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jiminycricket1 74M
5508 posts
4/15/2020 6:25 am
Biden's "Gender Assault"


We have lived hundreds of year with the cultural differences between men and women..Those differences weighed both positively and negatively on both genders. Within those differences men were "forced" to be men, and women "forced" to be women...It's changing now, but not fast enough for some women. It simply can't be done with older generations, the way women would like it to..
Joe Biden is being condemned by some women for being a man. Biden's touching of women is a reminder to some women...of the cultural forces that made men men..and women women.. Those forces that many men have misconstrued to allow a conduct that is, without a doubt,sexual "sexual assault". Biden's assault on women, doesn't have to be "sexual" it still covers some of the same grounds.. other men use for an actual "sexual assault". Although Biden is unable to see it that way..He is condemned with his own reasoning. Biden touching of women, identifies gender aspects that many women want to change..
Biden's touching identifies women as more vulnerable, needing more support, more inadequate, and more needy. Less equal to men who fall under the same circumstances.
For many women this is not a fact, but an affront. For these women see ALL men as a "gender assault"..


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
4/15/2020 6:54 am

Maybe I have coined a new phrase..'gender assault" and the assumption that every "gender assault" is the same as a "sexual assault".

You can't teach "old dogs" new tricks.. but you can prevent them from "biting you"
Unless prevention is not the goal, but just the opportunity to bite them back.

I have no doubt I "gender assault" some women here..As much as I would like to change that.. I can't, don't know how.

I have no doubt I "gender assault" someone like sparkle (LULU)... Every time.. I know what she means or what she's thinking it's a gender assualt..Like how could I possibly know that, as a man.. In my mind, I try to treat her no differently than I do leaf. or anyone else with whom I am willing to converse (there are many here I am not)..
But "gender assault" is not limited to men..As sparkle is always quite willing to bite back.

I am always against labeling..although sometimes in unavoidable..

Maybe someday we will be able to define MEN.. without it being a "GENDER ASSAULT" on women.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
4/15/2020 10:56 am


"We have lived hundreds of year with the cultural differences between men and women.".......Shouldn't that be thousands of years?


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
4/15/2020 11:28 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:

    "We have lived hundreds of year with the cultural differences between men and women.".......Shouldn't that be thousands of years?
i was talking about America, i was talking about the more modern civilization. i was talking about the time it began to change.You may think it's all been the same for the last two hundred years.. It hasn't ... It ever changing in modern civilizations, and it's speeding up now..


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
4/15/2020 12:05 pm

Oh, America....I see, that country that has developed a culture without any influence from other countries.....and certainly has never put any stock in that sexist tome they call the Bible.......


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
4/16/2020 8:43 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Oh, America....I see, that country that has developed a culture without any influence from other countries.....and certainly has never put any stock in that sexist tome they call the Bible.......
WTF is the matter with you?

You tear up an explanations like you know what I am talking about.. the ideas you try to express about a 'gap' that can't be closed.
You think in differences not in commonality.
I say America .. because that's where I live. i don't live in the Middle East. If you lived in the Middle East.. we wouldn't be having the same conversation. I would give you the credit for that.
But Canada.. WTF?
When I can relate to Canada. but you can't America
When i can relate to Christianity..That is somehow alien in Canada. American Christianity is far different from Canadian Christianity.
When I see that women and men have to go through the same human shit, not only in general, but almost the same in both Canada and the US., and you see that's not possible. That only men can think their shit doesn't stink.
Are there differences.. Sure there are...but for us to converse we need to talk through our commonality not our differences.

I seriously doubt their is another country that can be more in common with America than Canada... You can align yourself with a different country, that's okay..
but I'll be damned if i let you align yourself with every other country..to try and use US to blame the problems of the world on.
I refuse to allow you. to use Trump's America..to try and explain what America has always been.
I refuse to allow you to use Trump's America to explain American Christianity.
I refuse to allow you to use Trump to explain men. Trump is not America.. at least not yet..We have been infected by a disease..A virus....
If you think like Trump.. there's always something else to blame.
If you think like me..Canada is not immune. you got the advantage of America First.. I suggest you prepare for it, stop it before it gets there. prevent it at home. .. instead of blaming America for it.
After you do that.. look up at the Canadian sky..See it's the same as the American sky.. And thank your stars, we are here to take the heat. or what you do , would be done to YOU.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
4/16/2020 10:00 am

You are the master of assumptions.....LOL....can you see yourself?.....You post a stupid blog about "gender Assault" which is your meaningless term......You bring me into it.....I post one sentence and then you go off at me, frothing at the mouth,making up all this crap in your own mind, getting your panties in a twist and going on about some nonsense that you assumed and blaming it on me........I don't want anything to do with your neurotic blabber.....go pick on someone else.....