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Beth1949 75F
3163 posts
5/19/2015 6:26 am

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I WAS TOLD THAT..........SHOULD I BELIEVE IT?

Many proclaim that most online relationships are not reliable, just virtual, unrealizable, pretentious. They opine that many are fake, impostors, bogus, and even pretenders.

Conceding that only a few are honest, genuine, trustful, reliable, serious, cool, decent, compatible and successful.
Without forgetting those who are purely for Friendship.


I was also told that:
For many, it is despondency. Such people try to find online friends due to their loneliness, their idleness or their despair. They want a buddy, to chat, to joke and to share their grief and pain. To feel company and amity only.
While others who are for indecency,
Want to spend their time for indecent fun, they aim at sexual talks and behaviors, to satisfy their craves or desires. They try to seduce and incite the partner(s) into an intimate relationship. They claim to be genius, lovable, serious, having a comfortable life, well settled, a legacy and everything, just to brag, to impress, to attract, to convince, to dupe and mislead the other(s). While all their so called personality and possessions are fake, unproven and unprovable. Their persuasions are such but just imitation, erroneous, unreal and illusory. Their unscrupulous manipulation are to be aware of.

But I really salute and congratulate those with their harmonious bond, their affinity, their proof of exactitude, being noble-minded towards their partner and their nice life together. Lucky are those who have successfully found their genuine ones online. Consider yourselves as very fortunate and providential. Keep your bond tight and preserve it always.

I would like to have your views and experience on this subject to enlighten us more. Your participation will be very much appreciated.
Thank you in anticipation.
Lisa.











shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
5/19/2015 2:16 pm

I agree with Liszt. It may not be perfect but the internet has led to some great unions. I know someone from Canada that married a US gal. They got married and they're doing great.

Elaine Shuel


looklook 84M
3925 posts
5/20/2015 1:32 am

MLLD,
The internet is a great way to meet new people provided one takes steps to protect oneself. One must apply the same rules to online relationships that one would in the real world. Have a wonderful time with your online one who surely stands double-checked by this time. Best wishes and regards.
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Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 5:05 am

ET hi,

Thank you so much for your participation on this issue. Your visit and comments are always warmly welcome. Am so glad reading from you on here, and your views on this subject as well.
You are quite correct, everyone has to be careful on the net, specially when got into online relationship.
It cannot be certain, neither confirmed of the either side. So, one must be careful if seeking a partner by this means.
Thank again ET and I wish you a great week.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 5:23 am

William hi,

Sorry to call you William, instead of writing the whole handle.
Glad reading from you once more on my blog. Your visit and comments are welcome and I appreciate your point of view on this topic as well. You are correct that some but not all, are as described. I am pleased to have different views and experience expressed clearly as this give us a good insight on this issue.
There are also good and honest people online just as there are the bad and fake ones too. So, one must be careful in such dealing.
Thank you again William and I wish you all my best.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 5:43 am

Liszt hello,

You're always welcome and thank you for your visit, for your wonderful comments and for your views which correspond to the text of my blog. Thank you being on the same wave band as well. We as adults, we have to be careful and aware of these scammers too and not let us be trapped in their net.
There are lots of good friends in here too.
Better be lasting good friends than to have an ephemeral or transient online relationship.
Thanks very much for your participation on this topic, Liszt
Wishing you and family the best coming days.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 5:50 am

Crazyhorse, hi,

Great reading from you in here. You are welcome and thank you for your participation on this issue. Am so glad you have been successful meeting your wife online, even if it is not on this site but both of you have been lucky really. I congratulate you and wish you both a continuous happy life together. Hold it tight.
My best wished to you and Madam.
Will be glad reading from you again on the future. Thanks a lot.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 6:01 am

RosesLady, my friend hi.

How glad I am reading from you again on my blog. I appreciate so much your participation and your views as well. Your comments are so true and give us an insight of other people on here too. As I said on my text, there are good and bad people too in online relationship, so we must be aware of it and be careful too
I wish you find a good partner on here, there must be surely
someone of your compatibility, the luck of one may also be of another as well !!.
All my kind wishes to you RosesLady.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 6:12 am

MrsJoe, hello dear,

Fortunate couple are you and Joe. Congrats to both of you and keep it on always. Lucky people as both of you are a few I believe. But yet it shows us the good side of online relationship as well.
Not everyone has this chance and I wish to have more good ones on this site than otherwise. Even good friends on the net are so dear too. I wish both of you a long happy life together.
Let it be a good example for the others as well
Enjoy your days together MrsJoe and blessed be both of you.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 6:22 am

Elaine hi,

Pleased reading from you and thanks a lot for your participation on this issue, I appreciate it so much. Your similar comments to Liszt, are well recognized and worthy too. I also appreciate those who have succeeded in finding their partners online as well. But not everyone has got the chance,. however I wish the best for the others seeking such chance. Thanks again Elaine for your views.
My kind regards to you and to your partner as well.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 6:53 am

MBN hello,

Delighted reading from you this time on my blog. Thanks gratefully for your participation on this matter. I wanted to get confirmation on all these hear-says described in my text and am happy for the views and comments of each one on here.
The net as most of the things in life, has its good and of course its bad side. But when one is aware of it, with care and attention, one may not fall wrongly in any unwanted circumstance.
There are good and bad people everywhere in this world but one should differentiate it, and choose which path to take.
For some, it's better to have good friendship than a transitory relationship. I hope your partner is the one to your likeness and with whom you are happy too. What else should you wish more?
Remain happy and trustful.
My kindest regards and wishes to you.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/20/2015 7:11 am

Mary Ann dear hi,

Mary Ann dear, I have posted this blog to have views and experience from other bloggers on here, to confirm what I've been told before.
I was in doubt about it and wanted to post this related blog since quite sometime now and finally I could do it. I am not in search for such thing but just good friendship on here. But to be honest, I have had a few genuine ones really who have been interested in such relationship. Eventually from what i was told before, I was really in doubt. But I congratulate those who have successfully indulged in and who were lucky too.
I wish others success as well. Thanks for your kind wishes Mary Ann and I wish same to you in case of.
Thanks again for your participation.
You remain my one of my best friends on here.
Lisa.