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WERE YOU OR ARE YOU THE WOMAN HE MARRIED? I've often heard men say how their wives changed after they got married. How true is that? Did you change after you got married? What about your husbands? In what ways did you change if you did?   Elaine Shuel |
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No one knows who they are marrying until they get married. I swear, my third and last husband went from this sweet Mr. Personality image into a monster. We dated for over two years and I never saw that side until a week into the marriage. He knows I don't care much for drinking, but he hid that from me. Then I come to find out he married me for my parents money. We separated in 6 months, divorced within a year. He was violent when he didn't get his way and I almost didn't get out of that one alive!!
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No one knows who they are marrying until they get married. I swear, my third and last husband went from this sweet Mr. Personality image into a monster. We dated for over two years and I never saw that side until a week into the marriage. He knows I don't care much for drinking, but he hid that from me. Then I come to find out he married me for my parents money. We separated in 6 months, divorced within a year. He was violent when he didn't get his way and I almost didn't get out of that one alive!!  Elaine Shuel
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Yes, Yes, & Yes!! We were married for 38 great years! Unfortunately, he was taken from me much too early... we had so many plans! A good marriage doesn't just fall out of thin air... you have to work at it, sometimes more than you had anticipated but it's worth it in the long run! I truly believe patience, trust & understanding goes hand in hand with love!! I'm sure many could add to this list.
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Yes, Yes, & Yes!! We were married for 38 great years! Unfortunately, he was taken from me much too early... we had so many plans! A good marriage doesn't just fall out of thin air... you have to work at it, sometimes more than you had anticipated but it's worth it in the long run! I truly believe patience, trust & understanding goes hand in hand with love!! I'm sure many could add to this list. Elaine Shuel
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That's true, Pat. I've wondered about that one myself. In the 9 years with my boyfriend, I have been through many positive (on the whole) changes. He hasn't changed one bit. Thankfully, I love him as he is (except the workaholic part.  ). Thanks for your wise response. Elaine Shuel
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A bit stouter with a few more facial lines but apart from that - the very same lol  
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Welcome to my blog, dakotasnake. I never heard that expression before. Thanks so much for sharing it. It does sound valid, I must admit. Elaine Shuel
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Having a 42 year great marriage is fantastic, Helen.  I'm sorry for your loss. Thank so much for sharing that personal part of your life with us. Elaine Shuel
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I'll have to think about what you just wrote, Pat. It's possible there have been changes that I haven't noticed. What happened to Nileyears is everyone's nightmare. I am so glad she is done with him. Thanks again for your response. Elaine Shuel
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I won't touch that one with a 10 foot pole. Elaine Shuel
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A bit stouter with a few more facial lines but apart from that - the very same lol Thanks for the comment.Elaine Shuel
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