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shuel2002 65F
5104 posts
5/23/2015 6:42 pm
I'M FEELING FRUSTRATED!


I put up my last post at about 3 am. It is now about 9:30 pm and it has yet to go up. That's 18.5 hours. It's the one about the 65-year-old that gave birth. This happens to me all the time. SFF blames everything and everyone but their system. If/when it finally goes up, nobody will notice it. I keep asking myself lately, is there a point in my blogging if my posts are rarely showing up? One person suggested that I might have my blog on some list that delays things, due to when I first posted erotica. If that's the case, things won't improve. Suggestions would be welcome. Let's see when this post shows up.

Elaine Shuel


spiritwoman45

5/23/2015 8:37 pm

If they eventually post maybe plan on a delay and post a day ahead?

Spiritwoman ^i^


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/23/2015 10:39 pm

    Quoting spiritwoman45:
    If they eventually post maybe plan on a delay and post a day ahead?
I don't really understand your suggestion, Spirit. When I post, it shows up way after usually. If I posted something a day ahead of when I wanted it viewed, it would still be way down the list, actually even further down. I do thank you for trying to offer me help.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/23/2015 10:44 pm

    Quoting  :

The disappearing act happens to some of my posts too. It finally gets visible on the recent post list and later off it goes. If my blogs are on a "watch list", I'm doomed. It has gotten worse lately though. I wonder why they didn't do this as much as the beginning. Thanks Liszt. I'm sorry it happens to you too.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/23/2015 10:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes, that's how people usually spot mine. It's ironic that this post showed up relatively quickly. Thanks Bob.

Elaine Shuel


GLUMO 89F
9730 posts
5/23/2015 11:01 pm

Don't be frustrated, Shuel, just be patient.


Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/23/2015 11:13 pm

    Quoting GLUMO:
    Don't be frustrated, Shuel, just be patient.
I'm still hanging in there, Lucy. Thank you for caring.

Elaine Shuel


Shartaun03 81F
6200 posts
5/24/2015 12:41 am

Elaine the last blog I did didn't show up till several hors later. I even wondered if it would. I didn't stress myself out about it. I figured is it had been censored for some reason then I guess I would just have to accept that. I don't post blogs as regularly as you do so guess it means differently for you.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 12:44 am

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I'm not getting ill about it but if I just want to write to myself, I'd keep a diary. I want to be treated fairly. That means to have my blogs posted. I don't think that should be too much to ask for. Having it get posted, when it gets too far down the list, is useless. Thanks for your comment.

Elaine Shuel


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
5/24/2015 10:42 am

I doubt they are watching you Elaine, I have had a couple vanish for no reason at all, and a couple delayed. This is an SFF problem, not you!


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:32 am

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ET, I know how it is but in the past few weeks, it's gotten worse. I don't know why. It always took awhile for my posts to go up and I wrote SFF to get them up. That used to help. Now it doesn't do a thing. I even called them once and the girl tried to fix it and couldn't. She said there's a problem on my account and she'll pass it up but nothing ever came of it. The disappearing posts happens to me all the time, but again, lately my posts weren't showing up until almost a day later. I do feel frustrated since i see many posts put up after mine come first.

It is FREE but shouldn't all us FREE members be treated equally?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:33 am

    Quoting  :

We'll all had that happen but it's been a very consistent, daily issue lately.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:34 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks Maisie. I've done that but most of the time, it doesn't go up until much later either. I also don't find adding a comment helps, unless someone else writes one.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:36 am

    Quoting  :

I've thought about that. The problem is that I would then be one of those having more than one handle. Besides if they look at IP addresses, SFF would know it's me. Thanks for the suggestion, Maggie.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:40 am

    Quoting Nileyears:
    I doubt they are watching you Elaine, I have had a couple vanish for no reason at all, and a couple delayed. This is an SFF problem, not you!
Thanks Rae but if it happened only a couple of times, I wouldn't have put up this post. For me, this has been consistently happening on a daily basis. Yesterday's posts for some reason, it didn't happen. I am trying to figure that one out.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 11:42 am

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Those are wise words, Dan. As far as putting up a post again, I always hide the first one. Thanks for your comment.

Elaine Shuel


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
5/24/2015 2:50 pm

    Quoting shuel2002:
    Thanks Rae but if it happened only a couple of times, I wouldn't have put up this post. For me, this has been consistently happening on a daily basis. Yesterday's posts for some reason, it didn't happen. I am trying to figure that one out.
Elaine, I don't write that many blogs, maybe that's why I didn't have but a few problems, now if I wrote one or two a day, that might be a different story.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/24/2015 7:23 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    Elaine, I don't write that many blogs, maybe that's why I didn't have but a few problems, now if I wrote one or two a day, that might be a different story.
That could be. I really don't know. Whenever I write SFF, they ignore my message or write back to check my browser. They never do a thing about what's causing the problem to begin with. I guess it's been getting to me since it started happening every day and has been taking longer for posts to be shown. Thanks for your comment, Rae.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/25/2015 5:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Lulu but it's the same on every browser (I have 3 browsers). SFF is making it seem like my browser isn't seeing my posts but I am able to see later posts.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/25/2015 5:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks RosesLady. I'll be happy to hear from you. It is odd that some posts seem to always make it up and others not. What's sad is that SFF doesn't care. I have to say that if I was paying to be on this site, I would stop paying if my posts didn't get shown on a timely basis.

Elaine Shuel