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shuel2002 65F
5101 posts
4/17/2016 1:54 pm
IMPORTANT - PAT (mrsjoe1936) NEEDS OUR HELP!


Pat has been banned from SFF. That has got to be the craziest thing I have heard since I started blogging. I will be writing SFF about that but there is power in numbers. Please write SFF to help get her back on, without the hassle of having her need to change her handle and lose her stats. If Pat can be banned, remember what chance does any of us have?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 3:27 pm

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It is ridiculous so she needs our help to get reinstated.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 3:28 pm

I got the impression this is permanent. Diane if just temporary, how come your handle changes?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 5:54 pm

I really don't understand why she was banned. I wrote on here to the area for abuse since that's the area that bans people. Try writing there. Thanks.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 5:56 pm

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She did and got nowhere, _JKH54. Try writing the abuse department like I did. Any other ideas would be welcome.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 5:56 pm

Yes it is, Bumpkin.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 5:57 pm

    Quoting PraizeHim8:
    I doubt it matters how many call- Permanent usually means Permanent
I hope not.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 9:35 pm

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Can't they just warn people?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/17/2016 10:07 pm

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That's because their handles changed not their personalities.

Elaine Shuel


spiritwoman45

4/17/2016 10:22 pm

There was some discussion on the other site. I believe the reason given was her blog about the bash contained information like names of businesses and cost for services. it is strange becasue I think others have done the same. As unbelievable as it seems likely that someone complained. It is a silly reason for a "permanent" ban, which as we all know means little other than the hassle of creating another handle and profile.

Spiritwoman ^i^


bijou624

4/18/2016 12:19 am

That is such a bizarre reason to get banned. How else do people ever learn details of a bash? Please tell Pat to join again under a similar name.

I got banned once and had to call SFF to find out why. It was because someone sent me their e-mail address in the first e-mail, and then SFF told me I would be banned permanently if they found another e-mail address in my inbox. They told me it is in the rules.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:11 am

    Quoting spiritwoman45:
    There was some discussion on the other site. I believe the reason given was her blog about the bash contained information like names of businesses and cost for services. it is strange becasue I think others have done the same. As unbelievable as it seems likely that someone complained. It is a silly reason for a "permanent" ban, which as we all know means little other than the hassle of creating another handle and profile.
Thanks for clarifying what was listed. SFF wrote to me that it was an e-mail but Pat doesn't know what they are talking about. What you said makes sense. You aren't allowed to give out info on other companies especially costs. Yes, it seems someone complained for some reason. Pat will most likely have to change her handle. Thanks for your comment, Spirit.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:13 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    That is such a bizarre reason to get banned. How else do people ever learn details of a bash? Please tell Pat to join again under a similar name.

    I got banned once and had to call SFF to find out why. It was because someone sent me their e-mail address in the first e-mail, and then SFF told me I would be banned permanently if they found another e-mail address in my inbox. They told me it is in the rules.
Bijou, it isn't allowed to send your e-mail address to someone if they write you or if you initiate contact and give it out to them?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:14 am

    Quoting LeafRelief:
    She can fight her own battles...seriously.
I just felt there would be more chance of her being reinstated if more people were involved.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:15 am

    Quoting PraizeHim8:
    I agree With Leafy - Let It Go!! She was banned Dats ago and if she really truly
    Wanted to come back she would have under a New Handle- Obviously she Dosent
    Want to return - It's her Choice!!
Pat will be back, Diane.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:17 am

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Pat will be coming back on SFF. That isn't a question. Thanks for your comment, Roxy.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 9:17 am

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Pat was never warned. It went straight to permanent, Maggie.

Elaine Shuel


bijou624

4/18/2016 9:53 am

    Quoting shuel2002:
    Bijou, it isn't allowed to send your e-mail address to someone if they write you or if you initiate contact and give it out to them?
There's a rule that you can't give your e-mail address in the first I think it's three e-mails to a person. In my case, someone wrote to me and included their e-mail address but I hadn't even seen the message yet so didn't even know it was there. The censor is a computer and found the e-mail address in my inbox. SFF must expect us to log in every five minutes and check our inbox for violations. They told me that it is my responsibility to know what's in my inbox and another violation would result in a permanent ban.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 2:32 pm

Thanks for all your comments. I only know that Pat would never do anything to purposely get banned. I hope she gets her handle back but if she doesnt, she will be back with a new handle.

Bijou, YoungAtHeart had a rule that you can't give e-mail addresses on the first contact but they changed that. It is the same company so I doubt it's 3 messages before you could give out e-mail addresses.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/18/2016 2:33 pm

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Thanks _JKH54. I hope what you wrote her works. Regardless, thanks for trying.

Elaine Shuel


Shartaun03 81F
6196 posts
4/18/2016 11:32 pm

I aw a note on FB about this and Mrs. Joe said she will be back but will have to change her handle. It is crazy that someone should report her over a small thing like this. SFF should be happy that people get together at these events. I don't understand what the big deal is.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
4/19/2016 12:58 pm

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    I aw a note on FB about this and Mrs. Joe said she will be back but will have to change her handle. It is crazy that someone should report her over a small thing like this. SFF should be happy that people get together at these events. I don't understand what the big deal is.
I agree, Shartaun03. Thank you.

Elaine Shuel


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
4/21/2016 7:03 pm

Well this is sad news to come back to! I'll contact her on FB. This is BS, I've seen other people blog about Bash info before.