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jiminycricket1 74M
5508 posts
11/5/2022 4:14 am
Men are "blowing" bubbles


For men what is the"bubble" we forced ourselves to live in.. The bubble is far more pronounced in men.... Men don't do what they use to do. Men are no longer motivated by standards and norms and expectations from society. They no longer can handle a role.. that isn't a role. Men were once slotted into a role That turned boys to men.. That's no longer the case. The idea that we were once a society in which men were in control...was never really true.. except for the fact that men thought so and were taught so.. They could "keep up" because they thought they were in charge..but that ain't the case anymore. Men are being left behind in a society that moves too fast, requires too much understanding, and no longer gives them direction and the sense of control. So the bubble is casted, and men turn in, turn out and turn away that which the once believed was theirs.
As most women know.. men left to their own device create their own vices.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
11/5/2022 4:23 am

People think that race makes a difference in how people act in circumstance.. that's not true. If you don't understand what I mean about men nowadays.. Look at the black man.. Who, in America, has been forced to be powerless, directionless, not in control, and ungrounded for the last 200 years.
This is the plight of the white American male to come.
The irony, of course is that black men have been through it and now have a better understanding of it.
The issue for White men..is that it's really hard to be given a false sense of control, have it taken away, and then have to find a way to get it back that is real. For now it's entirely a money issue and not a leadership issue.
Men now see, money as power, money as control and money as something most them don't have. Men, nowadays can only be defined by how rich they are. An undefined man is lost, angry, and capable of anything, to get it back


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
11/5/2022 4:33 am

The idea of a functioning society is fraught with the perils in a created situations.
In many cases what is wrong is done to create something that's right, but it was a wrong creation and ultimately needed to be corrected. Men were given the power because it worked. but it came to be, the negative began to outweigh the good. The ideas of equality, opportunity, fairness, and women's rights became a correction to a faulty society.. but that society didn't just happen that way.. It was by design, to function.
WE have been correcting it but have never understood why it was that way in the first place. WE haven't figure out a way, to make equality work.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
11/5/2022 8:54 pm

Is that why men in your country have this absurd need to control women's bodies?


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
11/6/2022 3:52 am

    Quoting  :

Yes...The problem is not one that chooses side but is solved in the balance.
Liberals don't get it...
We lost our parameters. and neither side works within those parameters.
For Liberals.. participation trophy don't work.. and lead to unearned entitlements. If losing isn't a motivation factor, then you shouldn't participate
For Conservatives. Winning isn't everything. If winning is all that matters...You need to learn.. to go play with yourself.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
11/7/2022 6:10 am

    Quoting  :

It's not what you are , but how you perceive yourself.
Liberalism works when it's not forced.. the idea that most conservatives have that they apply to their own methods to Liberals.... is that you need to force it.
the idea of liberals is we are ants THAT CHOOSE to build the colony...While conservatives want to use slave labor.

Liberals choose to become Liberal... Conservatives choose to not become liberal, and that alone makes them conservative.