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BE VERY CAREFUL OF ONLINE DATING SITES A lady was murdered in my area a year ago.Her body was never found until this week. First of all Her belongings were found 20 miles away some days ago, then some parts of her body (not much so far) were found some miles from where her belongings were. In her bag was a kit and restraints. They have identified her remains. They also have her computer and she was on dating sites.They have found her phone as well. Her car was found not far from where I live so it seems she went to meet someone and was either abducted or got into his car. Anyway, she was murdered. She was only 35. Im glad I have left all dating sites, and consider this one, which seems to be going down the drain, is a Friendship Site. To be honest, I wouldnt miss it. Everyone I knew when I came here, except for a very few are gone, and the people who insulted me and still cant let go of their hatred of me, are still getting in their little subtle digs. I dont care but I dont understand people like that. Why do people hate others they have never met. I will be going too, after the end of October, as I have now met someone whom I can call a good friend, and we play music and sweet music together! Its a shame that this all had to change, but having read about this poor girls murder, I am glad I have left all the dating sites.. You dont know who you are meeting. My instincts always protected me. Be careful friends, and stay safe, this is the closest one to home I have heard about. There are about 9 or 10 missing women in Ireland, all around the same area, and the man that was imprisoned for one crime, is now out and living in spain.  
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Breda, How nice you have found a good friend and can share common interests. I have always considered this site a friendship site and have met several people who have become good friends. So I am glad I came here. The woman who was murdered was perhaps taking risks, not meeting in a very public place and such. Best of luck to you.
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9/19/2013 10:02 am |
The same holds true for people you meet in any arena of life. It's a dangerous world out there - but then I suppose it always was. Spiritwoman ^i^
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Robyn - We all need to take care when meeting people, whether it be online or in person. There is always someone out the who is ready and willing to take advantage if we don't. Alfie...
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9/19/2013 12:18 pm |
Hi Robyn: Good blog Robyn, and it's so scary about that woman. I've heard from a few women that they met a man from this group, then got in his car on the first meeting. I remember one woman said she gave the man her address and he came to her house the first time they met. To me that is taking a chance with your life. Even telling a man your real name or phone number is dangerous, because anyone can do a giggle search in two seconds and get your address with an actual map to your house, and with an address he can see a video of all the houses on your street.
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Several of us on SFF have met our life partner. The first time Alfie and I met in person I picked him up at the airport and took him to meet some of my grandchildren. Alfie and I had many phone calls, webcam conversations, e-mails, etc. We were very very careful. My grands said, Grandma we approve and really like him. Sooo, if he acts up he knows his home is in the shed... 
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9/19/2013 11:54 pm |
"BE VERY CAREFUL OF ONLINE DATING SITES" NO ONLY IN SITE BUT IN REAL LIFE TOO.I HAD CASE AND MORE CASE OF KILL IN MY CITY THAT THE MEN/WOMEN LIVE SIDE TO SIDE EACT OTHER... BE CAREFUL? IN ALL WAY...YES! WHO IS YOU THAT LIVE WITH ME? I DONT KNOW.PEOPLE CHANGE AND WHAT HAVE INSIDE HER/HIM WE UNKNOW. BE CAREFUL , SAY AGAIN, IN ALL WAY!BUT NECESSERY TO TRY AND TAKING CARE, OF COURSE!
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9/20/2013 4:13 am |
Hi Robyn: Years ago I met a man who my best friend told me was a close friend of his and a great guy. Relying on what my friend told me I went to the man's house on our first date to watch the movie "Purple Rain". OMG about two minutes into the movie, the man came so close to r*ping me and it was just a miracle I got out of there alive. Later I told my friend what happened, and told him he doesn't know his 'close friend' at all and to never vouch for his character in the future. What a scary experience that was.
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9/21/2013 9:52 am |
Hi ET. I probably threatened! to leave around 9 times. Does it matter, Im still here. When I go nobody willknow about it or miss me.
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