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Deelightful4U 65F
12 posts
5/26/2013 8:46 am
Is it Infatuation?


Have you ever been mesmerized by a man standing next to you in line? Is it merely infatuation or love at first sight? If it is infatuation, then are we not just being attracted to the person because he possesses the negative traits that we deny in ourselves through suppression by our upbringing?

That is really what infatuation is all about - an attraction to the traits that society denies our gender. When I think about it deeply (and it hurts my head, lol) infatuation is really our unconscious image of the person our childhood programmed us to fall in love or become infatuated with.

spiritwoman45

5/26/2013 1:04 pm

Probably just a case of over active imagination but what goes on in your head stays in your head unless you choose differently so no problems.

Spiritwoman ^i^


SpunkyLady62 72F

5/26/2013 1:47 pm


hobsonschoice 75F
3600 posts
5/26/2013 3:15 pm

I think it's called "wishful thinking"! LOL


1gasilverhead2 83M
4003 posts
5/26/2013 5:49 pm

GOSH, girls you can never judge a book by it's cover!!!

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The beginning of life, conception..


Rocketship 80F
18568 posts
5/26/2013 7:30 pm

But...but...but... sometimes the 'cover' is ever soooo yummy!!!

LOLOLOLOLOL


bijou624

5/26/2013 11:57 pm

Good looking guys are nice to look at but I've learned from past experiences that being in a relationship with one of them is very stressful. Even more so if the good looking guy drives a flashy car. There will always be other women around trying their best to get his attention away from you and on to them.


Deelightful4U 65F
6 posts
5/27/2013 8:36 am

Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. I especially liked the "man is probably married" - he was! LOL

I couldn't resist the "packaging or cover" so I asked him if he would like to buy me lunch. He said he was married and was on his way to preach to his Baptist congregation. LOL