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jiminycricket1 74M
5510 posts
2/13/2019 9:43 am
Old Man



I'm an old man now
got sand in my shoe
I can't seem to bend over
I can't seem to undo.

It's caught between my heal
and somewhere above the soul
between what is... and isn't real
A part of me . That makes me whole

From the beach.......and between my toes
“I can see clearly now, the rain is gone”
The “Chrystal Ships”, "Doors" upon the water
And the “Little Mermaid” out to sea
“I wish I could be......Part of your world”

But gray has changed the color
In the autumn of my life
And the wrinkles of coming winter
Has turned it “black and white”.

I'm just an Old Man now
Got sand in my shoe
But the sand, doesn't bother me now
and I wouldn't dream to undo.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
2/13/2019 9:45 am

If you got ....What You NEED

You don't NEED...what you want..


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/13/2019 9:51 am

The years have taught me that wanting and needing what I have is all I got.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
2/13/2019 10:12 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    The years have taught me that wanting and needing what I have is all I got.
Yes...... but it seems..It's all a matter of perception....and per exception.

Which for most would be true.. but you got it right.. It's more a matter of acception.

The "gifts" we have been given is all we NEED....If we can open the "present" and find them.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/13/2019 10:58 am

    Quoting jiminycricket1:
    Yes...... but it seems..It's all a matter of perception....and per exception.

    Which for most would be true.. but you got it right.. It's more a matter of acception.

    The "gifts" we have been given is all we NEED....If we can open the "present" and find them.
Acceptance is sometimes hard-won.....Accepting our own life choices. I have written a lot about how ambition in my youth caused regrets in my middle years.......I was in my 50s when I was writing articles for a small Fine Arts journal....and I did a series on successful women artists. I attended the openings of their exhibitions and later interviewed them in person or by phone. I saw they had made different life choices than me and how those choices had led to our relative success. I deeply regretted my choices at that point and s ver y unkind to myself for several years.......Then I saw ambition and moved it right into the limelight of my psyche and examined it thoroughly. Ambition turned out to be an artificial construct. It's importance was bloated and advertised incessantly by our culture...........It snuck in when I wasn't looking.......My early philosophy of Simplicity had moved over to make room for ambition.

Today I'm mostly free from it, with only a few twinges of regret here and there......


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
2/13/2019 11:53 am

    Quoting  :

My gosh.. It's all a matter of acceptance.. It never really about the results
Think of it as the same as the fallacy of love lost, as in opportunity lost. Same thing
You don't think about it when you have it.. You only think about it.. if you lose it..
Instead.... when you lose it.. You got to think about what it would be like to never have had it. We forget our choices.. when we get the results we want..
Bad results may define the choice...but it's getting to make the choice, and not the results...that defines who you are.

Think about the "opportunity" to love some body, It's all around you.. whether you choose not to.. or you make choices that turn out wrong.....It may become an opportunity lost..
But if you had the choice...Would rather be someone... who was "incapable".. of even acknowledging or recognizing the opportunity.
It's having the choice that matters.. not the choice you make..


Rocketship 80F
18567 posts
2/14/2019 8:44 am

"It's having the choice that matters.. not the choice you make.."

So very true!!


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
2/14/2019 12:15 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Acceptance is sometimes hard-won.....Accepting our own life choices. I have written a lot about how ambition in my youth caused regrets in my middle years.......I was in my 50s when I was writing articles for a small Fine Arts journal....and I did a series on successful women artists. I attended the openings of their exhibitions and later interviewed them in person or by phone. I saw they had made different life choices than me and how those choices had led to our relative success. I deeply regretted my choices at that point and s ver y unkind to myself for several years.......Then I saw ambition and moved it right into the limelight of my psyche and examined it thoroughly. Ambition turned out to be an artificial construct. It's importance was bloated and advertised incessantly by our culture...........It snuck in when I wasn't looking.......My early philosophy of Simplicity had moved over to make room for ambition.

    Today I'm mostly free from it, with only a few twinges of regret here and there......
in regards to ambition... It kind of a misnomer..

When one's ambition should be..... becoming the best one can be.....

But it seems, instead, to mean becoming better than you are. Which is ironic.. Because, in truth, What ambition becomes.. is being the best you can be.. but fooling others..... that you're better than you are.