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Thought for the day! Are the "Quotes" really about staying positive? I had once been very closely associated with some one of this site who was habitually addicted to quote a quote to make me agree with something that seemed to me highly improbable! Many months before now, my friend told me after we ended an argument amicably about our future to believe in the famous quote that says as follows: “AWAYS BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN” During last three years, I really waited for something wonderful to happen to both of us.Nothing wonderful happened so far at least to me! Rather, on the other hand, something unwarranted happened that has led us to choose different paths to travel. This may be the wonderful thing that my friend might have waited for to happen! However, I would never consider our parting as such! Of late I have been seriously contemplating to leave the quotes inside the books where they belong! Even my 'signature' line quote that appears at the end of my comments posted on various blogs, including mine, may disappear soon unless someone can convince me that quotes are really about “staying positive and looking for the best in the worst situation!” In view of what have been stated in the foregoing paragraph, may I kindly request my readers to assist me very kindly by pondering upon the under noted three questions on quotes to find answers: 1. Could Quotes be meaningful, inspiring as well as uplifting? 2. Could quotes be misleading and misinforming if too much credence is given to them? 3. Is it wise to follow Quotes? Thanking every one of my readers in anticipation of their participation          |
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Looklook hi, at least I've noticed your new blog and I dare to leave my comments on here, am not sure if it would be discerned or not. However, after reading the text. I have darely posted the following: A quote is a part of speech or thoughts written or spoken from what the reader or the listener takes note and analyzes. The quote may bring more or less a bit of moral in the sense it is written or said. Every quote has its signification too. Left for the one, to understand its meaning, to sense it, to either believe in it or not. None is obliged to, as he is free to reject it. The main outline of your above story seems to relate to the quote: “ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN”. It appears to be just a free quote, it's up to you to retain or to hurl it. It's your choice eventually. If there was something wrong between you and your friend, there should be a reason for it, as to my opinion, though I shouldn't be too nosy or inquisitive in your privacy. But, remember nothing goes on without a cause in life. Nothing wonderful may not have been between both of you, you must find out the reason, the cause. To be positive or remain negative, is a chosen option of oneself. It's my own opinion however. It is just left to him/her to ponder on it. I hope my comments have answered and covered all your above Qs. Am sorry if they haven't. Maybe someone else may enlighten you more than me, on it. Meanwhile, have a nice day, keep well and unstressed but happy. Lisa.   .
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I tend to like and read what I call 'life's little reminders'. They are not all happy/happy ones though...... like, If you care more for a friend than they care about you, get the message. Hope that all goes well for you!
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Uplifting quotes like that are simply uplifting quotes, nothing more or nothing less. They are not sign posts to guide our lives or prophetic words to watch to happen. The one you quoted would simply mean to stay positive in life and enjoy the good things in life........ not that one is going to have a monumental event occur. If we are looking for the positive things in life, and appreciating them, we can be happier people. Isn't it a wonderful thing to be able to get up in the morning, dress ourselves in clean clothes, have good food and water to nourish our bodies.... etc. ? As for the friend..... Rocketship is right. Many times, one person in a friendship is more dedicated to that friendship than the other person and many times, friends do go separate ways. It is just life. Remember the good times, and let the hurts go. "Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened." Yes, another quote.  Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.
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As others have said I view quotes as reminders or sign posts. The ones you posted are indeed subjective. What is "wonderful" and amazing to one person can be fairly routine to others. I suggest that your friend's goals were different from yours. That is hard to accept sometimes but ultimately a fact of life. Complete understanding of another is pretty impossible. Even after a life time together extremely few people can totally anticipate the others reactions. Spiritwoman ^i^
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I think quotes can be meaningful/inspiring/uplifting if they feel 'real' or true for you and/or suggestive of possibilities. Some quotes can be a little shortsighted/insubstantial so I would think it a matter of discernment as to which quotes to give credence to/how much. I'm sorry you are feeling discouraged; I can think of little to buoy your spirits and perhaps it isn't even appropriate to do so. It appears you are still deeply mourning the loss of what you had thought/hoped would be your future; of deep disappointment. As the grieving process is unique for each of us, there are no timelines to determine to how long the process will be. It is recommended we be patient with ourselves and allow the process to unfold naturally. I do feel for you Look, with your trusting heart you were much deceived by the woman you had come to love deeply; it was too late to retract your feelings on learning of her deception. Take care, be gentle with yourself :- )
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Nice blog, Looklook. Sorry for what you're feeling. Look all wonderful things around you and be happy. Agree with all the commenters. I love some quotes that help me to live Life in a better way, but that's all...   Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)
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Looklook hi, at least I've noticed your new blog and I dare to leave my comments on here, am not sure if it would be discerned or not. However, after reading the text. I have darely posted the following: A quote is a part of speech or thoughts written or spoken from what the reader or the listener takes note and analyzes. The quote may bring more or less a bit of moral in the sense it is written or said. Every quote has its signification too. Left for the one, to understand its meaning, to sense it, to either believe in it or not. None is obliged to, as he is free to reject it. The main outline of your above story seems to relate to the quote: “ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN”. It appears to be just a free quote, it's up to you to retain or to hurl it. It's your choice eventually. If there was something wrong between you and your friend, there should be a reason for it, as to my opinion, though I shouldn't be too nosy or inquisitive in your privacy. But, remember nothing goes on without a cause in life. Nothing wonderful may not have been between both of you, you must find out the reason, the cause. To be positive or remain negative, is a chosen option of oneself. It's my own opinion however. It is just left to him/her to ponder on it. I hope my comments have answered and covered all your above Qs. Am sorry if they haven't. Maybe someone else may enlighten you more than me, on it. Meanwhile, have a nice day, keep well and unstressed but happy. Lisa. . Lisa, I fully agree with your opinion that to be positive or remain negative is a chosen option of one. I should also thank you for assisting me to find answers to my questions. Thanks for stopping by. Enjoy wonderful times with your beloved daughter Emily and her girl friend who has since been visiting you now. Wishing you all the best, Lisa.
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Looklook, I've read your above response. But there is one very important issue to be pondered upon, it is mainly when others do not and cannot know the exact reasons, are not aware of the... "call it the real cause", of your torment, then I don't think anyone would have the exact correct answer in your case. It's only You and your friend, who can solve the problem between both of you. I may add it's not a one sided accusation or problem in your relationship. Am not asking you here to spread or to "Wash you clothes in public"!!. It won't be a decent way eventually. But you are quite matured to analyze it by yourself. I do not think a spare tire is what you really need!!!. I may advice you not to play such game with your friend, alternatively with..... the one you dearly consider feeling for you that much, it's just an endless destroying rubber stamp. I guess you should have a choice. "Do not eat banana by its two ends !!". You can never please two Gods in parallel. Well, it's up to you for sure. I wish you a lovely and thoughtful day. Lisa.
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I tend to like and read what I call 'life's little reminders'. They are not all happy/happy ones though...... like, If you care more for a friend than they care about you, get the message. Hope that all goes well for you! Thank you so much for stopping by and also for your thoughtful comments! Sometimes, I feel like accepting the fact that it is better to have none than to have one who is half there or is not at all there! Best wishes. Have a nice weekend.
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Uplifting quotes like that are simply uplifting quotes, nothing more or nothing less. They are not sign posts to guide our lives or prophetic words to watch to happen. The one you quoted would simply mean to stay positive in life and enjoy the good things in life........ not that one is going to have a monumental event occur. If we are looking for the positive things in life, and appreciating them, we can be happier people. Isn't it a wonderful thing to be able to get up in the morning, dress ourselves in clean clothes, have good food and water to nourish our bodies.... etc. ? As for the friend..... Rocketship is right. Many times, one person in a friendship is more dedicated to that friendship than the other person and many times, friends do go separate ways. It is just life. Remember the good times, and let the hurts go. "Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened." Yes, another quote.
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Hello look.......Glad you got your blog up and i enjoyed reading it. I like some quotes and this is one that I really like....."One of the biggest mistakes we make is assuming that other people think the way we think". I say that because I think quotes like a lot of things are about what we believe or don't believe or if we believe. Delighted to see you back here on my blog which I had to re post not once but twice. Thank you so much for reading the blog and also for leaving such meaningful words that needs to be pondered upon by me taking some considerable times at my disposal. Hope this will find you well and in good mood. Take care always, Bright.
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Mrs.Deborahsu hello, I wonder whether this is the first time I could read from you here on my blog page or not . Whatever it may be, you are most welcome here. I am also happy to note that you have enjoyed reading the piece. You seem to be right when you say that the quote under reference proved what it said. My being alive and doing things are the ample proof of it! To tell you frankly, I was not supposed to survive the heart attack that I suffered at midnight when I was chatting with this particular friend of mine alone in my home. As I could understand what was happening to me, I called my nephew on phone to drive me to a private Hospital. Yes, you are correct. It was something wonderful that happened in that fateful night! I survived by the Grace of God. My friend became really worried for me. That is another story. Thanks once again for stopping by. Have a wonderful weekend.
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Hello Cactus Annie, It pleases me so much to welcome you back on this blog page of mine. I know you always like to read my blogs and leave here on this page some decent as well as appreciative words praising each of the blogs you read. Thanks again, Cactus Annie. Take care. May God protect you always.
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As others have said I view quotes as reminders or sign posts. The ones you posted are indeed subjective. What is "wonderful" and amazing to one person can be fairly routine to others. I suggest that your friend's goals were different from yours. That is hard to accept sometimes but ultimately a fact of life. Complete understanding of another is pretty impossible. Even after a life time together extremely few people can totally anticipate the others reactions. Let me tell you in one sentence how much I appreciate what you have said in your comments at above. I agree with one hundred percent of it. The comments are not only clear but also expressed with great convictions. Thank you for expressing what you felt like to express. Have a fruitful weekend and take care.
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I think quotes can be meaningful/inspiring/uplifting if they feel 'real' or true for you and/or suggestive of possibilities. Some quotes can be a little shortsighted/insubstantial so I would think it a matter of discernment as to which quotes to give credence to/how much. I'm sorry you are feeling discouraged; I can think of little to buoy your spirits and perhaps it isn't even appropriate to do so. It appears you are still deeply mourning the loss of what you had thought/hoped would be your future; of deep disappointment. As the grieving process is unique for each of us, there are no timelines to determine to how long the process will be. It is recommended we be patient with ourselves and allow the process to unfold naturally. I do feel for you Look, with your trusting heart you were much deceived by the woman you had come to love deeply; it was too late to retract your feelings on learning of her deception. Take care, be gentle with yourself :- ) Thanks for your soothing comments and what you have said about the quotes.Perhaps, and in view of what you have said,may I tell you that i have not lost anything for which I should grieve.Because, we have found our separate ways now.I know God will give me strength to bear the pains! Hope you are putting on well with your love interest who hails from the shores of the Mediterranean Sea. God bless you, lilium. Take care always! Have a pleasant weekend.
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Nice blog, Looklook. Sorry for what you're feeling. Look all wonderful things around you and be happy. Agree with all the commenters. I love some quotes that help me to live Life in a better way, but that's all... What a pleasant surprise to read from you here on this page of mine on such an issue that could never hurt a decent and kind lady like you. I always like to read about your country and your blogs too. You are a wonderful lady who feels for others who may not even be from your country! Thanks again for your advice. God bless you! Have a decent weekend.
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Lisztomania Hello. Pleased to read from you here on the issue I raised. You are right when you say that the pithy quote has now been subsumed into the "meme." as my bog shows. You always use the correct words to express reality to make readers understand what you want to say. It is always a pleasure to read from you anywhere in this site! While agreeing with you, I should echo back that there is no conventional wisdom that applies equally to all! Thank you so much for stopping by. Have a wonderful week.
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Looklook, I've read your above response. But there is one very important issue to be pondered upon, it is mainly when others do not and cannot know the exact reasons, are not aware of the... "call it the real cause", of your torment, then I don't think anyone would have the exact correct answer in your case. It's only You and your friend, who can solve the problem between both of you. I may add it's not a one sided accusation or problem in your relationship. Am not asking you here to spread or to "Wash you clothes in public"!!. It won't be a decent way eventually. But you are quite matured to analyze it by yourself. I do not think a spare tire is what you really need!!!. I may advice you not to play such game with your friend, alternatively with..... the one you dearly consider feeling for you that much, it's just an endless destroying rubber stamp. I guess you should have a choice. "Do not eat banana by its two ends !!". You can never please two Gods in parallel. Well, it's up to you for sure. I wish you a lovely and thoughtful day. Lisa. Sorry, Lisa, I am unable to accept what you have been trying to say on the issue I raised. As I have said earlier in response to your first post, I wish to reiterate here once again that your views have no relation to the subject matter of the blog. You are asking me to do something that I shall always hate to do. I have nothing to say against my friend as I respect my friend. I shall always do so until death do part me from this cruel world. If you don't really want me to spread or to wash dirty clothes in public, then you must not ask me to say anything which is out of context to this blog. Yes Lisa, my friend and I can solve our problems if both of us want it to happen. But this is not the way to make it happen. As I have stopped driving cars after my heart attack, I do not need any spare Tyre! Since you still drive your car yourself you may need spares for your safety. You may not bother about how I eat a banana or whatever. I do not worship two Gods either to please them. . Hope this will finally end the useless and uncalled for exchanges between two grown ups. Have a nice week end with your family and the visitor from France. Best wishes!
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You seem to have made your point. Thanks for stopping by.
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