Close Please enter your Username and Password


shuel2002 65F
5104 posts
2/19/2015 2:14 pm
Bill Cosby - Guilty or Innocent?


I assume it's alright to put up this topic, given all the current issues that I've seen in blogs. Anyhow, I've been amazed by how many people still don't believe Bill Cosby is guilty of what he has been accused of. Do I believe that ALL of the women are telling the truth, not really. Do I believe that ALL these women are liars, in conspiracy to bring him down? Unlikely. As the expression goes, where there's smoke, there's fire.

What I would love to see is the laws changing regarding the statute of limitations. I think there should be exceptions made in the case of serial and for any crime when there are multiple victims saying pretty much the same thing.

In Bill Cosby's case, on the remote chance that he is telling the truth, let him take a lie detector test administered by someone that he would have no idea who ahead of time. Otherwise, he could pay them off. It should be taken in front of his lawyer and the prosecuting lawyer and in fact, the results calculated and given to both lawyers at the same time. The women should have to do the same. iF necessary, a test could be done twice or 3 times, to ensure accuracy.

If I was being accused of a crime and I was innocent, I would DEMAND a lie detector test to clear my name. Wouldn't you?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 2:48 pm

    Quoting  :

He is trying to avoid his day in court. He doesn't want to be put on the stand and commit perjury or end up in jail. Thanks for your reply Dan, which I totally agree with.

Elaine Shuel


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
2/19/2015 5:29 pm

He's done a lot of good in his life, but no one is perfect. And I'm sure he's made some enemies with some of his public comments on social issues, and in that light it's not out of the question to assume some people with influence might set out to smear and even frame him. (He's taken sides both for and against whites, blacks, conservatives and liberals.)

I always liked him, even when I questioned some of his socio-political views, but I'm withholding judgment at least until the credibility of the accusers is verified. --And for all I know, they might be found to be very credible. I just don't know until there's a trial.)

I think a jury is the best group to figure it out.

GBU,

Gavin


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 6:03 pm

    Quoting  :

In my opinion it would be unlikely that ALL the women consented to it, especially given they were drugged and passed out.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 6:05 pm

    Quoting  :

He has suffered financially but he has enough money to live well the rest of his life. I doubt they'll get their day in court as far as criminal charges go. There is a chance civil suits will end up in court.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 6:44 pm

    Quoting GavinLS2:
    He's done a lot of good in his life, but no one is perfect. And I'm sure he's made some enemies with some of his public comments on social issues, and in that light it's not out of the question to assume some people with influence might set out to smear and even frame him. (He's taken sides both for and against whites, blacks, conservatives and liberals.)

    I always liked him, even when I questioned some of his socio-political views, but I'm withholding judgment at least until the credibility of the accusers is verified. --And for all I know, they might be found to be very credible. I just don't know until there's a trial.)

    I think a jury is the best group to figure it out.

    GBU,

    Gavin

Gavin, I'm sure he's made enemies. It's a far stretch to think that all those women lied, as part of a way of discrediting him. Alan Ladd's wife had nothing to gain in coming forward, for example.

How could there be a trial if the statute of limitations is preventing it and he isn't opting to have that waived?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 6:45 pm

    Quoting LeafTreat:
    This has been difficult to be sure. I agree with Dan on this...I just have suspicions and its sad.
It definitely is sad, Leaf. I used to watch The Cosby show and thought he seemed like a great guy.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 6:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Nice to hear from you, rainier. What most of his victims have said is that they didn't think anyone would believe them. They weren't aware there were so many other women out there that he did the same thing to. Remember, they would have had to accuse the great Bill Cosby, a highly respected actor and comedian.

When some did come forward years ago, the matter got settled as a civil matter and never got to criminal court.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 9:52 pm

    Quoting  :

The problem in this case Bill is, how can he be proven guilty if he won't waive the statute of limitations? I can't assume he's innocent, solely based on the fact he can't be found guilty.

A polygraph isn't perfect but he and the women would be taking it. Also, for accuracy, they could do the test several times. If there is a real issue about accuracy, they could even call in more experts.

No offense but I doubt the lie detector expert that would be brought in for Bill Cosby's test, would be the same calibre as in the case against you of petty theft.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/19/2015 9:54 pm

    Quoting lulugravy:
    It isn't the first time they came forward........There were many allegations in the past that Cosby settled privately. There was an article in a major magazine in 2005 about several women accusing him of drugging and ra*ing.......he was famous enough for it not to make much of an impression. Women tend to keep quiet about these things, especially involving a famous man......they are afraid that they will be slut-shamed.....and they have good reason to fear that......society has changed enough and the fact of the many allegations has shifted the situation enough to give them courage to speak up.
Exactly.

Elaine Shuel


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
2/20/2015 12:48 am

Elaine hi,

Thank you for your blog on B. Cosby. Coincidentally, I had posted a blog on Cosby's case before, with a similar heading as well.
It was posted on the 6th of Dec, 2014, on the second page of my blog, it had drawn 72 comments, with 1612 views. That was really wonderful as I didn't expect such a great success . The viewers/readers and their comments were in such a great number, which really passed my imagination!!.
So, we're just waiting, hoping Cosby's case would be ruled in the Court of Law and whatever will come out, we'll know later.
Wish you a great weekend Elaine.
Lisa.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/20/2015 7:10 am

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Elaine hi,

    Thank you for your blog on B. Cosby. Coincidentally, I had posted a blog on Cosby's case before, with a similar heading as well.
    It was posted on the 6th of Dec, 2014, on the second page of my blog, it had drawn 72 comments, with 1612 views. That was really wonderful as I didn't expect such a great success . The viewers/readers and their comments were in such a great number, which really passed my imagination!!.
    So, we're just waiting, hoping Cosby's case would be ruled in the Court of Law and whatever will come out, we'll know later.
    Wish you a great weekend Elaine.
    Lisa.


Sorry Lisa, I didn't start blogging here until after that date so I never saw your blog. There was certainly great interest in your post, based on the response it received. I guess the bloggers here didn't want to hear about it again but that's life.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/20/2015 7:40 am

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Elaine hi,

    Thank you for your blog on B. Cosby. Coincidentally, I had posted a blog on Cosby's case before, with a similar heading as well.
    It was posted on the 6th of Dec, 2014, on the second page of my blog, it had drawn 72 comments, with 1612 views. That was really wonderful as I didn't expect such a great success . The viewers/readers and their comments were in such a great number, which really passed my imagination!!.
    So, we're just waiting, hoping Cosby's case would be ruled in the Court of Law and whatever will come out, we'll know later.
    Wish you a great weekend Elaine.
    Lisa.


I just read your earlier post, Lisa. Your stand on the matter is the opposite of mine but that's fine. We're all entitled to our opinions. I put this comment on it:

Lisa just wrote on my blog that she posted on this subject before. I wasn't aware of that. However Rocket, how will a court decide, when the statute of limitations prevents a court trial unless someone new comes forward that is within that ridiculous time limit? If it was one person who accused him, I would think she might be lying. Two, perhaps still not convinced given his celebrity. We're now up to over 20 women that came forward, I believe. It would be insane to believe there isn't some truth to what these many women have said. I know it's hard to accept that someone you admired is actually a monster but I hope you will soon.

By the way, I have a curious nature and I noticed that your viewership in general was very high around that time. From January it dropped down. Why has readership changed so much since the new year?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/20/2015 9:20 am

    Quoting  :

Fair enough, Pat.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/20/2015 12:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for your input, MySeek2day. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the women did jump on the bandwagon to get publicity/money. I would be shocked if ALL the women are lying about what happened.

Elaine Shuel


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
2/21/2015 8:07 am

Elaine,

Am surprised to read your copy paste of your response to me on your such blog. Is it your conscious which has betrayed you and made you post such thing again on my hereby blog!!?. I really wonder. My comments on your blog post was just to inform you that I had since written a blog on Cosby, on such a date and so on, with that similar tittle. I don't think it would so offend you deeply. You had your right to blog on it again, surely, it won't affect the comments and debate on that blog of mine. If you hadn't seen it before, am glad that you have seen and read it as you came to post your copied response again on it. I also wonder what Rocket has to do in your posted response to me!!. Did you miss the para in any eventuality?.
As far as I know, regarding all the viewers and comments on all my blogs, NOT a bad remark or retort, has ever been posted on any of my blog. As I do respect each and everyone of the visitors and members of the site, they too do respect in return during the 3 years being on this site. Whether you are or are not allergic to some, well this is your own problem and not surely not mine. If it was preferred to me upon my viewership as you have so mentioned, you have therefore rendered me delighted to tell you that yours is very much inferior comparing to mine, I hope your nature could differentiate it as well. You rather mind carefully yours because you are being watched on your exposure definitely.
If others are happy of your blogs or not, this is not my concern too. Finally what I would say: "I avoid stepping on others' toes and would never allow anyone to step on mine eventually and this for sure.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/21/2015 12:00 pm

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Elaine,

    Am surprised to read your copy paste of your response to me on your such blog. Is it your conscious which has betrayed you and made you post such thing again on my hereby blog!!?. I really wonder. My comments on your blog post was just to inform you that I had since written a blog on Cosby, on such a date and so on, with that similar tittle. I don't think it would so offend you deeply. You had your right to blog on it again, surely, it won't affect the comments and debate on that blog of mine. If you hadn't seen it before, am glad that you have seen and read it as you came to post your copied response again on it. I also wonder what Rocket has to do in your posted response to me!!. Did you miss the para in any eventuality?.
    As far as I know, regarding all the viewers and comments on all my blogs, NOT a bad remark or retort, has ever been posted on any of my blog. As I do respect each and everyone of the visitors and members of the site, they too do respect in return during the 3 years being on this site. Whether you are or are not allergic to some, well this is your own problem and not surely not mine. If it was preferred to me upon my viewership as you have so mentioned, you have therefore rendered me delighted to tell you that yours is very much inferior comparing to mine, I hope your nature could differentiate it as well. You rather mind carefully yours because you are being watched on your exposure definitely.
    If others are happy of your blogs or not, this is not my concern too. Finally what I would say: "I avoid stepping on others' toes and would never allow anyone to step on mine eventually and this for sure.


I don't understand what you are upset about or what you are saying. I copied and pasted what I put on your blog, only because you said you had a blog about this subject. I wanted to address what Rocket said about Bill Cosby being guilty only when a court of law said he is guilty.

I also don't get why you would have said my blog is inferior to yours. I never said that about yours or anyone else's. I did find it odd when you started quoting on my blog about YOUR number of views and number of comments on your Bill Cosby blog post. Again, your blog was BEFORE I started blogging. If you had checked, you would have seen that I never read that blog before. It was from Dec 2014 and my blogging began afterwards.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/21/2015 12:57 pm

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Elaine,

    Am surprised to read your copy paste of your response to me on your such blog. Is it your conscious which has betrayed you and made you post such thing again on my hereby blog!!?. I really wonder. My comments on your blog post was just to inform you that I had since written a blog on Cosby, on such a date and so on, with that similar tittle. I don't think it would so offend you deeply. You had your right to blog on it again, surely, it won't affect the comments and debate on that blog of mine. If you hadn't seen it before, am glad that you have seen and read it as you came to post your copied response again on it. I also wonder what Rocket has to do in your posted response to me!!. Did you miss the para in any eventuality?.
    As far as I know, regarding all the viewers and comments on all my blogs, NOT a bad remark or retort, has ever been posted on any of my blog. As I do respect each and everyone of the visitors and members of the site, they too do respect in return during the 3 years being on this site. Whether you are or are not allergic to some, well this is your own problem and not surely not mine. If it was preferred to me upon my viewership as you have so mentioned, you have therefore rendered me delighted to tell you that yours is very much inferior comparing to mine, I hope your nature could differentiate it as well. You rather mind carefully yours because you are being watched on your exposure definitely.
    If others are happy of your blogs or not, this is not my concern too. Finally what I would say: "I avoid stepping on others' toes and would never allow anyone to step on mine eventually and this for sure.


In reading your answer again, are you angry because I didn't take the same position that he's innocent until proven guilty in court.? You wrote "../ all the viewers and comments on all my blogs, NOT a bad remark or retort, has ever been posted on any of my blog.". Unless I am reading you wrong, and I REALLY hope I am, you are saying that you get upset if someone doesn't take the same stand as you, Lisa???

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/21/2015 8:16 pm

    Quoting lulugravy:
    This woman embroiders her posts with many ingratiating, flowery words and phrases that often obscures the meaning. In her Cosby blog she kept repeating that he would be tried in a court of law and insinuating that the women were compliant though several of us told her about the statute of limitations and that the women said they had been drugged.........she went on several slut-shaming tirades. accompanied by the aforementioned flowers and incense........

    She also said that she thought that the fact of the women not coming forward before, not going to the police and not insisting on ra*e-kits was suspicious.

    She kept saying that it was wrong to judge Cosby, but apparently judging the women was OK.......I told her again about the statute of limitations and that if she didn't understand why the women didn't come forward initially, that she should do some research on the psychology of r*ape .....At one point I told her I had no idea what she said.and maybe it was a language problem and her knowledge of English was perhaps not up to the challenge of a blog like that.....Here is her reply.....Her usual Saccharine was somewhat diluted..........Now, English is my second language and my language remark was in no way intended as an insult, but a statement of fact.....

    "NOT SURPRISING, THAT YOU HAVE NO IDEA, YOU REALLY SEEM ONE WHO NEVER HAD ANY AT ALL?.

    SIMPLE ENGLISH, WHICH EVERYONE HAS CLEARLY UNDERSTOOD!!. YOU DON'T !!. HAVE YOU EVER UNDERSTOOD ANYTHING AT ALL?. WHAT'S A PITY !!.".

    YOU BETTER GET TAUGHT THEN, IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN AS THESE ARE NOT SOLD IN ANY MARKET.
Hi Lulu, I don't know what to say. The only dealings I had with her have been positive before this. I do find it difficult to understand what she said in her angry comment to me but I've been trying to.

I appreciate you telling me a bit of back history. I have to admit I'm shocked. In her blog, she made it sound like in 3 years, I'm the only one that ever disagreed with her.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/22/2015 1:19 am

    Quoting lulugravy:
    I think that most people's interest in the Cosby situation isn't because they relish a scandal at all.....it is because they want justice done and to believe they live in a world where people can't get away with taking advantage and committing despicable crimes just because they are rich and famous. Anyways, Beth still thinks Cosby is going to be tried in a court of law.........

    I think these misunderstandings with Beth come down to cultural and language differences. That's what I concluded anyways......I know this place can be confusing at first, but mostly we just say what we want and let the chips fall where they may.....I know that my point of view is too esoteric for most....in the real world and in this one.
Thanks Lulu, I agree with the fact that I and others hate injustice. I know it's not easy to accept when someone in the public eye who is trusted, betrays our trust. I hope Beth eventually realizes I meant nothing disrespectful by commenting on her blog. I do that on other blogs and didn't see any reason why she would object to my posting an opposing view on hers.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/22/2015 1:21 am

    Quoting  :

You're very clear, Bill and I appreciate your support. I do hope that Beth and I can be friends again. I'm certainly willing to be. It's now up to her.

Elaine Shuel


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
2/22/2015 10:31 am

Elaine,

First of all, thank you for your responses regarding my comments on your blog. It appears that my first comment wasn't well understood by you and it has gone a bit too far and brought such a considerable importance too, as implicating others in discrediting my English language, the term I used in any case here. If I blog in French, in Italian or in Creole, I doubt how many would understand it here. However, I have some points to clear here.
1- My first comments on your blog, was never made to create any polemic or criticism or any sort of anger. I had just informed you about that blog of mine with the same topic and details, in case you'd like to read it. I also mentioned how it came to be a successful one beyond my imagination At the end of my comments, I just wrote that we're just waiting to know about the ruling of the Court of Law to know the outcome. It's still there on your blog for verification. Was it so offensive to you Elaine?, What have I said anything wrong on it?. On the contrary,I was glad for your first response to me on there. Each one is free to express his own opinion too. I was not against yours. My first comment on there, was just a simple information to you and that's all.
2- You came out with a second response to me on the same blog of yours. it appeared somewhat ironical. The way of questioning me about the number of viewers on my other blogs!!. Was it really so necessary?. Do you do this to every blogger or only to me?. I don't really know why and I don't care whatever would be the reasons too. None should expect the same number of viewers on each of one's blogs, it's logic, isn't it?. I don't do it myself, neither question anyone as such. I just write whatever I like on my blog. First of all, it is for my own pleasure and secondly for whomever would like to read and comment on them, I never force anyone to do so and I just leave it to them.That was the point on your second reply to me, which made the click, forcing me to counter reply you but without any anger or hate. For your information, during my 3 yrs on here, I have never fought with anyone on here, I neither intend too, as long as I am not confronted, but I won't leave my right to retaliate if needed. But be sure, I never wanted to fight with you as you think. I was quite polite in my first comments on your blog.
3- Now, in your latest blog, you pretend that I am against your opinion on Cosby's case and that am angry with you. But that was never the case for God's sake, I've never mentioned that at all. I hope you have understood my above reason here, even written in my simple English language. Each one is free of his own opinion. I have never
considered anyone as my enemy Shuel, neither you as well, if there was a misunderstand between us on that blog, it wasn't a war as such, it is just a doubt or a misinterpretation of words. But I will surely reply to that woman " Madam Know-All" who pretends to be better and more intelligent than everyone else here!!, As she has related to you her encounter with me, on one of her comments on my blog. She really deserves my reply. If she is a Shakespearean by nature, this means nothing to me and I don't care who she is as well. So, I'll close this matter with you here Shuel by reiterating again that you wasn't, you aren't and you will never be my enemy, we are still friends.
Wishing you a joyful coming week.
Lisa.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/22/2015 12:44 pm

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Elaine,

    First of all, thank you for your responses regarding my comments on your blog. It appears that my first comment wasn't well understood by you and it has gone a bit too far and brought such a considerable importance too, as implicating others in discrediting my English language, the term I used in any case here. If I blog in French, in Italian or in Creole, I doubt how many would understand it here. However, I have some points to clear here.
    1- My first comments on your blog, was never made to create any polemic or criticism or any sort of anger. I had just informed you about that blog of mine with the same topic and details, in case you'd like to read it. I also mentioned how it came to be a successful one beyond my imagination At the end of my comments, I just wrote that we're just waiting to know about the ruling of the Court of Law to know the outcome. It's still there on your blog for verification. Was it so offensive to you Elaine?, What have I said anything wrong on it?. On the contrary,I was glad for your first response to me on there. Each one is free to express his own opinion too. I was not against yours. My first comment on there, was just a simple information to you and that's all.
    2- You came out with a second response to me on the same blog of yours. it appeared somewhat ironical. The way of questioning me about the number of viewers on my other blogs!!. Was it really so necessary?. Do you do this to every blogger or only to me?. I don't really know why and I don't care whatever would be the reasons too. None should expect the same number of viewers on each of one's blogs, it's logic, isn't it?. I don't do it myself, neither question anyone as such. I just write whatever I like on my blog. First of all, it is for my own pleasure and secondly for whomever would like to read and comment on them, I never force anyone to do so and I just leave it to them.That was the point on your second reply to me, which made the click, forcing me to counter reply you but without any anger or hate. For your information, during my 3 yrs on here, I have never fought with anyone on here, I neither intend too, as long as I am not confronted, but I won't leave my right to retaliate if needed. But be sure, I never wanted to fight with you as you think. I was quite polite in my first comments on your blog.
    3- Now, in your latest blog, you pretend that I am against your opinion on Cosby's case and that am angry with you. But that was never the case for God's sake, I've never mentioned that at all. I hope you have understood my above reason here, even written in my simple English language. Each one is free of his own opinion. I have never
    considered anyone as my enemy Shuel, neither you as well, if there was a misunderstand between us on that blog, it wasn't a war as such, it is just a doubt or a misinterpretation of words. But I will surely reply to that woman " Madam Know-All" who pretends to be better and more intelligent than everyone else here!!, As she has related to you her encounter with me, on one of her comments on my blog. She really deserves my reply. If she is a Shakespearean by nature, this means nothing to me and I don't care who she is as well. So, I'll close this matter with you here Shuel by reiterating again that you wasn't, you aren't and you will never be my enemy, we are still friends.
    Wishing you a joyful coming week.
    Lisa.


Lisa, I'm glad that we are still friends. I'd like to put this behind us. Please don't get upset with those that supported me, as I am not upset with any that supported you. It will only make this matter worse.

I do want you to understand where I was coming from. I wasn't happy with your first comment, when you started quoting how many viewers and comments YOUR post had, on MY blog. To me it sounded like you were bragging at my expense. You also seemed angry that I blogged about the same topic as you did (again, I wasn't aware at that time that you did). In another message, saying mine was inferior, didn't help. I swear that I didn't know about your post about Bill Cosby until you told me and I DIDN'T post or copy on your site to upset you. I addressed what Rocket said there, as I would on any post. I didn't mean it as any disrespect to you. You and I differ on our opinion about Bill Cosby and that's perfectly fine.

As far as the comments about your English, I am sorry for anything said on my blog by anyone. I won't deny that I had trouble understanding why you were upset with me. I think members were just trying to help explain why we had a misunderstanding. Misunderstandings happen in life and probably more often on the computer. Again, I apologize for any hurt feelings regarding this entire matter.

I hope you have a great Sunday and that we can move on from here.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/23/2015 3:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Earthytaurus3, Beth/Lisa and I have gotten past this matter. The last thing I want to do is rehash it.

Elaine Shuel