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CHECK TO SEE IF YOU WERE TALKED ABOUT Someone sent me something that was very sweet. Sorry Maisie, I know you dislike inspirational messages. Sorry to those that dislike copying and pasting. Read past the copied and pasted article. Here it is: "Too Busy for a Friend..... One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down. It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers. That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual. On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. 'Really?' she heard whispered. 'I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!' and, 'I didn't know others liked me so much,' were most of the comments. No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on. Several years later, one of the students was killed in Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature. The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin. As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. 'Were you Mark's math teacher?' he asked. She nodded: 'yes.' Then he said: 'Mark talked about you a lot.' After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher. We want to show you something,' his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket 'They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.' Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him. 'Thank you so much for doing that,' Mark's mother said. 'As you can see, Mark treasured it.' All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, 'I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home.' Chuck's wife said, 'Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album.' 'I have mine too,' Marilyn said. 'It's in my diary' Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. 'I carry this with me at all times,' Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: 'I think we all saved our lists' That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again. The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be. So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late." ----------------------------------------------------------------- This made me cry. It also makes one realize how important it is to tell those close to us how we feel. It seems there is Close Friend Day on June 8. I must admit that I never heard of that. I think one doesn't have to wait for a special occasion to tell those we hold most dear, how much they mean to us. Those who wish to do so here, can also say something nice about others here . I wish that those that don't get along can say something nice about the other. Is that possible? Nothing negative will be tolerated. I will start by saying about some of my friends on here. Limit yourself to 5 people. I have more than 5 friends here so if you aren't listed, it is only because I think the list would be way too long. 1. Pat is someone I respect immensely. She has wisdom and compassion. 2. Dan, for caring enough for others to bring a smile to everyone's face with his humour. 3. Lucy, for always seeing the bright side of things. I was just picturing her lying down on her new comfortable chair with a wide smile. 4. Alfie and Ann, ok they are 2 but you can't have one without the other.  I love that they met here and it's always great to hear them share their lives with us. 5. RosesLady, her love of pets and her warm heart, always makes me feel good. Wow limiting to 5 is hard. I can cheat a bit since it's my post.  Maisie I respect for always trying to get people to think. We might not always agree but I respect her right to have an opinion and for the passion she has for what she believes in. MrsFrancis is a great person who always looks at things in a positive light. ET, I do feel you have mellowed. I have enjoyed your comments and have become quite fond of you.  Spirit, who has a true spirit for living and overcoming all obstacles. I admire you greatly. MySeek always gives terrific responses and is an open and warm person. Niles, when she is here, is a wonderful woman that I wish would show up once in awhile. Betty and her great pics and sharing her and extended family with us. Diane and Puzzles and all of you that have strong convictions, as you should. I could go on and on. Your turn... Elaine Shuel |
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I knew I would forget some people I really admire and I have. Rocket, you are an intelligent and sweet and wise woman. I haven't seen Dianne here in a long time but I always found her responses well thought out and thought provoking. Those others I missed, it is because my memory isn't what it used to be. Elaine Shuel
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Thank you! I remember my very long time gal friend seeing I had a computer and signed me up for some chat room. I told her I was not interested and eventually I found it fun. One day SFF invited me to join. Made sense as it was for 50 and over. For a couple of years I chatted and met a few people in person. Alfie joined and wrote some fantastic stories. I would comment on them. He commented to my comments and I commented back. One day he said, can't you get the idea I am trying to get your attention and would like to get to know you. At the time I had lots of points and could send him a SFF e-mail. We talked on the phone and 6 weeks later met in person when he flew from Georgia to Indiana to meet me. The rest is history. By the way, neither Alfie or I have ever deleted any of our blogs so you could go way back and read them.
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Thank you! I remember my very long time gal friend seeing I had a computer and signed me up for some chat room. I told her I was not interested and eventually I found it fun. One day SFF invited me to join. Made sense as it was for 50 and over. For a couple of years I chatted and met a few people in person. Alfie joined and wrote some fantastic stories. I would comment on them. He commented to my comments and I commented back. One day he said, can't you get the idea I am trying to get your attention and would like to get to know you. At the time I had lots of points and could send him a SFF e-mail. We talked on the phone and 6 weeks later met in person when he flew from Georgia to Indiana to meet me. The rest is history. By the way, neither Alfie or I have ever deleted any of our blogs so you could go way back and read them. Thanks for sharing.Elaine Shuel
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You reminded me of some people I forgot to include. I am glad you have them on your list. They should have been listed on mine. Thanks Puzzles. Elaine Shuel
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Thank you so much,_JKH54. I am sure you made some people feel great. Elaine Shuel
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Thank you Shuel. You are too kind my friend. I'll start working on my list.
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Thank you, ET. Good luck with whatever you are dealing with personally. Elaine Shuel
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Thank you Shuel. You are too kind my friend. I'll start working on my list. I knew I would mess up and forget some people. I think everyone here knows what I think about them. You are one of the best here.  Elaine Shuel
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Absolutely not disappointed, Boogie. I don't want anyone to ever feel pressured to respond to any posts I put up. Thanks for your choices. Elaine Shuel
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Lulu answered another post I put up and she is one of the ones I forgot to include. She is very knowledgeable and I really enjoy reading the comments she puts up on my posts. I should have included Roxy who has been very sweet and supportive and Bijou for the same reasons. I am sure I am forgetting others so please forgive me. Elaine Shuel
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Hahaha, ok Elaine, I showed up just in time to read your blog! I love it and it is a person like you who brings other people together, despite their differences. You have a good heart, most of us have already figured that out about you. You were also there when I needed a shoulder to cry on, (I will always be thankful for that) you are strong and caring. Mrs Joe took me under her wing when I first came to SFF, she's helpful, smart and trustworthy. Couldn't have a better friend! DanDee, what can I say, he makes me laugh, and he has no idea how he has made my rainy days turn into sunshine! Boogie, I like her because she's one tough lady and tells it like it is, whether it hurts, or not. She's a straight shooter, I like her honesty. Roxy, another sweet lady who I know would be there if you ever needed a friend to lean on, or an ear to listen. Gosh, just 5? There are so many more!!
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Hahaha, ok Elaine, I showed up just in time to read your blog! I love it and it is a person like you who brings other people together, despite their differences. You have a good heart, most of us have already figured that out about you. You were also there when I needed a shoulder to cry on, (I will always be thankful for that) you are strong and caring. Mrs Joe took me under her wing when I first came to SFF, she's helpful, smart and trustworthy. Couldn't have a better friend! DanDee, what can I say, he makes me laugh, and he has no idea how he has made my rainy days turn into sunshine! Boogie, I like her because she's one tough lady and tells it like it is, whether it hurts, or not. She's a straight shooter, I like her honesty. Roxy, another sweet lady who I know would be there if you ever needed a friend to lean on, or an ear to listen. Gosh, just 5? There are so many more!! You have been missed. Thanks for those kind words. Great list too. Yes I cheated since it's my post. I named more than 5. Thanks for participating on my post.Elaine Shuel
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