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sportsbuffHal 61M
61 posts
4/12/2019 1:06 pm
ABOUT TODAYS CHAT ROOM DECAY

ABOUT TODAYS CHAT ROOM DECAY

Over the many of it's existence. the usual progession of evolvement has most certainly taken place in our very small and limited chat room listings.

The LOBBY while a supposid equal Unisex refuge, has taken the face of a strictly WOMAN owned, run and governed FEMALE SANCTUARY!

I say with clarity SANCTUARY which in essence by definiton is a safe haven in which one or more resides in!

The two active and considered important envirorments on SFF are of course the active Present Chat room while the Blog Section is always represented in Past tense form of posts or responses displayed for view and then answered in the offered context of Comments.

While many who post blogs also are known and spotted arriving in the chat room, for the most part a Daily Membership of regular females collect to form a SISTERHOOD in which they greet each other collectively as GF meaning of course Friend.

No for the most part these women are not self admitted or choosing to remain in the closet Lesbians, but rather a group of Woman united in a common cause of seeking a much needed sense of Self Security , not to be mixed up or confused with Social Security.

Always outnumbering the arrivals by ratio's of some three or four or even five or more to one, they set both the tone and climate of Mood and accepted modes of chat they unanimous flock together on!

Any arriving with the rare acceptance of far less than a handful, ( two most) are no longer real men but rather weak minded lonely males lost in the many pitfalls of aging!

Most have lost former loved ones by one of those two D words, Divorce or Death. No longer very vile, (sorry viagra) they lack half the chemistry of true desired passion via exciting courtship and deep needed attraction once triggered by high or acceptable levels of testosterone!

Blended with the always happenings of the Female Change of life, both body breakdown and mental changes swiftly leading of lost interest in sex to some 85 to 90% of these women, THE TONE HAS BEEN SET AND THE RULES LAID DOWN FOR ACCEPTED BEHAVIOR if men are to accept in order to be permitted a lesser part of the mix.

Brash worldly self proclaimed and Vile He men are quickly sent packing by this female majority rule! Not a single one of this band of power seeking and needing craved power ladies will allow any male to even attempt to take charge in their created jungle of exiled Tarzans!

So without sex as a factor, we have ourselfs men needing and missing their departed mothers just like four,five or six decades before. Now and then they will talk to other males in bonding with the common and shared topics of sports, cars, the outdoors, trade skills or waiting yard work,

Soon being totally bored by this invasion of THEIR SELF PROCLAIMED TERRITORY, the chat women will be insulting asking to change the subject being bored after perhaps a four or five minute allowed for man to man talk!

Thus those men reappear, know the rules and will comply in full and as stated, become senior children sacrifice their dignity, pride and entitled birth rights!

I respect none of these whimps as men in my collecting and gatherings of subject material for my pending Book directed at and focused on Senior Citizens and the Internet.

There are reasons attached to everything in life and Denial no matter how strongly one wills themselves into this pretentious state of denied collective female mindset, represents Truth!

Yes having lost their youth, gift of child bearing , once present attractive girlish qualities, this collective gang of scorned and distrurbed elder women indeed each other to get through each day badly needs some form or another of understanding and companionship!

Fears even if surpressed and disguised manifests many negative emotions trigger bad behavior. Rudeness, insults, territorial claims of entitlement all have become a large part of this CHATROOM DECAY OVER THE .

If anyone of either sex has any doubts as too the accounts, diecriptions and basis for this blog, I invite you to take a spare hour or two to go there and sit quietly and view for your own total degree of satisfaction all i write about is TRUTH!!!

View not only what I report first hand, but also what is not said or brought to light in total absence..

No one is on meds!!!!!!!!!!!! No one has a drinking problem!!!!!!!! No one is poor or struggling in life!!!! No one talks in any detail about their children or departed mates!!!! Christmas season is void of any festive mood set or swings!!! No one has gray hair!!!!! No one brings joy beyond how to cook rubarb with celery salt!!!

Yes not a single one of them has anything worth while listening to and yet they flock together ass kissing each other in the same repetitive way over and over, day after day acting on display for the simple reason of much needed ESCAPE FROM THEIR DULL UNENJOYIBLE AWAKENED DAILY HOURS OF LIFE.

They are victims unable to be Honest and Admit even to themseves, change is necessary to end this nightmare they live in so called age.

Rejected are views and visions of happiness and the many ways they could alter themselfs to again be LIVING LIFE'S MANY JOYS AND TREASURES!

Of course there are exceptions to everything in life and indeed in total fairness, there are a few of them are deserving and striving to embrace life and share in a very positive mindset. While out of no choice they are accepted into this unified club of charter members self designed to rule this little monitor screen always void and silent of words, of live faces, of smell or touch.

Yes their world is so greatly reduced and small by contrast. This representative blog is being written in lieu of yesterdays attacks upon my still maintained Proud Manhood Birthrights and needed very badly to be thrown out there not because it will change a single action they all so falsely share and stupidly embrace, but to warn other new members or those simply only needed a mere hour or two of first hand bearing witness too to smartly decide this is in no way shape or form!

Now to make one badly needed comment to you the blog readers collectively make on bad mistake when reading blog posts.

You fail most times to read a post and take it for its posted written value and intent.

Instead you foolishly choose to show your hatred and contempt on a personal basis for it's authors are judged by the same chat room mentality of unified bullying masking insecurity.

Read the dam words, evaluate their meanings, their truth and thus validity!

Can anyone of you explain why a two sided unwinable war is always being waged in this blog section?

INSECURITY






sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/12/2019 1:14 pm

The owners of this site will openhandedly welcome my book release disclosures of this site for the simple reason of any business operation.

That being Profits made possible by paid membership in the form of newly arrivals.

I will help them greatly by furnishing this network online web site address for joining as well as a brief guide to its many different treasures offered all Seniors not yet exposed to the war zones separated by a center ground of barbed wire used in Trench Warfare!

PS: I had my Helmet removed shortly after birth..


sandy2020 77F
165 posts
4/12/2019 2:58 pm

Hal - I gave up on the chatroom eons ago for exactly the same reasons you describe above. I had no interest then and I have no interest now in useless chatter and flirting .. if that is what you call it. In the very beginning when all we had was one chatroom it was fun because we used our imaginations and every night the room was a different venue. I have stopped in to lurk in the shadows a couple of times in the last year and find it so boring that I'm gone within ten minutes not to return for another ten months.

The room is yours ladies... enjoy!!!


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/12/2019 3:29 pm

    Quoting  :

''''not worth responding too yet you respond...You woman area collective group of closed minded void of everyday life options that need each other badly.'''

As for me, I just got laid as I always do if going down to the senior center and being admired and treated the very way you think I crave. On a good week i go there twice instead of just once and there is no pretense as why i show up besides skipping a lunch at home.

I enjoy being an object of interest Marian as flattery is a act that instills a warmth and a degree of confidence that has still managed to constitute my mindset involving the many challenges of life.

I am a proud man , have my strong beliefs that I do cling to dearly. I am quite used to the personal attacks from those lacking like you in abilities to think clearly and open minded!

You fail to mention one single word of my very long subject matter instead using the weak ploy of age of character attacks so well displayed each day on this blog site.

Subject matter the intended message and you cannot defend any of my claims and contentions but i will give you credit for at least trying to address the many anger issues my facts have openly disclosed to perhaps hundreds of readers bot on this blog site and three others its posted on other sites of this Various network.

Know that only one on this entire site would I consider to meet in person and get to truly know for the smell of her perfume her lovely eyes, her sweet smile of mystery. I my dear have always been a romantic and quite successful at anything I do outside of the misfortunes that father time exrtacts from us in exchange of life..

Learn to admire and not strongly hate others with far better lives than you and your unseen invisible friends.

You as most of your Friends live in fear and stress..That's part of the many differences between us! Now for a most FITTING poem I will create here and now just for you..

In War- Time helmets offered a sense of Protection
But in Piece- time a hindrance to a sudden Erection

For when Marian favors greatly to give her man
The Well Cummed act of lending a steady hand

Of course we are talking many decades ago
For the passage of time was not been slow

Old sexless ladies certainly are not on my list
I'm here only to write a book so don't get pissed

So ditch your envy and accept all the true sad facts
Father time is the true cause, of your hateful attacks!!!

Marian not using or discussing the subject matter Head On.
No Skin off my dick, cause I'm right and your dead wrong


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/12/2019 3:52 pm

    Quoting sandy2020:
    Hal - I gave up on the chatroom eons ago for exactly the same reasons you describe above. I had no interest then and I have no interest now in useless chatter and flirting .. if that is what you call it. In the very beginning when all we had was one chatroom it was fun because we used our imaginations and every night the room was a different venue. I have stopped in to lurk in the shadows a couple of times in the last year and find it so boring that I'm gone within ten minutes not to return for another ten months.

    The room is yours ladies... enjoy!!!
Sandy I don't know you from Adam, but with a high level of certainty, many like you arriving in the chatroom with worthy good cause has been most unfairly victimized by the Selfish Sad Existence of Unfair Politics of the DISCONTENTED CROWD.

Most men worth a dam have also given up and departed due to the same strong sense of fear and uncertainty in these woman's collective lives.

When arriving on this site, I truly expected to inform as much of America of all ages as to what Dads, Moms, Grandma or Gramps really were.

Not the children they are now being treated as, but rather Proud clear thinking folk that have paid a physical price in ageing but still very much keen and alert in the process of mindset and mentality..

How stunned I was to discover just six minutes into this site in the chatroom, i was questioned and pressured to no end by a pack of long established bullies claiming title to this room of printed words only.

Today's blog was my way of all letting the hundreds of silent non blog writing or commenting members !

Few if any can address or deny my clear in plain language claims and contentions. These are pure true undeniable facts.

When all is said and done before this weekend passes. some 250 or more will read this post in its entirety.

My purpose will be served in full and deep down, they will know most of us know who and what they are............this will not change a single thing as there is no hope for any of them to gravitate to.

Thus let them stay lost together but be forewarned, Their complete profiles, photos if represented are totally fair game for National Posting. Their rights to privacy vacated when agreeing to terms of service electronically.

Thank you for Sandy for putting our differfences aside for the sake of the truth.
Differences do not need to remove the element of Respect I have gained in reading your comment. simply Thank you.


rainydayz 64F
146 posts
4/12/2019 4:10 pm

Some English classes would help this blog be a bit more readable. Your sentence structure is horrid as is your spelling and punctuation.

“The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it will hate those that speak it.”


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/12/2019 5:04 pm

AND WHAT HAVE YOU HAD PUBLISHED OF LATE?


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/12/2019 7:04 pm

Hey ET and Rainy daze, Sorry about the grammar mistakes, but she asked me if it were possible for me to make love to her yet a second time around?..

In being a complete gentleman, I closed down my spell check and instead lavished my full attentions upon a reborn woman and focused on her two T's first

Yes eyes before T's and whats above her knees and then something about neighbor and lays i think!


GavinLS2 64M
1495 posts
4/13/2019 3:10 am

Hi Hal,

I too am an author. I've published two novels and written for community journals in the past. I've also been adept at writing technical scientific papers. I have to say that your observations here are obviously intensely well thought out, contain much detail, and are full of shit. Aside from that last fact I'd say this is a very fine blog entry. And aside from the fact that you are obviously a fool, I'd say you are a very fine writer.

GBU,

Gavin


rainydayz 64F
146 posts
4/13/2019 5:10 am

A plethora of words does not make a successful writer. Neither does failing to follow one's on plot.

“The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it will hate those that speak it.”


sportsbuffHal replies on 4/13/2019 10:48 pm:
My dear whose screen name is present 24/7 in the charoom without fail or a live appearance.

Message clearly stated in fine detailed structured form. Written on the very same intelligence level of it's intended readership!

That being easy to digest and ponder without distraction nor confusion. (written in simple terms)!

This simply followed the five journalism rules of story line.........what,where, when,why and who.

It is the body of this post that is important and not properly dotting the I's nor crossing the T's that I give a rats ass about my dear.

When I first started writing on a Pica typewriter with a 90 word bar length, WHITEOUT INSERT STRIKE OVER TO HALF ERASE AND PUT IN A NEW ENTRY WAS THE ONLY MEANS.

Today we can totally erase and rewrite.. If Ii wanted to grammer as the star of my blogs, I would simply post one page of Websters Dictionary each day as a blog for the next two plus years.

Archer62 78F
4356 posts
4/13/2019 8:58 am

I CAN ONLY HOPE THAT THE BOOK HAS BEEN READ BY A GOOD PUBLISHER'S READER-CORRECTOR FOR SPELLING AND SERIOUS GRAMMAR ERRORS. I HAVEN' READ SUCH A BUNCH OF CRAP IN AGES.


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/13/2019 10:30 pm

Well Archer who slings and fires his outrageous arrows in blindly fashion. let me educate you in fine art of being published.

A publisher decides the worthiness of publishing (risk is always involved just like pressed song records) by his feel for a speciffic market based upon their vast former experience.

They do not look at spelling nor grammar mistakes as a full staff of professional editors always rewrite the text body in two different modes to offer him choice upon presentation.

Thus Archer, the crap you say you just have read needs clarification on your part and not a simply non explanatory OPINION .

SPECIFICS MY CRITIC. WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU CONSIDER CRAP? WHAT I WROTE IS KNOWN LONG TIME FACT THAT THOUSANDS ON THIS SITE WITNESSED AND CHOOSE TO LEAVE THIS CHATROOM OF COLLECTIVE BULLIES UNITED AND HELL BENT OF HAVING CONTROL>

YOU IF A REGULAR THERE, SIMPLY ARE A HEN PECKED WIMP IF YOU CAN'T SEE WHATS CLEAR, OPEN AND QUITE OBVIOUS TO ALL OUTSIDERS BESIDES THESE 15 GIRLFRIENDS OF EACH OTHER.

THUS YOU HAVE NO VALUE AND CERTAINLY NO MERIT TO YOUR LACKLUSTER VIEWS EITHER CLOUDED BY STUPIDITY OR GUIDED BY THE NEED TO BE ACCEPTED BY A COLLECTIVE GROUP FOR WANNA BE FEMALE TRAFFIC CONTROLLERS FLYING ABOVE YOUR RADAR.

FYI: The number of views so far is well over 300 making me amongst the most read bloggers.

Now why would that be even possible Archer? Don't let the Naked truth upset your wishful thinking. A lifetime in upper management has instilled deeply in me what real men are and why gutless wimps are not admitted in those I respect and admire as men!!!


sportsbuffHal 61M
184 posts
4/13/2019 11:01 pm

    Quoting GavinLS2:
    Hi Hal,

    I too am an author. I've published two novels and written for community journals in the past. I've also been adept at writing technical scientific papers. I have to say that your observations here are obviously intensely well thought out, contain much detail, and are full of shit. Aside from that last fact I'd say this is a very fine blog entry. And aside from the fact that you are obviously a fool, I'd say you are a very fine writer.

    GBU,

    Gavin

Firstly you are a total gentlemen well spoken, educated and classy when in the chatroom

We all see differently so at best Opinions can greatly vary.

I do resent being called a bullshitter. I have also been published and my works have been read by millions over the years.

I detest bullshitters as they can never gain my trust , my respect nor my willingness to spend any time with them.

Simply there is a click in there that's been ongoing for many years. I exposed without supplying any names in chat of what goes on.

I admire you for a great many reasons...........Now from your comments, I can understand not only whom you are, but what you are as well.. best of luck to you.

Beliefs are opinions formed by both exposure and experience. Yours no doubt feature acceptance by those i write about. Many can and do not share your status and standing. That is sad,! Its the very reason I saw a deep need to create and post this blog after many months of witness and pondering in a state of hopeful change that did not get better but far worse.
GBY also.


butterfly21 69F
91 posts
4/26/2019 3:12 pm

I very rarely respond to blogs, but I have to respond.

Whenever I have seen you in the chat room you act like a child or else you are bullying another male. I have not seen you even so much as try to be civil to any of the ladies in the room.

Several of us in chat have met in person on several occassions and we have gotten to know each other outside of chat. Oh yes that would include males for the site as well as females. We have gone sigh seeing together eaten meals together and yes partied and drank together. All of these activities started in the chat room.

In my opinion the chat room is what chooses to make it whether it be to bully, fight, put someone down or have fun.

Perhaps if you were not bulling someone and truly tried to get to know some people in chat, you might have a different point of view.


wonderious 63F
2019 posts
5/11/2019 3:40 am

So what exactly is this blog about? Whatever it is gets lost in the wordiness, like not being able to see the trees for the forest. I notice when you are in the chat room it seems to be the same, do you think if you repeat the same thing over and over it has to be fact. Hmm don't think I would read any publication you might have, much too wordy without any real content.