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bigjon99 72M
65 posts
8/13/2009 7:16 pm
This really bothers me about SFF.


I just recently joined.... So much bickering and name calling! Some of the comments are brutal! Maybe you could consider this a fresh approach since I'm new. If it was me I'd stop reading and commenting on anyone I didn't like. If I didn't like a blog I would skip it and go on. If I like it I comment. Something nice and with the intent of encouraging them to write more. If someone gives me a rude comment I leave it there and don't mention it. Maybe I deserve it. I do have a big mouth when i'm at the keyboard. That's just me. I'll try to control myself.... To the people doing all this stuff....Aren't you here to find a mate? Who would want one like that? Please control yourselves.
Thank you, Jon

Rocketship 80F
18580 posts
8/13/2009 8:50 pm

I agree with karinpepita---double/double.

Just ignore the ones who you feel are offensive.

Welcome to sff.


bijou624

8/14/2009 2:03 am

Hi Big: I know what you mean. Instead of giving their own opinion on a particular blog, some people reply only to say that someone else's opinion is stupid and wrong.

I think the blogs are a very useful part of a dating group, because, unlike a sugar coated profile, here you get to read people's comments and find out what they are really like.


michianaredhead 74F
12642 posts
8/14/2009 3:31 am

Welcome...
It is what it is...some nice some nasty......there will always be people who disagree and refuse to be polite about it......as Karin said the good out way the nasty by a long shot .....read what you like ...avoid what/who you don't...simple!

Some believe in destiny, some believe in fate. I believe that happiness is something we create


1750wg2 83F

8/14/2009 5:21 am

I've been around here for 12+ years.... through good and bad and indifferent...lol I even married another member 9 years ago. Gotta agree that the Blogs and Groups are best for finding out what people are really like.... join in and have some fun...

Sandy

Happiness is where we find it, but rarely where we seek it.
J. Petit Senn


blackpool_bloke 72M

8/14/2009 6:13 am

    Quoting Rocketship:
    I agree with karinpepita---double/double.

    Just ignore the ones who you feel are offensive.

    Welcome to sff.
welcome bigjon


Abelle2 83F
31230 posts
8/14/2009 7:18 am

Welcome! I agree with what others have written, ignore what or who you don't agree with.

I came on SFF looking for friends and said if I found anything more I would consider it a bonus. I met my "bonus" a little over 3 years ago and now live with him (Hawkslayer) in Georgia.