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sparkleflit 76F
5212 posts
6/17/2018 10:51 pm
TRAUMATISING FOR LIFE



The recent news cycle reminded me of a paper I wrote for one of my Psychology courses...I chose to write about the UN Declaration Of The Rights Of The .......The first part was easy, a copy of the declaration itself and the history, the many leaders representing so many different viewpoints coming together for the protection of . It seemed to me, at the time a cause that would bring together disparate cultures. ......The critique was more difficult.....It took me a lot of thinking to reach a conclusion....an opinion on the function and usefulness of such an agreement...It seemed toothless in the sense that really had little recourse to demand their rights.....they were dependent on adults to represent them......to protect them......And that is what became the focus of my paper. We, as adults, have a vital and ethical role as protectors of the rights of , and one of those vital rights is their right to their family.......Taking from their family causes severe, life-long trauma. We have witnessed this in many situations....The Canadian Indian Residential schools is a prime example and became the basis of my paper.......I worked as a advocate most of my life....it's a habit that never goes away.

Back in the day, we didn't understand, but today we know. Ignorance cannot be our excuse anymore..........


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/17/2018 11:00 pm

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Archer62 83F
7077 posts
6/18/2018 2:15 am

WE HAD RIGHTS? SOMEONE SHOULD HAVE TOLD MY PARENTS THAT.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:11 am

I should have known better than to bring up the UN Charter of the Rights of the Child on this site.........After all, it doesn't actually apply, because the US is the only country that hasn't ratified the charter........

The Evangelical Right in the US protested the Rights of the Child because it would take away their right to beat their children.......and to sentence children to life imprisonment......and to death, until 2005........


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:13 am

    Quoting Archer62:
    WE HAD RIGHTS? SOMEONE SHOULD HAVE TOLD MY PARENTS THAT.
So, because your parents treated you badly, it's OK for other children to be treated badly?.....Is that your logic?


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:23 am

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So your brilliant logic is that it's OK to torture children because there are criminals ?..........Most of those kids are being brought to the US to escape from the criminals......You think that two wrongs make a right? ....


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:29 am

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They are his family, there is a psychological bond.....many of these children are taken away without an explanation, a good-bye ...adding to the trauma that they have already lived.......


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:34 am

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The parents are desperate, are fleeing persecution.....they are trying to protect their children.....


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 8:45 am

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Yup, you are aptly named .....your brain is an impenetrable big block of cast metal.....


bijou624

6/18/2018 10:35 am

It's obvious that Trump is prosecuting immigrants and separating the children from their parents so Congress will give him the money to build his wall. I remember like it happened yesterday when I was about 7 yrs old and I crossed a huge bridge and went to the U.S. to stay with my cousin. My cousin's little brother had just died recently and I was going to be sleeping in his room where he died. I was a very insecure little girl and in the middle of the night I became so terrified that I would die too. Finally my aunt called my parents to come and get me. So I can just imagine how those poor children feel being in another country and being separated from their parents.

But on the other hand, what is the government to do with thousands of illegal immigrants? If they just let them leave the country they will just cross over again. They can't keep the whole family in jail together, can they? What a mess. Maybe they do need a wall.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 10:51 am

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I didn't "immediately" toss out an insult, I responded to one of your comments, but instead of answering my question or addressing the subject of the blog, which is the emotional health of the children, you double down on your heartless response.....What happened to your Family Values that you have benn constantly hammering on for years?...Or do those values only apply to legal US citizens?


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 11:00 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    It's obvious that Trump is prosecuting immigrants and separating the children from their parents so Congress will give him the money to build his wall. I remember like it happened yesterday when I was about 7 yrs old and I crossed a huge bridge and went to the U.S. to stay with my cousin. My cousin's little brother had just died recently and I was going to be sleeping in his room where he died. I was a very insecure little girl and in the middle of the night I became so terrified that I would die too. Finally my aunt called my parents to come and get me. So I can just imagine how those poor children feel being in another country and being separated from their parents.

    But on the other hand, what is the government to do with thousands of illegal immigrants? If they just let them leave the country they will just cross over again. They can't keep the whole family in jail together, can they? What a mess. Maybe they do need a wall.
Yes, it is obvious that Trump and his minions are using the separation of families to advance his agenda. He is lying through his teeth, repeatedly and the the Trump Cult just lets it go by...la la la la........It's a law, and it says right here in our Holy Book that following the law is good and right......It's the Democrat's fault, it's their law and we want them to fix it, but first they have to give me the money for mt wall.......and by the way, it's fake news........


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 11:35 am

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My dear man, your comment is but a weak attempt to deny the truth of the situation by suggesting that I have formed this response in isolation. Whether you acknowledge it or not, the truth is that the atrocities visited upon children at the US Southern border is flooding the news and communications all over the World and the outrage and anger are universal.....


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 2:04 pm

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]So why don't you tell us where you go to find this truth that the rest of us have no access to?......According to every fact-check site I have found, the answer is a version of this statement...
"There is no federal law that stipulates that children and parents be separated at the border, no matter how families entered the United States. An increase in child detainees separated from parents stemmed directly from a change in enforcement policy repeatedly announced by Sessions in April and May 2018, under which adults (with or without children) are criminally prosecuted for attempting to enter the United States."


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 2:51 pm

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I found your source of Right Wing propaganda......Town Hall.....it was easy, I just had to copy and paste your comment to my search engine and voila......I shoulda known.......that's the source of most of your blogs........Town Hall is considered extreme right and the reader is warned that we should fact-check their stories because it often contains lies........You're a real comedian Bigblock......You insist that the mainstream media is lying, yet you get your information from a source that is known for it's penchant for lying.......


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/18/2018 3:51 pm

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Housing unaccompanied children is not the same as separating young children from their parents.......how do you not get that?


bijou624

6/19/2018 10:21 am

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Why am I on your list? I didn't say the U.S. should host illegal immigrants. I said I think the wall might be the only option left.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/19/2018 11:46 am

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Here's a law for you......I won't accept your posts on my blog unless you increase the size of your font to 3......


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/19/2018 11:51 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    Why am I on your list? I didn't say the U.S. should host illegal immigrants. I said I think the wall might be the only option left.
And that goes for you too.....no posts allowed on my blog with a font size smaller than 3.......Why do some people insist on posting these tiny fonts when we have been pleading with you to enlarge? What's the problem?


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/19/2018 12:03 pm

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Where are the family values you espouse? Where are the teachings of Jesus you claim to follow?........Nothing but a sham.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
6/20/2018 3:01 pm

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I would think your Health Insurance would pay to have your head examined.........I can read a line or 2 without a problem, it's those long comments I have a hard time with and there are many on this site who agree with me......but hey. go ahead and insult me for it.......that is sure to make me want to read your comments.


BFWALLACE 75M

6/24/2018 4:03 pm

Many of you fools are being played like a drum by the liberal media.
If you don't want kids being detained tell their parents to follow the law.
If you don't support the law maybe you need to be jailed too.