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ALERT: PLEASE KEEP ALL COMMENTS SO THAT NOBODY CAN DO WHAT WAS DONE TO ME TODAY I went to check comments made on my blogs, as I do regularly. I read one from yourfavoritedom today and couldn't believe what I read. I was told that he removed my comment about him wanting a blowjob. I NEVER wrote that. He put up his first blog here and it was sexual. I warned him that it most likely would get banned, as my erotica did. I said that I welcome him to blogging here and that I've met some wonderful people here. I often look at blogs where I posted (I put a watch) and someone did say about him wanting a blowjob. For the life of me, I don't remember who. My memory isn't what it used to be and I had no idea I had to remember who wrote it. The problem with what happened here is twofold: first, besides misquoting me, yourfavoritedom removed the comments. Secondly, he made the matter worse by updating his blog to say what he thought was my quote. I find that rather upsetting. So, if the person who said what yourfavoritedom quoted or someone remembers who wrote it reads this, please straighten out yourfavoritedom so he could stop spreading rumors. Also, to protect others from this sort of thing, PLEASE consider keeping all comments. I don't know how to prove I didn't say what he said I said. If he kept the comments, the proof would have been there. Elaine Shuel |
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Hi Elaine...I don't even recall that handle and I can't imagine you writing anything like that on your blog. Erotica writing is your job and separate from your leisure time. I checked his blog and I am surprised that SFF didn't delete it and that he didn't get banned. But then stranger things have happened on the blogs. Wonder why he erased his comment. There isn't any proof that he made that comment on your blog. I noticed on his picture his eyes are camouflaged.
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Thanks Bob.  Before someone accuses somebody, it would be nice if they got their facts straight. I appreciate you telling me who said it.  Elaine Shuel
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Hi Elaine...I don't even recall that handle and I can't imagine you writing anything like that on your blog. Erotica writing is your job and separate from your leisure time. I checked his blog and I am surprised that SFF didn't delete it and that he didn't get banned. But then stranger things have happened on the blogs. Wonder why he erased his comment. There isn't any proof that he made that comment on your blog. I noticed on his picture his eyes are camouflaged. He wrote 2 strange comments on my blog and then updated his blog, accusing me of writing that blowjob comment. It's disturbing since I never wrote what he said I wrote. If I did, for the record, I'd be the first to admit it. I'm surprised SFF didn't ban his post either. I couldn't get away with putting an erotic story. Thanks for your comment. Elaine Shuel
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Thanks for confirming what Bob wrote, Carolina. I appreciate it. Elaine Shuel
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4/3/2015 7:57 pm |
Same here. I remember 2 comments. One from you welcoming him and politely advising him that his blog might be deleted. The other was from lulu saying among other things he was just another man looking for a bj. I remember because I thought is was finny, right on and so lulu. Spiritwoman ^i^
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Wow, and I thought I joined a site for virgins only, lol. I am so sorry this happened to you Elaine, glad to know it wasn't you, well, of course it wasn't you, but dog gone it anyway, the blogger should have made sure he had the correct person before accusing you.
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It wasn't my blog, Shartaun03. He wrote a blog and I made a comment. Someone else made the comment he referred to. I couldn't remember who wrote it but I knew it wasn't me. It seems Lulu said it, Bob just stated. He wrote 2 strange comments on my blog and then updated his blog, accusing me of writing that blowjob comment. It's disturbing since I never wrote what he said I wrote. If I did, for the record, I'd be the first to admit it. I'm surprised SFF didn't ban his post either. I couldn't get away with putting an erotic story. Thanks for your comment.
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I definitely didn't like his method of approaching things. If he didn't like what you said, Lulu, he should have responded to your comment on his blog. By him deleting the comments, it made it look like he was telling the truth. What I cant figure out is HOW he mistook what you said as being from me. I was the first comment on his post. I do agree with you, that he has issues. Thanks Lulu. Elaine Shuel
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Same here. I remember 2 comments. One from you welcoming him and politely advising him that his blog might be deleted. The other was from lulu saying among other things he was just another man looking for a bj. I remember because I thought is was finny, right on and so lulu. What you wrote is exactly what happened. He twisted it all up. I just don't get why he had to write 2 comments on my blog accusing me and then updating his post saying it again. I won't deny that it upset me.Elaine Shuel
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I wonder why he would want to get a rise out of me. I don't know him. Unless he is the guy that wrote me an e-mail that I did have to block. That just happened last week. He got abusive. Thanks for your valid comment, Pat. Elaine Shuel
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Wow, and I thought I joined a site for virgins only, lol. I am so sorry this happened to you Elaine, glad to know it wasn't you, well, of course it wasn't you, but dog gone it anyway, the blogger should have made sure he had the correct person before accusing you. Elaine Shuel
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Oh my sweet friend. I haven't been on for days and I come back to this? I put his handle into search and lulu readily admitted she was the bad girl!  He's a  with a capital L  You're very sweet. What would SFF be without a bit of drama.?  I'm relieved others knew who said it. What Lulu said wasn't that bad anyhow. I just didn't want someone to put words in my mouth.Elaine Shuel
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When I checked earlier today, my new comment saying it wasn't me, was the only one showing. I just went to look at his post now and it might be a system glitch, but I no longer see his post. In fact, I no longer seem him listed with the new bloggers. Even more strange is, I had 7 watchers and now 6. It seems he was watching what I was doing. That kind of worries me. He listed Toronto streets in my blog. Thanks for your comment, RosesLady. Elaine Shuel
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Hi Elaine....sorry thought it was on your blog. Glad the mystery got solved. You are right people should get their facts straight. Yes they certainly should get their facts straight. Elaine Shuel
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That was listed as his first blog post, Liszt. He supposedly was a new blogger here. Thanks for your comment. Elaine Shuel
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Elaine, SFF keeps a cache for a long time of every post and comment in the blogs, even those that the author deletes. If you can narrow down the time frame, and if you can identify the author, they can probably find it and take action. Fraudulent misquotings like you describe have gotten perpetrator's accounts closed on FFI sites in the past. It may involve an email to them. If you can't find or figure out how to contact them via the abuse dept, one of us can probably help you. GBU, Gavin
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4/4/2015 6:55 am |
Hi Elaine: I saw his repulsive blog but there weren't any replies at that time. He must have gotten banned from SFF because he showed up on the new member blog list but now he's gone. Lots of the men in my area are much the same, married men looking for s*x and some of the usernames are so disgusting. Their poor wives.
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Elaine, SFF keeps a cache for a long time of every post and comment in the blogs, even those that the author deletes. If you can narrow down the time frame, and if you can identify the author, they can probably find it and take action. Fraudulent misquotings like you describe have gotten perpetrator's accounts closed on FFI sites in the past. It may involve an email to them. If you can't find or figure out how to contact them via the abuse dept, one of us can probably help you. GBU, Gavin Elaine Shuel
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I imed called SFF and they said they would remove the blog -- a few hours later it was gone I noticed his comments are gone from my Soul Mates post but my response to his comments remain. I don't mind that, in case he ever shows up again.Elaine Shuel
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Hi Elaine: I saw his repulsive blog but there weren't any replies at that time. He must have gotten banned from SFF because he showed up on the new member blog list but now he's gone. Lots of the men in my area are much the same, married men looking for s*x and some of the usernames are so disgusting. Their poor wives. Diane had his post removed, I just found out.Elaine Shuel
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One thing good came out of this. I feel blessed having friends like all of you, that responded to what happened to me, in a very supportive way. He overreacted to what Lulu said. Like any other comments made, he should have just replied to her comment. The only person who did something wrong, was the now banned member. Thank you, my friends. Happy Easter!!! Elaine Shuel
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