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GavinLS2 69M
932 posts
7/11/2013 8:41 am
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Realized I have to start deleting comments from those people who only want to cause trouble. Some of them have often done that to me in the past anyway, when they can't cope with the truth.

There are a few that I've just grown bored dealing with. They actively look for reasons to attack. It was fun for a while, but it's grown tedious.

GBU all,

Gavin


spiritwoman45

7/11/2013 10:05 am

I am extremely fortunate to have only had this happen once or twice. I have never deleted any of them. I figure those who are inappropriate only show themselves to be what they are. If a person wants to look like an azz they are welcome to it and I won't dignify them with a reaction.

Spiritwoman ^i^


bijou624

7/11/2013 12:10 pm

Hi Gav: I think the same people that reply to a blog only to insult the blogger or others that replied should be blocked. If you just delete an insult, the person knows you read it so their goal is accomplished and no-one else knows how disgusting they are.


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 1:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks ET

You learned faster than me I think. But I've finally come around.

GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 1:53 pm

Leaf, you and I disagree on almost everything, but I don't ever remember you making our differences an opportunity for personal attacks. Therefore, I'd never delete you.

GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 1:55 pm

    Quoting spiritwoman45:
    I am extremely fortunate to have only had this happen once or twice. I have never deleted any of them. I figure those who are inappropriate only show themselves to be what they are. If a person wants to look like an azz they are welcome to it and I won't dignify them with a reaction.
You're like ET. Both of you learned quicker than I did!

Thanks and GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 1:57 pm

    Quoting Fossil_Fetcher:
    Although I seldom actually "delete" comments, I don't allow some to be shown on my blogs. I did that today to a woman who consistently attacks the religious beliefs of others. Her comment is there but not visible.

    Most of the trouble-makers stay out of my blogs anyway. I find that perfectly acceptable because I don't read their continual C&P's anyway. I generally prefer original thought to a barrage of C&P's.

    I see a lot of creative thinking from both sides of the aisle. Too bad they can't all be as civil and welcoming as I am.



    Fossilfetcher

I understand the desire not to delete anyone. But I guess I've just become too tired of the angry drama that suppresses civil dialogue.

Thanks for commenting and GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 2:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi Aka

I usually read most of the blogs, but like you suggest there are some I just pass on by.

Once I realize that the person and I are never going to convince each other to accept the other's view, it just seems pointless to go on. With some folks, it's possible to politely agree to disagree. But not everyone.

Thanks for commenting and GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 2:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Mrsjoe. Always like your calm wisdom and ability to get to the point.

GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 2:05 pm

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Gav: I think the same people that reply to a blog only to insult the blogger or others that replied should be blocked. If you just delete an insult, the person knows you read it so their goal is accomplished and no-one else knows how disgusting they are.
You raise a valid point Bijou. I may have to eventually do that. At least for a while I'd like to leave it open for everyone to comment as long as they don't make personal attacks on me or anyone else. I hope that works or I'll have to take your suggestion.

GBU,

Gavin


GLUMO 89F
9730 posts
7/11/2013 8:20 pm

Good, Gavin!


Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 9:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Poet! You too!

GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 9:59 pm

    Quoting GLUMO:
    Good, Gavin!
TY Glumo!

GBU,

Gavin


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/11/2013 10:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi Rich, I agree with you. But if I'm honest, I have to admit some of us conservatives have done the same sort of things to liberals at times.

Thanks for commenting and GBU,

Gavin


Rentier1

7/12/2013 7:56 am

I only delete comments that insult others. I believe that policy preserves civility in my blogs. If you direct vitriol at anyone other than me, you get deep sixed, and you will be told. There is no appeal.

If people want to make fools of themselves by demonstrating their foibles to the entire world I'm not going to stop them.

I will, occasionally, delete the comment of someone who has blocked me from posting in their blogs if I am off my oats.


GavinLS2 69M
1525 posts
7/13/2013 5:05 am

    Quoting Rentier1:
    I only delete comments that insult others. I believe that policy preserves civility in my blogs. If you direct vitriol at anyone other than me, you get deep sixed, and you will be told. There is no appeal.

    If people want to make fools of themselves by demonstrating their foibles to the entire world I'm not going to stop them.

    I will, occasionally, delete the comment of someone who has blocked me from posting in their blogs if I am off my oats.
Hi Rent

I used to feel the same way, but I think I have more enemies than you and they stay so persistent, that they end up drifting away from the original blog and dominating.

Thanks for commenting and GBU,

Gavin


Rentier1

7/13/2013 7:40 am

    Quoting GavinLS2:
    Hi Rent

    I used to feel the same way, but I think I have more enemies than you and they stay so persistent, that they end up drifting away from the original blog and dominating.

    Thanks for commenting and GBU,

    Gavin
More enemies than a godless, commie-loving socialist? And a foreign one, on top of all that.

I doubt it.

I think you just need to develop a thicker hide.

What is it about conservatives that makes them so sensitive to any criticism stated, implied, or inferred?