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shuel2002 65F
5107 posts
9/16/2018 9:47 pm
My Mother’s Gift


My brother gave our mother an interesting birthday gift. It was one of those ancestry DNA tests. There were some surprises since we thought we knew exactly where her family was from. It wasn’t that far off but it was interesting. What was most exciting was finding relatives we never knew we had. It’s been great. One cousin wrote us and 2 I wrote. We are still trying to piece everything together but there have been exchanges of pictures and everyone has been fantastic. In fact, it turns out 1 cousin lived in Montreal 20 years while we were there. We didn’t know the other existed. We spoke on the phone with 2 cousins. The third lives in Australia so we corresponded by e-mails. Two are doing family searches that they will share with us once completed. I find the whole thing fascinating.

What are your experiences, if any, with these services?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/16/2018 9:48 pm



Elaine Shuel


MrsJoe 76F
17370 posts
9/17/2018 5:38 am

Hi Elaine! I haven't used any of those services, guess I'm just not interested in my roots. But I just wanted to say "Hi".

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


bijou624

9/17/2018 6:54 am

Hi Elaine: Nice to hear from you. What an interesting gift. I heard people are finding their children or birth parents just by doing that simple saliva test. Like MrsJoe I'm not interested in finding any more family members. In my case I have a sneaking suspicion that there may have been a mistake at the hospital where I was born and that I'm not even my parents' child as my blood type is different from both of them and I'm nothing like anyone in my family????


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/17/2018 8:37 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Hi Elaine! I haven't used any of those services, guess I'm just not interested in my roots. But I just wanted to say "Hi".
Hi. . I honestly didn’t expect anything to come from it but it has been a good experience so far. Thanks for dropping a note.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/17/2018 8:41 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Elaine: Nice to hear from you. What an interesting gift. I heard people are finding their children or birth parents just by doing that simple saliva test. Like MrsJoe I'm not interested in finding any more family members. In my case I have a sneaking suspicion that there may have been a mistake at the hospital where I was born and that I'm not even my parents' child as my blood type is different from both of them and I'm nothing like anyone in my family????
Nice to see you too. . I didn’t realize some are using this to find parents/children. That is great to hear. I think most people feel like they must be adopted as they aren’t like the rest of their siblings. The odds are you were given to the right parents. At least, I hope so.

Elaine Shuel


Seattlechick8 67F

9/17/2018 5:52 pm

Elaine Most Of These Tests Are Scams—I Wouldn’t Pay For It Unless My Dr Did It
It’s Just A Money Making Scam -Crock Of Bull People Are Falling For Sadly


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/17/2018 10:41 pm

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I see your point, ET. I guess this only works for those with small families like mine. lol I am always happy to hear from you.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/17/2018 10:43 pm

    Quoting Seattlechick8:
    Elaine Most Of These Tests Are Scams—I Wouldn’t Pay For It Unless My Dr Did It
    It’s Just A Money Making Scam -Crock Of Bull People Are Falling For Sadly
Actually that lost relative I didn't know about, turned out to be quite valid. It seems my Uncle met her 20 years ago at a cousin's house. They do say what the odds are of the results being accurate and she was one from the pretty much 100% list. I am sure you are right that some are scams so stick to the ones with more credibility. Thanks for your response.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/17/2018 10:44 pm

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Did you find relatives you were happy to know about?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
9/18/2018 10:39 pm

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No offence taken, ET. 😀

Elaine Shuel