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How important is romance to you? I am a true romantic. I love happy endings. I want to kiss under the moonlight and hold hands talking a nice walk. I love dinner at a romantic restaurant with a soft candle, where we can gaze into each other's eyes lovingly. There is only one little problem. My boyfriend thinks he's a romantic guy but I've yet to see it. I did have romance with my first love but oh well, I guess there are more important things in life. He shows me love in other ways. How important is it to you to have a romantic partner? Elaine Shuel |
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Romance is very important in a relationship. A kiss and a cuddle is something that a couple should indulge in every day and Ann and I do indulge every day. Thanks for posting something non-political, I for one really appreciate it. Alfie...
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Romance is very important in a relationship. A kiss and a cuddle is something that a couple should indulge in every day and Ann and I do indulge every day. Thanks for posting something non-political, I for one really appreciate it. Alfie... Elaine Shuel
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That's an interesting expression, Carolyn. Thanks for sharing it and thanks for checking out my blog. Elaine Shuel
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As a woman being romantic is very important. Romance needs to be a normal part of our lives especially when one is in a relationship. Nice blog! "The only way to have a friend is to be one."
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Ha ha, I am not romantic, yes, I laugh at myself!! I don't know, maybe once somewhere in time I might have been. I think how sweet it is when I see people holding hands, or a couple with their arms around each other. Yes, I will admit it touches a place in my heart, but me, to be honest here, not so much. I guess it's that tomboy, or a woman cannot show she is weak attitude I've always had.
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Oh my.... to me romance is everything!  ...the secret looks, the touches, the hugs, the cuddles, and all those special little things two people in love do for each other.... sighhhhh. 
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Hi Elaine, I'm not in the least bit romantic not into it at all. Not much into birthdays or anniversaries either. Maybe that makes me seem like an odd ball lol I like kind and thoughtful gestures though and thankfully I get plenty of those
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As a woman being romantic is very important. Romance needs to be a normal part of our lives especially when one is in a relationship. Nice blog! Elaine Shuel
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I feel the same, Rainier. Thanks for your comment. Elaine Shuel
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Ha ha, I am not romantic, yes, I laugh at myself!! I don't know, maybe once somewhere in time I might have been. I think how sweet it is when I see people holding hands, or a couple with their arms around each other. Yes, I will admit it touches a place in my heart, but me, to be honest here, not so much. I guess it's that tomboy, or a woman cannot show she is weak attitude I've always had. Elaine Shuel
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Oh my.... to me romance is everything! ...the secret looks, the touches, the hugs, the cuddles, and all those special little things two people in love do for each other.... sighhhhh. Elaine Shuel
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I guess everybody's idea of romance is different.....cuddle and a kiss, while very nice, romance is something else......I have had lovers who were very romantic, but the romance was a cover, a distraction from the lack of real depth and commitment.......an act put on because he thought that was what women wanted......a sort of generic theatre......like they had looked it up on the internet under "romance" or "romantic gestures to please women".......... have had the real thing, but it was short lived.........I haven't even thought about it for a long time.......The whole Western "Romantic Love" meme strikes me as a social construct. Elaine Shuel
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Definitely Pat. If both of you get what you want out of the relationship, that really is all that counts. Thanks for what you wrote. Elaine Shuel
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Hi Elaine, I'm not in the least bit romantic not into it at all. Not much into birthdays or anniversaries either. Maybe that makes me seem like an odd ball lol I like kind and thoughtful gestures though and thankfully I get plenty of those Elaine Shuel
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I think it's our attitude that makes an event romantic. And too often if we have expectations about it, or try to make a time romantic, it just doesn't happen. But I question the value of romance, without a better clarification how people define love. GBU, Gavin
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I think my heart and soul are hopeless romantic, too. I think like you about romance, but to me it has always been just a dream...   Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)
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That was lovely, Pat. I am truly happy for you, finding love with 2 great men. Elaine Shuel
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I think it's our attitude that makes an event romantic. And too often if we have expectations about it, or try to make a time romantic, it just doesn't happen. But I question the value of romance, without a better clarification how people define love. GBU, Gavin Elaine Shuel
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n my view, some people grasp romance and many people mistake it. For me, I don't want a relationship with someone I cannot move emotionally. I find women who cry very attractive. That is not a sign of weakness to me, it is a sign of authentically being able to love and to forgive. It isn't a box of chocolates that brings the kind of tears I love. It's the way I listen...and I see the tiniest things. I am able to feel love even from people I have no relationship with. I am very lucky to be able to do that, and my God knows I'm grateful for the gift. Elaine Shuel
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Daniel can be romantic at times but he's such a kind Grntle lovely man with much wisdom which to me is one of the greatest traits a man should Possess Elaine Shuel
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No, thank you Dianne, for always adding so eloquently to my blog. What you wrote is something I found fascinating, regarding the "shared perspective on human existence heightened by a most irreverent sense of humour". That's a very profound statement. Thank you. Elaine Shuel
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I think my heart and soul are hopeless romantic, too. I think like you about romance, but to me it has always been just a dream... Elaine Shuel
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I really do believe, Bill, that it depends on the woman. If the end result is that you made her feel special, you must be doing something right.  Elaine Shuel
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