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MrsJoe 76F
17309 posts
10/1/2019 12:17 pm

I have learned that "happy" is a transient emotion that is contingent upon the circumstances around me. But I have a deep joy inside, that I have found in my relationship with my Lord, and that gives me a strength to go on when I don't think I can because of circumstances around me.
I know there are those who don't believe in my God, and that's ok, but it works for me.
About crying. When I was younger, I think I cried more easily than I do now. I cried when I was sad, mad, disappointed or just upset about most anything. Now, I cry more easily over the words of a song or a movie than I do about things in my life.
But you are so right about trust. It is hard to regain it after it has been violated.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Rocketship 79F
18531 posts
10/1/2019 1:27 pm

Warm Hugssss, my friend~~~


butterfly21 74F
205 posts
10/1/2019 2:02 pm

I have learned in life happiness is a choice. hugggs my friend.


brightsmile4you 80F

10/1/2019 2:47 pm

Hello Friend. I am so sorry there was a reason for you to cry. I was told once that sometimes it is good to have a good cry because the tears wash away the pain inside.

For me happiness comes from within myself and I am much happier now that I have learned to let people and things be as they are and not as"I think they should be". I certainly hope that you are over whatever caused you to cry and back to the sweet lady and friend that I know you to be.


Creative Ideas.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
10/1/2019 5:23 pm

Sorry about your tears. Trust is indeed hard to get back. I believe in giving people a second chance but I must admit, they tend to repeat whatever caused the loss of trust to begin with. That said, I am sure some people do regret what they did and wouldn't do the same thing again. I prefer giving second chances over not trusting anyone.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
10/1/2019 5:31 pm

Tears can be good. I just read that lovely post from MrsJoe about her anniversary. A must read. It brought tears to my eyes, it was so touching.

Elaine Shuel


Archer62 83F
7051 posts
10/2/2019 4:31 am

EXCELLENT TEXT. MY PARENTS WERE ALWAYS UPSET IF I WASN'T HAPPY ALL THE TIME, FOR THEM IT WAS THE ULTIMATE GOAL. MY BROTHER WAS PRETTY MUCH THAT WAY TOO AND IT WAS SO IRRITATING TO BE ASKED ALL THE TIME IF I WAS HAPPY. THE SIMPLE FACT OF ASKING MADE ME UNHAPPY BUT NO ONE EVER GOT THE MESSAGE