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jiminycricket1 74M
5533 posts
10/15/2017 6:25 am
Don't marry a male terrorist.


When something doesn't feel right it usually isn't right.

Joshua Boyle... doesn't feel right.
and there is something wrong with Caitlan Coleman. You don't need to know the particulars, you don't need to know the circumstances. I challenge you to look in their eyes and see, if you can see it.

Something is rotten in Kabul.......and I can smell the stink all the way over here.

when someone talks of anti-feminism, They forget the difference between the "want to do's: and the "have to do's". I would suggest that anti-feminists, move to Afghanistan, to be with those who think the same way.

Making your husband lunch everyday, is love........ if you want to do it.
And terrorism.... if you have to do it.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
10/15/2017 6:47 am

In our society.... there is no group, that's put under the pressure to do what they're suppose to do, and have to do, than males.
The problem with males, is their belief that if they HAVE to do, what they are suppose to do, Then females HAVE to do it too.

The "duty" on sexes. Is what you have to pay to be a male or female. A "duty" that is given or the "duty that is taken.

The division in "intrasexes" is clear..... it's divided along the lines of those that want to do it, and those that have to do it. How you see yourself, is how you see others.


Rocketship 80F
18611 posts
10/15/2017 6:50 am

Interesting Jiminy~~

I agree with the concept of 'want to do' rather than 'have to do'.

No matter what the movement of the day, there are always extremists on both sides of the issue.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
10/15/2017 6:52 am

Expectations pay the devils due
When what is paid is not enough
The toll on Love, the revenue
That counts the unimportant stuff.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
10/15/2017 7:06 am

    Quoting Rocketship:
    Interesting Jiminy~~

    I agree with the concept of 'want to do' rather than 'have to do'.

    No matter what the movement of the day, there are always extremists on both sides of the issue.

In a way.. I agree with maisie... I wouldn't want to marry her idea of a feminist.

The extreme end of feminism. is the battle that everything they do, is because they have to do it, I wouldn't like that.

And the women I would choose to marry, would require her to do nothing, but what she wants to do. But, I NEED to know what that is.....


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
10/15/2017 9:17 am

Maisie's blog just reinforces her love affair with extremism......Why choose to write a blog warning men about extreme, toxic feminism?.......There are so many good people in the World, Men and Women who strive together to make a happy,
healthy life for their family.......How many men on SFF need advice about who to marry? LOL


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
10/15/2017 10:12 am

    Quoting Fossil_Fetcher:
    (First Person), will you have this woman/man as your lawful wedded partner, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love him/her, honor him/her, comfort him/her, and keep him/her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him/her as long as you both shall live? (I will).

    (Second Person), will you have this man/woman as your lawful wedded partner, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love him/her, honor him/her, comfort him/her, and keep him/her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him/her as long as you both shall live? (I will).

    It is plain as day to me. Now go make me a sammich.



    Fossil


Thank You.....

Men and women both should do what they "have" to do....Fulfill their duties and obligation. But is there a unstated missionary position about who's on top? About who is more obligated?. About who's in charge?
It seems whenever, I give that a gander...someone's getting goosed.

But of course you don't understand it... women do..
Because of your missionary statement....Women understand how much easier it is for you to accept, what you're suppose to do, but may not want to do. And how they "have" to do, what they're suppose to do, even if they don't want to do it.

You see.....women understand.... they have learned..... how they can get you to do what they want, when they can make you think it's your idea...
Do you think.... it's important to get a woman to do what YOU want by getting them to think it's THEIR idea?
Or is it just part of their oath, duty and obligation?

Now go eat....that sammich!


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
10/15/2017 12:35 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't even know how to talk to people who say things like "I don't believe in Climate Change" or " I don't believe in Abortion".......and " why won't you believe in Jesus?".......As if those are comparable......As if Acknowledging Scientific facts based on evidence parallels acknowledging the existence of a Magical entity that defies Natural Law based on a book and a tradition of legends. I am so often lost for any way to discuss these kind of assumptions, I got nothing......less than nothing........A woman who relentlessly sows hatred for her sex, is beyond my comprehension.......Maisie has used the same analogy multiple times, of men who carry their wife's purse in a store........I just can't imagine the world she lives in......a world where women's intent is to "emasculate" men.

It's a 50's outlook.......Maisie has expressed, on a few occasions, her view of gender .........I have been trying to inject into the conversation.....for almost a decade on this site, that gender is a Social Construct, with no acknowledgement......For me, it's always been obvious.......I too often get so frustrated, having to spell it out and getting told I'm crazy or evil.......and I too often express my frustration by tossing the "finger" and walking away............Why am I still here, one may ask.......I wonder myself......LOL...


Rocketship 80F
18611 posts
10/15/2017 2:24 pm

LOLOLOL..............

Put another log on the fire
Cook me up some bacon & some beans
And go out to the car & change the tire
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans
Come on baby you can fill my pipe & then go fetch my slippers
And boil me up another pot of tea
Then put another log on the fire babe

And come & tell me why you're leaving me

Now don't I let you wash the car on Sunday
And don't I warn you when you're gettin fat
Ain't I a gonna take you fishin' with me someday
Well a man can't love a woman more than that
And ain't I always nice to your kid sister
Don't I take her driving every night
So sit here at my feet cause I like you when you're sweet
And you know it ain't feminine to fight.


dinty3 80M
3364 posts
10/15/2017 4:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Let me get this right, your son's do the laundry, cleaning and cooking(mainly wife chores) and your daughter's in-law mow the lawn, rake leaves and probably drink beer and fart(mainly husband chores).....mmmm mass gender confusion, who wears the cotton shorts and who wears the silk panties?


dinty3 80M
3364 posts
10/15/2017 4:15 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    I don't even know how to talk to people who say things like "I don't believe in Climate Change" or " I don't believe in Abortion".......and " why won't you believe in Jesus?".......As if those are comparable......As if Acknowledging Scientific facts based on evidence parallels acknowledging the existence of a Magical entity that defies Natural Law based on a book and a tradition of legends. I am so often lost for any way to discuss these kind of assumptions, I got nothing......less than nothing........A woman who relentlessly sows hatred for her sex, is beyond my comprehension.......Maisie has used the same analogy multiple times, of men who carry their wife's purse in a store........I just can't imagine the world she lives in......a world where women's intent is to "emasculate" men.

    It's a 50's outlook.......Maisie has expressed, on a few occasions, her view of gender .........I have been trying to inject into the conversation.....for almost a decade on this site, that gender is a Social Construct, with no acknowledgement......For me, it's always been obvious.......I too often get so frustrated, having to spell it out and getting told I'm crazy or evil.......and I too often express my frustration by tossing the "finger" and walking away............Why am I still here, one may ask.......I wonder myself......LOL...
Oh, Oh, I know, I know, pick me, pick me. Why are you still here one may ask....... I remember, you said "to exchange ideas".


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
10/15/2017 8:49 pm

    Quoting Rocketship:
    LOLOLOL..............

    Put another log on the fire
    Cook me up some bacon & some beans
    And go out to the car & change the tire
    Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans
    Come on baby you can fill my pipe & then go fetch my slippers
    And boil me up another pot of tea
    Then put another log on the fire babe

    And come & tell me why you're leaving me

    Now don't I let you wash the car on Sunday
    And don't I warn you when you're gettin fat
    Ain't I a gonna take you fishin' with me someday
    Well a man can't love a woman more than that
    And ain't I always nice to your kid sister
    Don't I take her driving every night
    So sit here at my feet cause I like you when you're sweet
    And you know it ain't feminine to fight.


I admire your ability to say it without falling on your face like I usually do........LOL