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shuel2002 65F
5101 posts
6/19/2015 11:20 pm
WHY DO WOMEN LIKE BAD BOYS?

I have to admit that I've been with some guys that weren't great. Nothing that bad but still men I shouldn't have been with. After having enough of that, I fell for my boyfriend because he is the kindest man I ever met. Ladies, did you fall for the bad guys? Men did you like naughty women?




Elaine Shuel


Shartaun03 81F
6196 posts
6/20/2015 12:33 am

Elaine guess it depends on to what degree of naughty these guys would be. What I would view as naughty to others that would be of the norm.


bijou624

6/20/2015 3:55 am

The woman who worked in the prison and had s*x with the convicted murders and helped them escape is a good example. She was married so she already had a man in her life, but she said the convicts made her feel 'special'. I look at her and see the same type of woman I believe gives her money to con artists and internet scammers. Very plain, not too bright, who will do anything for male attention and 'love'. I have met women like that and all they think about is men.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 11:11 am

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    Elaine guess it depends on to what degree of naughty these guys would be. What I would view as naughty to others that would be of the norm.
That's very true, Shartaun03. Thanks for your response.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 11:12 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    The woman who worked in the prison and had s*x with the convicted murders and helped them escape is a good example. She was married so she already had a man in her life, but she said the convicts made her feel 'special'. I look at her and see the same type of woman I believe gives her money to con artists and internet scammers. Very plain, not too bright, who will do anything for male attention and 'love'. I have met women like that and all they think about is men.
There are definitely women that write to convicts and some marry them. I don't really get that attraction. It's rather sad and of course, dangerous for them. Thanks for your comment, bijou.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 11:14 am

    Quoting  :

I think that some women do like the James Dean type, absolutely. Do you like naughty or nice girls? Thanks for replying to my post.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 11:16 am

    Quoting  :

That's because you are wise, puzzles. Actually I've always been attracted to intelligent men with a good sense of humor. Where I went wrong is I went with men with bad intentions. I'm now older and make better decisions. Thanks for your comment.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 11:18 am

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As long as you learn by your mistakes, it doesn't matter once you break up. Thanks for your comment, _JKH54.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/20/2015 2:13 pm

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Thanks for the laugh and welcome to my blog, AnitaLouise.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/21/2015 1:01 am

    Quoting LeafLover:
    I have no idea really. But this stretches the question I admit....I wouldn't be interested in a 'trashy' woman, however...lol,...I'm not that interested, in an intimate sort of way...that many might say is boring....Was that tactful enough? lol
Thanks for your comment, Leaf. I appreciate your candid response.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/21/2015 1:02 am

    Quoting pinkpaws1:
    There may have been a time in my youth where bad boys were attractive... not too bad... just sort of on the edge I guess... but at this stage of my life I would not be attracted to a real bad boy....
I think as we get older, we learn from our mistakes. Thanks for your comment, pink.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/21/2015 1:05 am

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No, I haven't deleted any comments here. Did you say the s e x word? If you did, SFF must have deleted it. Please post it again. Please rest assured that I've never deleted your comments.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/21/2015 1:06 am

    Quoting pinkpaws1:
    Why are men attracted to women that treat them like dirt? I have known a woman that treated every man she ever had a relationship with horribly... and always cheated etc etc.... and they ALL loved her to no ends!! I don't get it....
I've seen that with other women I know. I can't figure it out either. Thanks pink.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
6/21/2015 3:12 pm

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Thanks for your comment, 57tallandgentle. I think we all have our own interpretation of what a bad boy/bad girl is to us. It doesn't necessarily mean that someone controls the other. It may be that the person has some negative qualities that we'd be better off without.

Elaine Shuel