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SpunkyLady61 72F
446 posts
8/11/2013 2:35 pm
I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE YOUR OPINION- PLEASE


I need your opinion.

I like reading and posting in blogs and making new friends. I like going to chat. I'm going to start going to bashes, those will be a blast.

I have friends I made years ago, I treasure with all my heart.

One of my friends is coming to see me this month and I'm so excited!

I cry when I think about the ones I've lost.

Right now, I'm on this site primarily, to find a person to spend my life with.

I get email. So far, I haven't made a "connection" with anyone.

First of all-- if someone looks like he is a "Model" in a magazine-- I rule him out. I can't see him, but my daughters, nieces, and my sister can.

If he wants me to-- immediately go to another email address I'm suspicious.

I don't know if I should be or not. This feels like a red flag to me. I don't know why they want me to leave this site to go to their other e-mail account? They never explain it. They just ask me to go?

They do that a lot. It makes me nervous.

Should it?

I'm not going to quit SFF-- because I like the people-- but I think -- as far as finding a partner goes...

I'll let that go

PLEASE let me know what you think, and what do you look for?

Do you even question peoples motives? OR? Do you just relax and "go with the flow?"

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"God counts the tears of women" ~ Ariel in A Stranger Among Us ~


If love is blind then maybe a blind person that loves has a greater understanding of it
Criss Jami


spiritwoman45

8/11/2013 7:15 pm

Sounds like yo have figured out how to spot the scammers. Stick with the old adage - "If it sounds too good to be true it probably is." You will eventually meet your Mr. right but it does take some time. Just be patient.

Spiritwoman ^i^


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
8/11/2013 7:57 pm

U need my opinion?

Shucks, go ahead and help yourself. I never use it anymore anyway! (Not sure it was ever any good either. Never was much benefit to me, or anyone else for that matter. But if you can use it, be my guest.)

LOL!

GBU,

Gavin


buddie 82F
905 posts
8/12/2013 6:17 am

You are right to avoid any who want you to go immediately to a private email address.