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RedRidingHood10 73F
851 posts
11/10/2008 2:00 pm
No Virginia, He Ain't Santa Claus
To blog or not blog? To tell or not tell? Is the jury still out on whether or not we should expose cads (are females cads called 'cadettes'?) at this site? I say, if we have verifiable information, we unmasked the Grinch. But what do you say?

If he borrows money from women (I didn't lend him any) and fails to repay (some have obtained money judgments against him), drinks far too much (can "quit anytime"), "loses his temper by mistake", moves often leaving no forwarding address and is cozying up to you, do you want to be warned?

Yes
No

The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.


tranquil2 72F

11/10/2008 3:44 pm

 I lean more towards everyone responsible for themselves except in case of him/her being a dangerous offender so will vote no , meaning, unless extenuating circumstances , too many times it is just sour grapes , nothing more than a breakup unwanted by one of the 2 involved .


RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/10/2008 4:15 pm:
Tranquil~~

I was afraid people might consider the blog/post/question "sour grapes". Those that know me know that I am in a happy relationship -so there are no "sour grapes" here.

Thanks for the input and stopping by.

Rocketship 80F
18593 posts
11/10/2008 3:52 pm

 Although I agree with the sentiment of your question, I think that in some cases it could be misused.
I guess that VERIFIABLE would be the most important critieria....and I'm not sure how one does that.
Take care!!


RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/10/2008 4:25 pm:
Rocketship~~

Thanks for the input. "Verifiable" (to me) means that one performs a credit and/or background check. (Of course, for a fee). Also, in some States, one can access Court records (for free). And, there's always the service of a PI.

tranquil2 72F

11/10/2008 5:18 pm

 Redriding , my reply was not meant to point to anyone , certainly not you , was a general comment .sorry if you misconstrued .


RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/10/2008 5:42 pm:
Tranquil~~

I understood -- just thought it the perfect time to clarify for those that might wonder (re: sour grapes).

alwaysnemo55 72F

11/11/2008 9:25 am

 If you're going to out someone...do it...name names...

It seems silly to me to write a scathing blog, bashing someone up one side and down the other and then state...if you want to know who this person is...write me! And then everyone else begins to guess, second guess, start more name calling, back stabbing and things get ugly and the owner of the blog does nothing to stop it. I was taught that when I start something, I have to finish it.
Life...ya gotta love it!


bikenski 80M

11/12/2008 1:15 pm

 I love gossip, so of course I want these people outed. And the more salacious the detail, the better.


RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/19/2008 12:59 pm:
Bikenski~~

No gossip...just the facts! Vimaowja fka pigman01 was outed in a separate blog...


RedRidingHood10 replies on 11/19/2008 1:02 pm:
Oops...I forgot to say thanks for stopping by!



RedRidingHood10 73F
3728 posts
11/20/2008 6:51 pm

 Here's the link with the answer: The Price Is Right
The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.




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