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RedRidingHood10 73F

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11/25/2008 7:41 pm

Gang Bangers?

15001nwpagal placed the following comment on my Surprise The Cad deleted his profile blog:

hmmm, lets see how many other females will expose themselves as sff gang members who scheme against other members. This should be an educational blog, lol. /

Keep your eyes open on this one guys n' gals.........

Ladies, what do ya think? Are we a gang of scheming members out to get other members?

The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.

RedRidingHood10 73F

3728 posts
11/25/2008 8:18 pm

Oops...this blog is not meant to stir up/cause hurt feelings. I'm asking if we're protecting each other or scheming/hurting each other?

The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.

lh1313 81M

11/26/2008 4:19 am

From what I've seen here, yes you are scheming in my opinion. Are you the savior of all females on SFF? Outing men?

you obviously have been around under different handles yet you accuse others? Some of us that change handles for various reasons tell who we used to be. We don't create some cloak and dagger mystery.

Knowing you have been around a while, have you ever used your sleuthing talents to out one of the many females that do exactly the same thing?

I don't know who you were and really don't care. One thing is for sure, I am tired of the accusations that are thrown around this place.

RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/26/2008 8:56 am:
1313~~

You talkin' to me? lol If so, I've never had a different handle/name at this site and haven't been "around for a while" at SFF.

If you ask the females he played (including those he owes money to -- some with money judgments) I bet each and everyone of them wished someone would have given them a heads up. Key words here: lonely and vulnerable.

BTW I tried to send you a message but your profile is turned off. Hope you're not vimaowja in disguise!

15001nwpagal 69F

11/26/2008 5:16 am

Not trying to stir trouble up here myself with the comment I made to ya Red. I just have seen this like sooooooo many times before. I understand some people enjoy a good old lynching, I just happen not to be one of them. I have alot more respect seeing a one on one take down that's all. I still don't believe women need other women to take their backs for them and burn up the hotline. It just seems childish to me, that's all. Just my opinion.Nothing more than that.As to the weaker women who need it, I guess that's alright too.
Even though I met my man on SFF and I live with him I still continue to look at this site as just a chat room. I am not out to save the world in my mature years, just trying my dang hardest to enjoy it some !!! I think it would be great if all women were as happy as I am and succesful as I was as to find a perfect mate.I wasn't even looking.I just seem to never have had a hard time meeting men.I understand others have and I do wish them succesful hook ups, either in the real world or through sites like these.There are a few lucky ones here on this site who were just as lucky as me, but I still think it is up to the individual to be responsible for themselves. The hotline will NOT accomplish diddly, unless you or others want someone choosing or approving your choices.

One must live and learn.....
If I listened to the garbage from several women on this site who said alot of bad things about my b/f we would not be together right now.I found out he was just the total opposite than what they claimed him to be.They never even met him, I did.( I heard the story about the only one he did meet and of course won't repeat it, but what a liar and dog she turned out to be, lol.Now that was probably the funniest story I ever heard.We were in bed and laughing about sff when he told me and it was so funny I almost peed myself.If she's reading this she knows who she is, lol.)I found out it was jealousy and usual female garbage, all the bs they said about him,that was a hotline too, on that one. So the Hotline doesn't prove a good method for hook ups here. To me I think it proves just the opposite.

Now I know there actually are some real jerks here.All of them are NOT men !!!

All it takes is intelligence. If one cannot claim thier own common sense, they shouldn't be here on a site like this anyway, except maybe just for chat or entertainment.As we all know, many here are not here for relationships, but just to pass the time.

Those who are looking, I hope they find. Even the nasties (if they can find another nasty to share their misery with, so be it.)Misery loves company and they are entitled to it too.

Like you can take da girl outta Pittsburgh, but don't even try to take Pittsburgh outta da girl

RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/26/2008 9:34 am:
pagal~~

I didn't think you were trying to stir up troubles.

I was truly wondering if other SFF members thought it a lynching.

I also happen to be one who does not enjoy a lynching. But I do think that when one is lonely and vulnerable they should be given a heads up if they are about to embark on a relationship with a known cad. Then the lonely/vulnerable one can make their own choice/decision whether to heed the warning or not. I just wish that someone would have told me about the cad. It was my sister who did the P.I. work. She became concerned for many reasons (some that I did not go into in the "outing" blog). I didn't move out -- I escaped. I thought it all in the past until I recently received a message at SFF saying "Ha! I found you." Scared me.

I do take issue with your comment "All it takes is intelligence". There is intelligence at this site, but, again, those that are lonely, vulnerable and intelligent, IMO, sometimes are thinking with their emotions instead of their grey matter.

Just to clarify, jealousy is certainly not my motive. No sour grapes except in the cheap a$$ wine he drinks. Like you, I too am in a very happy relationship with someone I met at/on SFF. My profile states I am not looking but can be found in blogland. I don't use the chat rooms but communicate via this site regularly with my friends.

Thanks for writing. I enjoy hearing from you.

lh1313 81M

11/26/2008 12:53 pm

Have always wondered how some who profess to be a new member seem to know so much about the past. And so much about other members. And my profile is not turned off