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Nileyears 71F
2379 posts
12/3/2022 5:52 pm
About My Date

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Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/3/2022 6:03 pm

I doubt this is going to go anywhere, it was a nice date, but knowing me, this will only be a new friend in my life. Maybe that's all he wants too, someone to talk to.


StarCandy1 69F
1811 posts
12/3/2022 7:41 pm

Sounds like a wonderful time ! I'm glad U enjoyed it. I totally get the small car thing. I have bashed my head getting into a small car a few times. My last bf had a Hummer. Because I have bad knees I need a step stool to get into a truck. So being a gentleman he assisted me getting into it. Me being me, I said "when I tell U to, just push my butt in " He laughed but, at least I got in ! LOL


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
12/3/2022 8:06 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    I doubt this is going to go anywhere, it was a nice date, but knowing me, this will only be a new friend in my life. Maybe that's all he wants too, someone to talk to.
A new friend breaks the monotony of a boring weekend watching TV !!!


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/3/2022 8:31 pm

    Quoting StarCandy1:
    Sounds like a wonderful time ! I'm glad U enjoyed it. I totally get the small car thing. I have bashed my head getting into a small car a few times. My last bf had a Hummer. Because I have bad knees I need a step stool to get into a truck. So being a gentleman he assisted me getting into it. Me being me, I said "when I tell U to, just push my butt in " He laughed but, at least I got in ! LOL
It was pleasant and I was in good company.

LOL, "Push my butt!!"

I have a friend who can't get into my truck, so I have a step stool I keep in the back so she can get in. My older truck has running boards because it sits up higher than the newer one, but even my brother had a hard time climbing in my truck when he was here. I guess it's time for me to get some for this truck.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/3/2022 8:35 pm

    Quoting Darter50516:
    A new friend breaks the monotony of a boring weekend watching TV !!!
My weekends are never boring, but a new friend is welcome anytime. I'm not much for watching TV, it puts me to sleep.


Shartaun03 81F
6200 posts
12/3/2022 10:12 pm

Sounds like you had a good time and no pressures. Maybe he will just make a nice friend.


maudie1957 74F
1270 posts
12/3/2022 10:34 pm

Glad you enjoyed your date, Niles. Friendship sounds rather good to me; but you never know what might happen in time.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
12/3/2022 10:51 pm

A borderline pure and innocent first meeting! Wishing you all the best.


Archer62 83F
7096 posts
12/4/2022 4:09 am

SURE SOUNDS LIKE A PROPER DATE TO ME. MAY THERE BE MANY MORE.


Rocketship 80F
18580 posts
12/4/2022 7:16 am

Glad you had a pleasant time.

Maybe he was overly chatty because he was nervous, or just needed to voice his thoughts... that he may have not been able to do with his daughter or guy pals.

Some men think a women will understand all their feelings~~~


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/4/2022 9:58 am

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    Sounds like you had a good time and no pressures. Maybe he will just make a nice friend.
I'm hoping for a good friendship, I'm too set in my ways for anything else.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/4/2022 10:04 am

    Quoting maudie1957:
    Glad you enjoyed your date, Niles. Friendship sounds rather good to me; but you never know what might happen in time.
Thanks Maudie! I prefer friendship over anything else at my age, but you never know, you are right about that, yet I hesitate to want anything more than a friend. LOL, I think I lost that spark that makes your heart jump when you meet someone, or it burned out a long time ago.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/4/2022 10:11 am

    Quoting looklook:
    A borderline pure and innocent first meeting! Wishing you all the best.
Actually our second meeting. Thank you Looklook.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/4/2022 10:26 am

    Quoting Rocketship:
    Glad you had a pleasant time.

    Maybe he was overly chatty because he was nervous, or just needed to voice his thoughts... that he may have not been able to do with his daughter or guy pals.

    Some men think a women will understand all their feelings~~~

Thanks Rocket! I never thought about him being nervous, maybe he was, but didn't seem that way, so I'll go with he had to voice his thoughts.

He called this morning wanting to take me to brunch today. I already have plans with my friend Judy to go Christmas shopping this afternoon and had to decline. So, we are going to brunch next weekend. LOL, I'll let you know if I get to talk next time.


Shartaun03 81F
6200 posts
12/4/2022 8:26 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    I'm hoping for a good friendship, I'm too set in my ways for anything else.
I agree with you there. I certainly wouldn't take up with anyone at this time of my life seriously. So good luck on your new friend.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/5/2022 12:17 pm

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    I agree with you there. I certainly wouldn't take up with anyone at this time of my life seriously. So good luck on your new friend.
I had a friend tell me that this man is looking for his next Mrs., that's not me, I am too set in my ways to put up with living with someone. I already did the good wife thing and at my age, what's the point?


TwilightSpirit 56F
1248 posts
12/5/2022 12:19 pm

Sounds like a very good time. Glad it was.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
12/6/2022 9:03 am

Thank you!