most of it. Thanks for sharing a piece of your childhood, Hank.

TwilightSpirit 56F
1243 posts
8/3/2022 6:54 pm

My new Crockpot said it serves 9, but it isn;t even 1/10th that size....lol
I'd want to hold my feet up.


myseek1 replies on 8/4/2022 9:57 am:
I hope, you always find enough food for the new crockpot, Twilight!

MrsJoe 76F
17384 posts
8/3/2022 7:27 pm

I would venture to say, that with some exceptions, the younger generations of today have not had to do without much of anything they wanted. To many of them, a hardship is not getting the same top brand of tennis shoes or the newest cell phone or other electronic device.
I also would venture to say that the time just may come when they are going to be sadly surprised by the lack of "things" and will be unable to adapt like those who have had less as they grew up.
There was always a bath room in the homes I had growing up, with a tub or shower. However, I remember when my grandparents put a bathroom in their home. My best friend did not get a bathroom in her home until we were in high school. They had an outdoor toilet and washed up in the kitchen sink every morning. Once a week, a round metal tub was brought into their kitchen, filled with hot water and the entire family bathed in it. Daughter first, then sons, then mother, followed by dad. Their home also had only three rooms, kitchen, living room and one bed room with two beds in it. Mother slept with daughter, dad slept with sons. Not many of todays younger generation could even relate to that.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


GLUMO 89F
9730 posts
8/3/2022 9:12 pm

A creative idea, for sure
Warm hugs to you.



Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


myseek1 replies on 8/4/2022 11:07 am:
It sure is! Many warm hugs back to you, Lucy!

Shartaun03 81F
6196 posts
8/3/2022 11:29 pm

We had a bathroom but no shower. The toilet was portable that my dad had to empty when it got full. In the summer we usually used the outhouse. We had a bath every Saturday night and the youngest got to bathe first and I think my parents bathed last. We would just keep adding hot water to the tub. Water was heated up on the wood burning kitchen stove. I always washed my hair Saturday afternoon and did my rag curls. They took forever to dry. Those were the good old days and for sure the younger generation wouldn't appreciate.


Archer62 83F
7086 posts
8/4/2022 5:08 am

WHEN I GOT MARRIED IN 1975, MY HUSBAND WAS STILL USED TO HAVING ONE BATH OR SHOWER A WEEK. I HAD A VERY HARD TIME GETTING HIM TO UNDERSTAND WE HAD THE MEANS FOR FAR MORE THAN THAT.
IT SEEMS WE WILL NOT BE ALL THAT SHORT OF GAS OR NUKES THIS COMING WINTER, IT IS THE WATER THAT IS WORRYING US NOW.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
8/4/2022 8:12 am

Myseek, you have brought me back into a time I had forgotten.

Yep, you brought me back to when I was a small child on the farm. No running water in the house, a hand pump outside, an outhouse and bathing was going to the local lake for a swim. Hand washing clothes in a tub and hanging them on a clothes line. I never thought of it as a hard life though. Eventually indoor plumbing was installed and I no longer had to wait for the sun to rise to use the outhouse. That was scary for a little kid, it was a long walk in the dark, you learned not to drink much water before bedtime, or you had to hold it, or face the dark.


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/4/2022 11:04 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    I would venture to say, that with some exceptions, the younger generations of today have not had to do without much of anything they wanted. To many of them, a hardship is not getting the same top brand of tennis shoes or the newest cell phone or other electronic device.
    I also would venture to say that the time just may come when they are going to be sadly surprised by the lack of "things" and will be unable to adapt like those who have had less as they grew up.
    There was always a bath room in the homes I had growing up, with a tub or shower. However, I remember when my grandparents put a bathroom in their home. My best friend did not get a bathroom in her home until we were in high school. They had an outdoor toilet and washed up in the kitchen sink every morning. Once a week, a round metal tub was brought into their kitchen, filled with hot water and the entire family bathed in it. Daughter first, then sons, then mother, followed by dad. Their home also had only three rooms, kitchen, living room and one bed room with two beds in it. Mother slept with daughter, dad slept with sons. Not many of todays younger generation could even relate to that.
You are right, MrsJoe, the past decades people thought they could rely on plentiful resources forever and lived beyond their means. Fulfilling every wish the kids had, did not do them a favor....... The young generation is not prepared for what's lying ahead. When my parents' generation rebuilt from ruins of a war, there was hope for a better future..... When we moved to another flat that had a full bathroom in the middle of the 50s, we felt proud of being successful. And I got my own room because my sister married and left. Before that, I had a bed in my parents' bedroom, and my sister slept in the kitchen. From then on it went slowly "uphill".

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
8/4/2022 11:45 am

My childrens' favourite memory of their off-grid, outer island childhood is laying in the steaming outdoor bath-tub on a cold night while looking up at the moon and stars, then wrapping up in a towel to sprint up to the house and sit in front of the fire while we read Roald Dahl stories.

It was an old-fashioned heavy cast-iron tub..a few meters downhill ftom the well........We filled it to the top and lit a fire under it several hours before our baths. After the water was hot, I filled 5 gallon buckets with the hot water....sometimes I had to add more cold water to the tub to get the optimum temperature .....We bathed in the Japanese tradition. We shampooed and washed our bodies with soap and rinsed off outside the tub before we got in to soak....that way we could take turns soaking in the same tub water........we had a wooden trivet lining the bottom of the tub not to burn our bums. We also had a Sauna on the beach.......

Our neighbour salvaged a steel Buoy.....the kind that floats on the ocean to signal ships.......He cut the top half off with a welding torch and built a wooden railing around the top out of fragrant Cedar and a floor and seating for 6. .......Then, with the help of a floating crane, he had it positioned on a bed of huge boulders a few feet above the high tide mark.......Then he filled it with sea-water, built a fire under it and had a party.......


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
8/4/2022 4:30 pm

My mother used to fill a big bath tub in front of the open fire to bath us kids every Saturday night. If memory serves me right I think we were all dried with the same big bath towel.When we were all washed and dried, she gave us home made bread and jam. The good old days for sure. Lovely post and interesting comments.


myseek1 replies on 8/5/2022 5:57 pm:
It's a good thing that we oldies remember those days, Maudi. When they come back, we can teach the young ones how to move on.

myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 4:56 pm

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    We had a bathroom but no shower. The toilet was portable that my dad had to empty when it got full. In the summer we usually used the outhouse. We had a bath every Saturday night and the youngest got to bathe first and I think my parents bathed last. We would just keep adding hot water to the tub. Water was heated up on the wood burning kitchen stove. I always washed my hair Saturday afternoon and did my rag curls. They took forever to dry. Those were the good old days and for sure the younger generation wouldn't appreciate.
I agree, Shartaun, those were the days, when we learned how to manage daily life without the luxury we demand today. Those old days had advantages. I felt safe and loved and did not miss anything.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 5:05 pm

    Quoting Archer62:
    WHEN I GOT MARRIED IN 1975, MY HUSBAND WAS STILL USED TO HAVING ONE BATH OR SHOWER A WEEK. I HAD A VERY HARD TIME GETTING HIM TO UNDERSTAND WE HAD THE MEANS FOR FAR MORE THAN THAT.
    IT SEEMS WE WILL NOT BE ALL THAT SHORT OF GAS OR NUKES THIS COMING WINTER, IT IS THE WATER THAT IS WORRYING US NOW.
The cold season does not look promising for the people in Germany due to dumb planning.....

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 5:28 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    Myseek, you have brought me back into a time I had forgotten.

    Yep, you brought me back to when I was a small child on the farm. No running water in the house, a hand pump outside, an outhouse and bathing was going to the local lake for a swim. Hand washing clothes in a tub and hanging them on a clothes line. I never thought of it as a hard life though. Eventually indoor plumbing was installed and I no longer had to wait for the sun to rise to use the outhouse. That was scary for a little kid, it was a long walk in the dark, you learned not to drink much water before bedtime, or you had to hold it, or face the dark.
Oh, Nile, I can imagine the "urgent need" at night and the outhouse far away. I think, I would have done it by the side of the house or misused mom's cooking pot. LOL Our toilet was half a stairway down in the house, and toilet paper was in squares cut newspaper on a nail.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 5:44 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    My childrens' favourite memory of their off-grid, outer island childhood is laying in the steaming outdoor bath-tub on a cold night while looking up at the moon and stars, then wrapping up in a towel to sprint up to the house and sit in front of the fire while we read Roald Dahl stories.

    It was an old-fashioned heavy cast-iron tub..a few meters downhill ftom the well........We filled it to the top and lit a fire under it several hours before our baths. After the water was hot, I filled 5 gallon buckets with the hot water....sometimes I had to add more cold water to the tub to get the optimum temperature .....We bathed in the Japanese tradition. We shampooed and washed our bodies with soap and rinsed off outside the tub before we got in to soak....that way we could take turns soaking in the same tub water........we had a wooden trivet lining the bottom of the tub not to burn our bums. We also had a Sauna on the beach.......

    Our neighbour salvaged a steel Buoy.....the kind that floats on the ocean to signal ships.......He cut the top half off with a welding torch and built a wooden railing around the top out of fragrant Cedar and a floor and seating for 6. .......Then, with the help of a floating crane, he had it positioned on a bed of huge boulders a few feet above the high tide mark.......Then he filled it with sea-water, built a fire under it and had a party.......
Thanks for sharing your outdoor bathing experience. Did you and the kids have a body clean-up that way as a rule or sometimes for fun? Sounds like much of fun! I have been thinking of the bottom of the big bowl in the picture and the bums. lol

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
8/5/2022 7:00 pm

    Quoting myseek1:
    Thanks for sharing your outdoor bathing experience. Did you and the kids have a body clean-up that way as a rule or sometimes for fun? Sounds like much of fun! I have been thinking of the bottom of the big bowl in the picture and the bums. lol
Both.....These outer islands have lots of alternative, imaginative outdoor bathing opportunities.......Those Victorian cast-iron tubs were a precious commodity, though the more modern steel ones can also be used .....some people built beautiful stone bath houses with the tubs cemented in.....There are many abandoned homesteads on these islands and every Summer, we would go on a cruise in our sailboat to pick the fruit. We anchored out at night and picked fruit all day.....There was a cherry orchard on one of the islands with over a hundred trees with many different kinds of cherry......

On one of those cruises, we found the old tub all overgrown with trees and moss.......We dug it out, whittled plugs for it and hammered them in, then towed it back home.....What a find!!!!.......It was not our only way to bathe, but our favourite in the colder months......


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
8/5/2022 8:51 pm

. I guess we've always been pretty lucky no threat of war or deprivation.


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 9:54 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Both.....These outer islands have lots of alternative, imaginative outdoor bathing opportunities.......Those Victorian cast-iron tubs were a precious commodity, though the more modern steel ones can also be used .....some people built beautiful stone bath houses with the tubs cemented in.....There are many abandoned homesteads on these islands and every Summer, we would go on a cruise in our sailboat to pick the fruit. We anchored out at night and picked fruit all day.....There was a cherry orchard on one of the islands with over a hundred trees with many different kinds of cherry......

    On one of those cruises, we found the old tub all overgrown with trees and moss.......We dug it out, whittled plugs for it and hammered them in, then towed it back home.....What a find!!!!.......It was not our only way to bathe, but our favourite in the colder months......
Following you around where you live, I vision a piece of paradise that has not been ruined by modern cold buildings, etc........ Summer season I would love to pick the cherries and whatever other fruit I see...... the old tub you found reminds me of an old washbasin we found 30 years ago in the woods and carried it to our home in Germany. It makes a nice flowerbed.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
8/5/2022 10:07 pm

    Quoting Darter50516:
    . I guess we've always been pretty lucky no threat of war or deprivation.
Hello Darter, glad to see you out of hospital. I hope you get well soon.
Yes, you have been lucky....... most of all the trouble happens far away.


Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi