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"Jiminy, her son gets an erection from what she does, she told me. I don't think he would voice the opinion it's bad for him. I have done many calls with men in my job. I know the harm that this behavior can cause. If you believe I am being judgmental, I hope you are wrong. Thanks for your comment." You keep doing it, I don't get it. Now as I said, I agree with you, but that's my opinion. I don't try to make it others, It should only matter that I'm right. More importantly, the judgment here is that she is wrong. Yet, it's not about you it's about her son. so if you believe in live and let live...then it's not for you to decide for others. Lulu..."I probably shouldn't admit this but that was a great comeback. Loved it" it's a funny retort.. yet it's not true...I would hope Lulu knows it, other here don't.. I expected it, so I got it. As soon as wrote it I knew it was coming. I don't care, I know who I am. but I see it all the time here, those that choose to believe something that's not true. I've been here for ten years, never have I dated someone from this site. I don't even correspond or email. In that regards I probably shouldn't even be here. I'm not married, I'm available. yet I don't do it, just don't see the benefit. I don't play women , don't even think that way. Nobody here really knows me, they just think they do. As far as that woman, what you are saying is that those that are doing things that may harm someone, can decide whether it is right or not. That is something I strongly disagree with. If you are waiting for me to back down from my stance, you will be waiting forever. If I spoke to a woman and he husband beats her when he doesn't like something he perceives as deserving punishment, would you consider it judgmental if I felt it was wrong? The husband would justify his actions and say that the bruises will disappear. Would I leave it up to him to decide if it's right or wrong? Absolutely not. When something is clearly hurting someone, the "live or not live" motto doesn't apply. It's sad you can't see that. Elaine Shuel
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shuel, you've painted a picture of someone, it's not true. It may be true in your mind. but the picture you paint isn't the whole truth. The picture you paint, is looked at through different eyes than your own. it's unfair to do that. It sets a tone, for people to be judgmental, not only that but to be unfair. I don't know of women you speak about, but she obviously wants to be your friend. do you think she would agree with what you wrote? do you think she would not be hurt by what you wrote? do you think what you wrote, she would say is a live and let live attitude? Elaine Shuel
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The picture I painted was what the woman told me. It wasn't my perception of what is happening. She was clear that she saw he got an erection and it turned her on masturbating while he watched. "Live and let live" is only regarding someone not getting hurt. Once someone can be hurt, all bets are off. like many things that happen here, it's not about my agreement or disagreement it's about the method. What you posted is against a live and let live attitude. that's all. You can't see it..that's okay, not many here do. It's not fact. It assumes that people do wrong, knowing they do wrong. most don't, just like you don't with this post. it's not for you to point out her dirty laundry. Live and let live.....
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I've said it numerous times I agree with you. like many things that happen here, it's not about my agreement or disagreement it's about the method. What you posted is against a live and let live attitude. that's all. You can't see it..that's okay, not many here do. It's not fact. It assumes that people do wrong, knowing they do wrong. most don't, just like you don't with this post. it's not for you to point out her dirty laundry. Live and let live..... Elaine Shuel
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