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Beth1949 75F
3166 posts
5/10/2019 4:56 am

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AN UNTOLD SECRET TO . . . . .

Having been very busy with a lot of important issues, I was unable to post any blog previously. But today the 10th of May, it is essential for me to post this meaningful and devoted blog for the 2nd year of my husband's demise. Since or decades ago, I had kept something secret from him for a genuine reason but today I want to disclose it on this blog.

-- My forever irreplaceable beloved husband, today the 10th of May, a date which remains such a memorable yearly date which neither me nor our unique would ever forget. On this precised date, 2 yrs back, while sadly gazing at us, you took your last breath and closed your sorrowful eyes to never open them again. Our heartache has never ceased and the remembrance of your exceptional being, a model husband and father, your kindness, your tender care, your valuable advice, your endless love and your wishes, are still and will remain alive in our mind. The entire memory of you, cannot and will never fade away.

~~ On our wedding day, we had faithfully and ardently pronounced our vows with devotion. The vows to hold from that day forward, were: "For the better, for the worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part", We have shared all of these together with our deep and endless love. We had always overcome a few infrequent momentary little ups and downs during our 45 yrs of marriage but.... nothing could ever drift us apart, except your demise.

Furthermore, I remember the time you had to undergo a major surgery at the London Clinic, UK. I was so worried, so fearful and so desperate concerning your state of health. I was powerless but I kept hoping and praying for you, my beloved husband, I went and spent lengthy time in the Chapel of clinic, praying before and throughout your 6 hours surgery.

~~ I fervently begged our Merciful God to be with you, to bless you, to guide those surgeons and to make your surgery successful. I faithfully and tearfully asked God to share my strength with you and to even take some years from my own life to add them to yours, I offered my blood to be transfused to you if needed, to lengthen your life. Those were my sincere prayers and my devotion for you, my dear husband. This was the untold secret I never revealed to you, so that it wouldn't affect you psychologically and emotionally.

Nevertheless, God had heard my prayers, my supplication and my plea and he had graciously granted us all our wishes. Your surgery was a success, you regained your strength and thereafter, we continued our life together, until our Lord God decided to call you home. Hence, where you are now, please forgive me for this purposeful untold secret.

I will never stop my gratitude to God for the long happy life we've lived together and my praises be always to God for his merci and blessings on us. Our life is an open book with pages written in gold about our happiness and devotion, our understanding and tolerance, our empathy and...our endless love. My infinite thank to you for all you'd done for me and for our . You were really one of a kind.

GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. R I P DEAR HUSBAND AND FATHER.
Lisa.






Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/10/2019 6:53 am

When the person you truly love is no more, this is the time you appreciate and miss him or her, the most. However this is part of life.


Abelle2 83F
31224 posts
5/10/2019 7:20 am

Beautiful!


Archer62 83F
7084 posts
5/10/2019 7:30 am

HE MUST HAVE BEEN A REMARKABLE PERSON, HOW FORTUNATE YOU ARE TO HAVE SUCH FOND MEMORIES.


Seattlechick8 67F

5/10/2019 8:15 am

Beth Precious Memories How They Linger


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:02 am

Hi Abelle, thank you for passing by my blog and for leaving your comments. I do appreciate them. Have a nice weekend.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:07 am

Archer hello, Am pleased for your visit and your nice above comments. You are so right, he was such a nice person and his memories can't be forgotten. Reason why I've dedicated this blog for him. Thanks again and enjoy your weekend.
Lisa


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:10 am

Seattlechick, glad reading you on my above blog and thanks so much for your visit and your agreeable comments. Hope reading you again in the future. Wishing you all my best.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:14 am

Pattistuff, welcome to my blog. Nice reading you on here. Your appreciation has really pleased me and it is well said. Thanks again until I read from you again in the future. Enjoy a pleasant weekend.
Lisa


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:19 am

Hankwilliam, hi. I hope you are doing well. How pleasant it is to read from you on my above blog. I was sure you wouldn't miss it as usual. Thank you for your visit and for your meaningful wordings. I appreciate them so much. I wish you all my best and hope reading from you again . God bless you too.
Lisa


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/12/2019 2:23 am

Deborah, my greetings to you. Thank you for your kind visit and your nice comments have really pleased me. You are so right in your observation and they are well stated as above. Thank you again Deborah, may God bless you too as well as your family. I wish you a lovely weekend.
Lisa